RAPE
Rape, is the act of sexual intercourse with an individual without his or her consent, through force or the threat of force. In many jurisdictions, the crime of rape has been subsumed under that of sexual assault, which also encompasses acts that fall short of intercourse. Rape was long considered to be caused by unbridled sexual desire, but it is now understood as a pathological assertion of power over a victim.

SCOPE, EFFECTS, AND MOTIVATIONS

The legal definition of rape has changed substantially since the late 20th century. The traditional definition was narrow with respect to both gender and age; rape was an act of sexual intercourse by a man with a woman against her will. As rape is now understood, a rapist or a victim may be an adult of either gender or a child. Although rape can occur in same-sex intercourse, it is most often committed by a male against a female. There is also an increasing tendency to treat as rape an act of sexual intercourse by a husband with his wife against her will and to consider forced prostitution and sexual slavery as forms of rape.
Rape is often explained or excused as a manifestation of racial, ethnic, and class hatred or as stemming from a patriarchal system in which women are viewed as the property of men. Whatever its origins, rape is a serious crime and is treated as a felony in most countries with common-law systems. In many rape trials, the guilt or innocence of the accused hinges on whether or not the victim consented to sexual intercourse. The determination of consent often can lead to distressing cross-examinations of rape victims in court. As a result, many rape victims choose not to report the crime to police or refuse to press charges against their assailants. According to a study conducted in the United States in the 1990s, for example, fewer than one-third of rapes in the country are reported to police, and about half of all rape victims do not discuss the incident with anyone. Even when brought to trial, those charged with rape have a higher-than-average rate of acquittal, mainly because it is difficult to prove a crime for which there are usually no third-party witnesses and because the testimony of women often may be given less credence than that of men. Rape is thus both underreported and underprosecuted. To protect women from humiliating cross-examination, many jurisdictions have adopted rape shield laws, which limit the ability of the defendant’s counsel to introduce the accuser’s sexual history as evidence.
The psychological motivations of rapists are more complex than was formerly thought. They may include the desire to punish, to gain revenge, to cause pain, to prove sexual prowess, and to control through fear. The psychological reactions of victims of rape also vary but usually include feelings of shame, humiliation, confusion, fear, and rage. Victims often report a feeling of perpetual defilement, an inability to feel clean, an overwhelming sense of vulnerability, and a paralyzing feeling of lack of control over their lives. Many are haunted by fear of the place in which the crime occurred, or of being followed, or of all sexual relationships. Others experience long-term disruption of sleep or eating patterns or an inability to function at work. The duration of the psychological trauma varies from individual to individual; many feel the effects for years, even with considerable supportive therapy. In view of the great psychological harm it causes, many psychologists regard rape as a form of torture—a permanent mutilation of an individual’s life. In addition to these psychological effects, in some societies victims of rape face the danger of ostracism or even death at the hands of relatives seeking to preserve their family’s honour (victims of abduction without rape may be treated in the same way)


#NOTORAPE.

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

What’s the difference between normal conflict and domestic violence?

Conflict is part of every intimate relationship–that’s why conflict resolution skills are important. Domestic violence, however, has no place in a healthy relationship, whether the couple is dating, cohabiting, engaged, or married.

What is domestic violence?
Domestic violence is any kind of behavior that a person uses, or threatens to use, to control an intimate partner. The two key elements are threat and control. Domestic violence can take various forms:

PHYSICAL – Violent actions such as hitting, beating, pushing, and kicking. In many cases physical abuse becomes more frequent and severe over time.

SEXUAL– Includes any sexual acts that are forced on one partner by the other

PSYCHOLOGICAL – Includes a wide range of behaviors such as intimidation, isolating the victim from friends and family, controlling where the victim goes, making the victim feel guilty or crazy, and making unreasonable demands

EMOTIONAL – Undermining an individual’s self-esteem, constant criticism, insults, put-downs, and name-calling

ECONOMIC – Examples include limiting the victim’s access to family income, preventing the victim from working or forcing the victim to work, destroying the victim’s property, and making all the financial decisions

#NOTODOMESTICVOLIENCE

STOP RIGHT THERE. !!!


This is not the best solution to your problems,what you are thinking is absolutely off the fence my dear.


Death is not the next thing, why do you reach a conclusion like this, you don't even think of your parents...



Please you think this is the very end, No you are getting it wrong, I will suggest this go and ask your parents how they manage to triumph through there darkest time..


Mohammed Ali will always says that "this life is full of up and down "this means that you have to witness this situation because you are human not an angel.


Have you ever look at the mirror for ones,and have you ever imagined how handsome and beautiful you are... If not I suggest you go to the mirror and look at your image,start from ur black or white shining hair, your beautiful face, your beautiful body.. My dear drop that thing in your hand and do what I ask you to do.


Wait... Why do you want to end your beautiful journey
* Is it a breakup ? If it is my dear please someone better is looking for you outside,very beautiful /handsome and caring..

*Is it finance? If it is my dear your help is right beside you.. Just trust God, youself and me... Then thank me later

*oh oh oh is it that you unemployment situation? My dear you are already a graduate be thankful for that some want to be in your position but not privilege..but I can assure you that your appointment letter is on the way... A dead body can never use the letter... Pls drop that thing in your hand an wait patiently then thank me later

*you are academic set back? That not an enough excuse to end your journey.. I will first blame you,you caused it all along.,you never burn either afternoon or midnight candle but u always complain that is difficult..dear drop that thing in your hand first. Book are written for you and I to read not for beautification so why is your book always beautiful and your results are ugly just think of it common, you have the ability and I believe in you..
#isaynotosucide

STOP RIGHT THERE. !!!


This is not the best solution to your problems,what you are thinking is absolutely off the fence my dear.


Death is not the next thing, why do you reach a conclusion like this, you don't even think of your parents...



Please you think this is the very end, No you are getting it wrong, I will suggest this go and ask your parents how they manage to triumph through there darkest time..


Mohammed Ali will always says that "this life is full of up and down "this means that you have to witness this situation because you are human not an angel.


Have you ever look at the mirror for ones,and have you ever imagined how handsome and beautiful you are... If not I suggest you go to the mirror and look at your image,start from ur black or white shining hair, your beautiful face, your beautiful body.. My dear drop that thing in your hand and do what I ask you to do.


Wait... Why do you want to end your beautiful journey
* Is it a breakup ? If it is my dear please someone better is looking for you outside,very beautiful /handsome and caring..

*Is it finance? If it is my dear your help is right beside you.. Just trust God, youself and me... Then thank me later

*oh oh oh is it that you unemployment situation? My dear you are already a graduate be thankful for that some want to be in your position but not privilege..but I can assure you that your appointment letter is on the way... A dead body can never use the letter... Pls drop that thing in your hand an wait patiently then thank me later

*you are academic set back? That not an enough excuse to end your journey.. I will first blame you,you caused it all along.,you never burn either afternoon or midnight candle but u always complain that is difficult..dear drop that thing in your hand first. Book are written for you and I to read not for beautification so why is your book always beautiful and your results are ugly just think of it common, you have the ability and I believe in you.

STOP RIGHT THERE. !!!


This is not the best solution to your problems,what you are thinking is absolutely off the fence my dear.


Death is not the next thing, why do you reach a conclusion like this, you don't even think of your parents...



Please you think this is the very end, No you are getting it wrong, I will suggest this go and ask your parents how they manage to triumph through there darkest time..


Mohammed Ali will always says that "this life is full of up and down "this means that you have to witness this situation because you are human not an angel.


Have you ever look at the mirror for ones,and have you ever imagined how handsome and beautiful you are... If not I suggest you go to the mirror and look at your image,start from ur black or white shining hair, your beautiful face, your beautiful body.. My dear drop that thing in your hand and do what I ask you to do.


Wait... Why do you want to end your beautiful journey
* Is it a breakup ? If it is my dear please someone better is looking for you outside,very beautiful /handsome and caring..

*Is it finance? If it is my dear your help is right beside you.. Just trust God, youself and me... Then thank me later

*oh oh oh is it that you unemployment situation? My dear you are already a graduate be thankful for that some want to be in your position but not privilege..but I can assure you that your appointment letter is on the way... A dead body can never use the letter... Pls drop that thing in your hand an wait patiently then thank me later

*you are academic set back? That not an enough excuse to end your journey.. I will first blame you,you caused it all along.,you never burn either afternoon or midnight candle but u always complain that is difficult..dear drop that thing in your hand first. Book are written for you and I to read not for beautification so why is your book always beautiful and your results are ugly just think of it common, you have the ability and I believe in you.
#isaynotosucide

This is not the best solution to your problems,what you are thinking is absolutely off the fence my dear.


Death is not the next thing, why do you reach a conclusion like this, you don't even think of your parents...



Please you think this is the very end, No you are getting it wrong, I will suggest this go and ask your parents how they manage to triumph through there darkest time..


Mohammed Ali will always says that "this life is full of up and down "this means that you have to witness this situation because you are human not an angel.


Have you ever look at the mirror for ones,and have you ever imagined how handsome and beautiful you are... If not I suggest you go to the mirror and look at your image,start from ur black or white shining hair, your beautiful face, your beautiful body.. My dear drop that thing in your hand and do what I ask you to do.


Wait... Why do you want to end your beautiful journey
* Is it a breakup ? If it is my dear please someone better is looking for you outside,very beautiful /handsome and caring..

*Is it finance? If it is my dear your help is right beside you.. Just trust God, youself and me... Then thank me later

*oh oh oh is it that you unemployment situation? My dear you are already a graduate be thankful for that some want to be in your position but not privilege..but I can assure you that your appointment letter is on the way... A dead body can never use the letter... Pls drop that thing in your hand an wait patiently then thank me later

*you are academic set back? That not an enough excuse to end your journey.. I will first blame you,you caused it all along.,you never burn either afternoon or midnight candle but u always complain that is difficult..dear drop that thing in your hand first. Book are written for you and I to read not for beautification so why is your book always beautiful and your results are ugly just think of it common, you have the ability and I believe in you..

#Isaynotosucide

STOP RIGHT THERE. !!!


This is not the best solution to your problems,what you are thinking is absolutely off the fence my dear.


Death is not the next thing, why do you reach a conclusion like this, you don't even think of your parents...



Please you think this is the very end, No you are getting it wrong, I will suggest this go and ask your parents how they manage to triumph through there darkest time..


Mohammed Ali will always says that "this life is full of up and down "this means that you have to witness this situation because you are human not an angel.


Have you ever look at the mirror for ones,and have you ever imagined how handsome and beautiful you are... If not I suggest you go to the mirror and look at your image,start from ur black or white shining hair, your beautiful face, your beautiful body.. My dear drop that thing in your hand and do what I ask you to do.


Wait... Why do you want to end your beautiful journey
* Is it a breakup ? If it is my dear please someone better is looking for you outside,very beautiful /handsome and caring..

*Is it finance? If it is my dear your help is right beside you.. Just trust God, youself and me... Then thank me later

*oh oh oh is it that you unemployment situation? My dear you are already a graduate be thankful for that some want to be in your position but not privilege..but I can assure you that your appointment letter is on the way... A dead body can never use the letter... Pls drop that thing in your hand an wait patiently then thank me later

*you are academic set back? That not an enough excuse to end your journey.. I will first blame you,you caused it all along.,you never burn either afternoon or midnight candle but u always complain that is difficult..dear drop that thing in your hand first. Book are written for you and I to read not for beautification so why is your book always beautiful and your results are ugly just think of it common, you have the ability and I believe in you..

Firstly, I will like to applause Mrs Dakolo for her confessions,but am still wondering why she kept quiet all this day though she is rich but madam you are a great liar.there is a Yoruba adage which say that "you can only be deceive or force to rape once by someone not twice" so your confession that Pastor rape you twice was absolutely pure lie.
Further more, I will like to say this every pastor have there own past,that is pastor Fatoyinbo past.people are now yawning as if they are saint,David in the bible commit many sexual offense but he was still pardon,to my amazing wonder aunty bobrisky even comment.
Lastly,before I drop my pen I will like to tell you about what happened to a harlot brought by troops of Jew to Jesus,they told Jesus Christ that she was caught red handed,all they want from Jesus was that he should say she is guilty stone her to death but reverse is the case, Jesus said if you have not sin take stone and stone her to death but they all left with a stone thrown at her...
Conclusively,am calling out all the celebrities,Pastor ,and public that have commented on the rape allegation that are you that righteous and you have not sin point a finger of guilt on Pastor Fatoyinbo and wait for your downfall...

Thanks



Brilliant
# say no to rape

After lot of rumour,the management has come to agreement to commence her first semester examination on Monday 27th of this month.examination hall had been set.. I wishes all FPA student success




Brilliant

This had been a very serious issue to be discuss among we young believer, the preacher only preach the doctrine but forget to preach the instructions in the bible
For instance the preaching in CAC is quite different from that of deeper life,the funniest part of it is that gospel church see the other as a sinner vice versa, am so confused to the extent that people only preach church and their general overseer.
Please are we worshipping doctrine or God Almighty.

Thanks for the comment....please more comment.

Please do we really consider God's will again in choosing future partner...

1.Lord connection me with destiny helper this year
2.let the 2019 budget favour me and my family
3.many will die but lord my family and I must survive
4.Lord Jesus make my provision a surprise to me this year
5.My God my families picture must not be use as an obituary this year...

PLEASE PRAY THIS FIVE(5)PRAYER WITH FAITH. ..
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Will sure comment with your testimonies



Remain bless


2019 will work for you...

globatop:
WHERE IS DAVID MARK, FORMER SENATE PRESIDENT?

Is in ur village

100% lie... The editor of this news is a bad liar..mr editor start preparing for hell fire........ Na vice-versa of what he said.. APC liar... Murasi..

To my own view, I dnt see anything wrong in comedy in Christian gathering..... Cos bible say in d presence of God there is fullness of joy.. So let look it this way in a gathering where nobody is happy how is it possible for Holy Spirit to move ....comedians dnt lie they always talks in parables...

Special Get Together Party For All every member of this great family. Just To Thank You For The Time We Have Been Together In This website

All drinks and food on me

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Nairalander please come to Ekiti State on Nov 18th at Araromi Ekiti and come and enjoy iyan(pounded yam) delicacy.

[color=#006600][/color] am sorry for the error ''her'' instead of ''his''

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Uhm

Please help me,
Am ND graduate, immediately I finish my program at a well knw federal polytechnic in Nigeria,being a mechanical engineering student am not that chance to have girlfriend because am always too tight on my academic schedule I.e campus triangle.but immediately I did my ND finally defence I met this beautiful lady a graduate of nursing school i.e a nurse,she love me without measure,I introduced her to my family and they love her so much.
But recently,I feel like am not that good to her because she told me that her phone damaged beyond repair,I promise to buy are a new phone,but unfortunately I eventually indulged in an online business hoping to fetch me money but am duped,that why am not able to get her the phone,she didn't not ask about the phone.
Meanwhile, just to clear myself I called her and I explain everything,she told me not to worry again,she later told me she had rented an apartment. I don't knw what to say but not to lose her to another guy,I sit her down and explained that I really feel guilty for not carrying out my responsibility, that when she voice out that I keeping explaining things to her as if am not capable of having her,she said for this reason I should give her space.Nigerian What will follow the spacing she requested for? Please help me

Nice photoshoot of nice couple...

What is difference between BRIBE and COMPENSATION....

God Purity Church launch her first album title ORE BI OLUWA

The children of God's purity Church in Ado Ekiti celebrated the children's day by handling all the program which include Sunday school,sermon,choir ministrations and lot more they later cut the cake tag HAPPY CHILDREN'S DAY GPC..It was a unique moment....

Adebayo Temitope and bamisile Temitayo took their pre wedding shot.....what are wonderful couple to be