₦airaland Forum

Angelfrost:
Look at both teams' fixtures...!

Man City will drop more points than Arsenal.

Arsenal will lift the EPL by point difference not goal difference.

dominique:
Abeg Arsenal try and extend this slim lead. Knowing your history with conceding late goals, one goal lead is now looking like a draw or loss in the making

zed7:
There are lots of women lately on social media, especially foreign women claiming they submit and 'worship' their husbands or will to future husbands.

The truth is that most men will do anything for a woman who is humble and respects him. The best way to tell a man to go to hell and he'll actually go is when you tell him with humility and respect. Men are not that complicated and don't demand much.

slimjohn2k5:
You will soon meet an angel that will change you.
Do away with your current friends and make friends with responsible people.

Ashawo pussy not dey wet.

FREDCLSSICO7:
dating a Nigerian gal is like taking care of an orphan
she will put all her problems and family problems on your head
the things that her dad can't do for her or has not done for her she will pressurize you to do it to her
she sees relationship as a means of cash out while others use it as poverty alleviation to escape poverty!
she is selfish and egocentric
she doesn't care how the guy feels
she is only concerned about her own affair and needs
when the going get rough and the benefits stop coming. she will take to her heels and move on to the next potential maga(Simp)
Naija Girls Only Pretends To Love You Because Of The Benefits They Gets From The Guy. They Don't Put Energy In The Relationship
Even while dating you they have another guy they're seeing behind your back, might be sugar daddy sef.
90% have Two or more boyfriends and maybe sugar daddy
when dating naija babe use your head not your heart because the kind breakfast way they go serve you na plus takeaway
#Typical Naija Babe Mentality

pansophist:
It won't end, sorry

By design, you are born to suffer. Just imagine. You didn't choose your height, gender, nationality, name, parents, birthdate, blood type, siblings, native tongue, personality, and so so so much more.

it's like we are born in a box, with already predetermined foundations that will massively shape the direction our lives take. Foundations we can only coexist with, not altered. So if you are born in a mountainous village in Syria, a child of a renowned Swedish madman will have a better life than you.

Unlike animals, humans have a culture to care for their young for so many years, even more than 18 years, and these sweet beginnings have made a lot of us approach life from an easy mode, and sad when things don't go our way.

When I hear people say, ¨God why me?¨, my knee-jerk response always is, ¨Why not you? Don't you know that to live is to suffer?¨ As I speak to you right now, a lion is probably ripping off a pregnant impala, chewing both the mama and her baby.

Or someone just died via accident somewhere in the world, not because he was driving wrongly, but because the other driver was reckless, and killed him for no fault of his own. So you can do everything right, and still pay the price for a stupid person that did everything wrong.

How can such life be fair? I mean why should I die because you are stupid? But this nonsense happens to animals and humans every day.

The horrors of life that other species understood, or even previous generations experienced, are increasingly becoming alien, as they are replaced with modern problems such as depression, lack of purpose, material poverty etc.

This sad tale of the human story has been the reason many are drawn to religion, philosophy, thinkers, and science, to draw meaning out of this sad story called life.

Anyways, just cope. This is what it means to be alive. Being alive and being at peace is the utmost state of privilege, hence, we always wish the death RIP, because such peace is hardly for the living.

Christians would say that this world is not their home, that they are just passing by. Stoics would say the same thing in a different way, that you should be neutral to suffering, and endure it as you enjoy happiness. All coping mechanisms. Find a way to cope somehow.

Some countries are even taking it further to minimize suffering by making it legal to voluntarily delete yourself from life (e.g Netherlands with Euthanasia).

But most importantly, one absolute thing you can do to minimize to a large extent your suffering in this life is to have sense. Read widely, develop your character, forge your own intellectual path, and get lost in your own route, than finding directions in someone else path.

Immune yourself from being other's slaves either via their manipulations, by your insecurities (eg smoking to feel among, or buying stuff you don't need to impress), by imposed ideologies (e.g., identity politics, etc), and most importantly, treat yourself like someone you truly care for.

Just find a way to cope sha, you are not the only one. We are all in this together. The earlier you start, the better it gets. Life is difficult, but it doesn't have to be difficult for you.

GorillaApp:
If you take everything coming out from a woman's mouth too personal, you will die before your time. On the flip side, in the midst of the gibberish she vomits, there are messages and snippets of truth. It is recorded- "Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaketh"( culled from the Holy book).

My advice for all men. Keep developing yourself, keep upgrading yourself, keep upgrading your net worth. Guard your heart and sanity and be prepared for anything. A woman can love you crazily today and still dump your azz tomorrow. Very funny beings.
Love them but prepare for any eventuality.

Lastly, set up your self for ultimate retirement. Get a house built and feather your nest( keep some retirement money) just in case you find yourself alone at old age, so you don't die a broken man

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
Imagine
Dey threaten person....nothing will happen after 14 days

Me self dislike that church make him give me 14 days
Warey...na only who nor get naturalist intelligence, logical and existential intelligence dey believe in all these pastors, spiritual prophet, native doctors
Let me tell you all nairaland members
Native doctors, prophet and pastors and other spiritual men are smart people
They use the trick of "anything is possible " and the "time factor or time trick " to deceive people
1) everything is possible naturally that is why a native doctor or pastor will agree to do anything you are requesting from them to do
2) with "time" anything is possible....that is why a native doctor or pastor can not give a specific date and time his so called spiritual work will come...
The difference between you and dangote is time..the difference between you and a dead man in the grave is time

Justkatty:
Sorry about that
Why's your line not going through?

Justkatty:
I'm fine
What is going on?

sageb:
congratulations to Hilda Baci
@UyaiIncomparabl
@Preshyben
@Justkatty Akwa Ibom women are good cooks.

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar

Just dey gather wahalar for tinubu him successor head
He clear say this man reject tinubu same way Nigerians reject tinubu

Tinubu was never accepted by Nigerians
He was rejected completely....

The warey that claimed osun origin ...but lost osun... osun rejected hime ...a ten year old can not lose their origin during election..even me a keyboard warrior, drunkard, weed smoker, gambler and pussy banger that got no business in politics can not lose uhunmwode local government area of Edo sate during election because that is my origin


slawomir is back
missed you bro
Now he claims lagos and father of lagos still he lose lagos during election..lagosian rejected him

Abuja way Apc and he people dey still he lose there also

PureFace1:
They can't help but to feel that way.

The interpretation of your words and actions on subconscious level determine the level of attraction women will have for you.

Don't ever reveal the number of women you have been together with when they ask you or say you haven't been in a relationship when they ask you. Find a way around it in a funny way or just tell them you have been in a relationship with some women and you have some women around and leave the rest to their imagination.


Women want what other women want, if you say you haven't been in a relationship. They would wonder why and it would lower their interest in you, they may even think it is because you have issues and it is problems with you, they can't help but to think that way and they would lose interest and attraction for you . Women see men being in a lot of relationships with other women as a sign of high value, it will Pique their interest in you, it is only opposite when it come to men.

Men see women in a lot of relationships with other guys as a slut but reverse is the case with women, women interest and attraction in a guy increase when they notice you are in a relationship with other women, so whenever women ask you a question to know if you have been in a relationship or single, it is a trap. If you must answer it just say you have some women around but nothing serious, don't ever say you don't have any woman around.

PureFace1:
You made so many mistakes

You are a real AFC and Beta

Never ever put a woman on a pedastal, when you make a woman believe she is special, yes she would believe she is too special to date you, she would believe she can do better and can get a better man than you, she would believe she is not on your level and she is even doing you a favor by interacting with you.

Women don't like dating men they believe is below their level they like dating up.

If you don't learn from your mistakes it will happen again.

Justkatty:
Aren't you ashamed of yourself?
Keep embarrassing yourself not my business anymore.
I won't come here to exchange words with you.
Please I'm begging you in the name of God, I thought you are done with me?
Why going about mentioning me on every post?
Please try and rest.
Face your life and leave me alone is that too difficult?

Justkatty:
I never wanted to reply you but as God liveth you shall have no peace.
The tears of my daughter shall continue to hunt you for the rest of your life.

If you gave me a dime from when I took in till I birthed this girl, I'll have no peace but if you didn't whatever you wish for me, you shall get it in thousands fold.

Ebuka for the last time do not mention me again.
Leave me and leave me alone.

advanceDNA:
Daddy's baby girl?? Nigga dont be a pvssy.
.....u made urself over-available to her....so there was nothing else she would get from dating you..
. oh!!! Wait...u were thinking she what of ur love and penís?? No naaaa...when u are an overly attentive and caring guy...u can never be sexually appealing to them......they will just use u as advice-machine, boredom location, free money, free food, and a free place to watch movies/charge phone when there's no light

Bur wait...dont tell us u also spent money on her?? If yes...baba..how much be total??

GreatVocalist:
I also finally let go of someone I made a habit yesterday, so we're both in a similar situation. The difference is we were in a relationship -- a mildly toxic one.

I had "let her go" almost a billion times, but somehow I kept finding myself back with her. She'd say she loves me, but she was very passive, unlike me who was practically head over heels. Whenever I tried to talk about it, she'd give cold shoulders. Each time I walked away, foolish me would follow my heart, forget my head and get back into a relationship I wasn't happy in.

I decided to finally walk away 'cause I got so sick of complaining, she told me I nagged a lot so I had to pipe down. Made so many mistakes too, but I admitted and made the decision to change. However, that decision hinged on her willingness to change, but she didn't. She barely admitted her wrong actions.

Last night, I had it and I had to ghost her. I really hope I stand my ground, 'cause I took a different approach this time around.

Sorry I had to make this about me. Like you, I'm also hurting, and I had no intention to share this anywhere. Reading about your situation urged me.

I also need you to know that you're not alone, and lots of people have been where you are, even in worse situations (like mine). I've decided not to get involved with any lady emotionally for at least 5 years. . Ambitious, but not impossible, and I suggest you do the same bro.

The right one will come at the right time. Just focus on improving yourself to more advanced versions.

Good luck!

Oluromantic:
Ebuka must be really rich o.

Nigerian girl apologizing. E be like seeing fire inside well

Qasim6:
U dey mind him

Chelsea agony for EPL lasted for 50 yrs before dey use money buy one in 2005.