dangotesmummy:
oga go Siddon for where contain you.when one door closes, multiple go open.no be today man dey leave woman wey the woman no remarry.nothing new under the sun


The woman should thank her God why cry over a situation that has a solution.mshewww

maclawrence02:

Don't you think she would have thought of tomorrow before sleeping with someone just two months to her wedding?

queenitee:

Because she hasn’t figured it out yet. I didn’t say she wasn’t hurt or the guy wasn’t hurt. I’m saying even in that hurt, they still gained something and that’s them becoming better partners to the people who comes their ways again. When you are hurting, you don’t think or see clearly. By the time the hurt reduce, they would both sit down and think about it and how it affected them and how they could be better.

theButterfly:
Hmmm, so he had also cheated but couldn't forgive her like she did him? Talk about a vindictive hypocrite.

queenitee:

I never said he should forgive her. Please read what I quoted before hissing upandown. I said if he has high standards/morals like the guy said, he also wouldn’t have cheated in the first place. I never said he also cheated and she forgave him, stop twisting my words. I said they both have no morals and both deserved to be bashed.

I have no problem uncle, you are the one giving yourself problems where there’s none.

dangotesmummy:
oga everyone makes mistakes at one point in time of their lives or the other and heavens didn't fall

As if men don finish for Nigeria

Yoruba says toko ba koni,omo na leyan tunfe

It would have even been tolerable if the man in question was a Virgin

Davesaves:
they are bashing only d lady so go hang urself..

maclawrence02:

It's alright

RisenPhoenix:


Lol. That must be the biggest gender myth ever to hit the web. Care to substantiate your statistics?

Men may be sexual beings, but the vast majority are satisfied when their wives do not weaponize sex by witholding it when they are not given things. To a man, an orgasm is an orgasm.

Woman are the true cheats because they are true slaves to their desires; material and emotional. They may not always cheat just because they like sex, true, and they can do without sex if they want to; largely because they don't like throwing it away for free. But they can cheat for dozens of other reasons; from pecuniary benefits to the thrill of being wanted and an inability to say "no" when they should. And women hide their cheating much better.

maclawrence02:

Since men never finish, she would have gone back to where she left off and continued rather than sit and cry over her irresponsible act after all it's her flaw. We should all condone it.

dangotesmummy:
o really? So he is a saint without flaws? Or the guys family are Mr and Mrs perfect family? Look let me tell you every family and marriage has skeletons in their cupboards that they're concealing including the ones that will enter social media kissing or playing lovey dovey

Marriage is not for 2 perfect people,it's for 2 imperfect people living in harmony. you are saying no family can accept a cheating lady,shebi na because we never see the bad side of the groom's family which they're concealing.

It's funny how everyone forms na me righteous pass but have a situation,disease,bad habit or character that they're managing.shioorrr

Bunnatex:
I have carefully and painfully read through the comments section. I must say all who previously commented all have given their opinions. In as much as i don't want to differ to their opinions i must state some points we fail to note.
1) Why Suddenly do we fail to mention the guy who had the sex with the lady. The passage stated "MUTUAL FRIEND". Come on, who does that.. Why would the guy have sex with his guy's fiancee.

2) The People that captured picture evidence to send to the fiance all the way to England need to be re accessed . Unless Of course it was a repeated character of the bride to be.
All the same, I won't judge a fellow man on the decision he made for his private personal life. He knows himself better and his temperament. I'm sure its not am irrational decision rather its well thought and considered. As such i can only wish him good fortunes in future.
And for the bride, I pray she moves on and take the lesson. She's not the worst just that she was caught.. I wish her true love in the future..
Ladies and Gentlemen, let's not judge them fit their actions but to support them in this trying time...
Happy new year all.

AreaFada2:

Lol. Las las na baby mama go sure pass. Do paternity test jeje after delivery. No pain.

maclawrence02:

Why are you pained? It's just a conversation. Just do as I adviced you.

dangotesmummy:
o really? So he is a saint without flaws? Or the guys family are Mr and Mrs perfect family? Look let me tell you every family and marriage has skeletons in their cupboards that they're concealing including the ones that will enter social media kissing or playing lovey dovey

Marriage is not for 2 perfect people,it's for 2 imperfect people living in harmony. you are saying no family can accept a cheating lady,shebi na because we never see the bad side of the groom's family which they're concealing.

It's funny how everyone forms na me righteous pass but have a situation,disease,bad habit or character that they're managing.shioorrr

victorian:
Serves her right!

Next time, when she starts a new relationship leading to marriage, she will slap any useless guy who will come around saying, do you know what your man is doing abroad? Do u honestly believe he's also faithful?

Sense too much for your brain. Abeg are you single?

dangotesmummy:
it's because she's emotional.tgat night sef I for go party and dance like nothing happened.its about training your mind to live above your mistakes.she is seeing disappointment,me I see her doging a bullet but she doesn't even realize because she's stuck in the moment and more concerned about wedding and people pleasing

Godoverevery:

I still don't get ur point.....so because I cheated so my wife to be sud also go sleep with my friend rite.
u are very correct she not perfect dat why d only person she could open leg for is a mutual friend two months to there wedding..... only an idiot Will make such a terrible mistake.

I hail you.... clearly u can also do D's since no one is perfect rite??

maclawrence02:

Easier said than done. I know your type. Someone cheated 2 months to her wedding, was caught and dealt with accordingly and you are saying she dodge a bullet, really?

dangotesmummy:
oga everyone makes mistakes at one point in time of their lives or the other and heavens didn't fall

As if men don finish for Nigeria

Yoruba says toko ba koni,oko na leyan tunfe

It would have even been tolerable if the man in question was a Virgin

Situation001:
Shocking details posted on Facebook has got many people angry and slamming the man for humiliating his wife and her family, read the details posted below by Sandra Ibeh and lets know your opinion, was the man right?
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Sandra Ibeh Posted :

Tomorrow is 31st December 2019 and the last day of this decade. While some are in celebration mood, a man has decided to humiliate a whole family by pulling out of his church and traditional wedding scheduled for tomorrow somewhere in Anambra because his bride to be cheated on him 2 months back.
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In as much as I am not in support of what the bride did, I equally condemned the groom's last-minute decision. He knew that his bride cheated on his since October and didn't confront her. He went along with the marriage preparation putting the lady through so many stress while he remained in England hatching his evil plan.
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He came back to Abuja on the 28th and told his mother this morning that he's not going ahead with the wedding.
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The painful part of this whole thing is that he's acting as if he's doing the right thing. Spoke with him, he was laughing and the next thing he said was that I can provide my brother to take his place since everything is in place. He carefully planned to humiliate this girl and her family and to be honest, this is wrong.
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Bride to be has been crying uncontrollably in the village. She admitted that she made a mistake and she regrets her action. She had more to drink during her friend's birthday and ended up sleeping with one of their mutual friends (action she greatly regrets) without knowing that it was a setup. The next day pictures were sent to her fiance and he held on to it and acted normal until today.
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I asked him why he kept quiet and continued with the preparation, he said that he wants the girl to feel the kind of pain he felt when he saw the pictures.
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I honestly think that what he's doing is wrong and insulting to both his family and the bride's family because both families have been preparing for this wedding and are ready until he called this morning to cancel.
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Every other person is against his decision except his older brother but he's not ready to change his stance.
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This is not the kind of news one should be hearing at the end of the year. It's painful and annoying.

Meanwhile, the girl said that he had cheated on her before and she forgave him.
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My question is, why can't he forgive her too and call it even? Why grandstand? asked the poster..
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dangotesmummy:
yes she did.its better the wedding was cancelled than for her to end up with a pretentious,self righteous, unforgiving man.what is the use wey be say everyday na headache and drama.

She should thank God that God delivered her from future turbulence

Fastestmanalive:



Yes, the man cheated but that's when they were just bf and GF SHE LITERALLY SLEPT WITH HIS FRIEND TWO MONTHS TO THE WEDDING!!!


What she did was unforgivable and the man was right to do what he did

maclawrence02:

Funny how you reason. Have you thought about if she had made a conscious effort and did not mess herself up just two months to her wedding?

queenitee:

I’m sorry to disappoint you, I still have a lot to do on this earth by God’s grace and I’m not ready to die and I’m not going to die by God’s grace. Since you people live a bitter life such that the only wishes in your heart, that comes out of your mouth and those you type are only of evil, you might want to take to your own advice with the same laugher you typed it.

theButterfly:
Hmmm, so he had also cheated but couldn't forgive her like she did him? Talk about a vindictive hypocrite.