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So I didn't expect my post on abstinence to make FP but it did and gained some traction.

Just thought I should clear up some air on that
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See OP here: https://www.nairaland.com/8305815/what-happened-me-after-1

Firstly, any healthy adult male with fully developed testicles produce approximately 1.5 million sperms per hour, which translates to:

- 36 million sperms per day
- 1,300 sperms per second

Keep in mind that this number can vary depending on factors such as:

- Age
- Health
- Lifestyle
- Environmental conditions

We all know it takes just 1 healthy sperm cell in a drop for fertilization & procreation to happen abi?

...a drop of semen contains approx. around 20-40 million sperms depending on:

1. Individual fertility
2. Overall health
3. Frequency of ejaculation and even 4. the Time of day

Hold on. Let me give you a better idea:

- 1 teaspoon (5 mL) of semen: 200-400 million sperm
- 1 drop (0.05 mL) of semen: 20-40 million sperm.

So imagine when a guy never change him engine oil for almost 1 month.

Do you know what that means? It means 360 millon cum-cells in 10 days of no action.

... Now do the math for 1 month!

So in 10 days time you already have an overload of sperm cells... Talk more of 1 month. That is, if you fit the criteria.

We talking about walking around with 360million cum cells in your nuts! Or up to 900 mill if you stretch your inactive days to a month!

After a while of abstaining you begin to smell funny.

You know the way a man's cum smells? Yeah like freshly peeled yam bark.. abi. That's the way you start to smell.

I even perceive that shiit whenever I'm sitted with my legs spread out in a manspan position. I think I'm leaking and oozing cum now

Yeah it's that bad.. I mean what do you expect when I'm housing over 360 million of these swimmers?! But women seem to love that manly smell. Don't know why
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Now we have the maths part solved, We can all say we have a clear mental picture of what young CandyOps is passing through rn. Yep! Not funny 😑
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As a guy, sex is vital and a need.

As designed by nature just like women pass through their ovulation days n cycle

I found out abstainance can help build up your sex drive because any small feminine move from a babe will get you responding ASAP yes.

Well... except you have abstained for so long your libido have plateaued out flat you no longer notice the difference.

If you're new to this then be sure it'll hit you as hard as it's hitting me now.

I notice every thing feminine move now. My senses are heightened now. It's like I now have 'Spidy Senses' 🕸️🕷️

You know the way Spider Man gets consciously alert when a crime or disaster is about to happen, right? Yeah.

I have that shit now but for women.
So it's cool to call it Pvssy-Senses

Like I now easily notice subtly sensual moves from women like when a woman 'casually' bends over in front of you (yeah right, casually, like she doesn't know she does it on purpose) or stares at you while her eyes are roaming from your groin to your eyes and back to your groin when you walk past.

I noticed I now respond more to women's mating calls both the direct and indirect calls vs when I wasn't sex deprived.

I like how I noticed the feminine attention but that's it. Maybe women sense off that high stored up, pent up masculine energy. Maybe not.


Secondly, most guys in the OP suggested I rent a hotel and spend a day or 2 with my babe but I no be fan of hotel anymore. I already lived that life in my mid 20s but I'm considering it now.

I've got things to do with money.
Not like I have a lot of it atm and not dismissing the fact it's a huge factor affecting my forced celibacy , yeah?

Ijs spending on hotels is not top priority but I may have to reconsider that option

At least, when I dey my own space I would have worked towards getting a babe or two.

Just thinking about it...

When I dey Lagos for my side, if I no get babe to change my oils my guys go notice am and we'll have a discussion about how to fix it.

Like we dey always ginger ourselves to get socially active because we dont considered it a good thing when a man doesn't get laid.

We actually spurr ourselves into getting laid and paid cos it's a necessity.

Hello! It's 360million swimmer cells, remember? Not entirely my fault here.

Some guys from the comments in the OP also said it gets normal after a few months of abstaining and I hope so.

Some other guys recommended, jerking off to adult vids once once but the thing with masturbation is that it makes you want the real thing even though it reliefs you temporaliy.

It's like being saved from drowning in the salty waters of the ocean only to be pulled up onboard ship where they've run out of drinkable water living you to die of thirst.


...and if you jerk off too much to adult vids e go make you when woman pass you by na just nyash and boobs you go dey see.

You no go see their faces again. Like their faces go just blur for your eyes.. na only pvssy and boobs you go dey see when babe walk past you.

Adult vids even make you go hook up with someone you'd rather not do it with. Or go for some hoe

So it's a last course resort.

For now, I just keep having these facking wet dreams like every week. I once dreamt I banned this girl standing and we was both facing each other.

Most times it's a lucid dream.
You know, like you're dreaming and you're aware you are.

Other times, it isn't.
You have vague memory if you spilled some swimmer cells in your sleep or not. You gotta take a moment to recall if it happened or not.


..so when I'm about to get jiggy with a girl while dreaming I know it isn't real so I try to hold myself from pushing it too far.

Some times I try to hold my breathe while lucid dreaming just b4 I get the sensation to bust a nut. And if I do it too intensely it usually breaks me out of my REM sleep and pulls me back to consciousness 💤😴


Same thing with when I really want to have a lucid dream. I focus on it but not too intensely in my dream state so I don't break the subconscious trance by trying too hard.

I feel like the wet dream thing is my body trying to self regulate the number of cum cells stored up in my bleeping nuts.

I love how abstaining drives up my libido and Tests level. Makes me hard every morning a.k.a the early morning wood.

It happens every morning the moment I wake up. Hopefully the sex drive thing will plateau cos I'd be walking around like a fuckin' bull who hasn't seen a cow in months.

I hope I don't have fuckin' bull rages.
Well na to keep myself physically active. Maybe hit the gym and lift some weights.


For guys wey dey suggest say I dey broke na why I no dey shine Congo maybe na true but I no go use the last 100knwey dey my acct go carry woman lodge.

At the end of the day, spend like 30 to 40k to what end? Just to be Hot again in a few weeks time.

Maybe the solution na to get big bucks and like 2 steady babes ✌️

By the way, any babe wey I blow now na ejima e go born straight

I go make sure to off load on her body just so I get to see the volume of ejaculate I've stored up so long.

I'd love to finish off on her face or tummy.
You know...? pull off the CD just b4 bursting and making sure to shoot it up her body.

I think they love how warm the man juice feels on them and how it drips down on their skin.
They imagine it inside them. Nyama! 🤮

Okay... That's it! I think I've gone completely nuts 🥜 (pun intended) 🤦🤦

I need to free babes now. But thats the least if the problem it's the consequences that's the issue. because it seems like this pen!s got a mind of its own

shoboy9:
It's simple. The seducing spirits don't like letting go of their property so they make you more aware of opportunities to have sex, especially illicit sex without any form of commitment. Once you become obedient to their wishes and start banging who they prefer you to bang, the pressure will reduce. Until you try to stop. Especially without spiritual strength to toss them out and keep them out.
The blood of JESUS was shed for all our sins, so we can be free.

Can you pls STFU! Thanks

Mimiranky:
This one just dey develop stroke, him no know... If stroke never hold one person wey dey abstain from sex, the rest no go get sense

AlphaHakimi:
Sex is just like every other urge/need of a human body. The urge to sleep, to eat, to drink etc are all the same.

Men/women need sex as often as they want to just like nobody will purposely deprive themselves of sleep, or food or water. The problem is that alot of people secretly satisfy their sexual urge and come openly to condemn others. This is why I advocate for masturbation when you can't have sex.

Masturbation helps you to make good judgement.

Shalom.

Masturbation is good to temporarily relieve yourself b4 but it's a short relieve as it makes you want the main action -- sex because one probably jerks off to sexually explicit materials.

Besides the energy and high testosterone that comes with abstainance is great

bixton:
This your personal experience is from the angle of an unbeliever unbelieving christian.
Give your life to Jesus Christ.

I don't mean any insult but You sound illiterate and superstitious. How do you join the dots btw something as banal as sexual needs and spirituality?

bixton:
This your personal experience is from the angle of an unbeliever unbelieving christian.
Give your life to Jesus Christ.

I don't mean any insult but You sound illiterate and superstitious. How do you join the dots btw something as banal as sexual needs a d spirituality?

Free2Fly:
Don't generalize things about all men with your yeye personal experience

If you're older than 36 you may have a decline in testosterone so it's okay if you don't feel the same way after abstaining.

So i never change oil for like 1 month now.

Major reason is because I moved from my house into a shared space.
because of that, I no longer follow up with my babes them.

before you know it, one month done pass. Going to two months now, Johnny never see Congo. Talk more of shining it.

So one thing i noticed is that i now have a lot of wet dreams especially after a period of 3 to 4 days in between each dream.

You know it takes an approx of 3 days after changing oil for a man's swimmer cells to come to another full maturity.
One thing i've noticed during abstinance is that your awareness to women increases.
The way you notice women increases as against when you are getting it steady.

You tend to stare for a few seconds longer than usual at women.
You tend to sexualize even the most mundane thing about women... like when she casually bends over
You sleep and your mind forces you to dream about women you already admire in your every day life.

It's crazy i hope i don't get to a point where if i sneeze i go sneeze out cum
Make next year reach first.
maybe i go use my slim Princess take change oil

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
My own be say I dey see steady mature and tight toto wey I dey bang

give us update abeg. How u take dey run am? I never change oil now for almost 1 month

Walai:
Tell me one heritage site or attraction in Tanzania that is better than Adamawa mountains let alone other wonderful places in Nigeria

I no argue with you, bros. I just dey imagine person inside mountain for this kind time for Nigeria in Adamawa of all places.. like, you find the kidnappers go their doormot. Maybe you no wan stress them much

Nkemosifo:
I go for Trips in Nigeria monthly and have gone to a lot of them when I see the advert for them I pay and go except the Adamawa mountain haven't actually seen a group trip for it first time hearing of it too

Sha keep Ransome money aside also

Walai:
I'm so concerned that nobody here is saddened by the fact that Nigerians are now going on vacation to Tanzania of all places and wasting our scarce forex when we have wonderful heritage sites, the Adamawa mountains, Bauchi game reserves, Tinapa in Calabar, The Europe like weather in Jos, our sprawling beaches and other wonderful places more than qualified for vacation but thanks to bad government and insecurity our tourism sector is in coma.
I leave us with this question, how many Tanzanians and other Africans troop to Nigeria for vacation

So if you get 3milla to blow on Vacation na Adamawa mountain you go visit? 🤔

When last you go Obudu if you done go there at all?

GodisStriking:
I knew eventually the African LGBTQ would respond so y'all keep watch.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ooOELrGMn14?si=UNStFWy--iQOXstT

One thing I done notice from the short replies you done give me is that -- You sabi avoid main question while focusing on lesser irrelevant things.

For example, Why you dey force AI to give you narratives to post? The AI even literally said "according to the video you provided" to let you know K.Dot no even mention anything that infers what you suggest to it (AI)

Yet you ignore all that just to keep posting shit online. And what's with the LGBT African support thing? Are you now also avoiding the topic at hand and trying to slander my character alongside K.DOT's without any variable proof?

If you passed basic logic & philosophy in GS 102 I no think say yiu go dey build up your premise like this as it's fallacious to make inferences to theories w/o proof and that makes your entire argument invalid and not sound.

Is that why you don't have any link to a source to almost all your posts? Is it because you push down a lot of conspiracy theories down the throat of your Artificial Chat bot?

Give me something to hold on to. Try the least we aren't kids here. Try it's not that hard to connect the dots if it's true story.

Why aren't you giving us a lifeline or something as simple as a source link? Except you can't quote AI which is what u do and that invalidates your whole argument


Why you no dey use this time wey u dey spend on Foreign cults to focus on African indigenous cults and stories?

What's the fascination you have with whites and white gods?

Why do you feel a white man/God is better off than a black one? Answers will be appreciated over riddles

VikingKing:
So you mean to tell me that Allah is so powerless that it would take all the Middle Eastern countries to unite before they can defeat one tiny country belonging to the Most High God?

How many gods you sef dey support? Only you support Sky Daddy of the Jews, Odin and probably your native Gods also. When the country Isreal get aerial attack defense system you dey think say na their 'god' de run am?

See how confused you sound?

GodisStriking:
Kendrick Lamar attended the St. John Bosco High School in Bellflower, California. He graduated from the school in 2000. The school was involved in a scandal involving allegations of abuse by teachers, as mentioned in the video you provided. Kendrick Lamar has not publicly spoken about his time at the school or any potential experiences he may have had there.

Dude, stop forcing AI to give you conspiracy narratives to defame a rapper who don't even know you exist just to make contents that support your narrative.

The rapper K.DOT called out DRIZZY for being a pedo and Drizzy replied to deny it asking him for proof and also blaming his (K.Dot's) troubled relationship with his pops as one trigger to his (K.Dot's) saddened life... In the song Push-ups


You just keep throwing jabs at people to proof a point only you see. I won't be saying this if you dropped concrete links and proofs to support your claim but no... You rather cherry pick ambiguous one-liners from an entire track of song and try to build up your premise on that.

That's just weak man.

illicit:
I hope you know that the Job story was entirely fiction...

It didn't actually happen. It's a jewish story to teach morals

Research...

The Bible as a book was first complied almost more than 100 years after any of the characters in it lived. Now, take a minute and think about it.

If something happened today in Lagos but was written about in the year 2124 for the first time, how accurate do you think that written account would be?

Anyone who believes in that book is really not smart upstairs tbh. I don't even engage them no more. I let them wallow in their ignorance as deep as they deem necessary

Sp1ritHusband:
Most of his topics qualify to be debated in a mental assylum. I have a low threshold of tolerance for conspiracy theorists.

Reading his posts dey tiring because his points are all over the place and one can't even engage him as he's always replying in riddles as against being crystal clear. Do have a great day as it's a bit too early for this

Sp1ritHusband:
You are asking questions from the most confused person on Nairaland.

🤣 and that's without an atom of doubt I must say. Check out his/her answer to the simple question I asked. Him just yarn out of point as usual. Ordinary questions. Him begin cap 🧢 about Torah

Its tiring exhausting him in any meaningful convo

Godisstriking

So I asked you a couple of questions some time ago but you didn't answer me clearly.

If you wouldn't mind can you help me with clear answers to these questions:

1. Are u a Christian?
2. Do you quote the Bible as a historical text or as a religious text? Or both?

I know you wouldn't want to answer but I say make I ask again

The next morning, she had to take her leave. I remember she danced wildly in the sitting room to the MTV Base jams on Saturday morning because I made her feel so good yesterday.

I clearly remember her cummin over and over on my dick as her pvssy walls began to tighten and throb on my dick while she squirmed and twirled in ecstasy

This morning I knew I had to bang her once more b4 she leaves.

She wore my sky blue cotton tees with nothing else underneath and her 2 huge immaculate boobs swayed haphazardly like some crazy pendulums underneath the shirt.


I walked up behind her. Kissed her neck, with my groin pressed into her booty. I ran my hands all over her curves while grabbing a handful of boobies as well.

She turned around and planted a wet kiss on my lips and I couldn't kill the vibe now by taking my lips off...

So as we locked lips together I moved her towards 1 end of the couch, bent her overso her tummy lay on the hand of the couch bending downwards into the seatie while I stood behind her.


I pulled up her tshirt to reveal her bums
I also pulled down my boxers to expose my already hard manliness.

I held it in my hands and slapped it on her pvssy in an up-to-down motion.. it gave out the 'pa! pa!' sound of flesh slapping against flesh.

I teased her by attempting to shove in my D without protection but she asked me to get one.

I always have 1 handy and close by b4 hand to avoid having too much breaks in between the romance.

Using my teeth I tore opén the rubber and rolled it over my throbbing hardness with the smell of latex gently filling the room..

I slapped her ass and told her, "you're such a sexy bitch you know?"

"Look how lovely & sexy you look with my dick on your ass"

As I talked dirty to her and slapped her ass cheeks I also pulled out my mobile phone and recorded a snap video of her in that position. I recorded for like 2 mins, spreading her ass to catch her opened up pvssy on video and my dick trying to penetrate b4 ending video.


With both hands free now, I spread her ass apart and slide in. She was wet on demand!

No need for a lube.
I bang am for that position for like 3 mins and as she kept on moaning a bit loudly and I don't like that shit..

I needed to muffle her loud moans so I pulled out.... I think she was about coming because she held me back inside her with her right hand pressing into my bum to hold me back in place

I wanted to be selfish.
I wanted to use her body for my satisfaction irrespective of if she cums or not.

I pulled out notwithstanding and made her lay on her back in the couch with her legs hanging out. I held her legs to support her and for leverage. I was in-between her legs now, I spread them out and hung them on shoulders then I started pumping in & out.


I slightly choked her while saying, "Oh God, you're so tight!"

"I'm gonna cum"

She was warm and looked extremely sexy the way her boobs jiggled and bounced around when my bodies met.

I sha bang am like bitch... sliding in full length and coming chest to chest with her so my full length was buried in her. I didn't move much this time as I felt my D throb and I whispered in her ears while nipping at her earlobe that I was cumming.

I lay exhausted on her and I could fell her heartbeat against mine.

I was spent.

I knew she didn't cum as she wasn't looking like she did. She even confirmed that and was forming vex but I didn't care.

I told her not to vex, "babe, maybe next time because I was carried away and really needed to use your body to my satisfaction"

I ordered an Uber for her minutes later and sent her back to whence she came from.

I don't remember giving her any money because I know say no be runs she come. But her older sister surprisingly called me days later saying,

"Nawao for you o"

"Na so you dey do?"

"Not even 'thanks for coming'?"

"Do something abeg. Or don't you appreciate her coming over to your place?"

Yada! Yada! Yada!

I could also hear the girls voice whom I banged in the background encouraging her sis.

Me I was like, "hmmm 🤔, shey na runs all these babes done dey do now?"

"Which one be send money again?"

I sha buzz am 10k make she rest and that was it.

She was a sweet fvck though.
My only regret was not cumming on her face I would have loved to see how sexy she'd look with my seeds spreads all over her face 🤔

Afodot0022:
I understand your notion very well, when you are out of marriage, getting into another will be an haculine task due to your previous experience, marriage is serious hardwork and stress. Yes I have two daughters already, though they are not in my custody but with my ex due to their age, just don't know whether to take their custody or leave them with their mother. But in all, I have peace and rest of mind being single.

Sorry about your experience. Take your time b4 jumping into marriage again. If you need a helper get a paid cook.

Then try co-parenting . maybe once in a month take the girls over to your place spend a week with them (when they get older) b4 their Mon takes them back.

Most Oraimo u see are fake. They print the packets and repackage low quality products inside

ukaface:
Is like head is paining you

So what is the OP talking about ?

You that head is not paining why don't you tell me what op was talking about?