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it has bin long comin, d present administration n d okwute lead has set d ball rolling so expect more frm whr this is cumin. Am alrdy tnkn bout a biz to set up thr...tht is so cool

evegran: Then invest in yourself and make yourself more desirable and you'd be wanted as a lover not a brother. .

so u r sayin cos sum fancy guy manuevered u into his bed meant he is worth more than ur bro...wow goes a long way in defining ths frnzone thn in ur mind

d reason y sum peeps fight to keep naija like a birdnest is cos it ll be a level playing ground, whch ll b bout d fittest n u knw who dey r...ibe anyi

ogini i ma ndi anyi bu

Cecediva: I will like to bring this topic for discussion.

I hear some guys guys say I can date a lady but I can't marry her when is time for me to marry

OR

Some ladies say he's just good for dating when am ready for marriage I can't marry him.


So why date someone you can't marry for a long time?


Your opinions please

by long tym u mean? I want tym frame

Oxone: couldn't have said it better

thrs always more

angela98: yeah you are right to an extent. But its not always the case
You might have everything you want in a relationship but cannot fight the natural forces of sexual attractions. That is where self discipline comes in. Humans ain't perfect everyone has there own point of weakness.

weakness is wht u feel after running down d steps of a ten storey building carelessness is talking to sumone tht is nt urs, visiting d prsn goin into a room n taking off ur clothes. Now thts carelessness n cheating

TheBigUrban2:

Were you trying too hard to be funny?

u were too concerned but get ready for d jugular

TheBigUrban2: That is harsh!

No slaps abeg! That is assault.

i tnk d slaps r literal...am for it

TheBigUrban2: Chibok? I resemble soldier?

u seem to b doin a lot of lookin lately so i am of d opinion sambisa mite b spot on if u look thr(arms in d air)

Oxone: Hell No! its in the past, let it remain there but try and be better but again NEVER CONFESS!



Contrary to what people like to believe, nobody wants the complete truth all of the time. its just the way we are made and some people lie to protect the ones they love.

yes whn an african buries d truth it stays dead-d dead stay dumb. But peeps like me n u ll neva let dis kinda bliv go away again hw can u protect sum1 u harmed in first pllace

if who am wt is nt cute i mite wanna hang wt d cute one. If she is nt d sex crazy type, outdoor type, d list goes on OR am just hungry of waters. U knw

angela98: hmm! I Dont understand

cheatings comes as a case of finding wht u dnt currently ve in ur relationship or mere polygamy

TheBigUrban2: 1) Complaining not "b1tch**g"

2) They were lying about themselves and I am making an astute observation of that

u knw u cud channel ths energy on find chibok gals u knw.lol

angela98: it depends on your own definition of cheating and how u perceive it. I am not in the position to judge whether its good or bad to cheat. Let the individuals involved be their judge of that.

u knw peeps dnt just go out n cheat, it boils down needs of all sorts, dnt u tnk d thn tht made u stray might repeat it self if u dnt bare ursef?

TheBigUrban2: Same level, howwww?

u ll b bitchin lik em

angela98: I am one person who careless to know whether my partner is cheating or not. People and upbringings are different. How we perceive life as individuals differs. I am not the type who goes through her partners phone, or monitors his movements. I haven't got time for all that shitty emotionally inconveniencing attitude. I respect my partner and expects same respect from him. Relationship should never be a prison or a cage. Humans ain't perfect. There should be room for forgiveness, adventure and effective communication. If I decide to cheat on my partner I can't tell him because it will hurt him. There are issues that are better left undisclosed.
I do not want to know about his either. Its called respect. Its not a movie relationship but a reality.

u r more like sayin its ok to cheat, lock up, smile n act like u aint drop a nickle?

let it go bro its d social ntwk, if u keep goin like ths i guess bfr u kwn it u r on d same level wt em

MaziOmenuko: Let sleeping dogs lie abeg! Unless the person you cheated with is threatening to expose you. It will be more painful if your partner finds out that way so its better you come clean.

u r on a page of mine. Tukin outta experience

fyi gals always knws whn its in ur hrt to marry em...its wired in em

ddnt quite say no just pointed out expertly d areas wch am nt quite ready @...i ddnt take it lightly initially but played out later guess tht ws God orchestrating salvation 4 me

Naetochukwu: Seriously I don't care if my BF cheats on me, he has his life and I have mine to live and you don't expect me to stalk him just so he wouldn't cheat.
Well you might be right that if I don't care while dating I might not care while married but truth be told, marriage itself is not a do or die affair. I believe that a man sees smth worth it in me that required him taking me to the altar so if he nolonger values the rltnshp and decides to cheat I might as well walk out...
Can't trust a cheating hubby

u ll agree wt me tht this nt nt in d western world unless u reside in one of em countries. Whn u r married it bcums diffrnt n keepin ur man is d 1st job.winks

Tallesty1: I'm not talking about chronic liars, what I meant was telling one lie to avert a huge problem, you grab. Let's say you went to a party, took a few shots of alco, one thing led to the other and then shit happened, do you just run home and tell your wife? Hell NO. What to do is, regret, forgive yourself and repent.

pointer u knw say some peeps live in naija as if they r americans

haitto99: The best thing dat ever happened to me

is tht d name of an animal?

Naetochukwu: Who cares? As long as am not married to u, you are free like a bird but when I am married, I won't tolerate a cheating man and might walk out of the rltnshp once I discover u cheated.

u r makin me scared now. How can u nt care? Na d way u train ur sef whn u r nt married b d way u go b whn marry. If u tolerate a cheatin bf u wud tolerate a cheatin man gbam. Lastly trust me on ths one to walk out on marriage in naija is crack n knack so dnt ever wish tht on ur sef

Hw do Ɣ☺ΰ̊ respect my feelings by lying to mε̲̣̣̣̥[/quote]tht ma sis is d weird part.lol

[quote author=Tallesty1]Never cheated, never will but methinks some things are better left unsaid, especially whn u r sure that s/he is never gonna find out. Person wey no dey lie to his woman no get respect for her feelings...wow am kinda flabagasted at ur point of view...tnk its kinda weird n at d same tym cool. U r definitely on one of ma pages...real nigerian

in a case where you cheated on your hubby, boy or girl friend can u go to him/her with it and confess? Well i am on two pages about it but wanna hear your opinion 1st

a prophet is not appreiciated in his homeland. We pull d same tricks we pull on d streets everyday wt youse but e dun too regular wit una. They r still new 2 d game of naija guys...winks

Elliotwiz1: its Not every male that do those things

guy fem la bush

AdekunleBalogun: I formally used Airtel on my blackberry, don't make calls wit it, don't even send an sms wit it. Av dropped the line now when I discover another network actually provide more data and their network is more fast in my area. Many of my colleague are switching to other networks now. Airtel will be the looser on this one.

bros a beg wch ntwk b tht

brosss: Yes, by all means do forgive her, as a matter of fact, you must find it in you to forgive her and your friend.

But I believe the question you meant to ask is, should you get back together with her..... Now that my friend is the million dollar question.

on point let it go by forgiving her so u wud b free from tht cage...tht ma man is when u move on. its called "moving on" for a reason