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Andersonc:
I have a girl I have dated for six years, since my secondary school time, I want to marry her. I checked her phone the other day and noticed that she saved my name as fb and smart. While I was going through her contact I saw another number saved as desire, I checked it and the number is wasn't mine. I went ahead to check her text massages and I saw some romantic massages they have been sending to each other. When I confronted her she told me that he is just a friend, then I told her that if he is just a friend that why will she save his number as desire and save mine as fb and smart.
She told me that she is not cheating on me that she loves me, that I shouldn't mind what I saw. When I pressed harder on it she told me that after all we are not yet married.
Pls what should I do, and I love her, am just confused

Lilbest3:
that's the problem, you and your mother are not dead but your step father is most probably dead or battling a dangerous illness from carrying his problems as well as that of another man.
Why should I be the one to raise a child who wasn't formed with my sperm?

Martinez39s:
I will create the thread but it won't be today. I was asking those questions not because of the other guy but our of sheer curiosity (amebo).

WELL, CONCEPTION BY HOLY SPIRIT.

Martinez39s:
I will create a thread on that very soon. You were raised by a step dad? Why did your mum split from your biological dad? Death or personal differences?

Lilbest3:
I hate typing epistles just listen to what this guy has to say

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6B3vyIbe1Rw

Martinez39s:
Of course, it's always the man's fault. Mumu.

Xandelle:
My wife and I will have separate bedrooms.

Ladycewhy:
Even a crippled man will fight back ,mteeew we really now have stronger women and weaker men , rubbish. Thank God I don't have a brother like this

Liposure:
babygirl, can't sleep without saying i luv you

hakeem4:
Saved from coronavirus or Lassa fever ?

Martinez39s:
From the horse's mouth. Haters will call her a misogynist.

Omar09:
Aside those widowed, if she's dumb enough to make poor decisions, she's capable of ruining ones life with her dumb decisions.

Everyone has the right to start life with brand new stuffs I don't see a reason I should not exercise that right yet she exercised hers and it didn't work out.

As if there are smart men in Nigeria .
Most of them are dumb .

Michellekabod2:
he will call you a simp,thats all you will get

sexylassie:
But martinez39s is a virgin, never had sex before or had any physical relationship with a woman.

How come you take the advice of a virgin and inexperience man so seriously in things concerning relationship

Michellekabod2:
till date no one has given me a tangible reason for their impression of single mums. How many paternity fraud is committed by single mums in marriage?
From petty reasons like they can't invest or commit to another man's kid(like people don't train relatives or adopt kids) to lies that they are promiscuous (as if ladies in the brothels are all single mums).

Sadly the oafs think differently of single dads.

otipoju:
Ive been married over 4 years now.
I dont wear a ring, i dont post my wife or childrens pictures on social media... because you cant shoot at what you cant see.

Martinez39s:
Still on single mothers. Stop simping.

galadima77:
Let me give one example...

I had an uncle who served a former governor as special adviser on political affairs.
He came home one day (after their tenure of course) and told us:

"can you imagine we asked His excellency for some money and H.E. said he could only access such sum from a joint account he operates with his wife. So he'd have to see her first."

We all bowed our heads...

Michellekabod2:
In western countries she will file a case against him,divorce him,and cart away with his wealth. He will pay her child support for kids that aren't his

So which is a wiser choice to make?

Michellekabod2:
Why not divorce her instead of touching her? We complicate things for ourselves...
#saynotodomesticviolence

SAYYESTODOMESTICVIOLENCE

oodua1stson:
She's still breathing. So no, the man did nothing

Omar09:
It will be fun.
Btw.. “I need candid advice. Insults are welcomed too”

Omar09:
**coughs

Caps... Lock...

**coughs again
**clears throat properly...

CAPSLOCK!!

That was weird.

DO YOU KNOW THE PATTERN WE'LL ADOPT?
ONCE THEY'RE CREATING NEW ACCOUNTS TO MASK THEIR FOOLISHNESS, WE'LL CREATE NEW ACCOUNTS TO REPLY THEM AS WELL.
ALL HE'S INTERESTED IN IS TO BARBECUE HIS WIFE-TO-BE. OLOUN PEOPLE FULL THIS WORLD.

namiji2598:
ohhh
If na that one, I know for sure, though I still get small change sha. But no job yet, and I still dey careful how to invest that cash before e fly away

namiji2598:
please what's "OWU''

BROKENNESS. NAIM MEK U CONFUSED.

namiji2598:
My girlfriend that use to complain that I don't last long, during Xmas period, she complaints that I last long and she can't cope

Please, I am even a fan of sugar too and beer, as I usually take them
How can I reduce this problem

GUY YOUR PROBLEM NA "OWU".

Bola146:
Same here with me, I have missed alot of good guys due to my genotype. It's well. God understand better. I just need a miracle to change my genotype to AA