Family › Re: Do You Find Ladies Intimidating? by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:48am On Oct 19, 2014*. Modified: 9:30am On Oct 19, 2014 |
Richiy: I could get carried away by the clarity and conciseness of your sentences. But, I wouldn't be blown away. Lol.
Anyways, that behavior isn't always honest. Most people that act that do it either out of extreme pride or out of chance. Doesn't seem too honest to me.
It is spontaneous alright but as for being smooth, a lot of them need lessons.
And for it being very normal...to the teenage age bracket, acceptable. Otherwise, unacceptable.
Well thought out seem more mature and understanding.
Finally, all I said is my opinion about it and it is subject to personal modifications. That's true, its not always honest. But...it doesn't matter. Why? Because the part of your brain that processes that sort of data is... let's say, not very smart. We can have this logical, intellectual conversation here for as long as we want. But in real-life, your more powerful emotions and pre-programmed instincts will override your intellect. Women are not stupid, but they still date 'jerky' guys and even guys who abuse them physically. And its for a reason they really can't control In Biology, there's something called 'Honest Signals', and it usually has to do with mate selection. An example is the peacock's flamboyant tail feathers. That's no accident. A fully pímped peacock is saying to all the peahens within 'eye-shot', "despite this excess appendage, that makes it more difficult for me to escape predators; despite these bright colours that make me stand out to hunters, I AM STILL ALIVE!". "I must be shít!"That's an honest signal that cannot be easily be faked. So the hens line up to receive his seed. They are programmed to respond in that manner. Keyword being programmed. Humans too, like all other animals, also have automatic, pre-programmed responses to these 'honest signals'. Think about 'make-up' and surgical implants for a minute. Why are they so effective? Because they mimic honest signals (that indicate youth and fertility), which in a primitive, ancestral environment were very hard or near impossible to fake. That's why, we're still powerfully drawn to women with implants, even though we intellectually know they are fakes. Everything Obama does is 'fake'. His gestures, speaking pattern, volume, smile, etc are all engineered for you to perceive him in a certain way - and it works flawlessly. Wow, already a long post. Let's just say that when a guy who behaves like cooger meets you in real life. You will just perceive him as warm, friendly and masculine. |
Family › Re: Do You Find Ladies Intimidating? by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:40pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
coogar: you must be very intelligent....
well-thought out approach can be so mechanical & if the woman has heard the scheme before, the whole plot fails even before it takes off. nah, I can always rely on my wits to sail me through & it's never failed me. Yes, and to be most precise, you are are actually relying on your instincts. It has 'never' failed you because deep down in your core, as a man, you know how to be charismatic, and how to be a pímp. Thinking fvcks up that natural rhythm. |
Business To Business › Re: Where Can I Buy This Kind Of Glass Jar In Nigeria? by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:09pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
babygirlfl: Please where can we buy this kind of glass jar in Nigeria? Just buy jam, and once it's finished, you have your jar. Honey is also packaged in similar containers...check Shoprite. |
Family › Re: Do You Find Ladies Intimidating? by BuddhaPalm(m): 11:00pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Flytefalls I see you! |
Family › Re: Do You Find Ladies Intimidating? by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:57pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Richiy: Confidence is when I see a genuinely and well thought out approach. Not something by the roadside to prove you are "man enough". Doesn't freak me Walahi. I think you miss his point lil' miss. When someone acts the way he means, its honest, spontaneous, smooth and come across as very NORMAL. Well, because it's normal. Well thought out, on the other hand, always seem contrived, mechanical and even creepy. |
Family › Re: Do You Find Ladies Intimidating? by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:46pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
Intimidating ke? EVERY women is my little sister.
Yes...including my mum. |
Computer Market › Re: Laptop PowerBank (96,000mAH) with USB light Bonus gift!!! by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:52am On Oct 17, 2014 |
What if it doesn't last as long as you say? |
Computer Market › Needed Urgently: Long Lasting External Laptop Battery. by BuddhaPalm(op): 12:38am On Oct 17, 2014 |
I need an external laptop battery that can last VERY LONG. Something that does 10hrs at least.
Location is Lagos. I'll pick it up today if you have it. |
Business › Re: 3 Books That Changed Your Life by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:50pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
1.) The 48 Laws of Power. 2.) Rich Dad Poor Dad. 3.) A New Earth.
These all represent massive paradigm shifts in my current existence on this planet. |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Nid AGAPE Love by BuddhaPalm(m): 5:12pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
You need JESUS  . |
Family › Re: Why Don't More Men Speak Up About Violence Against Women? by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:52pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
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Car Talk › Re: Ayo Fayose's New Official Ride (PHOTOS) 1957 Mercedes Benz 220S Sedan by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:45pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
He had better armour that shid. |
Family › Re: My Wife Just Told Me She Has A Boyfriend And That There Is Nothing ℓ̊ Will Do by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:28am On Oct 14, 2014 |
gabazin080: seriously I don't c what dis man is still waiting for. y will someone I bought from her parent, Someone you what...? |
Celebrities › Re: Annie Idibia In Her Kitchen With Baby Olivia On Her Back (Pictures) by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:26pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Nice kitchen. |
Romance › Re: Dating Who You Will Not Marry by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:39pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Hadizy: Is it pointless to visit Rome if you don't intend to move there? Is it pointless to see a movie if you're not going to buy the DVD? Is it pointless to drink a really good beer when you know you'll be peeing it away within the hour? Lol!!
Live for now, not later. Do you choose friends based on whether or not you will know them for the rest of your life? No, unless you're some kind of weirdo. The same principle applies here. Why stop hanging with someone you enjoy?
Romance is unpredictable. Anything can happen. We rarely know who we'll fall for. Love is sneaky like that. ( The guy's / lady is married? People get divorced. He's gay? People become straight. He's your brother? Okay, that one's an absolute definite no, although you could probably find a country somewhere in the world where you could marry. ) But...ew.
All I'm saying is don't be so sure you know what's going to happen. You don't.
Even if you do know, even if never marry the guy, it's still not pointless. He's a friend, maybe even a friend with benefits. Being with him makes you happy; is it a waste of time for you to be happy? Is it pointless to get laid? Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One. We learn a little something about life and about ourselves from everyone we date. Is that pointless? Au contraire, mon amie! Wise little girl. "Live for now, not tomorrow."[s]Every relationship is a practice run for the Big One[/s]. But there is really no BIG ONE. |
Celebrities › Re: A Nairalander And His Lovely Mother by BuddhaPalm(m): 10:29pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
So if she's not 'buriful' she won't still be an awesome mum abi? |
Sports › Re: Keshi Report Card by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:42pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
...Don't forget Argentina (WC). |
Sports › Re: Ronaldo Is Worth €1 Billion by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:38pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
donlyricz: I don't care cos I've used a condom worth #20,000 naira.but it still does the same work of the #30 own E get Bluetooth? |
Romance › Re: I'm Afraid I May Never Get Married. by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:48pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
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Education › Re: History Of Pro Evolution Soccer (+PICTURES) by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:13pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
yuzedo: Been on EA Sport's FIFA for about two years now (14 and 15) on the PS3 and PS4, but my heart still lies with PES/Winning Eleven..
We were so adept at it on its release on PS and thought it was the most realistic, last bus stop in gaming. We could even speak and read Japanese... Men learnt how to edit players and adjust other complicated settings entirely in Japanese, and then you'd carry your memory card everywhere you went to load formations, teams, etc.
In my opinion, the edition on PS2 is unarguably the best version of all time (past and present). Won a lot of money in gambling houses those days. Remember my most glorious match for the biggest stake ever, and after a tense 2-2 match for the whole of 120mins, a corner-kick and a sublime header threw the entire house into raptures!!! I'm talking, the game was sooo intense everyone left their sets to watch the greatest battle Lagos had seen. I was hoisted up in the air and people chased me on my way back home to shake my hand and shii..
Sighhh!! Good times..... 
Konami lost the plot in the last edition, however I hear PES 15 is the business. Already have FIFA 15, but for old times' sake.................. Onye ball. |
Education › Re: History Of Pro Evolution Soccer (+PICTURES) by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:12pm On Oct 09, 2014 |
Chubhie: Played everybit of em!!!!! Still play them now on few weekends but not like the days when I felt I had all the whole time in the world!!!!!! I only play with not just to kick n score goals but show every aspect of the beautiful game from build ups to dribblings and scoring unbelievable goals. Now when you play with a worthy opponent who understands how to stretch the limits of such games it is quite an experience. People will pay rampant attention to watch you guys play!!!!! Playing with a truly worthy opponent enhances your ability to think very fast in spilt seconds!!!!! Played fifa on xbox and the most moves I understand is cross n head or taking free kicks. D vibration d xbox pad gives when ball hits post or your player is tacked makes it fun. I'm also a pro in football manger!!!!! I now look forward to playing games with my wife and unborn kids. A gaming fam it gonna be! If you play Seasons (FIFA), online, you won't look forward to playing anyone else. |
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Experience Love At First Sight? by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:33pm On Oct 03, 2014 |
That's not love, it's attraction. |
Celebrities › Re: Ashanti Pictured Aboard Arik Air On Her Way To Nigeria by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:32pm On Sep 30, 2014 |
See haters mehn. People who like her will go.
And she's even a side attraction to the main event. |
Romance › Re: Why Do Runz Girls Have Boyfriends? by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:58pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Lilimax: Abeg who is a runs girl ? Pardon my ignorance...  Blessing Okagbere kinda girl. Runs for a living, but here, distance is measured in totometers. |
Romance › Re: Guys How Do You Feel?? by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:51pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
I follow people I tend to love their posts/interests. And this helps you discover new, potentially interesting topics.
I stand to gain nothing if someone am following follows back. |
Family › Re: Man Ready To Pay $160,000 To Any Woman Who Agrees To Be His Mum. by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:31pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
Can I b your mum - for a week, young man?  . |
Family › Re: An open letter to Emma Watson and all feminists by BuddhaPalm(m): 3:23pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
After all said and done, women just want to be bent over and fvked in the butt.
They CRAVE to be dominated. |
Family › Re: Why Do Women Prefer Male Doctors During Antenatal? by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:23pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
They know men are generally more competent  . |
Family › Re: What Is The Greatest Gift A Parent Can Give A Child? by BuddhaPalm(m): 12:33pm On Sep 27, 2014 |
LOVE. |
Family › Re: What Is The Most Difficult Thing To Find In Life? by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:37pm On Sep 26, 2014 |
Yourself.
Most people never do. |
Family › Re: Will/Can A Feminist Make A Good And Wife Material? by BuddhaPalm(m): 9:33pm On Sep 26, 2014 |
BananaBender: If your wife feels a need to be in some sort of competition with you, there is a problem with your marriage and that problem has nothing to do with feminism. To be candid, the kind of feminism you advocate - the militant kind - sounds more amusing to me than serious. You are not a feminist, you're a human being. Making feminism your identity colours everything as an affront on your humanity. What does being a woman mean to you? |
Family › Re: * Wife Beating And Domestic Violence * by BuddhaPalm(m): 4:03pm On Sep 26, 2014 |
Sepp360: long, but very meaningful. But let me state another scenario here..
What if the child still gets used to the light slap, that he doesn't desist from offending you? A not so light slap will follow. But in the case of a woman that keeps disrespecting you. Bye-bye is even better. |