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STAGES OF LIFE AND HOW YOU'RE TREATED©
By :
Ayandele Oluwabori Peter.


Introduction: this is about life. Your past, present, and future.
Your journey so far in life and what to do to have an astounding future.
Read and enjoy it.
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At the early stage of life, you experience celebration, warm kiss, cool smile, much love, pamper, and proper care. Gradually, growth occurred and all the caring stories diminished with a gradual process (growth is already involved ). This particular time, age determines the amount of love we receive from people, especially our family members.
They've forgotten when the happy tears was rolling from different cheeks and the cost of ceremony...no matter the amount.
Random calls and random check ups, gaps takes effect unannounced, this means you're neglected to live alone in the world of darkness.
Boom!! We're left alone to face the reality just as it has been and always be!
FREEDOM STAGE:
This remains the most wanted stage of life.
Many youth love to be in this stage where they have their own time, go out for enjoyment and come in at late hours of night. Live on their own and enjoy every part of life.
With all sincerity, this stage is the most important stage in life and it is very crucial to the development of our life on earth.
Many people fail to make it in their lifetime at this essential stage. A lot of things happen and we feel there's time ahead of us buckle up in the sense of making future corrections, hoping for better occurrences in future..
A stage where no one cares about your existence, you suffer alone, reason alone, think of your hopeless past and suffer addictions with several empty promises but you won't know what pushes you into it. This at times does not work with prayers(note: not saying prayers does not work) but works only with your own sincerity and decisions. One thing to note here is: determination without decision is as useless as a toothless dog with a frog voice. If a good care is not taken, these addictions will cut your journey short. Know yourself!!!

Your lonely mind: what you do comes from your mind.
Most times we feel alone even no matter how crowded our environment is.
A stage of life where happiness comes, sadness comes.
You're happy without a reason or even with reasons. Suddenly, sadness rams in and your happiness becomes tears. Most people pass through this stage.
Your mind travels far and you smile as if everything is cool.
At times, it seems like you're not making any progress in life due to environment you find yourself and all the efforts put in place are not showing. The saddest part is when you remember where your mates are, even if they are not okay, you hope there're perfectly okay. The truth is everybody hides one thing or the other from the world, in short we all have problem underneath. At times you loose focus but you still hope for a better tomorrow.

Stage of swimming in the wide stream of your past:
Before going far in this stage, what is past?
With my own view, past is what you are no longer capable of. That is a simple meaning of past.
With all sincerity, we have different past and different directions in which we are heading to. If we can do without comparison and competition our future is bright.
Talking about suffering or swimming in the wide stream of your past, you're not alone in this category. some people prefer their past to their current situation. There's nothing wrong with your past when there's what we call smoothness from day one of your life till your present moment. The only thing that will spoil the whole show is when there're some scratches .
We suffer from our worst past and pray for ways to get rid of it in our mindset.
Some people also suffer from the good past because things have already turned the other way round for them in their recent moments.
What to do: if you're the type that had a good past, focus on your future and make it more better than your past. Pray and work to get all your lost glories, cool moments you had in the past, memories and other ease you've been through.
Work, focus, allow determination to get yourself normal back and rename your once ever flourished self.
Bad past? Nothing to worry about.
The fact that you had a bad past doesn't mean you do not deserve a promising future.
A worst past demands a greater future.
You need to break some protocols, rules, assertions and all sort of negative side of life becoming hereditary.
Once you know where you're coming from, it is easy to know where you're going to.
The way you dream, the way you become. Dream big to get the fair side of life.
Stage of breakthrough:
After all you've been through just to make it, after sleepless nights, after drawing series of scale of preference just to save costs, after deprivating yourself of many things and you finally made it, familiarisation looms. People will surely familiarise you, they ring your phone, seek the good side of you and boast with your name, chant your name...this can only happen when you've scale through all the stages of life and the treatment given irrespective of what your future holds.
Dear, nothing suddenly comes from heaven or accidentally fall without a huge sacrifice behind it or effect being made to make a better end.
The only thing that won't be kind to humanity is that after all these treatments, and your future hold nothing good, life is rendered useless.
Lastly; know who you are.
Success cost something, failure cost something, choose the one you're ready to give.
Go out, the world is waiting for you, run away from dream killers and stand firm, you have a future.
Remember: we fight different battles in life because our aspirations and goals are different.







Thanks for reading!
See you at the top.


By Ayandele Oluwabori Peter


For observation, please reach me out on:
Ayandelepeter18@gmail.com