Saviola86: Nothing indecent there Mr holier than down.
One of God's plan for man is Godly marriage and raising Godly seeds.
If the parents are not in unism unison, there is no way they can raise Godly seeds
I strongly commend the church and the pastor's for putting up such lovely programs to rekindle the love and fire in couples
We live in times where the economic situation and frustration in the country can over stress people and the love in marriage goes cold without anyone remembering the last time they said to their partners I love you or even care of the other person's whereabouts.
Bills and bills and children can take your attention that you forget the needs or feelings of your spouse.
I want to believe you are not married that is why you fault this lovely move
It's "Holier-than-thou". You might want to correct that!
This has nothing to do with being married or not being married. I'm happily married Sir/Ma.
See, you need to understand what churches have turned into and how it has completely turned into a show biz/entertaining hotspot. Instead of going for AY live show, go to Oodumeje's church and laugh till your ribs come out. Instead of going to a discotheque, go to any of these new generational churches and dance your sorrows away. What more, haven't they started singing secular musics in churches?
Sir/Ma, I've been to a church where all the pastor talked about for almost 15mins was Oko and Obo. Do you think the congregation did not enjoy the message? Ofcourse they did..., well many did going by the way everyone was laughing as the preaching went on.
Ministry or salvation messages/works does not exist in many of these churches. That is the nexus of my point.
That said, a discerning pastor would organize couples programme separately from singles programme.
franchasng: I don't think this is good practice in a Church.
The Church should be a sacred place to worship and to commune with God not an entertainment center neither should Church be turned to a marriage counseling center.
If the Pastor wanted to turn to a marriage counselor, he should have organized a marriage seminar outside the Church and strictly for married couples.
The work of Church is to win souls for Christ and to help people learn to emulate Jesus Christ and live their life like Jesus Christ and not to entertain or to teach couples how to love each other. The Bible already taught that, couples should read their Bible and once they follow the ways of Christ, they don't need any Pastor to teach them to be good husband or wife to their spouses.
Dear Pastors, focus on Holiness and every other thing will fall in place please!!
This should be condemned and abolished immediately from all Churches please
I won't be surprised if that pastor ask the couples to kiss one another.
There's nothing that goes on in a Night club that doesn't happen inside churches nowadays. Church is now a showbiz/entertainment centers. No more gospel missions or Salvation ministry again. They would rather preach the messages or put up shows that bring in more money and more members.
Ever wonder why the likes of Oodumeje and Omotofuffeyin continue to have crowd in their churches?
Even church have turn to showbiz. I ask myself is this necessary in church? There's nothing gospel about churches anymore. That's how I went to church one day and the pastor used almost 15mins talking about Oko and Obo. The funny thing was that the congregation enjoyed listening to it.
It's better to go to a beer parlour on Sunday morning and be thinking about God, than to go to church and be thinking about ungodly things.
Meedon: As a man if you marry from my village there are things you need to be wary of and your wife committing adultery is one (the most important). If your wife commit adultery and you heard about it but did not care to do anything about it. My brother, your stomach would swell up and you would die. Sicknesses would attack your body, you wither and die abruptly without wasts of time. My ancestors (Ibegwu are very active here) kill anyone that is a victim of wife cheating.
Another one is if you lick your wife or girlfriend private part, you are also in trouble unless you perform some sacrifices to appease the ancestors (Ibegwu). I have seen many women run to the village to perform this sacrifice to the ancestors. One girl did for 2 times. The third time, the Ibegwu asked her to bring goat instead of the normal cock that is required.
This is just a warning to men who want to marry from my village. If you want to live long run to the village and perform the required sacrifices when noticed that your wife is playing away march if not otilor is your case.
We have so many rules which if you go against you would see shege from the Ibegwu's but this one is the most common amongst the folks in the village. If you as a wife no fit deh faithful to your husband, the result must show.
You are not serious at all. How can you write this serious matter without telling us the name of your village?
How do we know which village you're talking about?
FreeStuffsNG: It's obvious that you are confused with those economic terms.
This is why education is good and it's not a scam. USA has been minting dollars and selling debts at a pace that human history has never recorded and you cannot decipher it.
The Ijaw man, Sowore standing for Igbo. Igbo man have tendency to prosper in strange land and Ijaw man have tendency to love strangers like their own or even more than their own.
Igbos aren't our enemies but we can only operate as two different nations because two captains can't be in one ship and Igbos aren't larger than Ijaws both in area size and population.
@Ditari of Ijaw.
Are both area size the same? What are the official square km?
Are both population the same? What are the official populations?
There's no way both will be exactly the same thing!
JustSayHello: I done that and even charged it with nepa light. Its still flickering
It's too early to fully recharge the drain. Let proper sun hit the panel. And you shouldn't be using the bulbs in the morning unless your room is dark.
WhizdomXX: APC will only be happier with your comment
It's not only APC though!
I will be happier because I won't contribute to electing corrupt polithifians. That way I can gloat at the electorates stupidity for their persistent voting of their tormentors.
What annoys me is how these poverty stricken masses continually manage to get hope and still come out to vote every election days.
I don't think I can ever vote for any politicians in this country ever again. Each time I see this polithiefians flaunting their wealth, I just shake my heads and pray that the electorates wise up.
Politics is the greatest scam by polithiefians against the masses. They will never do what they promised to do. The earlier we realize this scam and stop voting them, the better.
I want to draw u people attention to what females are doing in our higher institutions. I currently live in students environment close to a reputable tertiary institution in Nigeria.
When I see what young girls who live off campus do. I WEEP for their future husband.
How on earth would girls leave the rooms they rented, and go and live with their boy friend through out the years of their schooling as if they are married....IN THE NAME OF SCHOOL LIFE ! The guys will be bleeping them for FREE...
Then after graduation everybody go find their way. THE SAME GIRL GO COME THE FORM RITCHO FOR MEN .
Man go still marry that kind girl....PAY her bride Price....carry am put for him house!
NA NOW I SEE WHY SOME OF MY FREZ SAY THEM NO GO EVER MARRY A GIRL WEY GO HIGHER INSTITUTION.
It takes two to bleep! Those men too don peruse several ladies and when it's time to marry, they look for one innocent girl. I pity girls that marry such men.
It's funny how we always think this sexcapade is only about girls. It's applicable to both genders.
correctguy101: Truth be say if these werey dem need money "legally" . They should start arresting vehicles wey dey park anyhow for our roads. They'll make serious money. If I be olopa, after that, na to begin arrest all those neolife people for "deceiving the innocent citizens and earnings from false pretenses". Just begin call all those their ads dem post indiscriminately. Then begin partner with Nigeria bill boards and posters whatever to drag all those church posters to court for spoiling property by posting anyhow. It's acrimonious.
Fear me.
See there's wall to wall corruption in this country. The level of corruption in this country is astronomical.
He said I beat traffic light. Meanwhile, the light was still on amber when I already crossed the stop line.
This was at New Garage junction to burst into Long bridge.
I told them that if at all I beat traffic light, it will be a contravention that would already be logged on me and the penalty fee would be paid when next I'm renewing the vehicle papers.
Infact, their actions of jumping infront of the car while the light was still on amber was deliberate and that was exactly what caused the contravention.
I use to advise people not to Japa and leave this country, but with what I saw today, I think anybody that has the capacity to leave this country should. I'm going back abroad myself.
Honestly, I don't think this country can be salvaged.
chidiokay: He won't, APC knew they escaped Nigerians by some grace 2023, after sanwo olu 2027 is not a time for APC to field an unknown, they dont trust lagos vote if Tinubu can lose in lagos
Peaching Ambode is a very Queen move, as a opposition how do you discredit ambode to lagosians ... empathy, sympathy are leverages on his side and his record is a stand out for re-election.
He has my automatic vote same way i must vote against Tinubu even if naa only me
I'm only interested in anyone that use the phrase "Emi L'okan"
Too much noise over food will make me not to eat the food.
I remember going to one canteen and there's Cho Cho Cho Cho everywhere right from the seller and the people on the queue. Even people in suit and tie were just splashing their saliva everywhere. Na so I just drop the plate and leave.