₦airaland Forum

ModestGal:
You don't know the meaning of good parental upbringing. No matter what you are,it is the fault of your parents

Your personality/behaviour is determined by two factors, environment and genetics.
Parents provide both environment and genetics for you. Training a child goes beyond telling the child what to do and what not to do, it goes beyond disciplining a child.
Have you seen people coming back to Nigeria just because they want to raise thier children well? They are trying to train the child in the right environment, because it really matters in what a child becomes

Have you seen parents researching schools and the type of children going into the school? Thats trying to put the child in the right environment to grow

Genetics can also prone people to become a cultist, that has to do with what you inherited mentally from your parents. We often inherent emotions, the way we perceive the world etc.
We all have our default logic, that we inherited, that's why we have two twins, where one is extremely gentle and calm and the other a complete opposite, even though they are trained by thesame parents.
It is the duty of parents to be self aware of their mental health,so that they know what they will transfer their children, as well as study their childrens mentally, so they know how to best train them.
In Nigeria, what they think good parenting is, is shouting and screaming "don't join bad gangs', taking children to church, beating children, they do not care about the root causes of anti social behaviours, which many atoms deeper than what is seen on the surface. Sometimes,it's not because a child join bad gangs, that's why no matter how some children are told not to, they still do. Meanwhile,some will never join bad gangs even if no one tells them.

How many parents care if thier children has low self esteem?, low confidence, easily influenced etc

Parenting is WORk, but 90% of Nigerians see if as fun, and give birth like dogs.
If they start punishing parents, people will start understanding they have a job to do, and we will have many people that would lock up their sexual organs, so we can live in a saner climate

I agree.

Feggie3:
So in a society where everybody decide to be a cultist do you think you will live to tell the tale. Even if you survive it. Your mother or sister shall fall victim to terror. Nobody has the monopoly of violence...

Okay, I am still alive and telling you the tale so far...


As for monopoly of violence, when we get to that bridge we will burn it.

Feggie3:
Your father should hand you over to the police. It will save both him and the society a lot... Maybe after blending you in jail. The government may send you to rehab and then provide u a semi meaningful life...

Yea, you might think so.. If my father handed me to the police the first time, if gain freedom do you think i would be around my father after that? Do you know how many times i was handed to the police? How many times i was jailed? Do you know if my father even knew were i was? When you are in a gang you don't want your families to be associated with it.

Semi meaningful life? it sounds very easy doesn't it?

So na children dem wan corrupt with their corruption mentality? I laugh in Almajiri..

Khd95:
that girl mouth go too sharp ehn

she go collect bribe too.

richmond500:
I never said Governor, I said will u beat the government?

If ur mother trained u very well, u won't joined, I have been enticed many times to join cultism but I refused to, my parents back then are wealthy and capable of providing my everyday needs, they advice me and I was my parents best friend, they know my friends, up till university, they weren't strict on me but they kept me in check, advice me, we usually have family discussion and fun, my dad will always gist what happened at work, mom will gist what happened at work, my sisters will gist about the boys that approach them and i always gist about my friends, I grew up and and didn't see any relevant things in cultism as it takes away happiness.

Ur parents did a bad job in bringing u up

Government that cannot take care of boko haram and unknown gun men. goverment do not care about cultists, the same cultists they recruit during campaigns?

Your parents are wealthy. Every body's parents are not wealthy, some parents cannot even feed their own children, some children never see their father for weeks. Some children go hungry for days. It wasn't because your parents were wealthy. You just weren't enticed like you said. There are so many wealthy kids in cults or gangs.

You don't know my parents. They are the best parents. I made the choice of becoming a gang member there was nothing my parents could have done to stop me.

Are you blaming my parents for not been wealthy?

When you have your own kids we will see how you are gonna raise them.

ModestGal:
You don't know the meaning of good parental upbringing. No matter what you are,it is the fault of your parents

Your personality/behaviour is determined by two factors, environment and genetics.
Parents provide both environment and genetics for you. Training a child goes beyond telling the child what to do and what not to do, it goes beyond disciplining a child.
Have you seen people coming back to Nigeria just because they want to raise thier children well? They are trying to train the child in the right environment, because it really matters in what a child becomes

Have you seen parents researching schools and the type of children going into the school? Thats trying to put the child in the right environment to grow

Genetics can also prone people to become a cultist, that has to do with what you inherited mentally from your parents. We often inherent emotions, the way we perceive the world etc.
We all have our default logic, that we inherited, that's why we have two twins, where one is extremely gentle and calm and the other a complete opposite, even though they are trained by thesame parents.
It is the duty of parents to be self aware of their mental health,so that they know what they will transfer their children, as well as study their childrens mentally, so they know how to best train them.
In Nigeria, what they think good parenting is, is shouting and screaming "don't join bad gangs', taking children to church, beating children, they do not care about the root causes of anti social behaviours, which many atoms deeper than what is seen on the surface. Sometimes,it's not because a child join bad gangs, that's why no matter how some children are told not to, they still do. Meanwhile,some will never join bad gangs even if no one tells them.

How many parents care if thier children has low self esteem?, low confidence, easily influenced etc

Parenting is WORk, but 90% of Nigerians see if as fun, and give birth like dogs.
If they start punishing parents, people will start understanding they have a job to do, and we will have many people that would lock up their sexual organs, so we can live in a saner climate

I can bet my butt you have no children. If you did you would not come out with a these rubbish.


People join gangs because of peer pressure. Coercion by school friends, street hommies. Sometimes even threatned to join. Sometimes you don't even know that you have been initiated.


The best way to resolve the problem is by holding criminals responsible for their crimes. Otherwise criminals would resort to blaming their innocent parents.

Some children rebel against their parents regardless of how well they were raised. You as a parent cannot follow your child were ever they go 24/7. You might aswell lock them indoors and never let them out.

As i ve said you have never raised a 17, 18 or 19 years old teenager.

richmond500:
u go beat the govt? Hahahaha.

God did not create u as a cultist, ur mother didn't play her part very well and is responsible for ur stupid choice

Governor is a human being, he is not invincible. He is not superman.

God didn't create me, God doesn't exist. My mother played her part very well... my mother is not responsible for my crimes.. as i ve said you don't have kids. If you did you would not sound like this.


People join cults and gangs because of peer pressure. Friends and mates from school. Sometimes they are even forced or threatned to join. Sometimes you don't even know that your friends are in gangs until you find out the hard way.

The best way to deal with the problem is to hold the cultists responsible for their crimes.

richmond500:
So u know cultism is bad abi, no worry, when them hold ur mother and do public flogging, no body go tell u to amend ur ways

Well... imagine what i would do to the people who would "hold" my moher just imagine it.

Absolute bullshit! This governor is dumb, stupeed and ignorant. Are children going to be arrested too for their parent's crimes?


My father is a so called pastor and mother is a very good christian, and they raised me very well.. in their so called christian and Godly way. But it didn't stop me from becoming a gang member and a criminal.


Stupeed kangaroo law! Does this dumb governor even has the right to do such? Violate parents human rights, I am the criminal not my parents.

richmond500:
Good, if u train ur child very well, he wouldn't depart from it when he grows up
Most people become cultists, ritualists and kidnappers cos their parents couldn't even give them a life or a good foundation, u born pikin finish send am to go sell pure water for ajah and expect him to be a pastor?
u as a cultist, if u like ur parent, u better desist

Total rubbish! Ignorant mentality. My parents "train" me very well as you put it, but it didn't stop me from becoming a cultist and a criminal. you are stupeed!

I am the cultist not my parents. I can bet my ass you have not children or child.

This zoom can be hacked anyway.

Ugelee goldigger.

Ugelee creatures.

Ignorant hoes.

That is if Tinubu don't kick the bucket before 2023.

A drug dealer.

I am living my childhood dreams.

I love benz i ve driven atleast 4 benzs but i would not wanna be buried with or in a benz.

Wiseandtrue:
Which secrecy

Someone has something to hide

Someone don chop money meant for better payment!!!

Absolutely!

Phyde:
She received a landed property at Ibeju lekki and the ladies of your view presented a car gift to her. Long life YK.

While some people are still poor and hungry in Lagos. They are hyporcrites.

See natural hair, No wig or fake hair.

Layze:
Why these stress and hate bro?
Can't you just scroll and leave??

I wonder. poverty have driven that one mad with hates.

dairykidd:
Oga close ur mouth there. Do u know what it takes to live in Monaco? U think is by doing odd jobs and eating shitty burgers?

Yea I know ur type. You think because u live in Europe u have made it in life.. All u have are pics to be deceiving stupid girls here. No come here dey type nonsense

@shitty burgers.

Does she have big butt?

Pharaoh4rin:
God blessed the rich

but Godly people are not usually rich or want to be rich, they claim that their rewards are in heaven. Where the f...k is heaven? No one knows.

pdr122:
life with God is the sweetest there is, any other thing comes after

yea! Keep telliing yourself that lie. You will die poor.

Shimran:
And he cannot save himself from the forceful crucifixion

I wonder. Jesus could not save himself.

Buffalo2:
You are very correct. All I see is effect of over speeding.

he probarbly was drunk too.

onegig:
Good for him.

He should not limit speeds, be running om Nigerian roads like you are on Autobahn. He might not be lucky another time.

he probarbly was drunk too.

How did his car got under the truck in the first place? Was he drunk? Speeding? His has no brakes? Was he driving recklessly?



It is all good praising God but the driver should be asked these questions above. Next time he might not make it. What a waste of a good car.