sheesh2:
THE HONEST TRUTH

herlecks:
Yea. People like you call white black. You will be surprised as there were some like you. They were disappointed just like you will be.

@Herlecks, the day i saw this your comment i was itching to so reply but part of me said wait for Marvel65 to “say something” then reply herlecks.

I couldn’t see any sense in the way you responded to the lady. “People like you...” you mean people that have been telling you there is no merit in this recruitment. They were disappointed? When? I want to believe everyone here thinks but I’m having strong doubts.

Half of the info she dropped here is true and its correlates with what Marvel65 said. “replacement” was what was happening. So the next half is “is there a merit batch?” Sometimes i feel some people are not reading well or there is problem with their comprehension. Marvel65 didn't give an explicit confirmation about the “next list” being the “merit batch”. I honestly didn’t see anything to jubilate over in Marvel65’s comment.

Anyways She told you her “Honest truth”, so your “People like you....” comment was just out of place and it really ticked me off on her behalf but I’m in a very happy mood today so I won’t say all i planned to say to you. Nobody is stopping you from “waiting and hoping” but its obvious most people here would rather be served lies than the truth.

Like I said earlier people would believe what they want to believe irrespective of the evidence before them. So lets politely engage one another while we are watching this action-film to the end (till the portals close, then we would know the lairs amongst us)

Ambode badt boy

Kojey Radical - ‘97

I have a pending interview with one of the top three consulting firms; o boy the questions I dey see here are strong bones for strong teeth

Xtruzz:


Tell us the contradictory area pls.

If i were you in your shoes, I would probably quickly go to the backyard and pick about 5 people from this trend that are popular Meritist so they can testify here when APL start to flow

There is no need for me to point it out, some people can believe anything no matter the evidence in front of them.

They’ll see for themselves soon. Social Sciences I hail una oo

Till then, Au revoir

Xtruzz:
Stick to what we says. Plenty of you on this thread shall testify hopefully this or next week.

Xtruzz:
Don't bother about how many name's to be shortlisted. Pray for yours even if it's only 3names, yours should be conclusive.

Word Of The Day: Contradiction


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einsteine:
The reason is because many people in Nigeria believe in miracles.

You still see thousands of people apply for NDA, Immigration , etc (officer cadre) when only 3 or 4 per senatorial district would be selected. They all believe God would choose them ahead of others.

So they keep wasting their time.

Buy the truth and sell it not

If you are solely merit you have better odds of winning an oscar than getting on that list. Stakeholder candidates have better odds by a margin so wide, its like the gap between the rich and the poor in Nigeria

Believe it or not you need a miracle. I have accepted the fact that I need a miracle, the sooner you do same the better for you

Don’t allow yourself to be swayed by half-truths, which are being disbursed to make someone look good.

Last bullet: Don't bother about how many names to be shortlisted. Pray for yours even if it's only 3 names, yours should be inclusive.

People that don’t know any body in power but bought the merit story and have been ruminating on it, really have no idea how slim microscopic their chances are

Better cry to whichever “God” you serve and make sure He answers with a roaring voice like thunder. Na wetin me sef they do for here oo

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Many guys still insist on pregnancy before marriage to avoid stories that touch.

I’m not totally in support of pregnancy before marriage but if the man is ready to step-up to the responsibility and they are both on the same page no offense has been committed.

ibkayee:

I mean, it sort of is lol. Is it ‘right’ however? No

By the way, I’m talking about girls who lie and give whoever they’re sleeping with the impression that they’re taking certain precautions when they aren’t. I’m not talking about cases where she got pregnant by mistake because the pull out method didn’t work or they used a condom, birth control etc and she still got pregnant

Thats is just plain ol’ greed.

Right now I feel no iota of pity for any baby mama facing difficulty in life.

Nobody should interfere with what God is doing in her life

ednut1:
no one knows tomrw. She may be rich later or in d example person giv adopted. We don see married pple wey husband lose hin job or fortune too. Life goes on.

Hope is not a legal tender. Sure anything fit happen. She may be rich later but that child would need to eat now, school fees has to be paid now, he has to be clothed now, needs a father’s love now.

Make dem use sense for the matter.

ibkayee:
Ladies, lying to guys about using preventative measures like birth control when you aren’t or deceiving him by poking holes into condoms for example is wrong. Not only is it a terrible motivation for having a child, it won’t make him stay and even if he does, he end up resenting you.

Guys, a lot of you aren’t as proactive in preventing these pregnancies as you could be and then start whining about a pregnancy. Bring your own protection and put it on yourself, ‘pulling out’ is not a foolproof method so stop having unprotected sex if you don’t want a baby because there’s a possibility it could happen, pills aren’t 100% effective either.

Agreed, most guys aren’t proactive in preventing these pregnancies.

But what motivates these ladies is beyond me. This is a form of wickedness aswear. Cuz he is rich is not an excuse to make him the Messiah of her family.

ednut1:
Why e dey pain u lik this bros. Y d guy fuk without cd. If oyinbo finally introduce male contraceptive. Guys go use am Hell no

Brother e dey pain me aswear

Anything fit happen, tire fit burst as they are undertaking the journey.

I am more concerned about the child, Some of us know what is it to grow up on the hard side of life if not for Oluwa’s mercies and blessings wey dey make us smile now. Still we don’t wish that on another.

When I see one babe using her oloriburuku to bring a child into the world to suffer it fills me up with vexation

lefulefu:
Op be honest oo.if ur sister pregnant by mistake for Wale Adenuga's son will u complain?

At all. Provided that;

1) Wale Adenuga’s son wants to take responsibility for the baby. He is ready to be a father.
2) She has sat down to discuss the future with Wale Adenuga’s son and she thinks she’s on track.
3) It is clear beyond every reasonable doubt that Wale Adenuga’s son wants her in his future.

If the above is not the case, I would be the first to let her know OYO is her state.

Note: Ladies, if a man wants you in his future, he would put a ring on it ASAP in fear of losing you to another.

You can see how ladies just stayed clear of the trend

Babies are not born in few days, gestation takes several weeks. Enough time for you to think, align your life, get your plans together.

How most still come up short in terms of reasoning in this lengthy period of time is baffling

dingbang:
Can't even happen to me..

Bro, its her body. She is the one in charge of manufacturing the baby lol. You are at the mercy of her decision.

Lord save us all

Preshy561:
Nawa oo.

Please explain to us oo.

Why you think some ladies do this cuz na real wa oo.

OrestesDante:


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∆ My guys don dey wise up.

Any pregnant woman will have a safe delivery by God's grace....


When will some female folks learn that marriage itself is not an antidote for being single.

If you mumu na for your head ooo ∆


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Lool. I am hoping to hear from babes, at this point i can’t help thinking maybe they know something we don’t.

And which other guy wants to marry a babe with a child outside wedlock

Airforce01:


Oh so this thread is even about a nairlander

It’s really worrisome cause she created a topics to pour out her heart. Trust Nairalanders nobody paid her any attention.

She is jobless. The man she saw the “glory of God” in his life has relocated to another country. His mother doesn’t like her.... and other long list of calamities.

You decided you won’t take morning after pills.

You had a feeling after 2/3 weeks that you were pregnant, you didn’t take abortion pills.

You insisted you wanted the pregnant, even after you saw he wasn’t ready.

You had the child. Now you are nagging him for marriage, school fees, more love etc.

B!t@h are you crazy

Airforce01:


Most Nigerian girls are gold diggers

Be careful , Don't dull.

Na to dig the gold with sense naa.

This particular Nairalander that prompted me to create this topic. I just hope she doesn’t commit suicide

LuciferKristi:
This is where evening newspapers like pocohantas have the edge - they can't get pregnant cuz of menopause.

Lmao

Pocohantas is a working class big girl though. I know a babe that decided she wanted to get pregnant of her own accord.

She is 29, her parents are rich. She dey go America like person wey dey go Silverbird cinema. She works in a multi-national.

She got pregnant by the boyfriend, told her parents her plans then went ahead to have the child in a foreign country.

This is very much allowed because she has zero expectations from her boyfriend and she resides in this same Nigeria.

It works for some eg Wizkid’s baby mama. You can see the kind of irrational expenses (International trips, really expensive school for the child when cheaper ones are available, expensive apartment, shopping spree etc) the nigga is incurring just because one hoe babe decided she must have his child. Things she can’t afford, things father cannot afford to give her

She should count herself really lucky, I trust some niggaz even if they are richer than wizkid she go hear am

For some Ladies the situation is just sad, they tried to play this card and they end up in a sad frustrating situation

Airforce01:
Insist on condom if you ain't ready to father a child when next you guys are making out .

Brother e tire me, some of these ladies go as far as getting pregnant on purpose. Thinking he has a good job, he has a car and an apartment.

They wan calculate your money for you, using the child as leverage

I honestly can’t fathom the rationale behind it. I have to throw the question open. Why do some Ladies allow themselves to get pregnant hoping the man involved would get married to her.

Does she think he would love her just because she is pregnant for him?

Is it greed? Or just stupidity?

Is because he is comfortable, she feels he should be able to handle the responsibilities she is hauling his way?

Is there a mystical power that comes to her aid to imprison him in the chambers of her love when she gets pregnant for him?

If this was in 1998, I would have cut Ladies in these situation some slack but we are in 2018. Wide array of contraceptive are available, honestly I don’t understand the thought process behind these Ladies’ decisions.

Yes, the Ladies’ decision. You find out that even if their partners make it clear they not interested in having a child they still go ahead to bring forth a child into this already tainted world.

Soon after you would be hearing there numerous complaints and stories of regret.

I have been reading posts from a particular Nairalander, whose name I won’t mention and its rather sad.

She got pregnant for a guy, who wasn’t 100% in for it. He moved to another country, now she is in Nigeria weeping and hoping He comes for her

Maybe I am being biased, please share your opinion.

ishola14:
Rapper Lil Wayne‘s new album The Carter 5 is doing BIG NUMBERS.

In the midst of so many lies, atleast this is true.

I haven’t still recovered from the awesomeness of the track Mona Lisa (ft Kendrick Lamar)

That track was off the hinges


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QzY-j67a6Tg

I can’t honestly remember how i fell into this trend

Is it just me or most of the Ladies here reside in Anambra, it makes me wonder; what tha heck is going on in Anambra

ObaKlaz:
The enemy of my enemy is my... . Cardi is missing someone on that track: REMY MA. Damn! that girl totally dragged and destroyed Nicki Minaj on shEther! ''...pilliow-talking outta your ass, this bi.tch r.etarded". ''...you're animated like Nickelodeon''. ''...the only shot you ever took was in your buns''. "...after he said you sucked his d.ick, you back with Gucci? You a A-list groupie!''. ''...ni.ggas done seen Drake penning, Wayne penning, and since her first boyfriend left, b.itch ain't winning''. ''You f.ucked the whole EMPIRE. Who you tryna be, COOKIE?''

Fatality

“Merit”-People!! Especially if you applied for a Social Science Position, Please immediately you have your APL in hand kindly storm this trend to preach the good-news

https://www.nairaland.com/4758543/neva-apply-federal-government-job

I know by God’s grace, with my APL in hand I’d branch there to tell them “Do not conform to the patterns of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good, pleasing and perfect.”

You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time - Abraham Lincoln

Patience, the moment of truth is almost at hand; we shall all Marvel at the truth God’s will

hammer2010:
Honestly, I don't know how I reentered here.


Now old wound wey don dey heal don reopen small

Don’t tell me you applied for a Social Science Position

By now you should have heard from one or two of the ones with strong 5G connections, they have gotten their letter, some no even write test

At this point whether we pass test & interview, E no too matter even if you get 99% in both sef. They talk say make we go Pray

Na People wey pray pass go share the remnant from the Stakeholder candidates Table. As me no get anybody, me don dey fire high down on my MFM styled Prayers. God pass them

Marvel65:


Do not conform to the patterns of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Then you will learn to know Gods will for you, which is good, pleasing and perfect.

Good luck to you!

Thank You

I truly appreciate your effort, honestly.

I am sure DPR is the will of God for me and everyone else with really good scores on the test & interview, just like it was “God’s will” for the stakeholder candidates that got the job and didn’t even write test

You would make a great fire-fighter (na joke I dey oo ). I suspect you have a very important Job/Position in DPR though.

simplynace:


Baba, na Oluwa we get oooo...

Na wetin we get oo

I can’t help but ponder though, this exactly why the high and mighty would stay “high and mighty” and the commoner continually be a commoner in this Country.

Last last God will not come down and stop the people in power from taking bribe, buying and selling “favours” and doing “permutations and combination with the list”. Right now it looks like the whole of social sciences has been handed over to stakeholder candidates. All my friends that applied for social science positions have formatted DPR from the brain and moved on. The one that stressed himself to try check list claims that 80% of the names belong to people from a particular geographical area that is affiliated with Mr President If na God dey HR in flesh many hardworking sons & daughters of nobodies would be smiling now

I don’t need to see the list to know that 95% of the stakeholder candidates weren’t the best in the interview/test and there would be someone who performed better than them in their state/role that won’t be employed yet they have resumed

I am a Christian but also an unrepentant realist, some people would translate that if their names were replaced or “lost in transit” into God not wanting them to work in DPR. Big fallacy!

I do believe in the power of Prayers but what does the Good Book say about when a hungry man comes to you. Is it prayer that would fill his belly. Lets us all do what is right then our prayers would be uplifting

Make I no start sef before they go wan comot my name . Make we take our religion-based placedo siddon wait the final list

October will surely be a month to remember