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Aizen123:
Please I need advice. I lost my Dad over 2 months now and he hasn't been buried due to the pandemic. My Uncle's are all in Lagos and can't come back.

So after the lockdown was over we decided to go to the village.. On getting I discovered that his shop was open and all the money going into the first Uncle (first son) account.. So I called my uncle because he told me it was locked and he was saying did he need my permission before to open the shop and i decided to just control myself because i like peace and i decided to go to the house in the village...

On getting there I called my uncle and he told me the keys are with them in Lagos ... That it was waybilled and i said ok and went back with my brother and sister.

Fast forward today... I got a call from someone in the village that my Dad's burial death has been fixed and i was wowed because as the first son i haven't been told yet by my uncle's. So right now i am about acting but i need advice.

Stop sounding like a weakling, man up and don't give those uncle's of yours chance they have a bad agenda and don't just stay there are told your arms in the name of Peace because if you do you and your younger siblings will be reduced to nothing. This is your Dad here, take control and give him a befitting burial. Thank you

Dobson43:






I would give you a mature advice since that's what you want. Your present boyfriend is just your boyfriend. He is not betrothed to you neither has he paid your dowry. Don't limit yourself at this stage of your life. Experiment, try new things, discover yourself. If you feel the urge to move on, do move on. You clearly have a thing for this guy and one can conclude that all you need is a push.



Based on your level in the university, one can determine your age. Some callous folks would call this stage you find yourself a whøre phase, but the true is we all have this identity crisis. We do not actually know ourselves. Certain people we see typify those characters we do have but can't express. They inspire this qualities in us to be birthed.




I don't want to go too philosophical, but I am going to tell you this: twenty years from now, you would wish you were more adventurous, you would wish you tried new things and you would understand that life is worth living and you would not allow yourself wallow in bondage because you are in relationship. Ships are supposed to move you in a certain desired direction. Either it moves you or you jump ship.




But the real truth is, you have broken his heart and emotionally screwed him over. Have the decency to break it up

Bad Advise 101

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.

I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

Please if you want to go and continue with your sexual fetishes, Inform your boyfriend and break up with him don't put him in a tight corner. He has his life to live too since the pandemic has given you the opportunity to meet and fall in love with someone else its not a big deal & I am surprised that you are about doing this to a guy that has done nothing bad to you without any atom of regret. Just let him know so that he can move on with your life while you chase your sexual fetishes nonsense

Contact me, I can do him a letter. I am a Lawyer

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Mraphel:
This thing is too poor to be on the road. A computer design is way better than this.

Since 1960, when will Nigerians learn to build something viable and useful to us.
We cannot afford to continue this way..

Tueh!!

Go and meet with your state governor..Bihari will not fund this type of shallow project from a fully grown adult

You be big mgbada

Rubbish post.

My budget is 180-200k per annum

A roomself contain at gbagada 200k 1yr rent only.

Is this still available? I am interested

Ada Ogwashi is an Asset take it or leave it

I been think say na that useless Yahaya Bello I surprise Ghan

Franklyspeakin:
Nigerians wey no get mind. Na only if northerners revolt. Cos them na only Alfa them need to start am. As for Easterners and westerners, Biafra war wey sup dey fear them

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DaHrNn0001:
We are not UNITED for such to happen.... Hypocrisy, Racial bigotry etc... Until we are UNITED, naso we go dey till thy kingdom come...

That's the problem, if we are United anything can been achieved

1Alex:
Not in Nigeria bro. Police and army will shoot all protesters on orders from above. They won't care the number of people that will be shot.

There's a crowd the Police will see they will be afraid to Shoot at anyone.

tanteta:
Hopefully, the country will not go through that part because better days are coming.

We have been waiting for better days since we were kids and nothing seems to change. We Nigerians really need to wake up.

helinues:


Internet noise.

Start your revolution by voting for credible candidates in 2023...

Bro, Election is no longer a solution. They have hijacked the system. Things will only get better if we Unite and Protest Massively.

In no time there is going to be a Revolution in Nigeria, I don't know when exactly but I know it will surely happen. Companies & Business places will shutdown, Homes will be locked with only children and the Elderly at home while the Youths both male and female will March round the Country in their millions chanting for the way forward to secure the future of our unborn generation, all who have looted this country both old and new will be dragged from their homes, beaten, killed and imprisoned and others will go on exile. It will be so serious that even their personal guards will not be able to protect them. The government which will be in Power will be toppled by a band of angry youths particular those whose future was stolen by bad government policies, those who stole constituency monies to enrich themselves will be lynched. It will be so bad that the international community will frown at it but a true change will come to Nigeria as a group of Men with ideas and vision will take over Nigeria and lead her to the promised Land.




Watch out, there is going to be a Massive Revolution, People are hungry, tired, dead and are still dying and the anger of the entire citizenry will be felt soon.

Oshiomole wants to take over Edo like Tinubu in Lagos.
Greedy Men.

When will Godfatherism end in Nigeria?
When will Man know Man Politics end in Nigeria?
When will paddy paddy And Chop & Chop politics without vision end in Nigeria?
When will Vote buying end in Nigeria?
When will Bribery and corruption come to an end in Nigeria?



Sometimes I weep for this country, Nigeria is a blessed country but we live as though we are cursed. A country where they give attention to things that can't benefit the masses but themselves.

We few months Nigeria will be 60 yet we have nothing Good to show for it.

Not all battles must be won but ensure you shake oshiomole even if you lose at the very end.

Barbara007:
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Superbaxton:
No I don't for now

Ok

Can't I see the pictures?

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Cyberterror:


The late chairman was a cultist. They gunmen want to give him a burial befitting of a Capone

Their overall boss is Wike the Wicked

It's only a cultist that knows another cultist

Officialgarri:
Rivers state and cultism eehn....

If a 12 a.m -6 a.m purge is declared in that state i.e rival cultists are allowed to eliminate themselves without security intervention , ahswear, no one will be left alive by dawn
Even babies are christened into respective fraternities.

Too much Garri don block this one sense of reasoning

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Oboy see scrab

Once I marry my girlfriend I know life with her will be sweeter even after 50 years together, she's my dream girl & I bless God for giving me such a gift






Ochanya, God bless your Mama for me.