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Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Justkatty(f): 12:03am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Hullcity:The only sensible comment here. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Chingyyy878: 12:10am On Nov 03, 2023 |
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Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:19am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Hullcity:no be only lift,na weight lifter . I no get that strength to lift any woman or her family anywhere.i suffered to lift myself 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:21am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Justkatty:broke girl spotted.avoid me 8 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by ednut1(m): 2:04am On Nov 03, 2023 |
How many siblings do they have Dont mind all these motivational speakers o. We have seen where a man and his siblings attended publicly university and the wife from a broke family will say she wants her siblings to attend private university ๐. Givers don dey lack these days o 9 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Smartguyboy(m): 2:27am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Britishcoins: You want to marry two of them? Are they sisters? Or just two different poor girls? My advice donโt marry out of pity because if they family. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Smartguyboy(m): 2:35am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Hullcity:Life is not nollywood. 7 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by MyExpression(m): 6:04am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Britishcoins: It was at this point that I left the thread. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Free2Fly: 6:13am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Wujio: He's talking about the girl's family's/parents' problems here, not specifically the girl's personal problems. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Free2Fly: 6:14am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Wujio: He's talking about the girl's family's/parents' problems here, not specifically the girl's personal problems. No man is under any obligation to carry his wife's parents' problems as his, just because he married their daughter. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Free2Fly: 6:16am On Nov 03, 2023 |
immortalcrown: The girl's family's financial status can be a source of constant quarels between the man and his wife. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Justkatty(f): 6:58am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Aaaaarghmed:Rich kid I see you bro |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Wujio: 7:10am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Free2Fly: Shut up. Where did i advocate curing the family's problems or where did the family ask him to bail them from poverty. If he doesnt want to have her another would. Enough of these wokeness that leads to nothin |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by tasalanoni(m): 7:12am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Life is much deeper than we all know. Riches can be very ephemeral and that's why material considerations ought not be at the centre of marital decisions. You may have wealth now and loose everything the next moment. You may not have today and suddenly, your stars align and you strike fortune. It's never entirely all our design. Forces are always moulding and shaping our destinies in ways we do not entirely understand. As applies to you and your girl, be very sure to study key personality traits and determine your compatibilities. That's the most important factor. So long as her family isn't greedy, don't be carried away by their economic standing. Whatever is their case today may fizzle out tomorrow and you might even be uplifted by the same family. Uwa di omimi !!! 4 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Free2Fly: 8:13am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Wujio: This cockroach definitely comes from a very poor background and believes his husband must alleviate his family's poverty. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Wujio: 9:12am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Free2Fly: Your entire lineage from ten generations before you and after cant amount to my 1% Choke on that |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Free2Fly: 9:49am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Wujio: I send money to Nigeria every day to poor rats like you for their survival |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Wujio: 9:52am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Free2Fly: You wish. If you like work under Biden, your networth ten generations before and after wont attain my 1%. take that to the bank |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Bankowner: 10:02am On Nov 03, 2023 |
And if marrying the girl turns out to be a blessing to you, what will be your position on it? I can't even see love in this. Don't ask me if it is love you'll eat o! If you love the girl, you will look beyond her family's economic condition and pray to God that her coming into your life as bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh will favour you on all sides. 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Exceed15: 10:28am On Nov 03, 2023 |
If this factor is so important to you then drop her. Don't hurt her and family feelings. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Marynwachukwu21(f): 10:30am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Britishcoins:Marrying a poor girl is not the problem,the problem is that before you take the girl as your wife they'll have to give you their conditions for you to marry her and if you're not comfortable with it,you back off. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Britishcoins(m): 10:35am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Marynwachukwu21:The mother already said anyone that will marry her daughter is going to marry her too, meaning the person will equally take care of her.. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by immortalcrown(m): 10:41am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Free2Fly:You are not saying the truth here. Partners that are incompatible quarrel about money when they are poor and find other reasons to maintain the quarrel when they are rich. Compatible partners live in peace whether rich or poor. When poor people exhibit their bad attitudes, you wrongly blame poverty. When the same people become rich and continue with the bad attitudes, what do you say? |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Marynwachukwu21(f): 10:45am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Britishcoins:That's a big responsibility,am not surprised because in some cultures you'll marry the daughter and the family too while some is only their daughter but she'll have to show her face once in her a while.. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Raalsalghul: 10:54am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Aaaaarghmed: As in, the thing shock me. Men go suffer lift their selves finish come go carry another woman and her family load for head. No wonder they die young. Awon weight lifters. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Musty112: 11:00am On Nov 03, 2023 |
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Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Karleb(m): 11:10am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Britishcoins: God is your strength my brother 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by grandstar(m): 11:14am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Britishcoins Hmmmmm Marrying a girlfriend from a poor background isn't easy. It's.not just taking care of her parents but her siblings and atimes, her relations and friends as well. One or two of her siblings might want to stay with you. They might all want to come for celebrations like Easter or Christmas. Where there is a will, there is hope. I suggest you go ahead. As you assist one or two members of her family to become independent, the burden would become less. Eventually, you will become free. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Raalsalghul: 11:33am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Op, while I would advise against it, I would also say it depends on how deep your pockets are. You might be stickingly rich and taking care of the lady and her family might not make a dent on your finances. But saying you would not want your financial obligations to extend to her family is just wishful thinking. Use your tongue to count your teeth. |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by Aaaaarghmed(m): 11:37am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Raalsalghul:guys of nowadays dont like to update their life .if she has money more than you,she no go hesitate to call you a broke guy.no go even reason you.i never carry my family finish,na poor girl family I wan carry. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are The Dangers Of Marrying A Girl From Poor Family by ExudeLoveToAll: 11:37am On Nov 03, 2023 |
Wujio: He shouldn't be greedy with his money? Did you help him create wealth for him? When he goes down financially will you be there to raise him up? It's really appalling calling a man who loathe poverty and it's associated consequences greedy, very appalling. The thing most people don't know is that once you get married, your expenditure increases in geometric progression and if you keep your income to increase in geometric it gets to a time where the expenditure equals the income and thereafter a deficit budget will suffice. The OP recorgnises this fact and is looking for ways to increase his income streams and decrease his expenditure streams. Your partner can help you shore up this finance base as well as the intending family imyiu intend to marry from. If the family can fend for themselves, then there is little or no need to deplete your income in external expenditure streams but if they are not well to do you will automatically become the prayers answered for a "rich inlaw" and it's a recipe for stunted financial growth. OP there are different factors one considers while choosing a spouse, stability of the intending family is one of them, take your time and make an informed decision because any decisions you make now can make or mar your financial stability in the future. Even if your spouse may not be financially capable now, she must have the capacity to create and build wealth for the family. Anything short of this is a recipe for financial disaster in the future. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
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