₦airaland Forum

CHoccolaTE:
OP, tunmi
When you had no job and she was providing were you assisting her with chores and childcare at least to make things easier for her and reduce stress or were you being bossy and expecting 24/7 complete submission from her?

Answer honestly.

I don't even trust marital stories on nairaland because the party telling the story will ALWAYS hide their own faults and magnify the wrongdoings of their partners

This doesn't give her the leverage to cheat

godG:
Hi, folks. Does anyone need some $ to pay application, SEVIS fees and the likes? I have some $, I need Naira. Exchange rate: 420. Thanks.

How much dollars do you have?

Vulcan24:
we are resuming next week.
lockdown is over

corona is beatable

Me sef, I pray we resume next week too.

However we shouldn't raise our hopes as Lagos didn't record any case yesterday! Let's watch till Friday.

The main thing is, brace up for the worst! Anything is possible.
Our Employers may decide not to pay anything if this persist.

It's the reality.

Vulcan24:
correct ... doomsday prophet too much

my coy pays full last month and half this month

You sef see am,

Full last month, half this month,

Next month nko?

Philomathhh:
Yes, I broke up with my boyfriend almost a year ago. He was the most amazing human I ever came across and still is. The reason why we broke up is still a bit vague to me (partly because, I was to leave the country and I felt he still had amazing years ahead of him), but I initiated it. I trusted him to the point that it never bothered me whenever he immediately snatches his phone from my hand; I never really had to bother about anything I find strange in his phone (not that I found any). He was loveable, caring, smart and the most handsome human I know.

After 4-5 months, we reconnected, and I have never experienced that level of pain in my life during the time we got talking. I was hurt that he wasn't mine anymore, and I could sense that he was hurt too. Each time we talk, I end up shedding a few drops of tears. I was almost acting like a maniac; stalking him on all his social media handles, connecting with the people that were his friends on social media, looking up each of his friend's bios, reading his diary on NL with the hope that he says he wants me back, or at least he misses me. I'm not the kind of guy who likes to express my emotions with him, and he never knew what I was going through at that point. I try to talk 'normal' and try to act like I care less about the whole situation. I was mad, I felt I was losing my mind and I had to see a psychologist. From what I got to learn from the psychologist, I realized that as long as we hold onto each other, as long as we are still in touch, we wouldn't give room for healing from the hurt. The psychologist said, "Sometimes, you meet the right person, it's just the wrong time." Sometimes the strongest thing you will ever do will be to let go of someone. It will be painful, you will suffer guilt, and you will second-guess yourself, but for your own sanity and quality of life, you just have to let go.

I had to delete his number and blocked him thinking I would heal, I was wrong. I'm sure he is over me now (I can tell from his diary), and I'm happy he's not hurting anymore (I remember him telling me how sad he becomes whenever I don't talk to him in a day, and instantly I became sad). The hardest part for me right now is getting along with any new guy. I have set him up as the standard; it's not like he had it all, but he was just perfect for me. Every guy I meet, I end up convincing myself that they aren't a quarter as good as him. The metric I use to scale them up is something I cannot still figure out. We are still pretty young, we've got a lot of years ahead of us. This phase for me might take long to fade off, but I hope that someday it gets to heal and I can meet someone who's half as good as the man I truly fell in love with.
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Unrelated : Since we stop talking, "These days" has become my favorite song--"I hope someday, we'll sit down together and laugh with each other about these days, these days."

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seunmohmoh:
Coutinho should go to Manchester united. He's needed thpere.

Aswear....they really need a creative midfielder. They are seriously wack....

seunmohmoh:
She should try it on the street of mushin. I want to see something.

Hahaha....
Street boys go rush am.

seunmohmoh:
Pata lasan ni girl yi wo sha

Lol....

This is promising for NPDC...
more involvement in upstream activities..

CapitalHYC:
Planning to ply this Route on Sunday.. is it Possible like this again?? which Kain wahala be this

I didnt use the route man, I used Warri to Abraka via Eku. You will burst out in Benin bypass.

Do same too.
Na just extra 2 hours drive.

Sleevia:
6Million per month, from NYSC? Bros, soffry dey lie o. You already said anonymous, so your post should be taken with a pinch of salt

Young man, do not argue what you cant confirm.

6m is small sef.

I know of more.

Na Jealousy...Na their 9 to 5?

If most of them got a well paying job dem nor go dey shout CEO this....CEO that....

The annoying this now be say, person wey dey make bag, beads, peanuts, creams go dey shout CEO up and down and rubbing it on people earning twenty times what they earn who works 9 to 5.
It's just funny.
Dem don too abuse the name CEO. Make dem go check outside naija...mcheew.

E just be like poor man wey talk say make world spoil, make everybody start from scratch again.


By the way sef, if everybody go be entrepreneurs, who go do the 9 to 5 work?

Aside, nor be everyone get the skillset to dey run business, some na corporate world dem go take function well....

Taaa.
Make naija CEOs calm down o....
Make dem free US 9 to 5 gang...

We all dey make our living.

Las las na that one be koko.

Congrats CU.

They deserve it.

I know their graduates,
They are getting top notch jobs.

They are repping well.

As far as I'm concerned, they are the best in Nigeria.

And the way they are going, they will be miles ahead in years to come.
#Good one

seunmohmoh:
That feel goods

How you dey?

seunmohmoh:
I am back.

Happy Sunday, who miss me

I did

CaptainMeks:
Frodd is safe. Ebuka just hinted at that

You sef catch the gist

Ebuka don jabo o
....
Frodd isn't going this week.

The car sef na lady CAR...

No guy suppose win am sef..

This cassava or cocoyam thing na ojoro....abeg..

safarigirl:
If not for Big Brother, Seyi doesn't have the balls to approach a woman like Mercy

You think name is what girls like Mercy eat? Seyi is so insecure, he gets upset about girls wearing make-up and controls what hid girl does. A man like that cannot approach a girl like Mercy, this dude that was in a secret room with common Tacha and slept on the floor. You think it is by shouting and bragging about a name?

Seyi is just a privileged brat with deep-seated insecurities. He is nobody without the Awolowo name. He knows it is the only thing that makes him matter, a 32-year old man living in the shadows of his grandfather. pathetic.

Seyi is a wimp, men like that can only talk shiit about independent and confident women like Mercy from a distance, they can never approach them, even less proposition them.

PS: Mercy ain't no 5k ho

Na wa o.
Na so you hate Seyi like this?
Mercy na your cousin ni?
You just cast the guy personality so tey...

If him being a grandson of Awolowo dey pepper you, you sef go ask your grandPa why e nor be like Awolowo na...

Taaaa.
Calm down o, your level nor reach o.
The last time I checked, both you and your family and mercy's, una nor reach at all.

Tueh.

Wow....my school is there.....kudos to the boys.

What the hell is wrong with Coach...

Why sub Musa.

Mehn.....

Two run in now... dem collect ball from Moses...

Kai

Ighalo should be on the end of that...kai

Is this Ref alright.....

How is that a card for Musa?

Na wa o