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Pls accept my condolences.

That's another different aspect entirely.

Carcholce:
How about DNA test of today? Isn’t it biased against women?

Since my conscience is clear,I won't be faze or bothered one bit if my husband decides to run a DNA.
But you see that traditional gimmicks played by the gods is a total bullshit.

R n B

They were biased.same should also be applicable to the men to keep them in checks

Carcholce:
They were not biased. It’s a method to keep their women in check. What about DNA test of today? Is it biased against women?

I get this alot,and thankfully lately it has reduced.
Days ago I was forced to step up to him telling him sternly it has to stop and I would no longer tolerate his nonsense acts.

Man got the message and has started avoiding me.

I later got to know that I wasn't even the only person he has bn harassing.

One thing that has gotten me far and given me peace of mind is,I don't allow people to coax me.

I give when I have and when I don't have,kindly bear with me, if you put pressure on me,I'll block you straight away, irrespective of whom you're to me.
Sorry if this comes as weird to you.

It may seemed harsh ,but I value my peace of mind a great deal.

Ahya mama na!ya ji kin ki?

Halcyon123:
Abeg send for me

Toh na Jin,I don de waybill come give you.

Doh,lots of love.

Same deity should also caution the men to keep their Gbola solely for their wives.


Our ancestors were really biased against the women folks.
What's good for the geese is equally fit for the gander.

Sure I pay bills,I don't use prepaid meter!

saintneo:
Do you have a prepaid meter? You pay bills?

Speaking of charcoal and firewood, I am not sure you leave in 2023, maybe 1800s.

Unless this comment is sarcastic.

This is where improvision comes handy.
I don't remember when last I turned my cylinders on.i have bn using hotplates in all my cooking.

I have rested my kerosene stoves,I have charcoal stoves and also an outlet where I can still use firewoods to cook.

Time for us to think outside the box

Maybe?

Miracood2:
Ok.

Is utazi the same leaf Igbos put in Abacha?

If yes, it's still kind of bitter.

Miracood2:
How una take dey eat raw ugwu? That thing is too bitter in my mouth.

It's not ugwu!
It's utazi I think!

Bean
Plantain.

Onugbu soup n white eba

R n B

Konjiboii:
To fvck na small thing, na when you don enter street you go realize say to find a woman who can manage the home,take care of kids and still cook hard die. Fvck when dey everywhere like pure water satchet..You know nothing

Nothing dey for street,nada kaka.

If you were the op will you do same to your husband Kobo?

Kobojunkie:
Divorce is not but adultery is? Come on... when did we fall so low as a people?

2. He has said enough bad about his wife which is that she is not the best fit for him. She may be "good" wife material for you but obviously not for him and what he wants. What you are doing amounts to forcing marriage on him which is to blame for the damaged state of marriage across Nigeria.

3. Wrong! Kids benefit nothing from watching Daddy and mummy live like complete strangers in the house. Studies show that the damage that kind of setting does is about the same as that a terrible divorce wrecks on them. So please, let's not use kids to blackmail people into staying in uncomfortable marriages.

How Staying in an Unhappy Marriage Can Affect Your Children

His complains are trivial.
Funny enough this woman may be in church right now praying for her foolish husband without knowing that oga have secretly prepared to divorced her.
Chai uwa.

He has bn secretly looking for ways to divorce the woman and had all these planned out.

YUSTECH3:
The problem is probably in you, you are just using yr wife to make a guard
Sex issue can be solved if proper step are taken....you are an adult I don't need to explain that much or you visit marriage counselor to train u on that

On the part of you staying alone forever I think something is actually going wrong in yr humanity....Cox normal hman being cannot stay alone forever...

A woman is instigating him to do all these.imagine a man with high effing libido staying alone...naa not possible

He's Mr bond007

franchasofficia:
Preach it!


I reject these type of stringy criminals for my daughter in Jesus name, AMEN!


My daughter will marry a cheerful, philanthropist like her father. She will marry a man that is ready to spend to make life sweet and easy for her at all time.



I wonder the useless project our Nairaland Mr Project is doing that he earns 700k and spend only 100k on his family, God forbid bad omens like this

Kobojunkie:
I am being serious abeg! This woman has "wasted" 13 years of her life catering to a man whose only guiding light comes from his dick and he is still not able to have deeper affection beyond that for her. She needs to free herself so she can love herself with all that energy, and her kids of course.

I rest my case

Kobojunkie:
Nigerians and blackmail ehn!!! She is a "good" woman who can't offer him what he needs the most. How is she "good" for him? If she is good for you, take her. She is not "good" for OP so let him set her free.

I get your sarcasm kobo

Kobojunkie:
Oh come on! Not you too! How is adultery commonsense where marriage is concerned? What happened to the so-called morality-upright Nigerians who claim they are better than other races were morals are concerned? It seems the decay is deeper than even the eye can see.

Divorce is the legal and commonsense approach in this situation, yet over 95% of posters here don't seem to see that. That should be a marker to reveal how severely damaged marriage culture in Nigeria truly is.

Divorce is not the option here babe.
He has the option of getting a side chick outside.
This man never said anything bad about his wife.
Since his high libido is the la cuna here,let him opt for side chick of high maintenance and he's good to go,it's a win win for all.

Too bad, Rip!

The criterias biko.

LOVEGINO:
I dey ur back bro.

You dey his back...when will you have sense at your miserable age?
Your brain didn't synch you that a home is about to be broken,the innocent kids will be the ones to bear the brunt of the divorce.

A foolish and selfish man who termed himself as a husband about to destroy his home with his hand because of his stupid high libido.

Common sense should have told him to seek for hole diggers outside.

And you're stupidly egging him on by saying...I dey your back.
Gaskiya you're an Im.becile

[quote author=Kobojunkie post=125750470][/quote]Disturbed teenagers.

Can you guys tell this op is not mentally sound.

Sentry2023:
Eating it in Banga sauce makes it more pleasant.

Ugba in banga sauce
Ewwwwwwwwwe
I'll pass!
Yuck!