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FamilyRe: Why Ladies Hardly Change Their Surnames After Marriage These Days by Brownpeanut(f): 10:12am On Feb 04, 2021
If, eventually, I get married to Dangote, I will change my name under 2 days
CrimeRe: Teenage Girl Wants Surname Changed After Being Raped By Her Dad by Brownpeanut(f): 9:47am On Feb 04, 2021
Yeecar:
My brother the rate at which women do evil is increasing..... I strongly believe in the law of karma.
A man rapes his daughter, and you're bold enough to comment this.
CrimeRe: Teenage Girl Wants Surname Changed After Being Raped By Her Dad by Brownpeanut(f): 9:44am On Feb 04, 2021
Rape cases are high these days. So many hor.ny goats roaming around. If you balls is scratching you, enter the nearest brothel.
PhonesRe: It's Either SAMSUNG Or IPHONE by Brownpeanut(f): 8:27am On Jan 27, 2021
ngadaAwo:
the phone trashed galaxy s10 on performance wise including antutu benchmark

What i love about the phone is the boombox speaker (oled speaker)
and the secure sharp face unlock (similar to that of iPhone)

the phone na truly sexy beast
Oh, really? I've always wondered why the speakers were this great. I also love the phone's screen. And with all these stuffs, it's still cheap.
PhonesRe: It's Either SAMSUNG Or IPHONE by Brownpeanut(f): 9:09am On Jan 26, 2021
You're misinformed. I use an LG G8 ThinQ, and it's a sexy beast.
FamilyRe: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Brownpeanut(f): 8:59am On Dec 30, 2020
CsRockefeller:
First, you all ladies have it totally wrong as it regards your role as a wife.

Start from there, what's your role in the marriage, what are your responsibilities, what should the man bring, what are his responsibilities. You do not need to love him to marry him, that's his job.

Can he protect you? Can he protect and provide for your children? Can he love you?

I see many ladies today (my sisters included) clocking away in the name of waiting for prince charming. You said your guy loves money and is arrogant, that money isn't important among others, later you will find the one that has among others but doesn't have the money.

See, ladies these days should stop acting like a gambler or a chess master, does he love you? Can he provide? Every other thing is secondary.

I don't want to type too much but if you insist on loving him then I can tell you that love grows as the marriage grows, it's the same phenomenon with everything around you,your job, your church and co.

Did you know that Jesus finally called his disciples "friends" moments before his death even after they had spent 3 years with him. Do you know he chose them and all they had to do was obey based on conviction from his miracles?

Any other feeling is just your emotions playing games with you and in the end, you will get burnt I can bet my life savings on it. I have seen this over and over again.

Let him choose you, let him love you, let him show that he can protect and provide for you, yours is just to submit to him and you all will leave happily ever after.
Thank you for this wonderful write-up!
FamilyRe: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Brownpeanut(f): 8:45pm On Dec 29, 2020
Mariangeles:
It is different for a woman.

Apparently, men can make a decision to love, but as far as I know, women fall in love.

A lady once shared her story about marrying a man because of how good he was, thinking she would fall in love with him after they were married, but that did not happen.
No matter how good, kind and caring the husband was to her, she just couldn't bring herself to fall in love with him. Even to like him was difficult for her.
His presence became irritating to her.
She was going crazy, and wanted out.
You're correct. As a lady, I get drained trying to force myself to love someone I obviously don't. Going into marriage with someone you don't feel a thing for is a risk not worth taking.
FamilyRe: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Brownpeanut(f): 8:33pm On Dec 29, 2020
CsRockefeller:
I wanted to type an epistle but on a second thought, experience will teach you better.
Go on, share your thoughts.
FamilyRe: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Brownpeanut(f): 8:25pm On Dec 29, 2020
descarado:
Because u are not telling yourself the truth kiss

What is your definition of love?

Your moniker is f so I assume you are a female so let me ask u as a female what makes you love a man?
First of all, I don't believe in that love at first sight stuff. And before we date, we'd get to know each other. In that process, a person's personality alone can make me fall in love. There has to be a spark; an attraction, that tingling feeling. When that happens, I know that there's something about you I'm willing to explore. And voila!! The process of dating begins. Lol, I know what I'm saying grin It's difficult to explain.
FamilyRe: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Brownpeanut(f): 8:11pm On Dec 29, 2020
Farki:
Spoilt rich kid or workaholic hustler?
Yeah, kind of rich, spoilt, and arrogant.
FamilyRe: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Brownpeanut(f): 8:09pm On Dec 29, 2020
Pelxmiye:
Hmmmm...okay...the age and timw we live in has shown that money matters at least 90 percent for any modern marriages to work
Money matters, but there are other things, too.
FamilyRe: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Brownpeanut(f): 7:53pm On Dec 29, 2020
descarado:
U can't date someone u don't love shocked shocked
Yes, I can't. Why are you surprised?
PoliticsRe: IMF: Nigeria Remains Largest Economy In Africa, 26th In The World by Brownpeanut(f): 7:46pm On Dec 29, 2020
Largest economy in Africa, poor masses; it's paradoxical.
FamilyRe: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Brownpeanut(f): 7:43pm On Dec 29, 2020
Farki:
Is he ugly?
No, he isn't. He's this kind of guy that thinks money is all that matters.
FamilyRe: Must I Fall In Love Before I Marry? by Brownpeanut(f): 7:34pm On Dec 29, 2020
I thought I was the only one finding hard to fall in love. But how can you marry someone you don't love? There's this guy that has been pestering me. He has everything a woman can ever hope for, but I don't just feel anything for him; or love him. I can't date someone I don't love not to talk of marrying them.
PhonesRe: (UPDATE!!)Xiaomi Users Come And Save A Brother This Xmas, Phone Is Having Issue by Brownpeanut(f): 10:54am On Dec 17, 2020
biztyb:
This one weak me o grin
You guys are doing a very good hatchet job. I'm sure your aim is to talk trash to get the page moving. Have you solved all the problems on Infinix and tecno's thread?
FoodRe: Has Anybody Noticed This? by Brownpeanut(f): 1:30pm On Dec 10, 2020
Zzor:
He should look for some lady around to help him do that, its only very stingy men that are always patronising the market
You never fail to disappoint with your lame and annoying comments. He should look for a lady, really?
RomanceRe: Worst Thing You’ve Found, From Checking Your Partner’s Phone by Brownpeanut(f): 2:51pm On Dec 09, 2020
Gay porn.
Christianity EtcRe: Let’s Talk About Aliens And UFO by Brownpeanut(f):
I believe Aliens are real. Op, since nobody can see them except you, it seems it's your village people following you and not Aliens.
HealthRe: Help! I Look Older Than My Age by Brownpeanut(f): 4:25pm On Dec 07, 2020
You need to eat, exercise, and sleep well. And it might just be your nature. Do you have siblings? Are they facing this same issue?
RomanceRe: 7 Reasons Ladies Prefer Bad Boys by Brownpeanut(f): 7:42pm On Dec 06, 2020
Bad boy for boyfriend, a good man for marriage. grin
CelebritiesRe: Malivelihood & Deola Smart's Wedding Cake Took N4M, 4 Months & 12 Bakers To Make by Brownpeanut(f): 7:37pm On Dec 06, 2020
Four months cake, will it taste fresh? If it will, I'll start baking my cake a year before my marriage. And the cake will be a life-sized replica of me and my hubby.
CelebritiesRe: Esthersky: Ned Nwoko Must Marry Me - Lady & Family Campaign by Brownpeanut(f): 8:55am On Dec 06, 2020
AuntRose:
When a man shows interest in a lady it is okay but when the reverse is the case she's an olosho huh huh

It's pathetic and embarrassing how Nigerian men reason most times. Men are only allowed to do the hunting and relationship territorial defense right??
Isn't it overt? This lady right here just wants Ned for his money. That's what people call gold diggers.
CelebritiesRe: Princess Onyejekwe: Ned Nwoko Tried To Marry Me. I Refused; I Didn't Have Sense by Brownpeanut(f): 6:44pm On Dec 04, 2020
Pelxmiye:
It does, it's just harder these days, besides , everyone is guiding their hearts extra carefully these days, I believe it would only get harder, but it does exist
You're correct!
CelebritiesRe: Princess Onyejekwe: Ned Nwoko Tried To Marry Me. I Refused; I Didn't Have Sense by Brownpeanut(f): 5:41pm On Dec 04, 2020
I don't think love still exists.
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by Brownpeanut(f): 11:59am On Nov 30, 2020
fineguy11:
I don't really care for camera, but it's more than satisfactory. Performance is really smooth, battery life is Excellent.One of the best decision I made this year is getting a redmi fone smiley
Oh, really? Okay cheesy. I'll check it out. I just need a good camera and a device that just works. Coming from iPhone 7, I just want something better. I'm trying Android this time.
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by Brownpeanut(f): 11:36am On Nov 30, 2020
fineguy11:
I got the redmi note 9s(6/128) for 97k last week..Good device.it sells for 96,300 via Jumia now.
Nice. I'll check it out. How's the camera quality and overall performance?
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by Brownpeanut(f): 11:23am On Nov 30, 2020
genius43:
When you ask this kind of questions do well to included your budget.

We have Xiaomi devices of over 400k.
Oh, okay. My budget is 100k.
HealthRe: Help My 12 Years Old Cousin Can't Recollect Things by Brownpeanut(f): 11:11pm On Nov 29, 2020
Hantonia:
it was later that it was noticeable
Okay. I'm sure you guys will find out more if you visit a doctor.
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by Brownpeanut(f): 10:40pm On Nov 29, 2020
Brownpeanut:
I have a question. Are Xiaomi devices as good as people claim they are? I would love to get one with good camera. Can anyone suggest?
PhonesRe: The Xiaomi Thread. by Brownpeanut(f): 10:30pm On Nov 29, 2020
I have a question. Are Xiaomi devices good as people claim they are? I would love to get one with good camera. Can anyone suggest?

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