Hmm.

Someone said that you can't steal a person who doesn't want to be stolen however Lord Reed make an interesting point...it will not deduce seduction, entrapment, and blackmail.

We live in a world where dog eats dog and the strongest survive. One of the question that I want guys to answer honestly...why many of you guys are in denial when someone say that your friends or someone know isn't to be trusted because they too can steal your woman?

I asked several guys that question and the first thing they say, "Not my boys". How do one know that? We all have some friends that we "trust" but 100%? Who to say that your trustworthy friends will not succumb to the power of the demons and attempt to test your friendship?

Let be honest here

If men cheats and women accept it..they will continue to cheat freely.

The difference between girls and women is that one is a minor and one is an adult.

Flaws and immaturity knows no age or background.

Guys....how would you react when a guy tells you that he will steal your woman? Would you take that as a joke or seriously?

I have heard guys online and offline say that men aren't into snatching wives or girlfriends that is something women toward the men. Do you agree? Why are most guys in denial that their friends or associates will not cross the line?

Would you maintain a friendship with a guy that crossed a line with you? Like SAFO always say...Bros before hoes...is that the case with you?

Your thoughts?

This is Mrs. Chima...why was my response to Sagamite's comment to me hidden twice and the accounts banned twice

No rules were broken. Is responding to Sagamite off limit or something

Damn!!!!!!

Class adjourned!

Bending to beg a man to stay is completely different from bending to respect an elder.

Why beg a man that doesn't want you in the first place?
Why would you want to be with a man that you have to beg to stay?
Are you a dog barking for a bone from the owner?

Ileke-IdI:


True.

She needs to discuss the problems they've had with her. If it's something recurrent, then maybe it's her. I dont want her to get hurt by a Yoruba man because to be honest, I'm sick of the attacks on Yoruba women because of reckless relationships.

PS: I hope she understands that Nigeria also has Bini, Fulani, Ijaw, etc. Incase she lucks out on this one.

I don't see how Yoruba women should have anything to do with how Yoruba men behave. It is like a Nigerian woman dating a White guy from Ireland and blame all Irish women for being unhappy.

I am kind of disappointed in Nigerian men because they always pride themselves being the most educated and brainy, but tied down with dumb women. It makes them look bad and desperate.

Now I have a slight disagreement on the "loose" marriage, Igbo and Yoruba men are very close in marrying fat whales and yes I did see a few of them from Finland.

Ileke-IdI:
So you've been dating Nigerian men all your life abi? What happened to AA men?

No problem. Look, I'm a Yoruba woman myself. I'll tell you to be careful with your Yoruba man. They're as sweet and confident as possible. But there might be a possibility of you becoming a second wife when he brings home his Yoruba wife.

But I'm happy for you sha


Just dont come with another ID bashing the Yoruba ppl (esp Yoruba women) IF he dumps you. Keep us updated.
I highly recommend that you go back to Igbo men. They're more "loose" when it comes to dating outside of their nationality/ tribe. Have you been to Finland? You should see the fat whales they marry.



Oloshi ni awon okurin Yoruba yii sha. Se oru eleyi ni won n gbe wa ki mumci? chaiii!!

Nigerian men as a whole isn't the problem, but it is the type of men she is attracting that is the problem. I am not saying there is something "off" with her from my opinion, but it is obvious that they see some defects in her.

Blaming a whole group because of a few rotten apples is sophomoric to the tenth degree. For her sake, she need to self evaluate before throwing herself into a pack of wolves.

Now I have a slight disagreement on the "loose" marriage, Igbo and Yoruba men are very close in marrying fat whales and yes I did see a few of them from Finland.

Ileke-IdI:


Should this then explain why you think your profile picture is smegzy?

I could have sworn they are sister and brother.

Freiburger: If a women is independent with having a job, her own place & car but she is very needy when it comes to love. Is she still considered to be an independent women-if not what is she?

If by that description doesn't make her an independent woman then it should apply the same for men. I see men in Nigeria have their own place and job but depend on wives/women to please them. It appears "needy" in my opinion.

MRbrownJAY: the important question IS: how the hell did she get pregnant for another man?!

She opened her legs, the guy entered, and ejaculated inside her.

~Killz~:
Someone i can live with until death do us part! That "I can't live without you" line is plain BULLSHIT!

Majority of people reading this have been heart broken at least once. They suffered that heart break from someone that they must have said "I can't live without you" to. But the person is no longer with them. . . Are they still not alive? Abegi make i hear word!

I cant live without you ke, are you food?

Yes, you are right. I was heart broken when I found out my mailman is gay!

The fight is over with?

It was boring anyways. (spins a matrix kick into Inkerd's neck)

Inked_Nerd: ::[/b]jabs CalienteMi in the rib[b]::

Stop chomping so loud. Na wa for you! Pass the popcorn

(hits triple back flips and lands in a Chinese split) Say what?

(eating popcorn loudly)

OP

Be careful because sometimes family members can be jealous or childish and you have to live with your decision.

Who are you going to be happy for, you or your family?

Latrice699@gmail.com:
WTH!!!!!!!!!!!!! What gud is my email, gonna do him? Crazy Nigerians,lol

Hmm. You just don't know. Bittery is emailing you now.

Inked_Nerd: @OP: In as much as I may agree with some things that you've said, its no different from any other culture in the world. I have met Americans who are just as close minded as Nigerians. I hang out out with a lot of second generation Italian Americans and first/second generation Easter Europeans and lemme tell you something, they too are judgmental as well yet I don't go around that a whole nation of people are that one way. Everyone is different.

That's true. Italian Americans are something else.

bittyend:

Afro-yank, loud and obnoxious race of people. Like I said earlier, Ms Afro-yank - I don't do snowflakes - I do Southern fried chicken lovers, with gigantic bootie. I see you're scared to flaunt your body because you have that typical, ghetto Afro-yanks McDs assisted body, huh? Tuck in your belly next time before coming here to insult Nigerians.

I still wanna see you twerking that bootie, though

You are so silly. You spent five minutes insulting her then asked to see her bootie.

bittyend: Hey yank, don't come here sounding "holier than tho" because Nigerians got their swag from you yanks. I'm feeling your pic, tho - but you need to show me what you're working with. Your face is like 6/10. I know you Afro-yanks and your southern fried chicken have big bums. Let me see what you've got, so I can hit you up on your e-mail, and get you over to London - for some Naija hospitality made in South London

Did you check her username? It has her email address on it.

Daresh:

I hate it when ppl talk shit like this. It really drives me crazy. I mean what the H3LL! How can you say the what guarantees the next man will be better? That is the most stewpid thing I have ever heard. For her 12 year old son to ask her to leave the man shows how bad the situation is. It is safer for her and her kids to be free of the bastard.

@ OP, madam you tried. 12 yrs! I for don poison the bastard tey tey!

Na wa oo

~Killz~:

What's the emotional difference between breaking up and divorce?
Was it in the sole year you spent with him that you go to know him?
If you are matured enough to cohabit, why not get married?
The first year of co-habitation can be likened to the first year of marriage, true or false?
Is there any justification for co-habiting?
Co-habiting is selfish, it's demeaning and is an insult. A man does not consider you worthy enough to marry you outright, and you think that's cool?
Did you adapt to those faults in one year?
Did you date him prior to co habiting with him?
If you dated him prior to cohabiting, why did you need an extra year? What was the point of the extra year?
Do you really value marriage by cohabiting?
How would you have felt if you had been at the receiving end of a boot, asking you to get lost after cohabiting?
Did you know that marriages from co-habitation have a greater chance of crumbling?
Do you know, that the same attitude you had towards co-habitation, a carefree attitude, is the same attitude you have towards your marriage?

That cohabitation worked for you doesn't mean Nada! All excuses given in support of co habitation, and all the energy spent on striving to make co-habitation work could have been channeled to making your marriage work out. . . In the end, there really is no excuse for cohabiting. It's just another avenue to live immorally and illegally together. Unless you are a quintessential hypocrite, i see no reason why a Christian should accept cohabitation to the extent of supporting and recommending it to others. . .

"Playing house for some people" is like test driving the product. It is their way of making sure they are compatible in all areas. However, some people "play house" to survive homelessness or to save money. There are other factors that people should keep in mind, if your name isn't on the deed/lease then you have no legal recourse against real estate violations or if the relationship doesn't work out there is no legal division of property.

Legal marriage may not be a priority to some, but if they are "playing house", it is illegal marriage. What is the point of "playing house" and why do some people need five or 10 years to "test drive"? It would have been different if there is no intention of marriage, but what happens if the partner dies and next of kin takes everything? Even wills can be contested by next of kins.

It is true there is no guarantees in marriages nor relationships, but when children are involve, gambling with their securities is selfish.

If you can "play house", you can get married. Simple.