Qatar2022:

Invite Judith first and compare both them

I will do that, soon

Red02:
I think she is business oriented in her own way.

From her statement you can see she will and is elevating her personality because of her current status
Which means the higher she goes the higher she elevates her self, can you cope with that.

Beside the girl go dey enter people eye wella, so far na fashionista


Lol, Aren't you the one she's in a relationship with

I have always supported her her in my own way... What attracted me to her was not even her beauty of thing... It was because I knew her background so well.. The mother loves me so much too... Just that I don't want to do mistake..
As for the second girl, I don't know anything abt her background... She was like a fish they kill and gave me whereby Judith is like a woman I found myself... We are like best friends...

The findings of the second girl has lower my affection towards Judith

kunkelhanspeter:
Go for the hard working virgin bro 😎
The one you think is pretty 😍 remember beauty fade away with time . Don’t marry because of beauty

The virgin girl is truly in love with me... I am the first person she has felt in love with..

frozen70:

The issue I can understand here is that

You have not dated any one of them and that's why you are having indecision on who to get married too

Your focus is more on a woman who will hustle in trade than an educated woman who will have her own career

Distance is not an issue when love is involve

Education and its timing is not an obstacle when when love is involve

I think you need time to study these people and spend times with them on their visits to understand better who among the two ticks your box

But remember beauty doesn't make a woman a good wife but character does in a lot of ways

Good luck

Wow thanks, this is more than a motherly advice to me

gfelo:
Bros there is nothing like love/beauty in marriage, you see that beauty wey dey enter ur eye, u go get tire of it after marriage, when the real life drama go enter, am not saying u shud marry ugly woman o, marry a woman that is hardworking and a little beauty, not all human beings is 100%, if u only fall in love with beauty hmm after marriage u go understand why some people marries girl u see as ugly girl.

Hmm,thanks... Exactly what is disturbing me here.. The nsukka girl seem so hard working, each time she visits my shop she is always willing to help.. Though the other girl has never visited and she does not look like someone who can work.. Her major commodity to offer is beauty.. I am not even interested in it..

GOFRONT:
Use genotype test to decide. Except you are AA in genotype, it is the only deciding factor.

I am AS and both girls are AA. that has always been my first question to them

Albertone:


Which goods?

Boutique

SeeItSayIt:


You're welcome.

Riches is not guarantee for peaceful & successful marriage but prayer, boldness, confidence & ability to take responsibility does.

Especially in our settings today, very few women (female) are ready to give majority are out to take. So, be prepared & reduce complain when you eventually get married to your choice.

Thanks so much for your ur advice is genius.. I have been praying too

brightakas:
You don't know what you want upto now and your not ready to marry comparing two different women pick one and focus on making the person who you want her to be.

This is exactly what the first one told me too... Even my uncle. May God help me

SeeItSayIt:


Then be a man to make choice from your current girlfriends.

A real man doesn't seek this kind of advice.

Thanks

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Albertone:


I have no experience with marriage.

My own is comman teach me how to be seeing 600k a month 🥺

Buying and selling goods

SeeItSayIt:
Then stay single, is not by force

Not the option

All I need is someone I can build my business with.. Or a woman who has her own vision that I will support... Should I marry hard working woman I don't love or marry a beautiful woman that is not too good in businesses?

Pls my fellow Nairalanders, I am in confused state of mind right now... I am in my early 30. I am not super rich but I am financially comfortable, at least living in my own apartment and having a business that give me atleast 600k monthly.
I am equally the first son and my parents are late, so I am like the head of the family to my younger ones...
Age is no longer at my side and I have no reason why I am still single.. But there is a problem.
I have plenty female admires.. Even some which was suggested for me through families and friends.. But only 2 of them I will talk abt now

Let me call one of them Judith and the other one IFEOMA.
Judith is from from the same local government with me.. I knew her when she was still in secondary school and I was apprentice then... I don't even know what was called love then.. We only greet like brother and sisters because we are in far away north then.
I have relocated to another state and she too is now undergraduate, studying nursing at uni zik Awka. I normally call her because I was in good term with her mother.. She feel in love with me. But my own fear is that I am not sure if she will understand the language of hardship. She was only Dauther and last born, the family is average comfortable.
The only thing she always rely most is her beauty... She is so beautiful no wonder she just won a beauty queen competition, the sun newspaper even carry the news.. But her beauty is not what attracted me..
Last December I visited her parent with just one of my uncle and they welcomed us very well..
Another issue is that she still have abt 4 years to finish her education.. And I don't want to waste more than 2 years ahead.


Now let me talk abt IFEOMA. She is from Nsukka, very far from my local government.
She is living with her sister here in the same state I am staying...
She is 25 and years and Judith is 22 years.
She is NCE holder.. Based on my findings so far she is good in business and came from a poor family too.. She is equally a virgin, I am very sure of it..
She not too beautiful but have showed her love to me... The problem is that I have no feelings for her.. But I love her hard working..
I am planning to invite Judith to spend some weeks with me to understand her characters.

Pls I don't know how to write more..
Which one should I marry?

Painted

I love this, I wish 3.5 can do

I'm the only one who noticed that the price for the winners are too small, abi na the hardship makes people to feel like they have tried
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What could 400k and 300k do.. A whole ³ crowns company... Chai

LOGICALKEN:
Nice one bro
Thanks for the update.
It’s actually a motivation.
So far, how much has gone down?

Abt 8m down now... Land included

Pop work 85% done

EbenezerTriumph:
tell that to your wh0re mother in the brothel.
idiot.
quote me again and receive insults.
bastard born throwaway that was picked by the refused bin.
see come no allow me reason your matter for this forum.
dare quote me again

You are actually having mental issue.. And only good source of income will perfect ur healing

ibechris:



Nawah for una oh.

See guy,make una dey calm down. No be every body be thief for this country ok?
There is nothing wrong for young men and women who are focused to be successful.

Person wey no know how money is being made na him dey think say,everybody na yahoo guy.

Making money is a special course that can't be studied at any University...I don't mean political money,I mean money made from buying and selling, and if u need this course badly,meet any igbo man around u and remove the inborn hatred and see ur destiny change for good.

I am what I am today,is because of igbo men I got to know from a friend...these guys are illiterate but doing well for themselves...that was how I started doing business with them till I became better financially.

Follow who know road and stop hating people and start loving people irrespective of their tribe.

You have said it all bro, unfortunately not all of them know it... In my next world if I don't do business what did I gain... If I remembered that I started the business 4 years ago with just 300k, people don't believe me... I normally collect goods on credit then and sell... If I even tell him that this one is second house.. He may be a commit suicide... Not his fault... If to say country is good, 31 years is already too late to achieve all this... I am even a secondary school holder...
Monthly profit is above 700k minus expenses...

EbenezerTriumph:
source of funds?

I would have insult u but no need...
So after apprenticeship for 10 years they will not settle me abi?
I know you are a Yoruba boy...
MY Igbo people don't depend on yahoo to make wealth...

It is even the yahoo boys that patronize me most..

Work hard too and make genuine money so that you will not be running each time you see police..

EbenezerTriumph:
stop Yahoo it doesn't pay

Hahaha, funny enough I hate yahoo with passion... I have 2 boutique shop bro... And by the grace of God I will open mobile phone accessories... I am the one managing my shop daily. I went to apprenticeship for 10 years... No be every thing is yahoo

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Building project ongoing

He should not worry, I am sure he will not do different if they give him the opportunity... I am obidient but I don't trust all the past Nigerian politicians... They can promise heaven and earth during the campaign and turn to devil once they get the power...

I am yet to see good leaders in Nigeria...
Unfortunately our youths thinks it is politicians that will change their miserable life.

If you want to enjoy Nigeria huzzle independently and make ur money, don't depend on government...
Forget about Higher education and government jobs....
Start and build ur own business..

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Cost for workmanship 80k

Pop work ongoing

Wow I love this man... Peace mass has always been my favourite transporter especially during Xmas

Kamlex:
I'm sorry boss, you mean you use 47 bags of cement for art work only ? No vex I beg. If you don't mind, can you send me your WhatsApp number pls. Thanks

For plastering only, art work is 14 bags

APC government is not responsible for it.. We don't want Christians to grow in the North... Vote for Tinubu at least we will allow you to have 3 churches in each local government.. As a Tinubu supporters we will dash fulani ogun and some part of Lagos state just as we did it in Kwara state.... And I am sure hard drugs will be available for the youths because Bola Tinubu is a sure plug for all sorts of hard drugs...