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[quote author=Mynd_44]You people really need to stop fantasizing over your lists. Most people will eventually settle for less than 50% of what they have on their list so what is the point in wasting your time compiling lists?[/quote]Maybe a superficial list but five things about someone's character isn't much to ask....

acidtalk: Ladies and Gentlemen, From the below list, What will you consider to be your 5 most important priorities before deciding to settle down with your partner?


1) Financial Independence
2) Physical Look
3) Practising Believer
4) Family Background
5) Romantic
6) Funny
7) Patience
Non Drinker/Smoker
9) Extrovert /Introvert
10) Friendly / Sociable
11) Good Listener / Advicer
12) Hardworking
13) Neat
14) Well Connected
15) Good Home Maker
16) Repectful
17) Very Patient
18) A Goal Getter
19) Trust
20) Generous

1. God fearing
2. Honest
3.kind
4.funny and likes to joke around
5. Hard worker

Why not just get married at a place that is equal distances between both places. That way two people win.

silvaspecs: This is gradually eating becoming an issue τ̲̅ǿ ♍ε̲̣̣̣̥. ȋ̝̊̅ went τ̲̅ǿ a cousine's house and he was out, just τ̲̅ǿ find his wife sleeping and after a while she began singing this ringtone while sleeping. ȋ̝̊̅ felt quite embarrassed and S̶̲̥̅Ơ̴̴̴̴̴̴͡ ȋ̝̊̅ tried τ̲̅ǿ put myself in his shoe, and just couldn't imagine what I'd do ȋ̝̊̅f ȋ̝̊̅ were him. Can it be stopped once started?

Easy. Just tell her not to sleep on her back. Try on the side.

moonraker: Waking up!!!!

Nice pic hun!

mikefem58: Me, Omo Gidi(Eko)

I swear you look familar.

MsDarkSkin: Like I said, you can't help who you love.

BUT you have a GOOD point.

Lol well if he loves me he better get a belt for them britches. I'm not saying he has to be urkel but don't run around with them at your ankles either.

edwrad50: Nigerian Mentality. Ok ok ok let's break this down. What if 50cent, Kanye west, Juelz, Santana, rick ross, Big sean, Birdman, Drake, Lilwayne ask you for a date, wld u say u can't date em cos they're not men?..... Remember they all sag "True Religion" jeans worth over $5,000usd and wear earing Studs that are worth millions of dollars, own mansions and estaste ur 100th generation would never come to live in,.. plus they're over 30years..... Nigerians need to grow up. Like seriously ya'll need to grow up and quit all these lame talks... #GBAM#

Say no just because you don't want to catch a disease. More than one person you named has been known to sleep around.

I can handle an earring even though my mother can't but sagging pants is childish and shows he is a follower and I only like leaders. That mess started in prisons to let prisoners know who was gay. Yuck right?

hegokillme: The first time i met him he asked if i was nigerian, i told him no i am from ivory coast.once i told him that he pratically almost walked away from me and i grab his arm to ask what was wrong with that.he said nothing with a big smile on his face and told me how beautiful i was.later on he asked for my number and our relationship went on from there. The down side is he only talked to me and called me when his family and friends were not around and when he is alone. he is pratically hiding me from them and i think its because i am not nigerian. he also doesnt want me anywhere near his mom or sis. when he is on vacation he ignores me for a whole two month or 4 month ,than come back with an excuse that he was depress when he is really on a vacation with his frds/family as i see on facebook. i have dumped him 5 times ,but he keeps on bagging to come back saying i don't understand him at all and i am ungrateful since he buys me stuff.After he ignores me for months he tells me i own him sex and makes it my fault after his dumb excuses don't work.


so i ask these question

does he not want me near his frds/family because i am not nigerian?

is he using me only for his pleasure, since he can ignore me for four month?

i love him and i think he is funny but he is really killing me inside and i don't think he has the intentions of marrying me. but i wanna know am i overreacting.

He sounds like a cheater hun. All the signs are there dump that zero. If he is caught up on you not being nigerian then dump him anyway. What a loser. Black people all over the world get hung up over the dumbest things. Either we don't like each other because of our skin color or hair texture or we are stuck on nationalities. Smdh!!

Give them the one I had disconnected.

Oh he is busted!!! Ps why is he looking for men?? Is he on the down low? #questionsthatneedanswers

solidbroda: Churches that market their programs as if they want to sell big time like mimi and indomie.
Churches that tell you first thing in the morning about tithe and offering.
Churches that encourage mini skirt, and all kinds of flamboyant dressing.
Churches that encourages material competition.
Churches that you cannot afford to send your kids to their private schools after your contributions.
Churches that would hardly donate to charity, or even if they do, it is just to promote themselves.
Churches that would always tell you what you want to hear.
Church leaders who only prophesy footbal, bad things to occur without providing way out. sign of marketing their churches.
Jerry coils church filled pastors.
Churches were ladies put on skirt that would flatter their figure so much that the church would ignore.
Churches in which the choir master bleeps almost all the choir ladies and yet the man is still serving.
Churches that would preach about salvation ones in a year.
You can add yours too

Lol preach! But still go to church though because staying close to God is essential.

Bring her to new york city and put her on the maury povich show! Kmsl! No just kidding but ask her what's the deal.

if he does, then he was childish to begin with.

If they are, then they should look into dating black guys that aren't from nigeria.

Omg girl your life is like one of those nollywood movies and you tell it well! Girl she is a sneaky person who may deserve a beatdown! He thinks he can buy love so he is pathetic. Let them have each other cuz karma is a b...ch! Hun I hope he goes broke so he can see she is only with him for money and when he has none she will be gone. Idk what her karma will be but it will be good because God always takes care of people who hurt others on purpose. Geez what a tale! You did nothing wrong because who wants to feel rushed into a relationship. My last boyfriend was like that and trust if you let him do it in the beginning then he will try it all through the relationship.

davidylan: hmm a logical response would have shocked me.

Lmao! Look if you're going to be here stop chasing the whites, hating the blacks, and learn about the other cultures who live here. Take a spanish class and you will know what was said.

davidylan: Your lack of a coherent response besides the childish come-backs you would expect from a 5 yr old rugrat speaks volumes of your own school system and far less about mine.
You keep bleating about whites being the largest race by numbers on welfare rolls, forgetting the clear influence of sample size. You would think stat class was compulsory for high school kids.

Comebacks o_0 yeah ok I guess that what we will call facts.

davidylan: Again you seem impervious to reason.
Let me repeat. By sheer numbers, whites make up the largest race on welfare rolls (38%) while blacks make up about 37%.
HOWEVER when you look in terms of proportion, it makes sense to have more whites on welfare since they make up over 70% of the population while blacks are barely 12%.

Its simple proportion, we were taught this as early as 6 yrs old.

Doesn't say much for that school system does it?

davidylan: 1. Lets be clear, blacks were used as slave labor by whites to build America. Blacks, by themselves, DID NOT build America. Please dont confuse the two.

2. What inventions from you changed the world? Please list 2 important ones.

3. Your political stance on issues has resonated around the world? my friend dont make me laugh here pls.

Kmsl ta loca!

davidylan: where am i forcing my perception down her throat? I just stated facts.
where did you get the impression i dont like black americans? My gf is black american.

Are you certain you're not a redneck Kmsl!

davidylan: Sincerely speaking i do not hate them. Some of them are my very good friends. I get frustrated with those who thumb their noses at Africa simply because they are lucky to piggy back on the success of european whites.

You don't know american history very well. If you did you would know that black slaves built america up. Our inventions changed the world. Our politic stance on many issues has resonated around the world.

davidylan: Close to 40% of welfare rolls are black... now consider blacks only make up about 12% of the total population.
38% of welfare rolls are white, however whites are more than 70% of the US population. You do the math.

9% of the white population lives below the poverty line, compare that to 25% of blacks. You do the math.

Surely you are using outdated data recent info has proven that blacks are not the majority drawing off of the feds.

davidylan: use your brain for 2 secs. Note i said - relative to population size. Yes more white recieve majority of welfare funding BECAUSE the country is almost 80% white. However, as a proportion of population, MORE BLACKS are on welfare than whites. Simple math... i thought you said you are a college graduate.

STILL NOT ACCURATE! What population in what area of the country are you referring to?? I've got all night dear

davidylan: and how many tyler Perry movies do you find in German theatres? Lets be honest, remove the US market... how popular do you think Kanye would be in china, Korea or Finland? Get serious!
Its amazing that the only things you can seriously point to are music styles that promote violence, mediocrity and gender abuse.

You gotta be michael blackson cuz you are funny.

davidylan: The shaming tactic in full use. Not working sis.
See, a point of view is not "dumb" simply because it does not agree with yours. I thought mature people knew that but i must be mistaken.

Have you asked yourself why blacks make up an inordinate number (relative to population size) of those on the welfare and prison rolls? Have you wondered why the only time you see blacks in corporate America is after 7pm when the cleaning crew come in?
These are facts not dumb perspectives.

Now I'm dying laughing because you do not know all of YOUR facts! While blacks do make up a large number of the prison population, WHITES ARE THE ONES RECEIVING THE MAJORITY OF WELFARE FUNDING!! Guess its time for a road trip out of detroit huh??