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Please, go ahead. You have my blessings. There's absolutely nothing wrong. I mean, you guys have been dating for 4yrs.

It would be difficult to pinpoint the problem. I think you guys should visit a doctor to know exactly what the problem is. Didn't you notice any signs of slow development while she was growing up?

Why did the lady agree to fight someone much more bigger than her. That's suicide. The guy is even slow as fk. Look at those jabs from the lady. Anyways, proud to see a lady whooping a man's ass.

such a young lad. Probably overdose on aphrodisiac just to impress.

SILENTandSMART2:
Hmmmm, interesting

, yunno that the small cash dat davido will use to take care of himself and look good is not the same an onion seller will use, though you and I know say they will definitely look good


So aunty what are you talking about exactly

Like I said, be able to take care of yourself and afford the basics. You can't do that without 'small cash', you know?

Emeka71:
That means somebody doesn't even need to have much money before you can go into a relationship; and I'm here being afraid to relate with babes.

Yes, you don't need to be a millionaire before you get into a relationship or even marriage.

jelel6:
I said LARGELY, not SOLELY as you countered.

This your response painted two pictures:

In the first few paragraphs, you've attempted to define what the IDEAL conversation between two people (Guy and Lady in this case ) should look or feel like.

And in the latter part, you are vividly discribing the REALITY OF MOST CONVERSATIONS. The one which guys tend to, or have to take the initiative of striking, and keeping up the mood of the conversation with ladies.

Now, this is what I find interesting:

You've used words and phrases like I've highlighted above...

Now, why do I have to accomplish any of the above before I can strike or enjoy a fruitful conversation with a woman who's not my wife or girlfriend? - like a classmate, a neighbor, a coworker, or a stranger who may turn out a prospective friend?

[b]I mean, we should be able to talk about our mutual interests even though we only met a minute ago on a bus. [/b]As long as both parties feel respected while on it.

Heck, I don't think I've had to impressed you or you necessarily liked me for us to have this 'Conversation', or did I?

Absolutely, you can chit-chat with your coworkers, neighbours, strangers on the bus etc. It's normal. And that's a different scenario. Don't you do that without them having to process if they like you or not? But the moment they sense you're trying to get them or impressive them, it will be a different thing, you know? On the long run, if you're trying to impress a lady, her response boils down to if she likes you or not. And you know, people can be different when actually talking to each other physically vs via social media. I understand you. But we talking about conversation via social media. Like I said, people interact different according to the medium. "Why people behave the way they do during a conversation" is a deep question and they're a lot of factors contributing to this.

Capernum:
Who told you that her luck worked?
So that I accept a ring out of a staged proposal in a club for that matter means I have accepted to marry you? Am I mad? No serious guy will ever take a club girl for a wife.

That's it. Accept it and you have agreed to marry. You don't want to get home and tell the girl another thing. That's playing with fire.

Mypeople2:
Hmmm..Yet you ladies don't feel anything when you walk away from us, embarrassing us

Well, before you purpose to a lady in public and risk embarrassment, you must be sure that she will accept you.

SILENTandSMART2:
Hahahaha, this girl you made my day with hilarious laughing


What's small cash ?


Can you please define small cash for me ,

What a funny girl


Moreover OP the rest of your point is not valid except number 4, money is their main priority jare

Lol, small cash as in be able to take care of yourself and look good.

Roy Jones was annoying with the hugs. Even as he hasn't had a fight for 15 years, Tyson was as sharp as hell. It was just an exhibition fight, so it doesn't matter who won or lost.

jelel6:
I get your point. I really do. And I usually don't take extreme positions on a given issue so I'm not in support of the majority of the guy's popular notion on this.

However, do you realize that someone - like me - may interpret your submission as you suggesting that the fruitfulness or lack thereof, of a Discuss, Chat, Meeting, Brainstorming, etc, between a Guy and a Lady LARGELY DEPENDS ON THE CONVERSATIONAL SKILLs of The GUY?

If yes, why so?

I'm really looking forward to your response to this.

Well, I never said the outcome of a conversation depends solely on the guy. I'm sure my previous post isn't close to that by any tinge. If you read what I wrote, I blamed the both parties; the guys and girls. The outcome of a conversation depends on both individuals trying to communicate; communication shouldn't be one sided. Both have to be willing to talk and exchange idea between each other. It is not the sole responsibility of the guy to stir a conversation, although guys tend to take the lead, while the girl might sit, relax and the guy tries to impress. If you like talk and garnish you words like Shakespeare, if the girl isn't feeling you or you notice those short replies, just forget it and move ahead.

Lol smash and grab. She could have waited forever, but she tried her luck and it worked. It's risky tho. Imagine if the guy rejected her. I can't stand that kind of shame.

Well, not all girls. You have to understand that we have our attention divided and we can't please everyone, most especially if the lady is not feeling you. There's always a special somebody, or special set of people. But the truth be told, the way some ladies chat will bore most guys. Some guys too don't know how to chat. Ask open ended questions that will require her to express herself. Not yes and no questions. Some guys will also bore you to death. But if you're the kind of guy that knows the art of communication and know how to pull the strings, you're going to intrigue most intelligent ladies. And always know when to end the conversation; don't drag a dying conversation for too long.

Op, I have one question. How old are you?

Just be nice and caring and also have small cash. That's all.

She's pretty.

There's hope for Nigeria.

This is a new one. Lets be very vigilant this festive period and mind the kind of people we decide to hang out with. Deals like these, I'd rather meet in a public place. Go to the location, I'll meet you there. No need to pick me.