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Day 1. Evening. Clean sheet smashed ✅💪 Felt the urge rn to roll up some good Mary Janes. So I'm just going to enter gym and Bleep my back muscles up for some boost in blood-dopamine. God help me... Just got off the gym. It was a bloody 45 minutes of insane workout. Focus - shoulders military press and squats. Started with 100kg weights regression. Less 20kg after every 2 sets of 10 reps each. I'm all sweaty, swole and out of breath. That's some equivalent exchange for some massive dopamine rush! 💪💪 The idea is to substitute Cannabis as a source of dopamine with actual work 💡 Same with porn. I now have 1 rule -- no phones in the bedroom once it's bedtime. I'm practicing sex transmutation. I need to direct all the energy to a new course . Thanks to the almighty for giving me this opportunity to prove myself, strengthen my discipline and to put my body through this physical pain in other to escape a more demeaning failure in the future 🙏 Tomorrow we go again. |
The first 3 days are the hardest. I'll have to avoid situations and joints where my stoner friends hang out during these 3 weeks. Day. 1 morning of identifying as & becoming a non-smoker. ✅ |
DECLARATIONS. "I, CandyOps solemnly affirm that I've made up my mind to quit smoking weed" "I no longer identify as a smoker .. at least for the next 21 Days. From now, I identify as a non-smoker." That is for 3 weeks. This is my offer to the universe, myself & the Almighty Creator: "I, Candy offer to quit smoking weed, loud and marijuana for 3 weeks for the first time in 7 years." "7 years is not 7 days. Neither is it 7 months nor weeks. So you understand the gravity of my offer and how much this means to me" "For you said if I ask anything of you and is willing to put in the equivalent exchange value that you'll provide" "I offer up my addiction to weed." 🙏 "I present you a habit I've been hooked on for almost a decade of my life in exchange for 3 gifts and even more according to your abundance, dear Great Creator." "I lay down before your altar my short term highs and the unmerited dopamine hits I get when the feeling takes over me. I completely say No to smoking today while I beg you to reward my efforts by: 1. Rejuvenate my lung cells and make them heal from the scars I've put them through already. 2. Whenever I get bored & the urge to roll up some joint takes over me.. direct my mind to hit the gym or get down and give you 30 pushups on the spot, great God. 3. Make we strong to withstand the deadly calls of withdrawals. Direct me to seek mental climax from the works of my hand. Lead me to the path of redemption where my mental high doesn't rely on Cannabis or THC ... For I know you bless accordingly and you ALWAYS grant me wisdom, knowledge & opportunities whenever I am in tune with you. Finally... Let help me desensitize my body of porn & THC.. plus other alcoholic poisons so I can become anew mentally, physically and subconsciously... Give me the strength and fortitude to withstand the waves of nightmares, irritability, anxiety and stress that comes with this cleansing process. I expect a boost in testestorone, a boost in work productivity, a little body mass gains 💪 Mental clarity and better lung capacity. The blessings and benefits far outweigh the short term pleasures... Because with the short term pleasures comes long term suffering. As I go to war with my demons in other to become stronger. Help me not get over my head when the results begins to manifest positively in other areas of my life."
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Start Time: 10.30pm Sept. 27th. Day 0. |
Friday, September 27, 2024... For people looking to stop smoking weed 🚭 Let's join this challenge & report here for the next 21 Days. This is a safe space. You have to read below 👇 If you've tried b4 and failed it's called a relapse. There are 2 types of people who usually successful overcome smoking and become non-smokers. The first set just dump the habit & never go back to it... And they experience little or no relapse. 2nd set is needs to tapper off. By reducing the dose or the time in between smoking before you know it, they quit the habit. ... One common thing with both sets is that they made the decision and followed it up in their minds. So for people like you and I including a majority of other stoners, we can't seem to make up our mind if we want to quit... And that's why its called an ADDICTION 💀 So, the aim of the thread is to stay away from anything weed at least for up-to 21 days. If you go die make you die make we see am. Which one be say everyday smoke. Let's take a break for 21 days. So after 21 days, if we want we can continue becoming non-smokers ahead. Or not. My goal is 21 days first. Everyday I'll take a performance call here. Morning by 7.00am Noon Evenings 5pm. So let's go! 💪 |
TONERO500:It increases brain activity also. It also reduces tests in males. Talking about it now, I just realised how much harm one is putting his lungs through. I done stop am like this. Na gym I go use dey steady body morning and night |
Smokers are 10x more susceptible to heart attacks, forgetfulness (amensia) hyper-anxiety, risk of diabetes (for predisposed people) because of munchies. Lung cancer and the rest. So chill with the smoke thing |
Smoke is addictive. And if you can't handle it. It's a downward spiral. Been smoking for 7 yrs now and can't seem to quit. Smoking in itself gets boring also. Find the fun in the boring things. Get your dopamine hits from more positive xters like: crushing your goals, exercising, taking a bath, self care, eating healthy, being outdoor and finishing mini goals like trying your hands on painting or learning a foreign language. One of the most unspoken side effects of weed no one talks about is the interpersonal relationships problems and dichotomy it creates amongst friends, family and neighbours. You always judged for being a smoker. .. And you always miss would-have-been good opportunities for that only. |
richmond500:Ask rather, "How much is your networth" Carry wetin you go fit afford |
Horus:The joke is us. Almost 2 decades later after this post was made and Nigeria has even sunken lower. The IMF still has Africa by the balls This Asian tiger story is really baffling. Same 1960 we got independnet |
Have you ever dated a babe wey dey Trap? Lagos dey off me steady on a low. But for real... Let's talk: Street hustle dey different kinds. As for me, i'm not considering that kind of life but if I ever wanna go down that dark alley of the streets and decide to trap then I wouldn't want to be physically involved as a distribution mule. I will use mules like her. 3rd parties. a smokescreen. and make sure to work with a network of people whose bosses settle the powers that be well. Like i said, this is purely for entainterment purposes and just a wild thought. I think it's a fast life that life! A lot of successful businesses you compete with are just a front staged to block off the rays of sunlight from the real dark source of their capital. Using the business as a front while pushing kilos behind the screen and cleaning the money off the business. One bad drop and you're a goner. One good drop or more and you're paid! But then say no to crime ![]() I heard them Asian men are not smiling. Same with the Southy? 9ja is also hot |
brain54: ![]() I died twice reading that! Me wey like am die when my babes and her friends go crash over. House go just dey bubble! And you go still nack your babe inside room while her friends dey parlour lol well... One man food another man poison. |
I love me a stay at home wife... but it don't mean you won't have your own hustle. with VPN. She fit dey online dy bomb like say she dey Gaza. or she go dey mine c0ins. or she go dey UK for her Tiktok dey make some mulla. The traditional roles are changing. Most women r modernised plus it's a survial skill also |
dontrulee:Yes. just did. it picked my interest in Budhism.. Never knew Budha was a person and not a god. He was an ordinary person, named Siddhartha Gautama. |
Agba Ego Nkiti. Biggest boss 🙌🙌 Asian Tiger |
Boss moves 💪💪 |
yomi007k:He'll definitely rise again from his burnt up remains like a Phoenix that is if he has any extra lives left. |
Lol.. guys people are interested in weird stuffs you wouldn't even believe even if it was recorded on video. This guy really dey high on some cheap shit. Ever heard of conspiracy theory though? lol. Pedos don't have to be satanic to be pedos. Lol human sacrifices are a thing with the occult. It's not news also that the illuminati has a hold of the music industry and Holywood. I mean we all know artists are in their emotions always making them swing both ways some times. So homos, pedos, drug cocktails and loud music all in one venue and shit will always go down. ... So why make it seem like a 4th dimension thing. Okay... Let's say 4th dimensional beings exists and can make you see things which aren't why would they even be interested in a 3D animal? Lol This shit is funny asf. Lol 🤣 Saying 4D creatures exist because we are 3 dimensional is ludicrous. Like saying a 2D animal exist because we are 3D. I'm still on the research though. Even the simplest forms of life an Atom or ameoba experiences life in 3d so what do you mean by 4D creatures. I know there are known knowns and known unknowns. But also absence of evidence is not the evidence of absence' .. just because an investigation does not yield evidence for a certain claim, it does not mean that the claim is actually false. This is because evidence may later be uncovered by another investigation that was missed by the first one. So I cut you some slacks |
dontrulee:Oh thanks for the review. Your kind words are appreciated 👍 "This is a real life story" I'll have to include that at the start of my writings. And where's your signature quote from? It's a nice one |
Sunday, 22nd September 2024... CandyOps woke up as early as 6.15am. it was a cool windy morning and the birds can be heard chirping away from a distance. The sky was clear and buckets of dull clouds floated lazily with a purple hue racing across the early morning skies. CandyOps sat on his bed bare chested, mentally taking in the fresh morning breeze and lovely morning view from his bedside window as he made up his mind to attend church service that day. Normally, people go to church with different prayer points in mind. Some may go for God's blessings on their business, family or a particular favor. To others it's just a weekly routine. Well... As for CandyOps, the only prayer point he had in mind as he sat on his bed staring into the empty morning skyline was to meet some new girls in church. ..and also to manifest 100 million naira before this time next year (story for another day) CandyOps was tired of all his old female friends... and needed some new ones. I dragged my lazy dreamy-ass out of bed and hit my in-house gym. Did some 10mins meditation & 10 mins stretching to warm up. I loaded my barbells up with a total of 90kg weights on both ends and set my music player on my Spotify to 'workout' playlist. I started off with a quick burst of 10 reps in 3 sets of bent over rows to max out my back muscles. Then switched to 4 sets in 10 reps of standing military overhead barbell press. Before ending it with 10 reps of front squats and 10 of back squats 2 sets each. Feeling so pumped and sweaty... I took a cold shower with Future's We Still Don't Trust You blazing on a low volume on the stereo. Got prepped up and hit the roads to the church. It was a smooth 7 mins drive. Normally, I dey always come late for Sunday service no matter how early I try to be. So I had to stay at the back as the pews were all filled up as it was the 8.30am service mass. I had to target that specifically because its the most attended family mass service. I was looking fly as usual. In my peach coloured free flowing 2-piece jumper. The trousers was free-flowing styled like a palazzo. CandyOps wasn't just looking breathtaking but also smelt like I was dipped in whipped vanilla cream. Mmmm! Normally, I had slapped on some Sugar Baby oil perf on and masked it with Blooming Florasion by Miniso. Top notes are Mandarin, Elemi and Orange Blossom. Middle notes are Jasmine, Iris and Plum. Base notes are Patchouli, Vanilla, Praline and Musk. Plus a bit of olive and ginger top notes on the Blooming EDT... a.k.a the boy was fire and smelt edible! I was also dorning a clear transparent eyeglasses with circular frames. That type Burna wears but not the dark shades. ... yada yada yada. Back to church, before I got carried away by how hot I was in church (I couldn't help it) So I was late and the 2nd reading was being read. I had to stand or sit on a makeshift chair all through the service. I wasn't all comfy so I left the building and strolled to the back of the church where there was a cool shade to stretch my legs and give my eyes the opportunity to wander at the beauties in the presence of God. I was on my own jejely, maintaining steeze and keeping composure waiting for the mass to end to make my move on a pretty damsel standing behind me when I noticed a rather slender tall pretty fair chick casually walking towards me. She looked 5' 10" but could easily pass as a 6 footer cos she had heels on 👠 She was dressed in all those Indian women 3 piece chiffon dresses with trousers and a matching long free-flowing boyfriend jacket. With a veil to partly cover her face. Hmmm... I observed her as she was approaching. She had a hand fan above her head to block out the sun rays from hitting her face. She walked up to my direction and stood like 1 feet away from me. I just say be like God sabi my prayer point today 🙏 As she just dey walka come stop for my side, I no even waste 1 second... "This one that Hajia came to church today. Hope all is why?" I said. She turned towards my direction and I was wearing a sly smile on my face to let her know I was actually speaking to her. A.k.a my game face She let out a hearty laugh blocking her dentition with the hand fan... and we started talking. And when she spoke... OMG! Her accent was laced with the typical sing-song tone that comes with Hausa language being a mother tongue. And she spoke so gracefully I could have sworn it sounded like a siren calling to my soul from deep within. I told her she looked amazingly cute in her choice of dressing and I teased her more about her cologne because I could catch I whimp of it. As she engaged CandyOps in a convoy I kinda leaned back a little making her come closer in other to close in on the space (psychological move to make her come closer to me physically) I repeated this at interval and she kept on closing in on the space between us. (Indications of high enough interest) As we dey talk I noticed the other girl behind me that I was eyeing before was kinda disappointed lol. Her face wasn't as animated as it was few minutes earlier when we kept on catching each others eyes.. but then what can Candy do? Candy can't possibly spilt himself into two so he had no choice but to go with the option who make herself available. I guess she has to learn to shoot her shot faster or try for better luck next time 🤞 I chatted with Haija who put me through hell guessing what state she is from. I later found out she's a practicing lawyer and from Anambra. After like 10 minutes of talk. I was getting hot standing outside so I suggested we walk to my car and get some AC air since the church is almost over. She said "oh okay" and followed my lead. As we walked over to the car park I had a feeling it won't be the last time she'll walk with Candy side-by-side. I literally imagined and mentally pictured her walking by my side days from now to my house, on a date and I felt instantly how it be like when she walks with me hand-in-hand into my bedroom. I kinda visualised that shit and it kinda made all the blood in my veins to rush downwards towards my dick. I kinda imagined for a split second how tight & deep she would be ![]() You know what they say about tall women.. Men... Candy was lucky he was putting on a Senator styled cloth with the top falling as low as below his knees. Else, the stupid John Thomas would have disgraced itself As we enter car, I on AC we chill for a short 5 mins before mass ended and I drove off after exchanging numbers. One convo we had in the car really struck me. She asked me the usual question I get most times, "hope you are not married?" She asked "No. I'm single. But not for too long" I replied. She laughed and said, "hmmm! Don't forget to invite me to your wedding" And as a very sharp guy I responded by saying, "you wouldn't need an invite to your own wedding. Would you?" It took her a second to get it then she let out another hearty laughter. I could see she turned red from smiling too much. Her grin was from ear to ear ![]() Candy bad sha. That reply was epic! Sounded like a line from a romantic TV sitcom. But na why.. Na why dem dey call am GOAT be this! 😆 I dropped her off in front of the church b4 leaving as she had CYON meeting to attend so that her fellow CYONers go see am as she drop from the car. She was the highlight of my Sunday I must say and made me believe 'God' answers all prayers every time I sincerely ask it of him/her. She's the 2nd babe in my radar and hopefully she makes her own money so I don't get to spend money on weekly allowances. She no get nyash sha but she seems like an interesting babe and I'm willing to explore all of her to uncover what treasures or curses lies within. Wish me luck. Everything was fine and groovy until something heart breaking happened minutes before I dropped her off in front of the church entrance... It was the moment she shook my hands. Omo! Damn! I was disappointed tbh... The hands no really soft, ajeh! I no go for lie you naa. It felt like I was smooching a crocodile's back 😭 I like babes with soft palms like mine. I love it when your palms feels like Mouka foam and makes me feel lightheaded and dizzy like I'm about to drift off in love... ...no be hand wey strong like solidified Dangote cement left out too long in the open I'll post about the 100 million naira visualisation thing later on. For now I wan chop this delicious cheat meal. I no just get babes time as money dey my mind but this JT ain't gonna suck itself See picture attached
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MrBrownJay1:... and I said i won't reply if you don't say the magic word |
MrBrownJay1:Where are your manners? I won't answer except you ask nicely |
ItisWell22:30k on an average. Could be more. Money wey I for spend on 10 different girls. It's all good |
MrBrownJay1:On the contrary. It's all facts. I was just too lazy to post my sources. and still too lazy to do so. You just have to verify on your own. Tip: search on: 1. Vaginismus. 2. Latex allergy. 3. Breaking of hymen in Religious or traditional settings 4. Effects of sexual abuse on a woman's sex life. That should do |
Come let me show you why testing the goods is vital before final purchase is not such a bad idea. If you're like me who is single and searching you must have come in contact with a lot of women. You may have to kiss a fair share of toads to find the charming princess. I've come across girls with loads of past Trauma hanging around their sexual life and it has completely affected the way they perceive sexual activities. Once you play reach the Kontus Arena her brains will automatically shut down her entire reproductive organs in response to past traumatic events. She'll stay having uncontrollable muscle spasms. Especially if she experienced some sort of abuse or pain in her first sexual experience. Another group of women who have this condition of sexual incompatibility are those whose first sexual experience was in within a cultural or religious setting. Where they transition young girls into womanhood by manually piercing open the hymen of have a religious or family leader do so. In some cases, the entire clit is snapped off. In such settings they pay little attention to no attention to the females sexual pleasure when dis-virgining her. Giving young girls the don't play with the clìt and don't even look at it rule. This pain associated with sex can in some women today may be as a result of other things that are not an illness. Such as: Maybe dryness. Lack of sex, big sized dick or an underlying illness like an STD or pelvic wall issues. Or sometimes it's as simple as a yeast infection. Where she feels the pains and how long she feels it is important in diagnosing the root cause as well as her sexual history or abuse.. Questions such as: Is the pains on the vulva or entrance of her vagina or deep in her pelvic floor? Do you experience pains and how long did it last? What positions did you notice it more? If the pains continues after sex then it could be something more serious. or could be as a result of past abuse. Most of cases of sexual abuse goes unreported in Nigeria because the victims don't really process the info and hence they don't how to handle it talk more of healing If left untreated... ...This will lead to cases like Vaginismus or Painful Sex a.k.a Dyspareunia in med terms. Or complete loss of interest in sex due to pains. Is dyspareunia bad? The medical term for painful intercourse. It is lasting or recurrent genital pain that occurs just before, during or after sex.[/i] Talk with your healthcare professional if you're having painful intercourse. Treatments focus on the cause and can help stop or ease this common problem. Vaginismus on the other hand is a condition in which involuntary muscle spasm interferes with vaginal intercourse or other penetration of the vagina. You'll try to penetrate no way You'll apply lubricant, coconut oil or Olive oil yet no way in. It'll almost seem like that Kontus entrance is blocked. This often results in pain with attempts at sex. Often it begins when vaginal intercourse is first attempted. Vaginismus may be considered an older term for pelvic floor dysfunction For example, I have met 3 girls in my entire adult life who had a form of Vaginismus and it completely killed their sexual life and urges psychologically. The only girl I dated who was able to grow past that did so because she wasn't abused on her first try at sex. When you get taken advantage of sexually like Diddy and Kelz does ... It's like when something shocking happens to you and you can't seem to snap out of it . Your brain didn't even have time to process it. .. Girls who whose first sexual experience was unfortunately a rape usually have that issue. Another likely cause of sexual incompatibility is allergy to latex. You can be perfectly fine with latex condoms from the start but grow into the allergy. Run check before final purchase because no be hand wey dem take the give monkey water dem take dey collect cup back. |
Itohanmiwa:We done run. I done leave all of them. It's just that conji na bastard if not |
My sweet pretty 20y/o babe just told me she wanna become celibate... Out of the blues. Like out of no where .. and she isn't religious. I was confused at first... I asked her "babe, which one is celibate again? Shey you wan become Reverend Sister ni?" "Abi is any other guy bleeping you?" She said, "No. There's no one else. It's just that I want to be celibate" I sighed and replied her, "it's okay. That's great you can be celibate with everyone but me." "As it should be" She replied by saying, "no it's not that. I want to stop it. You're big. It hurts." ... Babe wey I done dey plan say I go blow to the high heavens this break. Mtchew... I sha gave her a pep talk about how she shouldn't let her first sexual experience which was a forced sex to influence her sexuality. But then I think it's a clear sign of response to trauma. She dey usually tell me say she doesn't fantasize about sex and doesn't like it. This na why women first sexual experience matters a lot because babes normally are naturally trained by the society, family & Romance novels that the man who takes their virginity should be a man she loves most likely your hubby on your wedding day You know... the normal fantasy about man and woman and how love suppose be... then one man go come forcefully use him big preeq take advantage of her and snatch her Virginity away forcibly. Rape is awful and should never be condoned. My babe was abused and she was double unfortunate this was her first sexual experience. Which makes her extra sensitive and on the edge during sex. If the victim doesn't heal from that experience It'll most definitely shape her sexuality and she may turn gay or may lead to a slight variation of Vaginismus as an after-effect of the trauma. Apart from being physically sexually incompatible, the 2nd fastest way to lose your girl is to be in a long distance relationship with her and being all nice to her at the same time. Another mistake i learnt from this was not dumping her ass the moment I noticed the red flags. which I already foresaw from the day she told me she got admission into Uni but for some reasons my emotions got the best part of me. So I done zero my mind say na just to dey enter as sub, play like 25mins instead of full match anytime she dey semester break or whenever I travel to her state of school. Bitches will always come & go. You gotta learn how to be okay with letting women go. I'll miss being in her as she was tight asf... I mean I'll miss her, god knows (which is why I'm awake by this time of the night making a post about her) Shit was hurtful tbh I invested a little above 300Gs in her. She was my baby. I feel the distance was a major precursor to the decision to being celibate. because if she dey close to me physically that presence and love making from time to time will keep her mind preoccupied with me. . We spoke everyday on phone consistently for like 6 months. Missing just few days in-between with her calling most times. During her last visit she actually complained of pains the first few times we made love but began to adjust to me with time but her stay was short-lived as she had to travel back to school. Maybe she's PMSing as her period is just a few days from today. I had plans to see her people and all Maybe she was in it for the things she got off me. I'm surprised because all was rosy and smooth till she said she wanted to turn to celibacy. I mean, she had this at the back of your mind all these while letting me take care of her in school. Just to think I broke my piggy to buy her foodstuff as they're currently writing exams and her family don't send her much money. One thing I'm sure of is -- when your bitch tells you she doesn't want to bang you again then it's time for a new bitch to take her spot. .. I mean, I love my babe as she loves me but I can't keep playing BF role when I'm getting nothing in return. I once told her "I'm steady taking care of you and you aren't performing your GF duties you know?" ... her reply was, "don't worry, Daddy! I'm all yours when I'm done with my exams" So I guess I have to use my coconut oil to release these swimmer cells I've been saving up for her. At least make dem no go turn to fully grown tadpoles lol . . . The end. Na just to begin focus on my new chicks. She needs to heal from her sexual traumas first else she'll never really ease up completely during sex. See as babe matter make me dey type like Secretary since. Na me do myself sha. I dey go for student |
DeepRoyal:I use to buy it from one guy on FB. His page isn't available now. But I have their WhatsApp number. It's affordable I think around 29k or 25k. E sure you die say you go play full match time |
BigYash: comrade. Pls tell me more because the way it's doing me now. I no send the girl again. Money no dey lol |
God is everywhere and in everything. Sometimes in church I assume mentally that all the praises and thanks sung to God is addressed to me because I'm God. I also use such moments to appreciate the Gods (friends, family and events) in my life as God is the entirety of everything around you. So it's safe to say her Unc was her God. On the contrary when you train your babe in school finish she go break up with you then turn around to ask you if she begged you to help her. Funny shit. At such moments we can assume the person done dey fight her chi. because she done grow pass her chi in that aspect. .. which is why we say chi oma and Ajo chi. Following my buildup, it is easy to see the links on how modern Christianity copied the good God factor and the bad God factor a.k.a devil. Which is actually a distorted version of the original idea of African spiritualism. That your chi is a bad chi (contextually) doesn't mean that everyone's chi is a bad chi. That is why we have the almighty Chukwu Okike (plural form) and individual chis which is translated to angels by modern religions B |
HellVictorinho8:If you want to learn ask nicely. Success has a bit of luck in it but mostly it's as a result of pre-planned moves |
oz4real83:How is their testimonies against his word? |
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