Magnoliaa:


This confusion is confusioning my head.

Stay at the back seat, but operate from the passenger seat?? ?? ??

obinna58:


You’re a definition of non submissive woman

Op here lies your answer
If she behaves like
magnoliaa
Jennyclay
kobojunkie
Siofra
Goodlady
IconicR

You won’t last 5months in the marriage

PStacks:
I don't even want a submissive woman.

I just want a woman that won't cause troubles and unnecessary dramas and all..

I don't want an insecure woman dragging with me trying to super impose on Me.


I am not dragging anything with you, why allow ur insecurities make u drag with me

I just want a Live and let live kind of woman..

That is never too much to ask but women of nowadays na witches Dem be.

Before u talk one, Dem don talk 20.

Feminism is a growing cancer.

CandidAdmin:
One keeps hearing from the men on NL that they want a submissive woman. Almost every thread about relationships and marriage has that word.

Now, over to the men, what's your definition of submissive?
Is it that when you say A, she must obey and not say B?
Or she shouldn't even give her opinion at all?
Or her choices and prefrences don't matter at all just because you want something?

Men!!! Let's discuss.

Question of the day - True or false, Responsibility without Authority is Slavery?

Magnoliaa:


This confusion is confusioning my head.

Stay at the back seat, but operate from the passenger seat?? ?? ??

zed7:
A submissive woman is not the one who only listens to her man because he provides for her, a true submissive woman is one who knows that even though she can afford everything by herself, she chooses to humble herself and listen to the man because she recognises she's a helper and not the captain.

Submissiveness doesn't mean you're a fool, but you choose to be respectful, because you know that you're a woman and a man is the head of the relationship.

CandidAdmin:
One keeps hearing from the men on NL that they want a submissive woman. Almost every thread about relationships and marriage has that word.

Now, over to the men, what's your definition of submissive?
Is it that when you say A, she must obey and not say B?
Or she shouldn't even give her opinion at all?
Or her choices and prefrences don't matter at all just because you want something?

Men!!! Let's discuss.

Question of the day - True or false, Responsibility without Authority is Slavery?

Jeon:
A woman like their mother, period!.

zed7:
A submissive woman is not the one who only listens to her man because he provides for her, a true submissive woman is one who knows that even though she can afford everything by herself, she chooses to humble herself and listen to the man because she recognises she's a helper and not the captain.

Submissiveness doesn't mean you're a fool, but you choose to be respectful, because you know that you're a woman and a man is the head of the relationship.

rapheal5:
Brother na see finish, it takes result to cancel insult... You need to hold better money...

obinna58:


You’re a definition of non submissive woman

Op here lies your answer
If she behaves like
magnoliaa
Jennyclay
kobojunkie
Siofra
Goodlady
IconicR

You won’t last 5months in the marriage

PStacks:


Na the talk you talk finish so..


Better Money Ooo..


But any woman with you because of money no be the right woman...

U see say this world no balance.

If u hold bar and woman dey submissive and respectful to you, no be u she respect, na the money..


It's then safe to say a Man without money is of no material value to a woman.


Hustle Oooo! Make woman no see you finish.

pussyphilia:
Men should be the submissive partners to women in marriage because women make better decisions than men so it'll be much more beneficial to the family and society if the mantle of leadership in the home rests with wives.

Men are only meant to work and bring home bread and money for the wife to run the family with.


Nofsaid.

Magnoliaa:


And she doesn't provide for her man? And what kind of provision sef are you talking? Money? House? Properties? There are women who have one or more of these...where should submission come in here?



Why are you jumping between points? Is submission about provision or listening or it's about provision and listening together?

And if you're saying submission is hinged on a woman affording everything for herself but choosing to hold back, then it is in direction contradiction to the first part of your comment that insinuates that a man provides for a woman. You realise there's a difference between providing for someone and someone allowing you to provide?

Now if you're preaching that a woman should allow a man to provide for her even when she has her own resources, do you agree with women who say, "his money is our money, and my money is my money?"

All of these things you've described...why is it not okay for a man to do same for a woman? I mean, they're good, positive behsviours, right? Listening to someone, treating them with humility, allowing them to take care of you? And what qualifies a man to be a captain?



So in one word submission is respect? Why can the husband and wife, both of them, not show the same respect to each other? Would a man be a fool if he submits to his wife?

CandidAdmin:
One keeps hearing from the men on NL that they want a submissive woman. Almost every thread about relationships and marriage has that word.

Now, over to the men, what's your definition of submissive?
Is it that when you say A, she must obey and not say B?
Or she shouldn't even give her opinion at all?
Or her choices and prefrences don't matter at all just because you want something?

Men!!! Let's discuss.

Question of the day - True or false, Responsibility without Authority is Slavery?

Albertone:


Highly laughable.

Gen 3:16
Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire [shall be] to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.

That is God talking to the first woman to ever exist.

zed7:
A submissive woman is not the one who only listens to her man because he provides for her, a true submissive woman is one who knows that even though she can afford everything by herself, she chooses to humble herself and listen to the man because she recognises she's a helper and not the captain.

Submissiveness doesn't mean you're a fool, but you choose to be respectful, because you know that you're a woman and a man is the head of the relationship.