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We are not here long enough to be living unhappy.

Why stress over it? It do be like that sometimes.

Desire makes slaves out of kings, and patience makes kings out of slaves.

Learn to heal without venting to everyone.

Stay strong even when the times are tough.

Let go of the illusion that it could have been any different

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dauntless15:
Some things we can't control I agree, but what about the ones we can control, what about the ones we can prevent, you know you're not stable but you're living large like you're comfortable, heaven help those who help themselves.

I understand. But still, life happens. People lose jobs, stuff happens. Stuffs you'd never prepared for and what have you. we just hope for the strength and will to carry on each day

dauntless15:
The fact that we can't control the things happening around us doesn't mean we should be careless na, imagine deliberately making your life hard when you know you're not even up for it, you bought a jet and you have no money to fuel it, ever heard of cutting your coat according to your size? You're struggling alot and you're popping kids everywhere like rats, how do you suppose to feed, clothe and take care of them?

Which brings me to where I pointed we are all different. And we react to things differently. Doesn't make one person better than the other. There are people going through alot harder things and it's not even taking a toll on them. It's just life. You're very comfortable today and the next minute you're not doing so good.

dauntless15:
You're right, I'm quite the bread winner and intelligent too that's why you'll never see me doing what you're doing right now, mumu man.

These are trying times and people are going through alot. Different people have different approaches to different things. The least you could do is leave him with some words of encouragement because you'd never know what it's like. Life just happens and we are not always in control of the things that happen around us.

obyrich:
Over what? Some idiotic fool with free 10mb posts nonsense online and you are calling Buhari out?

what about the so many unprovoked attacks these miscreants have been carrying out in the name of sit at home? Do you know how many people have lost their Iives in the last two weeks to these senseless killings?

bihari is really sluggish. declare a state of emergency already.

Ask yourself this, Is it really worth it?

Its harmattan season again.
Always endeavor to

<Turn off all electrical appliances when not in use
<Do not leave your cooking unattended to
<Keep gas cylinders outdoors

can we have it like this in Nigeria?
https://fb.watch/h2dpaE58lw/

Hundredegrees:
I understand that you read only the first post but I've done everything humanly possible for her to come back and she just makes these posts on her WhatsApp sometimes and this is what she posted yesterday

you'd be doing yourself a gigantic favor by ending things with your girlfriend now, most times they don't recover from this and you could try to FIX things and you'd both pretend all is well but the minute the opportunity presents itself. She's going to get back at your for this and she's going to do it worse. Only reason she prolly hasn't moved on is because she doesn't have her next option lined up. End things now and tell her you should be just friends, salvage whatever's left of your relationship cos if you don't, she's going to hurt you at a time when you need her the most.

liminna:
Soap?

I bought a USB cord

a man truly doesn't need much to be happy.

You've forgotten that elections are one man, one vote.
one prof, one vote.
one banker, one vote.
one twitter user, one vote.
one agbero, one vote.
1000 RTs and 50,000 likes with no PVC, no vote.

Kobojunkie:
So? Even if you knew well why you are in a relationship, you have no real way of guaranteeing you are in it with the right person, especially if a Nigerian. There is no barcode to scan for these things.

There is no way to really see if someone's right for you but when you meet them. You'll know. Because the signs will be there

Kobojunkie:
You say that like there is some sort of set template to these things.

Granted OP seemed to have lost herself in the relationship but we all know that when it comes to relationships , it is not by formulae but many a times by luck.

formulae indeed. So she should keep getting pregnant and carrying out abortions fr the guy in question because it's all a game of luck? Once is a mistake. Twice is stupid. What if she'd lost her life in the process?

Kobojunkie:
There are lots of individuals.... males and females who seek peace of mind in a relationship and are willing to invest their efforts in getting exactly that. Only there are equally lots of imbe_ciles out there and it is hard to tell them from the so-called decent folks(men and women) in the field.

Wrong. There are so many people who don't even know why they're in a relationship.

Kobojunkie:
Abeg go sit down!

How do you know this particular lady here does not want to be with a responsible individual? Stop with the sweeping generalizations abeg! Makes the lot of you sound like toads each passing day.

Someone who's responsible would not get her pregnant, not once, but twice and ask her to carry out abortion knowing fully well he's not ready to be involved in her life.

Where are the good leaders? All three presidential aspirants are failures who have contributed directly and indirectly to the kind of mess we are in today.

hang in there.
The light at the end of the tunnel is a train.

Emilia154:
U don c d mata na

last last we all deserve what we get abi how u c am

advanceDNA:
Sacrifice what??
He's just using you....swallow the redpill and stop being stupid sticking with a someone thats just using you to pass time...its clear he's just using you

the sad and unfortunate thing is some guy is out there who's more responsible, cares about and wants to be very involved in her life but you know women, she'd rather be with someone she's interested even if this person isn't interested in her.

Very dumb post. No wonder the man called you lazy youths.

mistakenly?

Inna Lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un.