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First dates aren't a pop quiz or a final exam. Its supposed to be a simple socialization between two people who is testing the waters.

First dates should be at a public place where you have options of walking in the park, drinking tea or coffee discussing meaningful topics, attending a public event of common interest together, and going to a nice eatery where the mood is relaxing and comfortable.

To get over the cold feet or jitter bugs, just imagine you are out with your best friend or fave person.

rokiatu:
Wifey, you don't want me to eat free money?

Keep it up and I will be visiting Hottie Tima's parents for bride price negotiations.

I am going to ask you firmly to remove Rokiatu from your list. I won't be asking you again nicely. Thanks.

She will not ask for a BB.

You better enjoy that glow while it lasts.

^^^^^^

You too.

annita19:
That statement is so ferocious. Even in culture where divorce is an option shits happen. So they need to take law into their own hands to be free from abusive spouse?

No, they do not need to take law into their own hands but shit happens as you have stated.

A woman.

LMAO@for fun but not for keeps.

Thank you.

OP

That is a classic case of "I am better than you because I am all that and then some".

Let me ask Halle Berry, what's like being "all that" and divorced/dumped thrice?

MRbrownJAY:
^^sadly many women out there go through BS all their lives because of desperation to be in a r/ship or what not.

how many are so emotionally damaged that they just accept whatever BS is thrown at them, from one r/ship to the next?

to "some", the AIM is to get married at all cost!!!

I see it all the time. Such a shame.

The culture looks down on divorce so the best option is to kill the spouse. As I have stated many times, if you have to sleep with a plastic fork under your pillow you might as well GO.

This is what happens when families turn their head around and pretend like everything is okay.

There are many reasons why people would ditch their intended spouse. I can imagine how the person feels being left at the altar on the most important days of their life and the person whom they love is breaking their heart.

I always tell people know whom you are about to marry and be sure that this person will walk down the path with you in life no matter what. I truly believe that everyone has a mate but some people will never meet their mate because they do not listen to their heart.

The guy could have listened to something and made a decision base on what he felt at the time or something came up and he got cold feet. There are many reasons why people do the things that they do.

Look on the bright side, the bride didn't waste any more time. The guy could have waited years living a lie which would have been worse than being dumped at the altar.

sexkillz:
May you never have your way!. . . . . . . AMEN!

Don't be jealous. Hiissssssssssssss.

If I had my way, a see through trouser with bustier.

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
sadly the problem was YOU and had always been YOU. therefore i am safe to say that unless you become stronger in your future r/ships, you may certainly end up with the same BS again and again.

My granny always said, "There are some things you do not recycle and that's bullshit".

No one should tell you that relationships are hard work because each relationships have different outcome.

Anything you do in life is work. It doesn't necessarily has to be hard because your relationship is what you put into it. If you are lazy in your partnership then it will show.

Common sense will tell people to look at the couple to your right and ask yourself IS THAT WHAT YOU WANT in yours?

Problematic relationships in itself isn't the problem, you are. I believe we all get the memo that relationships require work but many of us chooses to ignore the memo hence the issues many of us are facing or have faced.

You are older than 60?

You are an elder?

amefi:
What happened to your id Mrs Chima?

Who is that? You smoking igbo?

Nigerian men like women with bigger nyansh? I guess flat arses (Mostly white women) I have seen Nigerian men grabbing in America must be an optical illusion.

I guess the men going to DODGE my question. Its all good. I expected it.

Who is Chima?

I am going to work with just a singlet and two cherries on my breasts.

I am changing the image of work attire.

I don't gerrit. Why is it an issue if women want to spend money on men? I thought YOU men were complaining women do not step up and offer anything in return but suck you dry.

What is the problem? Not all women DEPEND on men to provide for them and sell their time in exchange for cash and gifts. Don't be fooled.

Only a truly broke woman will do that. Is that what you men want? Be honest.

No thanks. I just had a nightmare ooo

That thang^^^ always talking about humping someone.

I have noticed men starting to get a bit bold when it comes to women's arse. I seen a man deliberately walk right behind an ample arse Sister and grazed his crotch over her arse.