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[quote author=Franklinshaddy post=111518533][/quote]its because you've put yourself in the line of spending exorbitantly, since she's your babymama and not cohabiting with you, you have no business taking care of her, you are not her parents plus she has two hands to work for herself... no babydaddy spends more than a married man, to prove my claim right get married to her and see if you won't spend more than you are spending now,only concentrate on the wellbeing of your child bro
no let woman whine you cuz she got a child for you except of course you are the generous type to all, there's a reason she's still your babymama plus allowing her take care of her needs will make her responsible just incase you ain't there tomorrow so she can take proper care of your child

peace

Kobojunkie:
Why do you assume this made up?

the Op is my neighbor

Victerica:
Will she be using the guy for sex?

Will she let the guy know?

its a made up story lmao

Come let me help you

Na so una go dey do like say e no dey sweet una but na una e sweet pass lmao

go and reconcile with your husband, fine you are going through a divorce which is not yet finalized,his help will be needed since you don't want to offend your creator by an act of immorality but i know your ego won't allow you

if i were you I'll use orobo pepsi bottle to do the trick keeping my ego intact

Justkatty:
Buskynwa come and describe yours.

resuscitation

DREAMZZZ:
Useless club.....club supported by agberos cultist .....armed robbers, rapist touts and drug addicts

help your life, i guess your club is supported by murderers.... who have you mudered today?

Op based on bro code no lash that babe
She's your ex and she's married, don't get yourself entangled in something you might regret forever
leave women and their wahala... make 1 girl out of millions outside no go change rhe direction of your destiny

OKOATA:
Bro use your brain, let's say you are feeding a dog, taking care of it, bathing it, but in turn it bites you, what would you do? That your witch wife is having sex with someone else, I can bet 1000%. Forget her guilt tripping telling you you did something in the past, bla bla. Why would you even stay with such a person at your own mental health, you will never be happy, you will live in misery and depression till you probably die of HBP, happened to a man in my neighborhood. Bro learn to train your mind to let go of attachments, you are doing all you can yet she doesn't appreciate. If I were you I will tell her I need some spacea, maybe she should go to her parents for some time and from there you can cut her off. Go out there and flex your life bro. Forget this witch man. Many beautiful, hot women out there but you are dulling and suffering yourself. If I give you a book about women, you would hate your wife instantly but I won't, I want you to learn the easy way or the hard way if you proof stubborn to do the needful.

abeg no give am that book,if you do his kids might suffer indirectly,let him learn the easier way

Mercychen:
That is why they are always looking for a working class lady who can bring to the table so they can continue gambling and spending their own money recklessly. You better dump his ass.

You don't need to go through all that stress of divorcing him because that will drain you mentally and physically except you plan to remarry which is not advisable as most of them are the same. So, just secretly get a place for yourself and unborn child and leave him without warning, before you lose your sanity.

When he's ready to leave the singlehood lifestyle and become a responsible husband, he can come for his family. Otherwise, forget about him. Life is too sweet to let one person keep you in sorrow all the days of your life.

Marriage is overhypped, especially in this generation of overgrown babies in men's skin.

And if the man doesnt come back for his family? you are downplaying the part that the man can get remarry and get a family elsewhere, so if that happens she should wallow in single motherhood? you know how that would affevt the baby still in her womb right?
fyi you are a f**lish advisor

Justkatty

illicit:
God be with u

Pls like this story
https://www.nairaland.com/6996196/giveaway-2-winners-10-each#110407262

Rest

EverestMajur:
in the words of Drake " I love myself, my mom and my bed" and that's enough, I will go to the mall and get pizza or shawarma, head back home, lock myself up and play PS4 (FIFA 2021) until I fall asleep..
I gave up on relationship the day the babe I've been dating and paying her school fees and as well taking care of her general welfare for the past four years left me for one dude like that and called me an ingrate.
I don't hate girls but I don't do relationship anymore, some vagina people are hell on earth..

I don tell una, before you do stuffs like this, give the girl belle

WowSweetGuy:
u go like video call o...be careful how u show him ur body online

Stfu

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Offpoint1:
That's why you need street sense and bargaining skill...

If an igbo man gives you 15k starting price... kindly respond with "You no collect 5k" from their you 2k max, don't go above 7k.
If an Hausa man gives you 10k starting price... respond with "you no collect 6k"? add 1k to it as last price.
If a Yoruba gives you 10k starting price, respond with "you collect 4k" add 2k it as final price....

Don't pronounce the "Collect" correctly, pronounce it as "Ke-lect"

You know the drills man

Kokoebapluse:
You don't tell why your husband want you guys divorce. But whatever it may be my sister leave pride aside beg your husband and ask his family to beg him.

Outside is not funny. Be a single mum is not easy. Don't follow advice from some women here, women are the enemy of women. Women don't like each other they will want you to be like them in regret. Tell me how many man ready to accept you with 3kids? Madam beg your husband and be more hard working later you won't get time to fight your husband.

@optimistic4life
Please take this advice, it's the best, for both you,the kids and the dad I promise you .... I have an aunt who is a divorcee with 3 kids, it's not easy out there for her.

KarinaLove:
Some ladies have big stomach.

Some guys too have big stomach

Infact it's even the guys that have bigger stomach more than ladies.

Let's not even talk about the "Beer Belly" ones.

Women also find them repulsive.

I have a flat stomach becos I workout.

Women find what repulsive??
You clearly don't know what you are talking about

luminouz:
Can you share it on the thread, since you are using another moniker, so your privacy is not compromised?

I'd love to help with the private mail stuff but my personal mail is fuqed up right now.

Ok I'll do that later this evening, I'm already at work

luminouz:
I'm never one who thirsts for SM attention. Even for WhatsApp, I hardly post any picture and woe betide any woman who posts me without my permission, to say some lovey-dovey shiiit. I don't need all that. Attention craving and SM addiction that are not tied to money making ventures are not just worth it.

Apart from the fact that y'all can break up tomorrow, what's the essence of putting every detail of your private life for everyone to see? I don't get it.

I beg your indulgence luminouz, I don't know if I can get you directly,I've been a silent follower of this thread until the mods banned me till 2029 lol,I have a personal issue disturbing me about my babymama and I need some advice cuz I'm sitting on a fence here, it will do me great joy if I get a reply from you
Thanks

Cc Martinez