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Romance / Re: I Stormed His Wedding & Made Him Cry After He Broke My Heart by BreezyRita(f): 7:16pm On Feb 15, 2016
akike:


You are butt-hurt because she mentioned Akwa-Ibom (Which she shouldn't have) tongue

The rest are just bla bla bla, very illogical. It is like telling us how your exes left you because you lacked somethingtongue
Ok. Maybe I am.

Or maybe I do not like the way she described the wife. angry
Romance / Re: I Stormed His Wedding & Made Him Cry After He Broke My Heart by BreezyRita(f): 7:12pm On Feb 15, 2016
SerialGist:


Dont mind the semi-illiterate coming here to form porsche lady. Reading her post, i was like, "did this one actually have any formal education?" Post full of nonsense and she had the guts to address someone's dear as 'village girl'. I bet the supposed village girl is far better than the iddiot. She must be very foolish for insulting my state in the process of writing that her rubbish.

Exactly! Insulting me because my sister was chosen over her....
Should be ashamed of herself for the gibberish she posted but she had the temerity to make someone else come across as a dolt.
Romance / Re: I Stormed His Wedding & Made Him Cry After He Broke My Heart by BreezyRita(f): 6:37pm On Feb 15, 2016
nlfan:
This Is How I Broke Him Down After He Broke My Heart

I met this young man when i was 21 and he was 24 we dated 4 years, we were both struggling, we stayed with each other and help each other to grow.

We grow to become successful and i became very influential in my field and he was so proud of that.

Last october we agreed to walk down the isle, we were planning where we are going to stay after the wedding, he stays somewhere in Lagos mainland while i stay in the island. He told me that he will be moving somewhere in Mowe in Ogun State where his father built a house about 2 years ago.

I told him that will not be a good idea, going from Mowe to Victoria Island everyday will be terrible for me since we can afford a house in Lagos at least for now or we stay where he is staying currently, he maintained he cant change, we could not reach an agreement on that, the next thing i got a shocker, he traveled for event outside Lagos to the east, where he comes from, only to get attracted to a girl he met there and came boldly to tell me, if i cannot marry him and stay at mowe, there are so many good girls who will rush the offer and in annoyance i told him, have you found one please marry her.

To my surprise few days after i saw a photo of him and that girl he just met, less than two months all over social media, he has engaged her.

Initially i was pained, but let's face it he doesn't deserve my tears, his groups of friends started calling my line to ask when we stopped dating since we still stepped out recently to his friend birthday.

I didnt know what to say i asked them to ask him, things went that way and i started hurting, after he did official intro to the girl i knew it was over, i called him and told him i wish him happiness and best of luck with his wife to be.

He felt bad but said he knew i was a good person that he is not shocked i called, i ask him to keep me updated on wedding plans and he did and i told him i will attend he said he will be grateful.

On the wedding day, during the reception i showed up, i had gone to get a very flattering dress, i even paid for make up, i looked so beautiful i couldn't believe myself too smiley grin grin

When i entered the room everybody went crazy, all his friends and associate knew me, some are even pained at what he did to me, i showed up all his friends rushed to greet me, it took over 30 minutes to cheek kiss all of them and hug a few, the few people who didn't know me was wondering who i was and why i am so beautiful grin grin grin

I went up to greet him, he almost fell down from where he was standing, i greeted his wife ( a village girl from akwa ibom lol - the way she pronounce the thanks for coming though smiley )

I started catching fun and dancing crazy, my ex couldn't stand it anymore, he ask his wife to go inside the car only him came to greet his guys where i was seated, THEN BROKE DOWN IN TEARS

HE CRIED SO LOUD LIKE PEOPLE WERE SCARED, People will think that i will disappear from there scene since he was crying, i was still seated shaking body to the tune of music, he then told one of his friend, i don't know but i think i messed up - the guy was like you messed up big time, are you just realizing, then live with it the rest of your life, his wife rushed out of the car i guess he heard his prince charming was crying, he came and the moment she opened her mouth to ask daring wot isssit, guys had funny faces about to explode. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

At that point he left and i continue hanging out with his friends before oping into my car to go home. He sent a touching sms yesterday.

Say this actually happened:
You sound so full of yourself lady. I get it that you're hurt and I'm sorry.

To the part where you think you're better than the woman he married. You're mocking her when I'm here wondering who taught you English.
And you could easily have said she's a village girl without adding Akwa Ibom (like that's all they are). If you said this about an Igbo or Yoruba woman, I'm sure you'd be regretting this post by now.

Your man saw something better in that illiterate Akwa Ibom girl that said 'daring' instead of darling which made him choose her over you. Its left to you to find out what that was.
Goodluck at that.

Acidosis, you seem to be in my head. I see your comments and posts and I feel like I typed them.

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Religion / Re: Robert Powell Said I Am Not Jesus Christ But Just An Actor. by BreezyRita(f): 4:32pm On Feb 15, 2016
gabinogem:
must everyone that's against religion be an atheist!?

I believe in God but not these religious Gods.
We weren't talking about 'religious Gods' as you call it. We were talking about Robert Powell
What God do you believe in?
Religion / Re: Robert Powell Said I Am Not Jesus Christ But Just An Actor. by BreezyRita(f): 3:38pm On Feb 15, 2016
gabinogem:
@BreezyRita... I'm an African & I made it known in my comment.

Robert Powell, was actually refering to the world.

When I said we Africans are gullible I did not use my 'hanus' to say it. We accept anything good/bad from the westerners cuz we've shown them that we do not have any choice. They've given us a God to serve, & we are acting accordingly.


Until we wake up, we'll still be in the dark. Cheers

Okay. I get it.

You're an atheist.

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Religion / Re: Robert Powell Said I Am Not Jesus Christ But Just An Actor. by BreezyRita(f): 10:19am On Feb 15, 2016
gabinogem:
he is actually that character Jesus of Nazareth. Anyways I don't blame the westerners for being able to mess with the minds of Africans bcus it's quite obvious our gullibility sold us out.
Lol @ this comment.

You're Asian abi?

And only Africans worship this man

Catholics the world over 'worship' him! Now, I didn't mean that as a hate comment (I got nothing against the Catholics) but on those stuffs they wear on the neck (dunno what they call it), I see this man on one side and 'Mary' on the other.
So tell me, are Africans the only Catholics?
Please don't quote me. Mention my moniker if you're replying. Thanks.

N.B That I used the Catholics don't mean others don't do the same thing. The Catholic church is global and I needed to buttress a point.

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Family / Re: If Your Husband Is Cheating With A Girl Known To You, Who Do You Confront? by BreezyRita(f): 1:49pm On Feb 04, 2016
You have no business with the lady. Your husband is who you're to confront.

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Romance / Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by BreezyRita(f): 6:47am On Feb 02, 2016
adeaks:
Hmmmmmmm. Interesting thread.
Lol. Don't mind em derailers. Welcome

What's your say?
Romance / Re: Nigerian Girls And The Idea Of “runs Girlism”: When The Hunter Becomes Hunted by BreezyRita(f): 6:52pm On Feb 01, 2016
Nice article.
Sometimes I feel we've not realized fully how deep this trend has become.
For the lady that says an economic improvement will bring 'change', you make me laugh.

These ladies do not complain about economic failure. They are being taken care of (well, their belief) and do not give two hoots if a dollar goes for 500 naira. They believe the money will still come, so long as the body remains.

And oh! Have you never seen corporate runs girls? They are employed but like the Olivia Twists they are, they want more. I've seen some. One is a nurse and well,........
I'll swallow grin

Greed? Peer pressure?
You see them in our tertiary institutions. My sis got a friend that spends less than more time out of town than in. And when she's in town? She goes from one friend's house to another. Gisting. Why's she in school? Who would want to employ her? She doesn't attend classes, her twin helps her with assignment and stuff and what he can't sort, she does so herself.
This is a girl whose family is wealthy enough and whose mom goes out of her way to please her. One would wonder what drove into this act.

Neways, its not like its ending anytime soon. We just worrying ourselves over something we can't help.

And the men like girls that can DO and our good girls finish last.

Just the way it is.
Romance / Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by BreezyRita(f): 6:41pm On Feb 01, 2016
pinceprinz:


Moral laxity is the real disease IMO, Only if today were like yesterday when men and women had this 'prestine' element of shame flowing through their system, things wouldn't be this bad as customs like no intimacy before/outside marriage would gain grounds and sex would truly assume its forbidden fruit posture and Stds wouldn't have been able to break through our defense and paint us red just anyhow. More subtly, God is putting us in check by himself allowing diseases to gain grounds angry... Speaks volume of how disappointed He would be in us now despite all the brains and complexities He'd allowed us to assume so we could know what's right and follow it and see what's bad and forfeit it. Sad story! embarassed

And he said he's naive. smiley
Religion / Re: Top Seven Awesome Prophets And Their Lifestyle In The Bible by BreezyRita(f): 2:28pm On Jan 31, 2016
Hmmm! Nice job here immortalvoices. God bless you!

They were all great in their capacity. But I'm awed by Moses. He was so humble! Even God testified of his humility. If anyone was to ever see God's face, would have been Moses. He was great.
But I'm great too. grin

Dottore, we did not have these kinda prophets even in the time when Jesus walked the earth.
Yes, we still have prophets from God. And yes, we do have fake prophets.
But then, that the Word of God should come to pass, all these must be. Economic failure, deception, suffering, war, death.
But the redeemed should not lose their joy. I can't. You shouldn't either. There's an end and our expectations shall not be cut off.
Be blessed.

BTW, happy Sunday!

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Romance / Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by BreezyRita(f): 1:00pm On Jan 31, 2016
pinceprinz:
She's called out those she'd wanta hear from, so What am I doing here?
..
Strolls off...

#Drags him back tongue

I called them cos I've known them here. You expect me to tag all of NL? Na u go still vex say I tag you for wetin no concern you.

Now you're here, what's your take??

Happy Sunday BTW.
Romance / Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by BreezyRita(f): 4:23pm On Jan 30, 2016
naijaboiy:

That's why I got myself a wife. grin

shocked shocked
E don reach like that?

So if Oga Kingtom say new STDs are springing up daily grin (Him dey dodge ), I wonder why many are still plunging into it.

Misspicy, yes. Some guys are actually worth all of that.
Romance / Re: The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by BreezyRita(f): 2:57pm On Jan 30, 2016
misspicy:
Macho sex is the best cheesy
shocked
First time I'm hearing that from a female
Romance / The Debate - Macho Sex Or True Intimacy? by BreezyRita(f): 2:21pm On Jan 30, 2016
I actually intended to post this in my diary but then, I want to sample a lotta opinions.

What brought about this thought is the near- obsession with macho sex in this age.
Turn on just about any radio station and you will hear them: explicit songs about how today's men and woman supposedly want sex: Quick and dirty. Fast and hot. No strings attached. Hit-and-run.

I do not even want to ask what is behind this trend.

Some of the people who approve of this say relationships are not that important. (I'm independent and secure) They also try not to admit how lonely they are. Sex is often a by-product of some other need e.g a desire for intimacy and macho sex can never fulfil that need. Why? Experts say because its primary - usually only- goal is self-satisfaction.

I personally feel macho sex is so demeaning and unfulfilling. It leaves one emotionally empty.
I've asked a couple of people offline and a lot of them seem to be in favour of true intimacy (I.e before they want to see or be seen by anyone 'in the raw", they prefer to be both friends and lovers).

So to you guys now: True intimacy or macho sex, which is more fulfilling??

Oya, naijaboiy, Joecutie, princeparix, Oga KingTom, iAmCharis show here.

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