₦airaland Forum

Bunnatex:
I have carefully and painfully read through the comments section. I must say all who previously commented all have given their opinions. In as much as i don't want to differ to their opinions i must state some points we fail to note.
1) Why Suddenly do we fail to mention the guy who had the sex with the lady. The passage stated "MUTUAL FRIEND". Come on, who does that.. Why would the guy have sex with his guy's fiancee.

2) The People that captured picture evidence to send to the fiance all the way to England need to be re accessed . Unless Of course it was a repeated character of the bride to be.
All the same, I won't judge a fellow man on the decision he made for his private personal life. He knows himself better and his temperament. I'm sure its not am irrational decision rather its well thought and considered. As such i can only wish him good fortunes in future.
And for the bride, I pray she moves on and take the lesson. She's not the worst just that she was caught.. I wish her true love in the future..
Ladies and Gentlemen, let's not judge them fit their actions but to support them in this trying time...
Happy new year all.

LANDLORD72:
Dear Nigerian Ladies Hear Me Out!!!...

Dear Nigerian sisters, there's no demon
stopping you from getting married, the
economy is bad, most brothers are broke
(not by their own making, the government
should be blamed) and the brothers who
are financially stable are married.
My advice is...

If you have a young man in your life that you believe in
and you believe he has plans for the future,
please give him every financial support he
needs... I know your fears... What if I invest
in him and he disappoints me....? That's a
wise concern... My advice is, be forward...
Yes, be straight forward and tell him you
wouldn't mind investing in him if he
commits to be with you... Tell him you can't
invest in a temporary emotional euphoria...

You are not being desperate, you are being
real. If he is a real man, he will re-assure you
of his commitment. Take him home and let
him give your family what he can afford. Try
to make things easy for him on the side of
your family... Let them know that if they
make things difficult for your man, you have
the legal right to proceed to the court and
get married to the man of your dreams...

Don't let your family stand in the way of
your destiny... Don't let traditions deny you
of your happiness.
And if you are not employed and you have
no financial help to give to your man, at
least, don't take from him always... Especially
in this bad economy... Be there for him... Talk
to people in your circles about his business
or skills... Try to connect him to the people in
your circles who can help him. Do it because
of the future you see between you both.
Focus on building with him. Continue to look
out for opportunities for yourself too.
Whoever gets blessed first should help the
other.
In this bad economy, being stingy to the guy
in your life while sowing seeds to get
married is like removing your SIM card from
your phone and asking why nobody is calling u. Just give love a chance

Lucid1:
I hope to visit Awka soon, I heard it’s a nice place