| Romance / Re: Heart Broken:my Girlfriend Of Two Years Is Getting Married Today by BREYZ: 8:40pm On Jun 16|
I'm heart broken and in pains...
We have dated for like two years+ now, she was 18+ when we met, after some time, I was deeply in love with her and I believed she loved me too, so with that thought I asked her out for marriage, though she was excited over it but she said that she's not ready, that she just finished her secondary school and have to learn some business first as she's not going to further her educations, that she will consider marriage at the age of 22+,I was ok with that and so we kept going.
She learned food stuffs for like 4 months, we were supporting each, I assisted her to secure a shop and she was doing well.
Her ex came back and all of a sudden, we start having issue over unnecessary things, this prompted me to bring up marriage issue again, she maintained her stance, so I called off the relationship, and kept on being friends with her.
The break lasted for some months and we somehow managed to reconcile, we were back like never before, everything was so cool, I always tell her we need to prioritize the relationship so that it will have a clear direction, I wanted to tell her my mind, which is if you can't marry me, then let's quit for good, all that was on my mind but time and business never let me air it out.
Due to business, I have been traveling here and there, but we do talk frequently.We haven't seen for like two weeks cus I'm busy traveling (courtesy of my business).
I traveled last week Thursday, my mum got sick and was admitted to hospital while I was out,she always visits my mum at the hospital, I was worried with so many things that I didn't call her for like two days, so on Saturday, she called me in the morning which we talked very well, I noticed that something is off with her, I inquired but she said all is well, she asked if I'm coming back that same day but I was not sure cus I'm not done with my biz, she say that we need to see, which made me to ask her if there is any problem at all but she said no.
I was done with my biz towards evening,I was not fit for traveling that same day,but cus of my mum and the way my girl talked about seeing me,I decided to be on my way that same day.
Midway through the journey,my phone bleeped and it was text message from my girl,that she is getting married and that she has been trying to tell me but there's no chance for that...after reading the texts like about twenty times,I was confused and disturbed,I replied her saying that she's not serious...
Nairalanders,I came home that same night,went straight to the hospital, after seeing my mum,I went home and took my bath,then I went to her house,I refused to get inside,so I forced her to come out to come see me,she came out and was looking tattered and unkept, unlike the way I know her...I was eager to know what's going on and so I went straight to the point.
Hmmm,she was shaking, subbing and crying at the same time, she told me it's true, she's getting married, and that I shouldn't blame her,that everything just happened so fast...that it is not up to a month she met the guy,that since then he and his family has been disturbing her and her parents, and with that pressure she said yes without thinking, and besides, ever since we came back together that she can't exactly tell if I'm still interested in marrying her or not, that I never voiced it out or talked about marriage with her again like before...That she thought I no longer wants to marry her...
She said that it was on Friday that they came and said that they will be coming to take list on Saturday and then on 16th of June they will come and pay her bride price... She was not at home when all this was happening, she came back from shop and her father gave her the news, which was shocking to her.
I asked her, why didn't you tell me all this? Why didn't you tell me that you're ready now?
All she could say is that she still loves me and she's sorry... She keeps blaming me for not asking her out again...
We both cried like babies out there, till it was very late, the next I woke up wishing that all of the incident should be just a dream,I called her,she picked and her voice was down, truth is that,we haven't been the same since then, and as I am typing this, my girl is being married off to someone else, what I don't know is if she's doing it against her wish or she's doing it willingly?.
She's been calling since yesterday,that she wants to see me.
The last time we saw each other yesterday evening, I requested to be left alone, but she pleaded that I should not block her from communicating with me.
I couldn't sleep last night, and I believe she didn't as well, our last call was around 10:36 pm... She's not relaxed on the call which I noticed and asked her what is the problem again, she then said she will text me later...
Please, I need advice on how to move on from all this, and while doing that, I don't want to hurt her cus I'm certainly going to block all our communications after today...
Young man, concentrate on yourself. Leave girl matter and make money
| Politics / Re: I Asked Google To Remove It – Adamu Garba Reacts To Deletion Of App by BREYZ: 11:34pm On Jun 14|
The Chief Executive Officer, IPI Group, Adamu Garba, has revealed that he asked Google to remove his app, over a glitch.
This is contrary to widespread reports that Google removed his app over very poor reviews. Garba claims that he made the request because the app needed to be updated and that it would be back in the Play Store.
It will be recalled that Garba rejoiced over the Federal government’s suspension of Twitter’s operations in Nigeria, calling on social media users to instead migrate to his app, . The statement drew the ire of Nigerians and backfired as the app’s page on Google playstore was flooded with thousands of negative reviews.
Below is a statement he shared on his social media page on the matter;
“We’ve identified a bug on for Android contact list aggregation, as a result, we took down the app from the Google play store, we are currently updating the code, we will publish back shortly.”
He added that the app will be back up by Tuesday morning.
Google will deny him tomorrow
| Politics / Re: Insecurity: Aisha Buhari Calls For Recruitment Of More Security Operatives by BREYZ: 11:32pm On Jun 14|
The First Lady, Aisha Buhari, has urged appropriate authorities to conclude the employment of more security officers to address the intractable security problems facing the nation.
According to a statement by her Special Assistant on Media and Publicity, Aliyu Abdullahi, she made the call while receiving wives of service chiefs during a courtesy visit at the State House on Monday.
The statement was titled ‘Aisha Buhari charges wives of service chiefs.’
Highlighting the role of women in nation-building, Buhari said as wives of senior public servants, they should support their husbands in realising the mandate to secure Nigeria and its citizens.
She also appealed that they uphold the spirit of camaraderie characteristic of families of security forces that is demonstrated during periods of joy and sorrow.
Buhari also called for regular and timely payment of benefits of retired and deceased soldiers so that the affected families get their benefits as and when due.
This, she says, will serve as motivation for the security forces.
Speaking on behalf of the wives of service chiefs, the wife of the Chief of Defence Staff, Victoria Irabor, commended Buhari for her motherly role and constant support to the families of security officers and personnel.
Irabor recollects how much the First Lady has supported families of injured or deceased security officers through regular empowerment programmes.
She conveyed the gratitude of those who have benefitted from the First Lady’s efforts, adding that the officers and their families are encouraged by her kind gesture.
Irabor also charged her colleagues to emulate the gesture of the First Lady by remaining in touch with the soldiers’ families.
The courtesy visit took place at the Presidential Villa, Abuja. In attendance were the wives of service chiefs, Inspector-General of Police, Director-General, Department of State Services, and the National Security Adviser.
Go and recruit your son. Idiotic Dubai based First Lady.
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| Religion / Re: Picture Of Turkey-Based Nigerian Man In A Bottle, Buried In Front Of His House by BREYZ: 8:28pm On Jun 14|
Update From NAIJA COVER . COM
An old photo of a Turkey-based Nigerian man, Obiora Kingsley Anaedo, was allegedly found inside a bottle that was buried in front of his building site, NaijaCover Reports.
An Enugu based pastor, Prophet Nnamdi Onwuka, who disclosed this on Tuesday, June 8, to NaijaCover, accused a family member of burying an old photo of Obiora inside a bottlel.
Read his post as Obtained By NaijaCover Below:
"Yesterday Monday I went to a family deliverance breakthrough in Orlu Imo State. During the prayer a revelation was said of "Obiora Kingsley Anaedo" who happened to be in Turkey for 9years now.
"Yes Papa you're right sir: the mother reply, Papa for over 9years that my only son has not returned home (she shout with tears)
"Listen, he had a house which he's building, and until this moment no way out to finished it no way in to complete it, a family member who is his half brother from his father had sponsor his tears in that house... (The family go ahead as we match the night at Obiora new site while the holy ghost direct us, Lol and behold at the front of the building as they dig the ground a bottle with picture inside it was found, it was OBIORA picture when he was little) Jesus Christ!!!
"What a wicked generation today. Fire prayer was made and solutions was given instantly. As we burn the rest of mess that tied the family with solutions given, yesterday was a very joyful celebration of freedom to this family even their first daughter who couldn't got married a message to go ahead with the man asking her hands in marriage was given even at the age of 31 age."
See Photos As Obtained By NaijaCover Below:
My village people with Bovi as the lead actor comes to mind
| Properties / Re: Paradise Estate Abuja, Leaving Behind Tales Of Anguish To Subscribers In Abuja by BREYZ: 1:53pm On Jun 14|
A friend bought a property from Paradise estate abuja 3years ago and paid outrightly.
They're the sister company of lekki gardens and was being ran by Blessing, Richard Nyong's sister. Richard is the CEO of lekki gardens, paradise has become quite popular in Abuja but they're a fraud. A company that doesn't keep to their words or honour agreements.
They bought into their IDU SABO project and the agreement was for 12months and 15months in cases of force majeure
They were assured of delivery in 2020 July 31 but they failed, approached again, they wrote again to give till December unfailingly, they failed. Paradise estate wrote in Dec again assuring delivery in Feb 2021, they failed again, then they have sent another letter promising Aug 2021 they will fail again without a doubt! The site has been in the same state as it was in Feb 2021. What's worse is the Mr Romeo (one of their top representative) who use to be the face of paradise in giving word has now resigned.
Paradise estate under the leadership of Richard Nyong is all PR, collect your money and leaving trails of disappointments in Abuja.
Attached is the current state of the said estate and i hope other subscribers will come out to seek accountability because they claimed the estate is sold out
This is normal na. I work in a Mortgage Bank and I know the kind of things We see after we've disbursed money from FMBN
in fact, there's one that has been lingering since i joined the Bank. Wahala no dey finish and calling them out won't solve anything people will keep on keying into the estate.
| Politics / Re: Governor Obiano Steps Out In A Youthful Attire (Pictures) by BREYZ: 11:21pm On Jun 12|
| Politics / Re: Imagine (photo) by BREYZ: 3:07pm On Jun 12|
Imagine what the government is making a graduate with a strong Second Class Upper from a reputable Federal University in Nigeria do.
Due to a no 6-digit paying job (because of widespread Nepotism), I get to trek down to a church that provides public tap for people to fetch water.
The stress I pass through everyday fetching water from a distance. If I were opportuned to have a good job, I would have rented an apartment that has all the comfort I need in it
You are your own problem not the government. Keep waiting for the government you hear?
| Religion / Re: FFK Blasts Rev Chris Okotie For 'insulting' Late Prophet T.B Joshua by BREYZ: 2:22am On Jun 12|
Former Aviation Minister, Femi Fani-Kayode, has blasted popular Lagos-based clergyman and senior pastor of the Household of God Church, Chris Okotie, over the cryptic post he shared few days after clergyman, Prophet T.B Joshua died last Sunday, June 6, IgbereTV reports.
Okotie who had always suspected Prophet TB Joshua's ''source of power" had before questioned Joshua's authenticity as a man of God.
Days after Joshua who is the founder of the Synagogue Church of Nation died, Okotie shared a cryptic post many interpreted to be an attack on TB Joshua's memory. A part of his post read;
''The wizard at Endor who assumed the title Emmanuel, has been consumed by divine indignation. And now his disciples bewail his ignominious exit.''
FFK who is a friend of the deceased clergyman has come out to publicly attack Okotie.
In a post shared on his social media handle on June 11, FFK blasted Okotie for speaking ill of the clergyman.
FFK described Okotie as a coward and said that if anyone was a wizard, it must be Okotie and that God will ''punish'' him for attacking Joshua.
His lengthy post reads;
Man wey don go meet him maker dey flex heaven with angels. Las Las, this Okotie will not make heaven, too hypocritical.
| Nairaland / General / Re: Why Nairaland Was Down For 2 Hours by BREYZ: 1:30pm On Jun 11|
Nairaland was down for two hours due to a minor miscommunication with our host that was related to copyright infringement.
It shouldn't have taken as long as 2 hours to restore Nairaland, but it took a while for us figure out exactly what to do because it hadn't happened before, and we also had to wait for our host's support team to restore us fully after taking the necessary steps.
We are sorry for this inconvenience.
We know that keeping Nairaland working is especially important in this terrifying political climate, and we take it very seriously. Nigerians need a platform that they can use to share their views freely with each other. We believe that Nairaland is that platform.
Oga Seun, when you go cut soap for me na?
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: DSS Is Recruiting (2016) by BREYZ: 4:28pm On Jun 10|
We are on a group... If you want to be added for information, let me know.. Haruna west? Kana so?
Kindly add me 08135873718
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Corp Members Wanted by BREYZ: 1:16pm On May 10|
its not so difficult now, I made a mistake, he could have pointed out the errors in a polite manner it doesn't cost a thing, but he called me senseless. I've made him realise he shouldn't talk that way and everything is settled okay? remember to use your drugs, relax and take enough water. you'll be fine.
Exactly why I said any corps member applying for your job should have a rethink.
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Corp Members Wanted by BREYZ: 6:54am On May 10|
you should be sensible enough to either mind your business or be polite.
No sensible corps member will apply for this, you are even rude online who knows how toxic you'd be in person.
Dear corps members be careful, that's all I have to say.
| Politics / Re: Reno Omokri Reminds El-Rufai Of 2010 Post: Are You Paying Teachers As Bankers? by BREYZ: 12:40am On May 10|
What have you got to say about this tweet
Useless Hell-rufai, they have power now and have all gone to sleep. Truly, the internet never forgets
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| Nairaland / General / Re: Remember Ali And Simbi, Edet Lives In Calabar, Agbo Lives In Ibadan, Mr Salami A by BREYZ: 7:47pm On May 09|
Remember Ali And Simbi, Edet Lives In Calabar, Agbo Lives In Ibadan, Ralia The Sugar Girl? What Other Childhood Story Do You Remember?
Childhood days will always be one of the best days in the history of life. The innocent days when we can play around without clothes and not feel shy, days of patewo and base. These are very interesting stories and things that made childhood interesting.
While growing up we’ve heard a lot of stories in the primary 4 Macmillian book. We read many stories but there are some stories that may not be easily forgotten by us because they so much contributed positively to our childhood. Edet lives in Calabar, Ali and Simbi and Raila are stories anyone should never forget.
I hope that you haven’t forgotten too. If you didn’t read any of these stories in your primary classes that means you were not born in the 1990s.
Akpan and the smugglers
| Romance / Re: Just Look At What My Girlfriend/fiancee Just Did? You Will Be Amazed by BREYZ: 12:14pm On May 09|
Let me try to say this very brief.
My girlfriend/fiancee mom fell very ill and her younger sister called me on my way home from a business meeting to inform me, I guess she couldn't reach her sister maybe because she was not picking. My girlfriend stays with me during the weekends...So i got back home,entered the house,saw my girlfriend watching those soap opera like telemundo things as usual...I quickly told her Please get ready we are going to see mom she is very sick, make a list of things we need to get for her so we can buy on our way there...her mom stay in the same state with us.
Guess what?! To my surprise my girl said no need to spend money times are hard, we should just get lucozade boost and paracetamol. I said Ok.
So reaching close to her house area,she got a little confuse and asked this is not the way to your moms house na....I told her it is your mom that is very sick...She started sweating profusely and immediately said what we bought is not Ok o...let us go back and get other things and take her mom to the hospital this and that...she was just vibrating in the car.
What can you say about this?!
Guys named Emeka are always wise but you are an exception
| Romance / Re: I'm Losing My Mind Moving On From My Past Relationship. Please Help Me Out Guys by BREYZ: 12:11pm On May 09|
Please I don't know what's wrong with me. I'm losing my mind over a girl that just broke up with me 3wks ago. Moving on has been herculean for me. I can't help always thinking about her. All these problems started after I traveled to another state for nysc. We've not been communicating fine ever since until an issue broke out which I tried to figure out a way to patch things up and continue with the relationship. Instead she opted for us to go our separate ways which got me furious and which I angrily obliged to. We've dated for 2yrs plus and we planned on spending our life together through marriage - Obviously after service. I'm beginning to lose sleep over the thoughts of losing her. I've tried to get myself engaged in things that would ease my thoughts of her but they keep getting stronger by the day. I won't fail to mention that I have some female admirers where I'm currently serving. Have tried mingling with them to just feel good but I simply can't. I'm someone that don't like to beg for my feelings to be reciprocated whilst in a relationship. Reason why I don't fancy making up with her for now because I know I'd be treated like a piece of trash. I'm just looking for ideas on moving on. My first relationship didn't take me this long to move on. This is entirely a different feeling. I did love her truly but I believe we would still be of we were meant to be.
What can I do to help myself from getting enmeshed further into this situation please guys?
Of all the bad things wey dey happen for naija on a daily basis, na woman be your problem? Efulefu don't go and do something reasonable with your life, be thinking of another girl that has ran into another mans arms.
Wise up you have a greater future ahead of you.
Stop thinking about girls, they will wreck you.
| Celebrities / Re: Footage Emerges of AKA Breaking Fiance's Door a Month Before Her "Suicide" (PIX) by BREYZ: 12:06pm On May 09|
AKA left fans a little confused on Saturday, when he released another statement discussing the death of Anele 'Nelli' Tembe.
The statement slammed suggestions that he had anything to do with her passing. It all became clear on Sunday morning, when a local publication reported that they were in possession of a video showing AKA allegedly abusing the late Tembe.
News24 reported that they are in possession of a video showing AKA breaking down a door to get to the 22-year-old, who was hiding out in the bedroom. The incident allegedly occurred in their Bryanston home on March 13.
The publication also further reported that a friend of Nelli has spoken out that AKA had previously been abusive towards Nelli and "smashed her face against the wall".
In AKA's statement released the day before, the rapper said that he will not stand back and watch people smear his name.
"I am a passionate and emotional person, what I will not stand for is watching people attempt to disparage my name and importantly Anele's character to suit a narrative we both never signed up for."
The statement went on to insist that Nelli committed suicide.
"What I will say as my truth, I was and still am madly in love with a girl carrying whatever past traumas she faced before I met her."
He also said that he hopes everyone affected by Anele's choice would come to terms with her passing and heal.
This nigga na beast. This evidence is enough to nail him. Who would do this? Just look at the way he sliced the door
nigga abused the innocent door so that he can gain entrance to abuse his then girlfriend. Nigga will be arrested in the coming week, nigga is going to face the jury and nigga will go down.
| Family / Re: I Did Not Authorize Anybody To Adopt My Son! Pls Help!! by BREYZ: 11:59am On May 09|
I did not authorize anybody to adopt my son. Never.
Pls Nigerians, what kind of wickedness is this that this evil lady wants to do with her man? Pls Help me to get my son back to me.
I read this thread below which made front page today.
I am the father of the boy the man was talking about and I never authorized anybody to adopt my son and will never authorize or allow anyone adopt my son.
There are 2 things that made me to know from the story that I am the one he's talking about.
1. He said it's 4 years now that they've been together. This corresponds well to my story.
2. He said the child is a boy. This also corresponds well.
I am a very responsible man and I'm not irresponsible as he claimed. That must have been the lie he was told by the lady. She's a liar and has always been a liar.
She actually ran away with my son since then. Ran away to an unknown destination with my son and packed all my properties away with her. Properties worth a lot of money.
That was after she planned to kill me and assassinate me and I ran away from her to save my life. So she later after one year, ran away with my son and said she would give him to her new man friend, even after I had already planned to enroll the boy in school to register him in a school but she denied me access to the boy till today. I've not seen the boy till today.
Her dad doesn't even know where she lives. She's a complete liar, a pretender, a Jezebel and a green snake under green grass. You're a dead man if you marry her, mark my word.
She now turned round and said she had registered him in school and that I should be sending school fees in order to be extorting money from me continuously, just like she was extorting money from me while we were together and she ended up wrecking me financially and collecting all the money I had.
How can you ask me to send you school fees for a school I don't know? Location I don't know. Class I don't know.
Mr man, you want to marry a Jezebel and a manipulator, you are digging your own grave by marrying her.
Return my son to me, I want to put my son in school so that he can be trained properly with good morals. I don't want him to be taken to club every night as she takes him to club to do evil things. This is a very wicked and evil lady. You want to marry a devil, continue.... nobody will tell you when you will begin to regret it.
You people will never know peace until you return my son to me. He's not your son, he's my son, so you're a child thief for wanting to adopt my son when I the father I'm still alive and I've not seen my son for 4 years now.
Return my son to me or else.....
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Mumu Akv, come and see the kids father, you want to marry a single mother and it's the woman that's suggesting you adopt the son, that guy no get brain.
@App222, ensure you get your son back by all means, so long as she's still in Nigeria, you can track her down. Get your son and give him a good upbringing.
| Politics / Re: Mohammed’s Committee: How PDP Govs, Leaders Sabotaged Atiku In 2019 by BREYZ: 11:45am On May 09|
• Candidate’s statesmanship, a weakness in north
• We can’t win with S’East, S’South alone
• Govs put themselves above party, some feared Buhari
• Corporate organisations embargoed from financing PDP
Whether we like it or not, Nigeria has expired. We are all waiting for the major event that will shake this country then it will dawn on us that almost every region and minority group is ready to leave this Disaster which was given us in 1914.
| Sports / Re: Beautiful Pictures Of Eket International Stadium In Akwa Ibom by BREYZ: 9:09pm On May 08|
Akwa ibom state will soon boast of 3 standard stadium that can host any match in the state.
1. Godswill Akpabios international Stadium
2. Eket Township stadium (almost completed)
3. Uyo township Stadium (still in progress) etc.
Note the state boast of some (5) good clubs playing top flight football both in NPFL and NNL.
Now this governor deserve an award as a sport loving governor of the year.
Find below pictorial views of Eket In't stadium ..
Average college stadium in the UK
| Autos / Re: Rolls Royce Phantom Tokunbo 2013. 08062499398 by BREYZ: 6:23pm On May 08|
Smooth drive ride
Good gear selection,
Good engine sound,
Many more functions,
Custom paper intact,
How much, lets seal the deal here
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Releases List Of Candidates For Final Screening by BREYZ: 5:43pm On May 08|
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Releases List Of Candidates For Final Screening by BREYZ: 5:42pm On May 08|
Why not SSC Army
Bros, you no like me oooo.
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Releases List Of Candidates For Final Screening by BREYZ: 2:05pm On May 08|
For DSS, you will get tired of waiting.
I am not too sure about that, seems they are all waking up from their slumber.
| Family / Re: Should I Adopt My Fiancee's Son Legally? by BREYZ: 1:30pm On May 08|
Good day guys,
So I've been dating a single Mom for almost 4years now and we're ready to tie the knot, but recently she came up with a suggestion of me adopting her son legally. Her baby daddy has actually been irresponsible right from start, nigga last saw his son when he was 4months old and he hasn't even bought ordinary diaper for the boy right from when he was delivered.
Now I'm being skeptical about taking him up legally, please i need advice from you guys, no insult please.
So single ladies don finish? Don't come here crying fowl in the year 2022. Una no dey hear word, God will create and give you a simple life to live yet una dey complicate issues for una selves. You can marry her but forget about adopting her son because his dad will definitely come for him someday.
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Releases List Of Candidates For Final Screening by BREYZ: 1:26pm On May 08|
Yes, you better go an buy a plastic kettle now
The biggest one
| Politics / Re: Muslim Group Reveal Shocking Reason Why Pst Adeboye Son Died by BREYZ: 12:20pm On May 08|
The news of the death of Pastor Enoch Adeboye's son has been on the headlines after the news was broken. Everyone has been sending their condolences.
Dare Adeboye who is the third son of the Adeboye's family was said to sleep and didn't get to see the sunset the next day. The wife revealed that he wasn't sick and he preached on the alter the previous day before his death.
The MURIC group which stands for Muslim Right Concern reveals the reason why his son died at that age.
Muslim Group full reason is here:
This son of his looks so much like him.
| Politics / Re: Throwback Video Of Mbaka Hailing Buhari With Adorable Names by BREYZ: 12:00pm On May 08|
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Releases List Of Candidates For Final Screening by BREYZ: 10:45am On May 08|
Just change your name and get LGA letter like any other immigrants from Chad, Cameroon and Niger.
Lolzz. Thats the surest way oo
| Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NDLEA Releases List Of Candidates For Final Screening by BREYZ: 9:30am On May 08|
Me na NLNG, DPR or NNPC i still dey wait oo.
If you no get Northern blood flowing through your veins, no reason am. I don try and I know wetin I see.