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chris51:
...If she doesn't encourage the man...

Yes! Yes!! Yes!!! Question is whether your wife wants to go back.


Report her to family? No! Who does that? To what end? If she doesn't want you why keep someone who doesn't want to stay with you? You'd be making both yourselves unhappy. She can nurse your child and leave when she's done [if it comes to that].

I don't think this should be about whether she's nursing a baby or not. It should be more about whether your wife wants to leave you for him. Don't fight a wrong fight. I don't think there's need calling him; your wife can make him not to call again if she loves you that much [unless you don't think she does]; after all she married you. You calling the guy only says one thing [that your wife can't do it or doesn't want to, so that dude has got a chance] and believe me, it wouldn't solve anything. Your wife can end this, or you can call, warn him and she'll be seeing him behind the front of your back [God! I love using this expression] and you wouldn't even know [if she wants to]. Moreover these calls can be harmless but it's a good thing you have specified that he's asking her to come back.

So my advice is that you ask your wife what she has done about the incessant calls; what she wants - you or her ex. What is yours is yours; what isn't will eventually leave irrespective of how long you keep it [caretakers].


PS: This is in no form an endorsement of exes going after their married exes and shouldn't be treated as one.

The way most guys sexualize ladies eh. She's not a sex thing; she's a human being who deserves to be loved and valued, not perceived as someone you give something to in return for sex. You spent money on her willingly [because you love her; if you even do] and not as advance payment for sex. So, let her decide to willingly have sex with you; without being pressured. Which kind of children does society raise these days biko nu?

AwkaetitiBabe:
Mr man hide ur face. You are very very silly for posting this kinda nonsense. Anuofia

Anuofia no be small. I'm not one to use abusive words but let me add "Anumpama"

AwkaetitiBabe:
Mr man hide ur face. You are very very silly for posting this kinda nonsense. Anuofia

Anuofia no be small. I'm not one to use abusive words but let me add "Anumpama"

Madness

LadyBeee:
he really loves me

Considering he loves fat and you're not fat, what is it he loves about you?

I can't help but wonder if people truly understand what 'love' or 'loving someone' is. If he truly loves you he must think about what you want as well; not just what he wants. He might one day wake up and tell you to change the shape of your nose or the complexion of your skin. He saw you as you were and professed love to you, now it's a fat version of you he wants. This has happened to a friend of mine [she got dumped] but I can't share that here. If your boyfriend loves 'fat' so much, he should get fat; that's if you would want him fat even, because I think when you're in a relationship, you can't make certain decisions alone [without duly considering what your partner might want].

However, should you decide to get fat, don't do it because someone wants you to; do it because you want to, else you'd live in regret. The decision remains yours so good luck with whatever you decide.

No offense meant but how do they even pick these ladies sef? This girl no fine na!

Ladies ain't commenting so how about "you're the egg in my eggroll, without you am just a buns". I think I heard it somewhere, kind of made by day then...

MissRaine69:
Yes
And I certainly did not use that phrase.

You really are what you are...
I would so love to be wooed by you...

Phenomenal16:
My friend is getting married n the guy is insisting on v test.....I want to know the procedures involved n she's a kind of scared..... Advice needed

Your friend [or is it you] does not need to know about this. She should tell the guy whether she is a virgin or not; ain't that easier? What happened to honesty/trust in relationships? This is marriage for God's sake. If he decides to not marry her because she's not a virgin [if she's not] then so be it; why build your marriage on all this crap?


It baffles me when people think marrying virgins (male or female) guarantees anything...

Twoclans:
Noooooooo this is not my thing, but I could give it a try someday

Please don't try this before somebody will come and kill you in the name of "choke".

Phenomenal16:
.....the guy with bulgy pockets... It makes me come before he says hiii

Nawaooo! Sweetheart Yahoo Boyz no go use you...

Deepfeel:
Dark brown skin, average size apple butts, beautiful innocent eyes

Spot on!!!

Preciousgirl:
My friends husband is denying his wife's ex to donate blood to her. He claims its equivalent to sex with his wife

Forgive my question but is the ex the only one who can donate blood out of everyone they know and are related to?

Sure I would. I would even prefer donating myself than letting my wife do it if my blood and her ex's are compatible... Saving a life outweighs anything