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Segxydube:
Stop talking trash abeg

If you haven't heard about that name b4 then you are the shallow fellow in this discussion. Absolutely devoid of religious History.

Learn something. Illuminate your mind

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&opi=89978449&url=https://jbqnew.jewishbible.org/assets/Uploads/311/311_CALF31-1.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwjCirKutdWJAxWfTkEAHbImHxgQFnoECD8QBQ&usg=AOvVaw0mkmzwFkqfArgENqgKr7fl

naijapikin2:
Let that space station not drift to another universe o. Hope they get back to earth safely.

Imagine your neighbor is the combination of Stars and other celestial bodies. Would you still doubt the existence of God

Yes back to Ra' the Sun God now mis-translated by the Hebrew text as Son of God.

The sun is the source of all life

Lol funny how this post comes up on my timeline after Baltazar has exposed it to whole world. People think these things dont happen in Nigeria. I laff

idahme:
you don't need to mobilize anyone, they will pick him up

When last you go report case for police station for Nigeria? Maybe u be foreigner

lenghtinny:
My plan is to explore legal means to deal with him because he’s literate to twist the whole matter and turn the tide in his Favour should I approach it in a brash manner.

Violence would be the last resort.

You dey whine??

I say child rape na life sentence e carry for Lagos. You dey talk about literate.

Lagos State government dey find who dem go use shine based on gender or underage rape you dey talk about literacy.

If you escalate this matter Na life sentence him go get especially for Lagos. Them no dey argue am.

..but still tell Eke say you want make hand touch am inside cell. Drop extra bar

MrSamsung:
Just keep pushing. Please can you expantiate on the bolded

Its a lengthy explanation but I'll try... 😌


Ok, so according to research, hyper-independence could be a symptom of past Trauma (PTSD - post traumatic stress disorder)

Let me explain,

Whenever a person experiences a traumatic event the Brain 🧠 usually forms new neuron pathways or habits to evade such situations in the future.

This is known as a coping mechanism.

Just the same way people bite their nails, smoke, binge on junk eating or movies, womanize recklessly, bet or spend their last card compulsively when stressed... Its all a coping mechanism ⚙️

It is a pathway their brain has created in order to avoid facing that same event or any situation that reminds them of past Trauma


Some people shut down and withdraw.
Some will immediately begin to have anxiety, stomach aches and increased heart beats whenever they face such discomforting situations that reminds their brain of the past trauma 👿

Its called PTSD.

Just like a few of my Ex GFs who are sexual abuse survivors, whenever you pull their pants and want to slide in, they will automatically begin to get the shakes. Involuntarily. 📳


As in,

their whole body from the hips down to their feet go begin shake uncontrollable or their pussy go automatically tighten making penetration almost impossible.

Its a sign of PTSD!

A way their body reacts to events that triggers their memory of their past trauma. It kinda helps them cope just the way we use religion to forget our sorrows.


Just the way ex-military men who have seen bad gory wars get strong nightmares and hallucinations (and even commit suicide ⚰️) that's the same way it is even for victims of less traumatic events.


So whenever a person is shy to ask others for help or worse... rejects help (even when the help dey available) it usually is a sign of response to past Trauma.


Like when you get brothers or siblings who are well-to-do but can't seem to bring yourself to ask for financial help or you find yourself withdrawing from situations where help could be offered to you.... thats a clear of response to past traumatic events 👎


It is common with people who have passed through hard tough times alone in the past without any shoulder to lean on. Or people who have been betrayed by people they trusted in the past.

I didn't know it was a sign of response to past traumas till my A.I revealed that to me during a therapy session. 🤖

Before then, I didn't even consider myself as a person who had been Tru trauma b4 maybe because I think trauma only had to do with accidents, rape or near-death experiences.


I never knew things that occurred to me in life like hunger, bullying in secondary school and the unending loneliness that comes with betrayals from friends was traumatic and affected my personality a lot 😔 🤔


My close friend & flatmate once pointed out that he noticed I don't know how to ask for help.


If can search the words 'is Hyper-independence a sign of past Trauma' on Google or better yet, log on to your AI app and select the therapy counselling Bot and chat it up you'll find more info

https://psychcentral.com/health/hyper-independence-trauma

GreyWolf01:
As I said, I will talk to you like a big bro who has been there and done that.

Bone alcohol, I pray the repercussion never comes, because then, you'll wish you listened.

But all I said still stands.

More 💪

Na once once bros. Not a habit. Maybe weekends. I done stop smoke. Una still say make I stop beer? 😩

But I'm open to sacrifice anything wey go lead to success financially o

Odizi ka unu achoro igbu m egbu

Kingju:
My guy, e get wetin i want tell you, i sure say you know werin i want talk but might feel like na just talk. Pray about it, it must not be long hour prayer, but just carry am go Baba God hand, tell him your situation and what you want and ask him to guide you.

After that one, you gats stand up go grind, it doesn't matter what you do, but start something, but have a long time plan, if you want dey do handwork or sales or whatever, dey run that one while doing your nursing stuff, make sure you aim for too position while studying, after that nursing stuff, i sure say everywhere go STEW, because nursing na extra hot cake for outside Naija. So just calm your nerves and start learning or selling something. I wish you the best

Yes sure. I feel you 💯
I just dey pack skills like mad man now. In a few months time some go pay off. And na lifelong skills.

Nursing go pay off in like 3 yrs now. And na for Yankee. So I dey on course but I want dey see money as e dey hot

tuoyoojo:
I can imagine what you are going thru

What u said reminds me of one guy in my circle of friends. We all went to same school and most of us are now resident in same city. Every one except him have "settled down" ( as they say in Nigeria) so every now and then when we see, we go dey shook am word. Nothing malicious...just friendly banters...the guy is naturally carefree so i didn't really see it as a big deal. but with time I realised that those words were getting to him as he started avoiding our occasional get together. So I had to tell my guys to tone down the taunting

See my guy, you mumsy means well, yes her "delivery" may not be top notch but it she is speaking from a place of concern. She sees your achievements in life as a sign of you being focus and that u know what you want out of life. She has done it( like u said in your write up) so she is suprised to get why you haven't figured out ur sh*t. Snapping back at mumsy would not help in anyway....she trained you better than that

If at all, her behaviour or "nagging" should spur you to action, action that would lead to tangible results. That would be the best way to "shut her up"

You may call me old school but this would be a good time to seek God for help. Pray and ask God for directions....the directions may come as a thought or an idea as you ponder on ur next move

God speed

It is said that any man who can wholeheartedly take a woman's criticism w/o feeling bad can become a better man.

So yes, your words are in order. Thank again my guy. I'm on that journey. I done see bar before but e no loud. As they say, the journey of life is the destination.


The fun is in the process. I can't wait and I'm open to the universe because I know say money dey this world

Therock5555:
Op, I don wear your shoes tire....


Then I got arrested and I realized that they were actually hoping for me to fail all this while.

One year wey I do for house, they fucking bleeped with my mental health, sometimes I wonder if those people actually sees me like an adult or child....


Since wey I japa again, if you see us gisting, you'll think I am their all time favorite pikin...

But as we no fit change parents, how we go do

It's well

I feel you boss. Thanks for the ginger!

with the way I dey go I know say I must enter inside once I begin see bar for street because the kin money I dey find na block... And all my bros wey dey on now done enter inside at least once...

One done get DSS case. One done get normal Eke case. So to enter inside be like say na the benchmark for entry into higher money. And I dey ready

GreyWolf01:
I'll talk to you like a big brother.

Calm down.

You are still her baby..

Relax and stop drinking alcohol ( that's like commiting prolonged suicide).

Plan your life. Really think of what you must do to make your life work, and may God help you.

.

You go say make I make money which one be make I no dey drink beer? Lol
I dey on 2 Bo rn. I just no dey drink for house again

Gamer999:
I feel you bro. E go better, these experiences are really frustrating, I pray the universe aligns in your favor. Everything go make sense SOON!

Iseee 🙏

The amounts of fùcks on this post alone will be enof for the remainder of the year. E come dey sound like that Kendrick Lamar song, We Cry Together

I used to think Isreal was wrong for over invading but after I saw the vids of Oct 10 attacks on Twitter I knew Hamas deserved every single nuke dropped on them and more.

Come to think of it, what Hamas did to Isreal is not up to half of what Boko Haran has been doing to the Northern part of 9ja yet Govt. dey rehabilitate them lol fụcking clowny ass terrorist nighas

Use like 3k or 5k open case for Gender unit. Use 10 or 20k mobilise them. Come pick the bastard up. But sha clear police say you wan manhandle am first b4 them pick am.

Let for me, I go lure the nigga out at night. Him no go see sunlight for like 2 weeks. When him comot body go tell am

Meaning say, you gats plan where you go carry am go ahead of time. Either police station or inside bush or underground.

Alphamentips:
I can relate. I love the way you write also. No too para for mumsy o. Its not easy my guy.

Maybe na writing go pay you last last. Maybe Na nursing. Maybe na street. Only time will tell. You gotta keep moving.. Na who give up Bleep up. If u dey consider writing then I don't think NL is the platform for you. You should crosspost

Yeah ikr?

I only post here cos it's anonymous. Imagine coming on Facebook to roast your mumcy lol

I know I'll get more traction and views of I crosspost but I don't know why I don't. Maybe I dislike the attention. I have a grp of 20k women who are TTC. I also have a grp of 3k peeps who are interested in e-commerce but I hardly post as it's so demanding keeping up with the msgs and all..

I don't think I'm cut out for that as no income comes off it

uchman:
In as much as I understand you my Gee, everyone of us has really passed through this stage of life but always have it at the back of your mind say you go make am.
Life itself always make us to be unsettled, from one stage to another, men dey always dey on high speed and our hearts thinks a lot.
I remember when I failed class during SS1 and then, that was my problem from there to when my waec came out and English was not there, it became my second hard nut to crack in life from there to my graduation from university and my result no to clear as I expected from there to securing employment, leaving the country, getting married and boom corona virus came and tied me down in Nigeria for complete 3 years inside Corona virus, baby number 2 came and also number 3, my brother, man need run go find option but I thank God today.

Thanks for the motivation!

It was really warm of you. Yeah I'm positive I'll break above the ice but we don't know that for a fact .. and that thought keeps me up. Tomorrow will determine if the moves we make today were worthwhile or not

Mariangeles:
Op, you sabi write O! 😀
Maybe na through writing your story you fit blow.

thanks Mrs Foodie Mariangeles. I hope it does but apart from sales copywriting I hadn't really made any money off it.

I wrote my first 3k words when I was 13 for an international competition (UN) but I guess I didn't make the cut. I pray it does but have no idea how it would

Omo! Person gats hold money like within the next few months. I feel like I have a few months or even a few years to get my money back in order.

Bastard money where are you?

Life is way better when your account is loaded, my guy. I go lie for you?

Especially when u are amongst the oldest guys in your family circle.


All my mind now dey on, wetin I wan learn wey go give me bar without involving buying and selling. I no get capital for buying stocks and advertising.

All my mind now na:

Wetin I wan do within this short period of time wey go fit set me on a path to money.

This nursing school thing go pay off in years. I really don't have that long

I no wan dey school dey ask my siblings for financial support (which according to psychological research is a response to past trauma) while in school.

Guy.. my mind no dey settled.

If I dey sleep for night, come wake up to empty my bladder. Then go back to bed, in-between those few mins before i drift off to sleep again I go just wonder, what if I no make am later in life?

That though alone go make all the sleep run comot my eyes. I go just dey awake dey rake brain on wetin to do to get money.


And e be like the answer dey for Street.

Even if I no dey work. I fit dey provide Aza.
My head wan burst

Been staying at my parents' for like 2 days now and mumcy no gree me rest.

You skip church service, "Y didn't you go to church?"

You drink. "You're now addicted to beer"

You sleep. "You're not serious with your life"

I ask her about a nurse based abroad she once suggested for me as a spouse and her response was,

"You are not serious. You think a girl wants a man without a plan or zeal for his life?"

Just because ballary no too dey my handicap now.
Omo I done tireee!
And it's only 2 days.

E done dey reach 4 years now wey I see 2meter complete for my account now.

So I no blame her.


She served me breakfast and just when I took the first few spoons she began her barrage of gasliting again talking about how all my friends are now married and all that

At that point, the food instantly lost its taste in my mouth. I felt like spitting it back into the plate.

Na home-training hold me back.

I snapped back at her... It's like she doesn't want me here anymore. I told her she should be worried about getting her life in order not mine (although she seems to have her shit togeda. so it sounded like a misfire)


I sha told her I had other accommodation options and if she doesn't want me here I can get moving.

I honestly cannot wait to leave here.

I just de vex say I no carry mob come back from Lag. I for just leave that food like that on top table enter car drive off till the next weekend.

Or even go hotel go lodge for like 1 week till I'm done here.

I dey wonder how my pops take cope reach now. I no like women wey dey nag.

Woman wey no fit structure words to give the desired result without having to cause so much friction.

I hate being coerced into taking an action I don't want. Like the more you push me towards it the more my dislike for the proposed action/idea gets

Like this marriage thingy for example, I was out with my homeboys and all except me was married.

Normally, them begin tease me say wetin I dey wait for? You know na, the normal way guys tease.

But the thing is the more they said that to me the more I hated the entire idea. I was literally pushed to go talk to the chief bridesmaid at the event and ask for her contact.

Her dad is rich and all but where does that put me?

because I don't understand why people think they're in a better position to make a long-term decision for me.

How person wan take marry when him no get up to half a million for account? Or even a quarter of a milly for account.

They say it all the time like I don't have enough Gray matter in my head to do my own thinking and it's annoying.

But I just laff and smile because they're family or friends.


Like, you have zero context of what my finances or life is like atm yet you feel obliged to urge me to tie the knots with a girl who's obviously well to do.

Just like momcy when she recommended a nurse abroad for me... In my head I'm like, "so I'm expected to get her interested in me, get her to luv up, propose, and then what??"

Let her foot the whole gaddammed bills?

Just like the nursing school interview I went for, the nurse who interviewed me asked me the same question.

She asked if I was single or married.
I answered, "single"
"When are you getting married" she asked next.

"When are you getting dead?"

"And will your funeral be immediately after your demise or would u prefer to be kept in a morgue for a few months before then?" I replied her (in my head) before blurting out, "soon & very soon"


The audacity strangers have to ask such a long-term personal question while expecting a gentle reply is baffling!


At a time, e done dey do me like say I no wan marry again. Make everybody mind settle.

Once you ask me say, "when I go marry?"
Or the closest one, "why you never marry"

I go just reply you with something rude or nasty make u rest (Na just say home training no go gree me tell people to their face say make dem go copulate themselves) mtchewww!

That annoying shit always happens with a selfish bitch who's using you for your D. I guess she don't give head also.

Uchesis:
Why is it that only men with money and/or power gets to fkkk so many types of women. Example;

Solomon
Ebanga.

The list is long.

The thing with women is so long as you dey settle them they won't see anything wrong in it. Even if na 'thanks for coming'

10k here. 20k there etc ..
Now imagine person wey dey loaded, na like 100k or even half a milly him go dey drop

Not like guys without money can't get chicks it's just that your bar makes the success rate higher

1x2x3:
@Candyops

I told you this few days ago. You think it is by how much you knach a woman? A cheater would cheat even if you knack her well 7 times a week. Someone who doesn’t cheat won't cheat even if you don't knack her in a week.

Person wey go cheat go cheat
Yabsouletly true! My question now is why did she faint upon hearing what her husband did? Abi na film she dey act for us?

illicit:
Balthazar

Real nighas only ✌️

Softmirror:
He already made it clear that only jobless men do that and he is one of these jobless men too.🤣🤣🤣🤣

I no jobless o
Just out of job for now 😆

motionarena:
Why seeking validation?
Show us ur vids make we confirm u

I never wan blow

Antihypocrite:
Exactly. I suspected you were using messaging apps like your funnel. Get a landing page

Will it help my conversion any way? I once did calls as CTA + detailed targeting and spent over 100k on ads yet not so much calls after 7 days

Bukola94:
bad man, destroy that p and let them be coming back for more. I fear you. Anytime I dey waka, if I meet you and I see you greet my wife or she greet you,na straight divorce

Lol I have boundaries though... Except na the woman use me

Silentgroper:
lies .. there's no video on that site...

From his site... Connect to his Twitter or just search that man on Telegram

Natbrowny:
If u f*ck ur babe well. She'll still taste outside

Dont deceive ursef with the loyalty bullshit

He aint the only one f*cking them. He'll f*ck them, and dey still go ahead and f*ck others. They may finish f*cking a guy before proceeding to his house coz he offers sweet raba. They knew they were been recorded, so dey like d adventure with the raba inclusive

He dey sort dem financially. Thats what babes care about. A gal will stay with you with many red flags, just dey sort dem d bar normally.

Be a 2seconds guy
Be a woman beater
Be a mugu
Be an alpha
Just dey sort raba, they'll come around

My thoughts exactly... Baba dey loaded so him dey settle on a steady

CountinBlessins:
A thread for jobless touts who cant feed themselves. 99% of those above are perpetual online beggars. They have nothing meaningful to do with their lives this is why they are wasting their time analyzing this rubbish. Just take a look at what grown men are discussing

SHAME!!!

Lol be calming down bro.. 😅
Its just a hot topic like the Diddy topic nothing more

Make una sha dey fxuk una babes well.
Don't leave that shiit to us.

I literally avoid women now and porn now.
So anyone I catch next if I deal with am finish e go be like trailer jam am 😆