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Inside life.....
Somebody will just wake up and decide that he will reap where he didn't sow.
The rest thieves won't still learn

There's no wrong place to find love abeg
A friend of mine met her husband in a club then
So waht are u saying op

chatinent:
It's inbuilt in you.

Its inbuilt in you too

KingOdart:
Yes I am a very handsome man

Lol
No one would ever accept being called ugly
Console yourself dear

Mine was a day i was with my boyfriend, then my other boyfriend appeared from nowhere

I was into a serious dating game with each then
I wished the ground should just open n swallow me then
At least i later came back home with my head unhurt
I doubledate no more

KingOdart:
No sensible man want to date a woman that look like this

Igbo amaka

And you are finer??

SouthSouth1914:
Igbo ladies are the worst to date or marry

Same goes for you
You are the worst yourself

[quote author=wwwihy post=103841558]Yam leg
Chest full hair
Ritualists
Blood money
Baby factory
Drugs
Osu
Children trafficking
lack of home training

I beg God forbids[/quote]And your tribe is caretaker in heaven abi
Smh

compton11:
ain't nobody want to date yam legged Na!

Its not funny bro

pansophist:
What I do that makes people respect me.

1. I own my shit. One thing you'll never see me do is borrow money from you, or expect you to pay my bills (eg if we go out), or by just becoming a burden to people. Never. I'll rather sweep Oshodi expressway to Mile 2 and get paid, than beg for money. My life motto is that I must be able to carry my own weight at least.

2. Self treatment. I don't eat, drink, or digest any rubbish because its sweet. So smoking, drinking beer and soda, and any unhealthy substance is a no no. You are what you eat. If you eat junk, you'll look like junk. If I lift my shirt right now, you'll see clean six packs. No joke. Eating for taste instead of nutrition is a key to self respect. Let food by thy medicine. And the best part is that you'll be fine and healthy.

3. Useless friends - I get mentioned alot on nairaland for example, but if you don't have sense I won't waste a single energy responding to you. I have few friends, and they matter. If I call three of my friends right not that I need cash, four will respond positively. Doesn't mean I ask, just telling you the quality of friends I keep. If you keep idiots as friends, you'll suffer from idiotic problems.

4. Keeping to my lane - infact it is only nairaland I write a lot but in real life, I'm a damn introvert. I'll be looking like I did not know anything but my brain has done all the quadratic equations and guessed accurately what anyone is up to. So yea, do not go where you're not invited, and keep to yourself. Don't talk anyhow. It's tempting I know, but just shut up man.

5. Competence - this is the most important one. You must be good at something. Pick on thing and do it well. It can be anything, but it's easier if you're passionate about it. For example when I was in school, I was known as the best writer and speaker. Like seriously it's impossible to sleep if I handle the mic. Dem no born you well. Try am. You can't. I've always been interested about how the human process words, and calibrated my speech in such a way that sparks your interests and brings out that childlike curiosity that has been beaten away by suffering of adulthood.

When you're good at something, people will come to you for it. And it brings confidence. You'll feel good about yourself and your ability, and respect will come naturally.

5. Exercise. I hold the opinion that you can't feel confident if you know deeply that you're not physically attractive. When you can easily get in and out of relationship and have options scattered around you, you'll have confidence as it signifies your value. Think about it, why do young girls of maybe 17, that are broke, have no achievement in the real world but have ego the size of aso rock? Yea you guess right. They are at their prime, naturally attractive, hence the confidence. They know the value they hold, and it let them navigate life with pride. As a man, you can tap from it too. Go lift heavy weight man, eat healthy and rock a bad ass beard. Fine like mad. Even if you're an idiot, your confidence will sky rocket.

Self disappointment - stop it. You said you'll visit grandma but didn't go, or that you'll loose weight but slack. Or your new year resolution dumped. Come on man. If you disappoint yourself, then its impossible to respect yourself. Do shit you want to do, dutifully. And do things that are hard. The only way out is always through it. If you can't rely on the promise you gave yourself, why would someone else do? Treat yourself like someone you care for. It's hard I know, but its the way out.

Would have written more, but I'm tired. Digest this one first. Later jare.

I was already enjoying your write up
I will love to see more

hustla:
If You use Google Pixel, you no go near Samsung again

Google pixel camera is madddd
Samsung dey drag line with am

24brains:
willful giving is different from entitlement mentality most ladies have.

Sha get my point. Byee

24brains:
na so men take pamper women spoil. A woman should not totaly depend on man to look expensive.

So can you give or not
You sound really stingy tho

Na everyday person dey die for this country

Who fine face epp abeg. Just make money n be comfortable

Shikina

daneni1:
Detol destroys the good bacteria in your skin, detol is only good for mopping the ground and washing clothes, not for your skin for it makes your skin to be lazy to fight germs.

Really?

pyyxxaro:
Hope your preeek never change to this color oh

Your body con be like wetin Devil messss put


Mix Akaanwu, Cameroon pepper and Devil’s beans together, grind it and rub twice daily



Thank me later

Which one is cameroon pepper abeg. How can u be harsh

Omo
This girl was my neighbor back then in hall two

Nawa oo
She wan trend na. She don enter trouble
God abeg o

Sheriman:
Na dem birds of the same feather

If you see a fine girl, you will definitely be attracted to her, na money she use to maintain beauty
If she looks like a mad woman. You wouldn't wanna approach her
So my point is if you have the money and can take care of your woman. Do so and stop making a big fuss from it

If you have the money why don't you give her and rest abeg
Must everything be debated about?

Beloved3:
So what's the update? What decision have you decided to take going forward and what was her reaction when you canceled the trip?

What are you talking about pls??

Some girls are just so stupid. Op i pray God blesses you with who your heart really desires. Good riddance to bad rubbish

Karleb:
Next time, open a piggyvest account.

How do I open it pls

I like guys with big lips anyways... Op don't feel worried about yours pls, a girl that will love and appreciate you that will definitely come your way

Toks2008:
Just 12years. Smh

Isn't it on a high side?

I mistakenly sent 8k to another person instead of my bro just last week, and that was my last money then... Since then, I've been careful... I sha wish the person will still send it back

stanliwise:
if he is a person with an open mindset then you can only be the one not ready.
Men at older age can still produce heathy children, so.....

When my ex caught me cheating on him... It was so weird
Dont ask me for details

Can i talk to him...

Am i the only person that hardly experience this same issue
Well... Maybe I'm lucky.. Lol

Erojepromise:
No wrong there na , just follow your heart and do the right thing some of these older men give better tender loving than their younger counterparts

I know right..
Thanks

TOPCRUISE:
Maybe you should ask Regina Daniel and Bianca Ojukwu that question.
Will you be ranting this nonsense if the person you called Mr caring, Mr supportive, Mr prayerful, Mr kind is also Mr Richer than Dangote and Elon Musk

This man might not be richer than those you listed up there, but he's very comfortable and well to do... Money isn't the problem here
Money isn't everything too, but if it is to you, that's your problem not mine