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Positivechick:
I broke up with my boyfriend today,

I met him while I was serving, he was nice and the only friend I had, I served in a village. While we were serving he doesn’t give me much, I practically kinda fed him cause he was always in my place. He had a roommate and I didn’t. Before he gives me any money we always had issues, not like he doesn’t hv to give. He just doesn’t want to. I don’t even ask for much.

After service we continued dating, he had no job so I told him to get a teaching job he said never ever, he rather follow he’s friends up and down , I kept quite watching what his plans maybe, I hv never asked him for a dim since we finished service mid last year, got a teaching job so taking care of myself.

My birthday would be coming up, his just passed, I told him that I would be expecting some cash on my birthday. We talked today and he’s telling me he spent all he’s money for he’s birthday, that if money comes he will send but right now he has no money, placing me on the probability table, so I said u couldn’t keep the one u would send me, he said people were buying drinks and buying drinks and he couldn’t tell them to stop. Am like are u serious ? I had to remind him that my birthday is few days away and he started saying he won’t be able to send anything. I told him without him doing the needful that there is no us.

Am tired, he has no vision, No focus , no aim , he depends on his friends and it's annoying. I think about he’s future more than he does , he’s always in the present. He’s making me feel like a bad person that he would make it. I hope he makes it but the relationship is so draining and I am 100% faithful to someone with no sense of reasoning. He’s Saying I am dating someone that’s why I want to leave him. He isn’t even addressing the issue we hv on ground .

Thoughts??

How did you know he has no vision, no focus and no aim?
You see, all I can deduct from all you've written is that he doesn't give you money & not about vision, focus or aim here because I am confident that if he gives you money as you've wanted you won't come here to open this trend neither will you complain as the money will be coming whenever we want. A man with money doesn't mean he has vision or aim, we have so many of them all over the world it's just because sometimes fortune decided to smile on them or perhaps inherited.
I went through your write up and I can tell you that your boyfriend is lost which could be as a result of Peer Pressure, seeing what friends are doing and what to do same and that is why he always want to follow friends, some guys are like that and that is why you need to perform your duties well as a girlfriend, you help him find himself & not leave with the excuse that he's stingy, all guys aren't the same rather try and know your boyfriend more, your attitude, care towards him can make him have a rethink, show him you understand his predicament and draw him closer to yourself instead of making unnecessary demands when you know he's still trying to gain balance, this isn't your last birthday and you shouldn't make it a big deal and this isn't the time for you to say you fed him this or that. The truth is that both of you have a problem and instead of admitting and working on it you are bringing up excuses to walk away, who told you walking away is the best option? If you expect to find a perfect guy who will give you money for your birthday and is focused, has vision and aim then keep searching. But I will advise you you get to work more on your boyfriend and forget about what some feminists here are feeding you with, some of them have worst relationships but won't tell you.


I wish you Goodluck as youve made the decision best for you.

I had a similar experience about two years ago while undergoing externship, the first time I met her I couldn't get my eyes off her & I guess she felt same way as she couldn't too but I didn't say a word to her. The following day I went with a female friend of mine & Lo she was there and we even shared same table, she was a bit uncomfortable but I never spoke to her. The last time we did was the day I made up my mind to speak to her but she didn't spend up to 2 minutes where I saw her, I was so angry with myself. But I searched the entire FB with the name I overheard one of her friends call her and i found her after several attempts. This Girl is extremely cute and nice.

Na too much money kill this man. Man had so much that he was dissatisfied with his looks this part weak me, walahi.

500k?

I did some of those things you listed above but my parents weren't strict. It was by my personal decisions & the kind of friends I came across at that moment of my life.


What I am driving out is the fact that you did all those doesn't mean it was due to your parents strictness, it's all because of your personal decisions. You can't tell me your siblings all turned out same way you did. I have a couple of friends from homes whose father's are pastors and they went to school and turned into something else starting from their first year in school and I still have those who are the same both home and in school. It's about your decisions on which part is good for you. If your dad wasn't strict and you still wanted to do all those, you would still.there are guys from homes whose parents are all caring and not strict rather understanding yet they turned out to be nothing to write home about.

He has paid the price all mortals must pay.

News reaching us has confirmed the demise of the Legal juggernaut & Erudite Jurist, Retired Hon. Justice Karibi Whyte. According to his Son Gogo, he died today, 22nd May, 2020

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2020/05/breaking-retired-justice-karibi-whyte-is-dead/amp/





Cc
Mynd44

we know the truth but we can't say the truth.


I am enjoying this drama going on in Rivers State

If i talk now, na ban go follow me. It's better I kuku Waka pass

This govt is filled with clowns who are best at reading addresses written by aides. No good financial advisory team, they are only good at taking loans here and there and yet we don't see its impact. We are here again & i can only but weep for the future of this country, Nigeria truly is in wrong hands.

There is a good barber around Chicken Republic/Domino pizza Abule Egba. Once you get there just ask. The guy is good

Oga Bubu is not smiling this period ooh
Everyday sack

R.I.P sir

He had foresight of coronavirus

Dude has been wearing mask right from when I was a kid.


Happy birthday Gbaja

Delay Tactics. I can see EFCC at work dey no want d man to rest before they relist the case.







That's the major problem with our judicial system, judgment is one thing, enforcement is another


Make Kalu no pee for pant oooohh


Kalu cannot eat that 7. Something billion alone, mbok!

He said there is no coronavirus in Nigeria

He concluded by saying They should read their Bibles always so as not to suffer from coronavirus


Nna ehhh this people will not kee me

Water don pass Garri oo

Chei! Death is on rampage.

In a sane country someone like this can't be a Minister.

Twinkletwin:
I'm a man aged 35. I discovered that my long
time best friend was dating my wife. I have all the evidence . She is 25 years old. We got married and had a white weeding last year in April. My best friend is 45 .
My friend of over 15 years has been seeing my wife behind my back. I found out about it last year December. My good friend was always exchanging messages and nude pictures with my wife on Whats App. I hacked my wife's phone and thats how i discovered what was happening between them . I dont want to lie guys this broke my heart. I trusted my friend and took him as my own brother. When i found out i decided not to ask them. Instead I made a desicion to act as if i dont know anything. I wanted to revenge.
My feelings towards my wife changed. I just started acting up and i no longer treat her as i did before . With my friend I am pretending as if all is well .
For my revenge I decided to look for my friends daughter who happens to be a student in one of the Universities close by to my residence. She is 19 years old.
I approached her with the intent of dating her. After a while of trying, I succeeded in having her as my friend and now we have been dating. Im so happy because i actually succeeded. The best part is i have been sleeping with her with no protection. We recently discovered she is now pregnant . The issue now is she has fallen in love with me to the extent of saying she wants me to marry her. As for me i dont have a problem with that.
As it is I'm waiting for the day they will discover that she is pregnant and we exchange i take his daughter and he takes my wife.

This is ma guy

Capital NO

m140:
E for resign then if he meant good na, since they are doing it the way it's not supposed to...
Keep deceiving yourself there . Atiku be the messiah

You no get sense at all. Overgrown zombie

m140:
Mr man he was there before, wetin he do

This is what happens when you are an Adult citizen yet you dont know that the constitution did not spell out the duties of a vice president.

NEIGHBOUR:
@BREYZ, Goodluck Jonathan is just too weak to continue as the President. By now, they would not have anything to steal!!!

I believe you are enjoying your Strong President now?

Atiku would have made a better President with Peter Obi beside him as his Vice.



I just don't know why good things elope Nigeria whenever we are at the verge of getting it right. You can imagine where Nigeria would have been today if GoodLuck Jonathan was still the President but he had to leave the forefront because too many people were against him and now we can see the Government some of us wanted. Nobody is saying sai Baba anymore, all the empty promises that made some of us go against a government that was doing it right have all gone down the drainage and now we are back here where anything goes and nobody dare questions or ask questions anymore, nobody speaks or protests anymore. I remember what so many of them did just to make sure Jonathan and his government appeared bad but today none of those people speak anymore. They have suddenly become deaf and dumb & too blind to see, now in their houses enduring and suffering the pains they brought upon their fellow citizens.



Will some Nigerians learn? No.
The day we start thinking ahead, that's the day Nigeria will move forward but for now, let us partake in the errors committed by a few in the past.

Which are we to believe now?
Which way Hope Uzodimma?

I no know say some guys still dey jonz like this, seems this guy left his brain Abroad

WHO is always predicting doom.

Coronavirus will be gone before June 30th.