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Yusufisraelj:
@Candycrushy

Most times in life when a repeated cycle has been established in our dealings, it's not far fetched to say an external influence is involved which is not visible.

You can be the nicest lady in the world, it won't change jack bkos what's on you controls what's around you.

Like someone said up there, people may not regard prayer as a big deal but it changes a lot. I'll advice you have a consistent time you pray everyday for at least 15 minutes, try this in two months and thank me for life.

Secondly you have to be introspective, what type of mindset, character and relationships do you keep around you, what are the value (morals) those people or mindset subscribe to, are they long term or short term, destructive or non destructive. Your company largely influences your outcomes big time.

Lastly most decent guys may not fancy certain lifestyle like hair dying while it is not wrong most times it sends a bad vibe, I'm telling you from a guys perspective I don't and never intend to condemn. I come in peace.

I get ur point
Thank u

artimisfowler:
Ok I am very glad that you felt some form of guilt for what you did, there’s still humanity in there.
Well, like I said he acted foolishly, I guess you did what you thought was your last resort, I can’t judge you, our morning prayers should include not to meet people that are not in God’s plan for us. Meanwhile let’s connect

Yeah...amen to that prayer
Thank you

E don do abeg oo

AutoChick4U:
Pray about it, yours will definitely come.

Thank u
Amen

AutoChick4U:
Next man you meet, keep it all to yourself. Tell no one.

I'm not that type btw
I dont announce my rlship publicly
Thanks anyway

felixzo1:
you are very polite, I like that about you.

Oh.....
Thank youu

jornwhite:
Hehhehee ! children of nowadays ... even d boyfriend i wan give you we never negotiate you don dey point to husband you know much husband go dey collect as salary

dear listen to me, i pray ur own children listen to you tew

Let ur own children listen to you first...and who told u I'm looking for somebody's son to buy
So weird

MALIGNANTGuest:
I just have one Question..
Hope you wouldn't mind?
Please, what ALL do you intend giving a man?
I ask because I had a lot of women around me before I picked one for marriage.
And during this time, most kept saying such..
But within me I knew, most wia recipes 4 disaster

Please, Answer my question..
Thanks

Peace of mind and absolute companinship

jornwhite:
Then you should be able to employ "a boyfriend" that knows his job as a boyfriend, with a good salary he won't dare to fvckup.


I only give this advise to gurls i consider my daughter ... Hire a boyfriend nd thank me later.

Lol....not even a husband...
Wen I'm not a sugar mommy
Abeg ooo
I'm not interested

ObiaboAdoka:
Examine ursef wela nd c y relationship r not working for u. Harmattan is here in my area nd i need breathing blanket. If u don't mind we can start something in dis winter season nd c wer it will lead us to. Shalom.

I'm not a blanket pls
Thank you

artimisfowler:
Yea, I guess so, but it simply feels off and inhuman to attack someone’s job. Yes he may have been very stupid as is common with humiliated men, there are many other ways to bring him to book. Including having your strong relative call and return his threat or even report him to any police friend you have or even make an entry if it was that bad and have him arrested to sign an undertaking.

Ok even if you succeeded in taking his taking (destroying his life in a way), don’t you think he would have carry out his threat even if it were a mere threat before then. I mean he would then actually had a reason to harm you, I know a desperate man can be dangerous even if it would ultimately lead to his destruction.

As you also said he came apologising, just to show you that he never really meant those words. A real man would never hurt a woman especially one he claims/claimed to love. He was just humiliated and became stupid to save face. Please don’t take such rash decision again.

I'm no longer in the same location with him so he wouldn't have any means to hurt me
Besides I tried having my relatives , friends and my siblings call him n chat with him...he blocked everyone...to show how serious he was..i was really scared...i can't say everything here...i couldn't go anywhere because of fear...after he was sacked, I felt a little guilt tho...but it's well

SmartPolician:
You are writing NONSENSE.
If a girl says no, you guys should learn to respect that. Relationship is a choice, not by force. I hope guys learn from that.

@Candycrushy, if that's your real picture, you are beautiful. However, I get the impression that you are forming a bad girl. So, how do you expect to attract the good guys when you keep forming a bad girl?

IMO, you should join a group or society in church. Get close to God and interact with people who are active in church. The truth remains that you are more likely to see a much more decent guy in church (not those who only come to church on Sundays) than in a night club.

Good luck!!

I get your point
Thanks
Btw...I dont form bad girl for any reason...I'm just a little good God fearing girl

FahBuLous:
Candycrushy, I'm here o ..
Come and take me ...

Lol...take you to where

Rickmann:
This is one problem with Nigerian guys, their crazy sense of entitlement to everything.

Damn shame!

Lol

Rickmann:
Well, I stay in Anambra as well and could be that missing piece in ur life's puzzle..

You never know, girl.

Missing puzzle kwa
Oga rickman

22o62021:
Annastecia

I’m single let’s mingle

But you sure say you no get those ogbanje mood swings wey women dey always get

I be ogbanje normally

Lollittaa:
take heart ♥️

You dont know me dear
We dont have to appear on Forbes list to prove we are rich ok
My family and me, we are rich and comfortable
Thank you

Fiscus105:
Even though ur post is figment of imaginations

Adage says bird of a feather flocks together. You ask urself, the type of person you are, most especially ur mentality and dressing in relating with guys.

If you are bad, no matter how good the man is, it will end bad, also by giving you gift and money, not a yard still to being good as majority of women believe.
.

I get ur point
Thanks

artimisfowler:
You actually intentionally sent a mail to someone’s employer lol knowing that it could get a person sacked?
In this current economy? Did you give him the job? Are you alright? E she alright dem say make I ask you oo
Little wonder why you meet troubled souls in clothing of men.

Well, if I am to advise you, what you need now is not to find “good men” but to find yourself. Evaluate yourself, no one knows you better than you, find your weaknesses and fix yourself, you can do what you did and still proud to say it, means something is wrong with you okay. You’re not wicked, it’s more of a mental deficiency. Hope you find my input useful, you’re welcome.

What happened btw was more than what I posted publicly....and pls dont jump to conclusions without getting enough proof
I'm not what I described me as too
He really pushed me to send that mail...what if sth bad happens to me before I could have made a move

femi4:
Look inward...likes attract likes. You probably have a character flaw. Whenever you blame others everytime for woes, just search yourself, you might be the problem

Thanks
I'll look into that

Bigpapi:
Your Toto don suffer

Or ur mama own

BadRadio:
consider a change in lifestyle, environment and mentality, there is no bad or good guy out there, How you carry or present yourself determines what side of their personality they put forward towards you. It's that simple !!! The problem is not the guys, the problem is you !!!

Lol
Maybe it's me
Cos most times I dont give just anybody a chance to come close to me

Kuriosmynd:
Look for one struggling guy that is okay, who will be proud and happy to be your boyfriend...then your problem is solved...u might even help him to get his groove going ...
And u live happy ever after .cos he will be ready to gist and give u that tingles..

But una problem be say, u can't open ur eyes enough to see guys that are willing to love u, cos he's probably still struggling and doesn't look human to u people

You're funny sha...lol
Why are you saying sth reasonable then contradicting it at same time

Please dont mind my typos...
Y'all remember my last post about how a guy threatened me because I didn't ask his proposal. He works at gigm. Well...after much considerations on how to go about the issue, I decided to send gigm a mail to lodge my compliant, I was also able to gather enough evidence from our chats and sent to them.
Gigm promised me to look into the matter, he got sacked few days after. The guy in question chatted me to beg me to send gigm another mail telling them that we have settled so he can called back.....he sha called me to apologize and all..that aside...
.
I sit back sometimes and ask questions to myself...like, why am I always unlucky with guys, I wouldn't deny that I haven't met the good ones, just very few of them..it ended in a very bad way
Ever since, its been from frying pan to fire...just when I decide to give my all to one person, boom...everything goes bad...I'm happy for one thing tho, I have something that keeps me busy, I'm not an idle person. But sometimes when I'm alone, back from work, need someone to gist and laugh with...there's no one...I have friends tho, but there's always a difference with that special one...I'm not desperate for anything, this just me thinking my life while lying on my bed after a stressful day's work....

Solatium:
Junk her before she ground you

So why did u leave the one that was industrious

Ipisi:
Hahahaha....

Nah big money for alot of ladies oooo

3k for sub is a lot of money?
No offense but where do y'all meet these girls

jadyclem:
Why won't you like what he did since it favoured your sister! Sometimes, it's not how big or small the money requested is, but the insincerity of the requester. Some girls know they're not interested in the guy but the'll still want to collect something from him. Why?

Thank God you said some girls
Cos i dont knw wer they meet all those girls from
Anyway...i still liked wat the guy did
Just like me...ego dey too much

jadyclem:
You vex sent her 3k...make ur ego no go do you strong thing. She manipulated your ego by calling you stingy and you just fell yakata! Women go like to dey patronize man like you because you seem very easy to manipulate

Bros stop interpreting it the other way
I love wat the guy did
Wats 3k btw

toujurs:
I want to plait my hair, but my dad said he doesn't have the money for such now, can you help me with 5k

Where do y'all meet these kinda girls....lol

Him....When are you coming to see me
Me....where?
Him...my house

*****Geddifok out modafucka*****

Iamicekid:
Do your partner do am everyday, or unna just dey do am for the gram, Na simple question wey anyone can comprehend I ask

If you be my partner,the day wey u stop to do am
I go break ur head

Iamicekid:
Hope it’s not a one time thing, cause me as a person, i no fit dey do something I can’t keep up with, that’s why all this opening car door for your partner always be like scam, cause u can’t tell me u do it every time, so what’s is the essence

So whats the big deal in opening and closing door