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Romance / Re: Co-habitation by CalienteMi: 7:50pm On Mar 18, 2012 |
I will tell two of my friends who are cohabiting with their boyfriends for five years to keep waiting. The men will propose someday. Why buy the cow when you can get the milk free. I am with the men on that phrase. |
Romance / Re: Tech Industry by CalienteMi: 6:58pm On Mar 18, 2012 |
~Killz~: |
Romance / Re: Tech Industry by CalienteMi: 6:58pm On Mar 18, 2012 |
Idowuogbo: |
Romance / Re: Co-habitation by CalienteMi: 6:57pm On Mar 18, 2012 |
I wasn't in a hurry to move in with a man. I can afford my own bills/rent. |
Romance / Re: 12 Years Of Unhappy Marriage by CalienteMi: 6:55pm On Mar 18, 2012 |
Inked_Nerd: Beautifully said. I feel sorry for their daughters and sisters. |
Romance / Re: 12 Years Of Unhappy Marriage by CalienteMi: 6:52pm On Mar 18, 2012 |
For those who have used bible references, please do not pick and choose what verses to throw in someone's face. Your bible also said thou shall not kill and husbands to love thy wives. Inflicting harm and fear is "loving" thy wives? I am beginning to understand the rise of atheism. There is nothing worse than a confused believer. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: 12 Years Of Unhappy Marriage by CalienteMi: 11:43am On Mar 18, 2012 |
Apawa It seems though many people want you to stay in your marriage despite the fact that your son asked why are you staying for their sake. They have failed to realize that women in Nigeria are plenty and he will find a replacement for your children (if he wins custody) and you will be left with with only your life to spare. I have respect for some Yoruba fathers because they will remove their daughters from an abusive environment. If you decide to stay and tough it out, please allow me to customize your casket and eulogy. Do you have a specific color? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Men Would Culture Prevent You From Loving And Marrying An American Woman by CalienteMi: 10:31am On Mar 18, 2012 |
Lord_Reed: YW big boss. |
Romance / Re: Ladies Can U Get Married To A Guy With Dreadlocks by CalienteMi: 10:27am On Mar 18, 2012 |
ypzilanti: We are a bunch of hypocrites in Nigeria. We welcome the celebrities that are dreadlocked all the time. We use them for endorsements and buy thier products. We will gladly give them as husbands to our daughters and sisters, but when an average dude chooses such fashion, we recoil. Bunch of hypocrites. Money talks bullshit walks. |
Romance / Re: Ladies Can U Get Married To A Guy With Dreadlocks by CalienteMi: 10:26am On Mar 18, 2012 |
freecocoa: Na you be her spokesperson?let her speaketh for herself jorh. Shaddap! |
Romance / Re: Ladies Can U Get Married To A Guy With Dreadlocks by CalienteMi: 10:25am On Mar 18, 2012 |
Idowuogbo: Shaddap! |
Romance / Re: 12 Years Of Unhappy Marriage by CalienteMi: 10:23am On Mar 18, 2012 |
Inked_Nerd: It is funny how "we" judge westerners for divorcing like crazy when we don't even know what really goes on behind closed doors. Some women should focus on the safety of their children's lives including their own instead of lamenting on what society will think. Nigerian society doesn't protect women and will tell a woman she must stay in her marriage and die before being single and alive. Granted, divorce is seldom in Nigeria, but has extremely high domestic violence/deaths. How oxymoronic. |
Romance / Re: 12 Years Of Unhappy Marriage by CalienteMi: 10:05am On Mar 18, 2012 |
Apawa: Am married to a man who has no respect for a woman. We dated for a year and got married. I found out that my opinion doesn't count in the marriage. Its only what he wants that happen n decline advice from anyone at all. I tried to stay and make it work no matter what, in that event we had four kids. This children watch their father beat, insult and frustrate me in order to leave his house every passing day but for their sake I refuse. Mind you am just 35yrs while he's 59. My son who will turn 12 told me one day, mummy why can't you just go instead of taking all this beating for our sake, my husband expect me to just leave like that but I took my children with me but he insist i give them to him. I took the matter court which he didn't expect me to because he felt am weak. Now he's hunting me and threaten to deform me. And for the record I was not his first wife. It is sad to hear stories like this where women will stay in an abusive marriage to avoid shame, ridicule from families and friends, and being single. I am happy that your son sees abuse as painful and wrong because he will become a man one day. I hope that he doesn't repeat the cycle with his future wife. You may have to leave the city. It will be difficult for you, but go to a family member or friend that will accept you. Good luck. |
Romance / Re: What Advice Do You Have For My Pervert Friend? by CalienteMi: 9:46am On Mar 18, 2012 |
Haba! Just asking ooo |
Romance / Re: Ladies Can U Get Married To A Guy With Dreadlocks by CalienteMi: 9:43am On Mar 18, 2012 |
Idowuogbo: She doesn't want to be labeled by society as wife of an yeye fowl. |
Romance / Re: Ladies Can U Get Married To A Guy With Dreadlocks by CalienteMi: 9:42am On Mar 18, 2012 |
I guess I won't know how individuals sound "black" online? |
Romance / Re: Ladies Can U Get Married To A Guy With Dreadlocks by CalienteMi: 9:27am On Mar 18, 2012 |
Chuks84: @Talina, I'm not saying responsible means no dreadlock, I'm jst reflecting public opinion. In 9ja every madman you see on the street has dreads. So for most people, the first thing they think of is...'Is he mental?' |
Romance / Re: What Advice Do You Have For My Pervert Friend? by CalienteMi: 9:16am On Mar 18, 2012 |
phemi3: I have friend(guy); who dates anytin (not gay). He dates babes of his age mate, under age and those who are well older than him. He dates low class n high level babes. To even crown it all; he even patronizes ash**wo! I'm sayin this for you to know how raw he is! Last week, he came to my house for an advice; which I don't ve answer to. He said he met a girl (a bread seller) whom he intend to sleep with without wasting much time on her. On the D ... DDay, she told him that she knows his intention and that if he ever tries of using and dumping her; she's going to kill him. He said sometin in her voice seems(real) that this girl is not threaten him @ all. So he stopped making the advances (dint bleep her)! The question the guy puts to me now is that ' had it being he bleepd her; will she actually kill him as threaten? Or is it just an empty bluff? He's still expecting my answer. Let me know ur (nairalanders) opinions and advice. Pls no comments from pervert as well! Thanks. This new English is killing me. Threatening to kill equals perversion? |
Romance / Re: Ladies Can U Get Married To A Guy With Dreadlocks by CalienteMi: 9:11am On Mar 18, 2012 |
Chuks84: Most people supporting the op are nigerians in diaspora whose mentality have already been warped by the western world. Let's face the fact, no one will take you serious with your dreads in nigeria, you won't get a job in any corporate firm in 9ja looking like that. Its only 3 sets of people that carry dreads in the country. Those into entertainment, sportsmen and irresponsible fellows. The op confirmed it himself when he said the old people hate him. If you really loved your girl you would have shaved the dreads. Like every country, Nigeria has socio cultural values that ought to be adhered to. The public opinion of dreadlocked fellows is that they are irresponsible unless they prove otherwise. Even in the western world, dreadlocks isn't acceptable in corporate offices prior to hiring. |
Romance / Re: Ladies Can U Get Married To A Guy With Dreadlocks by CalienteMi: 9:08am On Mar 18, 2012 |
Please humor me, how does someone sound "black" online? @topic Dreadlocks is a style, however it should maintain decency. |
Romance / Re: Abusive Husband? His Destiny Should Be Polluted Using Jazz by CalienteMi: 9:06am On Mar 18, 2012 |
I am confused. Let me come back later. |
Romance / Re: Nigerian House Girls Fight Over Indian Lover by CalienteMi: 11:15pm On Mar 17, 2012 |
Indian man must have the magic kondo. |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Men Would Culture Prevent You From Loving And Marrying An American Woman by CalienteMi: 11:11pm On Mar 17, 2012 |
Lord_Reed: Handsome picture. |
Romance / Re: Nigerian Men Would Culture Prevent You From Loving And Marrying An American Woman by CalienteMi: 11:10pm On Mar 17, 2012 |
queensmith: Sad huh. |
Romance / Re: ???????????????????? by CalienteMi: 11:38pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
mg215: That's correct and not all Africans aren't the same either. |
Romance / Re: Is It A Crime 4 Me 2 Mrry A Lady Dat Is Olda Dan Me? by CalienteMi: 11:32pm On Jan 04, 2012 |
LMAO@as long as she recognizes you as head of the family. |
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