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I dont drink coffee. I love natural hot teas, preferably picking leaves or small branches from the tree and boil them up to make a good vessel of tea.

My favorite is the black mint.

What do you drink.

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Yea people think if you seem ok after a short time, it means you never loved. By short i don't mean 3 days coz that 3 min love is all the rage

Doesn't take me long either. [B]I'm mental about most things anyway[/B] [/color]

Me too, and you wont hear me talking or bitching about things that may stress me out. I am one to bottleup things and deal with them singlehandedly, I've been told its no good and can lead to mental breakdown, but I am way too strong for that to happen, been doing it all my life and still is very sane

odiaero:
The next day

now, thats cold! If its true, I dont think you are capable of loving anyone.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]your own still dey ok. . .me wey no get headphones ko. . .[/color]

works for me as I love music. What do you do?

I think this guy is interested in me, but I have zero interests as he is still married. Friends are telling me its no biggie as he's waiting his pending divorce. Even if I was interested in him as a person, I dont think I would venture that path as he's still legally married.

Should it be a problem or shouldnt?

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]^Right so dat's y u just avoid dem so u don't end up lashing out @ dem.[/color]

Exactly! I generally do so with my earphones in full blast  

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Hmmm but some people r just annoying anywayz. . . [/color]

right! especially when they are loud and obnoxcious. just cant take when people encroach on your personal space, whether it be verbally or physically. its so annoying.

femmy2010:
Carolece,are you anti-male?

It may seem that way. But I cant speak any other way, because I've never been hurt by a woman so I have nothing bad to say about a female, I leave that up to the guys who have been hurt.

violent:
I sort of do this a lot. . . i dislike folks crowding out my space when all i needed is a lil extra time to clear my head!. . .and yeah, sometimes it appears I'm being rude. . .but really, i don't give a rat's árse!

WOW thats me in a mirror.

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Ofcourse it has kinda always been dat way, cause it's only ever been me anywayz no bro no sis. . .hehe so?i no dey shut pple out doe.[/color]

I kinda grow up that way too, spend alot of time by myself, probably that "taught" me how to shut the world out.

madlady:
Little sis you know you do.


Hmmm let me see if I can make this reply romantic

Yes I like to be on my own if I am feeling stressed or in pain, it's much better than being rude or giving my other half stress.

LOL yeah I know, I get it wrong at times, I spend so much time in the romantic section of the forum, I just post a thread LOL

I wont do it again   thanks for the reminder  

No matter how bad the situation is, I never let it consume my life. I put him on the back burner, as he is no longer important to me. Not saying I dont think about the good times here and there, but I wont throw myself on the ground and drag my life out on the railroads. After a month, he's completely out of mind, I remember him only when he's in sight. My friends and family said I didnt love, but I always object to them not knowing what the truth, because if I dont love, I wont stay in a relationship.

I'd just say, I'm a pretty good rebounder

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Lolz hmm i dunno about dat sha. . .[/color]

So at no time you never feel like just having time to yourself not giving a crap about who's around?

Nerseal:
She left and Now she's back, Should i still love her like before?,

What she left for didnt work, or perhaps she didnt get what she was looking for. I'd chase her if I were you. But then again, you probably love her and wants her back. Its your call buddy. But dont come asking for advice when you take her back and she starts giving problems or better yet, leave you again

HIV/AIDS was made to create the boom in pharmaceutical businesses.

In saying so, I try at all the times not to be rude to anyone when I get mood swings which I generally have success in, as I'm not generally a rude person. But most times I shut people out, I dont recon that someone is around me. I stay in a shell and mind my own business.

I know its wrong, but thats what I do when I am on my monthly (that alone is a hell for me).

Am I the only one?

Does this happen to yall?

Nerseal:
What Will u do if u ve a broken heart?

I cry a river, build a bridge and get over him.

topup:
Yes, looks are uncertain and they change, you've seen those makeover shows, is it not the same man/woman, just with different clothes etc.

Yes there are some people who look pretty much the same before and after, but to be honest, if you pick a man with a good character, you won't be complaining of his looks 20 years into your marriage.

Exactly what I am saying. You see them for who they are and not how they look. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. He's cute when you behold his heart and he behold yours. Nice uh?!

Ok, so I am going to fess up that I'm peeking on alot of the pictures that some of the members post here on their profiles. Some of yall are what I'd call not cute, very unique, or what some may just flatly call ugly

In my past, I'd never look at a guy who in my eyes is not a cutie, but as I got older, I learn that cuteness is very overated, hence, I learnt how to see someone from the inside and stop looking on the out. My most recent ex is one of those, as most of my friends would frequently question and compare both of us in looks and ask why I choose him.

Have you ever seen past someone's uniqueness and love them with all your heart because you no longer see what everyone else sees?

They are still out there but most of them are already taken, the ones who are not you'll have to dig deep to find.

9jaganja:
Look who got more famous? paris hilton has no singing talent but she sold platinum didn't she? something acclaimed smart girls can't boast of lately. They aren't dumb, they are just sluts for fame. Until you get that, I don't think you won't jump up at any news concerning them. Now how many sex tapes has flooded Hollywood since Paris Hilton's? She wasn't the first but she used it for her image. Kim Kardashian? Now every girl wants bosoms bigger than their butts. It's all about the fame home girl!!!

Oh, I see where your interest lies, there cant be an intelligent conversation between us as I am not into "your world". I dont listen to those kind of crappy news, zero interest. Carry on nonetheless. Never mind me, just forget I even said anything.

I bet you are the kind who cant miss a minute of your daily dose of soap operas.

topup:
Where's the challenge in that?? Not a lot of people are where they want to be, leaving many women the false hope of 'changing a guy into a better man'.

I get what you mean though - if you're referring to people pretending, but I'm talking about aiming for better.

Sorry re: derailing. My bad.

I get you on your last statement, but most times, if one doesnt know who they are, its difficult for them to know what they want.

topup:
No we're not forming!! Typically, with no insult intended, the louder more brash ladies, need more agressive and louder and macho guys, whilst more sensitive ladies, find a deep and strong type very attractive.

You will find in my group of friends, my most insecure friends shouting that they want macho guys, whilst my quieter mroe reserved friends saying that they like sensitive guys, but beware, a lot of insecure ladies like gentle guys too, because they'll be gentle with them.

Do not believe that there is just ONE view.

I'm tired of guys saying being BIG and BULKY is what women want.

Find what you're woman wants, but most of all be what you want!!

I think it would serve them best if they be what they really [B]ARE[/B]

Faher:
This is what happens when one argues with an immature person. They start attacking you personally, Haha.

Heard that punchline already, try something else buddy. Thats all you had? Coward!

9jaganja:
Example:

Bimbos: Paris Hilton is not a bimbo neither is Lindsay Lohan or Brittany spears and Jessica Simpson. These are all smart girls playing dumb for Hollywood.

I cant stop laughing at this. Those girls are as silly as silly can get. How dumb can one be to be playing dumn and getting in so many trouble and embarrassment? Shut the hell up. Use another example please and dont let me laugh out louder.

Faher:
^^^ fantastic. Good for you
My type of women are very very rare too

Btw, the type of men you described are not rare at all

Why did you change your post. See, you have alot of issues. Coward. Stay in your make belief world. I am over in the real world, one day you will get over here, hope it wont be too late though. You need to wake up and smell the damn coffee.