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All I know, if it was a crime, more than half of the male NL members would be behind bars without the possibility of a parole.

Pride is like a disease when displayed un-necessarily like the way I see it being displayed here.

Faher:
Honestly, this is beginning to crack me up, haha.

Of course, I won't laugh at her.
I'll just say sweet words to her and soothe her so she feels comfortable to cry and let everything out.
But cry with her? no f3king way!!!

Quite interesting! That is why I PICK, CHOOSE AND REFUSE! Good and compatible men are very very very very very rare. Did I say very?

For your well being and your new born. Use a condom 100% of the time or leave his cheating azz.

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=44639.msg6259258#msg6259258 date=1277174420]u would know

for every one nigerian that find doing that, i will point out a 100 AA guys that do worse, bring it on!


when u two decide to have some common sense go check out the stats, women with attitudes, baby mama issues, women that date the "okie dok" etc, AA women always seem to lead the way. even the ones u meet in school, most are a product of a messed up family and some like to still act that madness out. one or 2 members of their entire family went to college including them, u asked about their family members and all u get is one brother or cousin that just got out of jail, is in jail or is going to jail or some other silly sh1.t! and u have the guts to talk trash about nigerian men? bring an average everyday AA dude and an average everyday nigerian guy in the states, 9 out of 10, the nigerian guy is excelling in every part of life than the AA dude. a grown backside 22 yr old man will be proud to tell u he is soon going to get his GED and in my mind and i am saying damn! did your brother just say GED or his 1st degree? plz dont get me started! [/quote]Wonder how some of you ever learn in a classroom. For the 5000th time, I am not an American by birth

Faher:
Haha, really? Ladies like guys to cry with them? This is a first.

So you dont cry? What if there's a situation where you had to be there for your wife/gf and it is so solemn that she's crying you would laugh while she's crying?

[quote author=shakerz_1 link=topic=466875.msg6258689#msg6258689 date=1277162854]^We all die, what does it matter how we die[/quote]Did you post the article to rejoice the killing?

I like a guy who is not afraid to show his emotions.

If I laugh, he laughs with me.
If I cry, he crys with me.

I want a man who is not afraid to express by words and back it up with actions.

There seem to be a common trend with men which is called cheating, not with any particular race or nation. What I notice though with most of my Caribbean men they lack decorum.

They had only one TV? LOL

In the end, its sad that a man's life was taken for something so silly. May his soul rest in peace. They shall pay for their silly mistakes. What a shame.

[quote author=St. Richy link=topic=108129.msg6258388#msg6258388 date=1277157636]@Carolece
where in the Prophet's good earth are you?
WE DON'T PRAY FOR EVIL TO BEFORE US.
LOL[/quote]Obviously not Haiti or Nigeria LOL

You dont pray for evil, but you do belive in evil thats why evil come before you.

Not saying evil is not real, as I know satan is, but when you believe and bow to him, he will work upon/for you.

but the thing is. They seem not to hear themselves as some of them have such a strong homeland accent that cannot be disguised no matter what they do or say. They just sound obviously trying which never seem to "happen". So funny to hear some of them.

What I look for may not what you look for in a relationship. Relationships should be based on what you like and not other people's opinion.

didnt say only men do it. just replying according to the thread.

femmy2010:
Some Ladies Appreciate the FAKE lifestyle.
God help us sha

here's one, many more to show up

You stretch the convo too far, I'd cut as soon as I find out he's not himself anymore.

What a clown some people can be trying to be someone else.

Right! It would be hard but I guess thats what I would have to do.

So today I was chatting with a friend who told me she thinks her mom is having an affair with someone at her job. She is pretty sure about it as she has been seeing them out on dates and even kissing at times. Her mom does nothing to cover up that she is having the relationship because she knows her daughter would not tell.

My question to her now, what if you dad should know? Her question was how would he? I was like, so you wouldnt tell your dad your mom is having an affair? Obviously she said no, then went on to add but if it was dad she'd tell mom.

I disagree. If mom's going to know about dad, I think the same should go the other way, dad should know too.

Agree?
Disagree?

fubiluv:
Marriage is more about love and comparability.
A virgin that you don't love and can not tolerate makes worst home.
So,if you love her,her child should not be an issue.

I totally disagree. I know more than one persons who have been in relationships that consists of step kids, and they all have to leave the relationships/marriages because the kids were totally disrespectful to the person who was not the biological parent. So you are wrong on that one. Both partners can love each other dearly and because of the kids the relationship will NOT work.

Fools are everywhere, when they set up themselves and go down, they try to blame someone. Good lord some people are stu!

Oh, I'm sorry, my bad, I got a bit carried away. Yall carry on.

Does he know his HIV/AIDS status?

Kx:
To express your feelings, use FEDEX,federal express!

I think it would better fitting if he uses DHL. That yellow building will bring much sunshine in his life, all day all year if he sticks with that particular courier service. Good looking out.

not again

Before you quit the relationship you may want to find out the real truth to what is happening or what has happened. Man's a dog if he puts sexual questions to your gf. Woman is a w hore if she accepts that man's proposal. Find out first before you make any move.

I would loose both of them as friends if any of it is truth.

WHAT!!!? YOU ARE WITH HER AND NEVER TELL HER YOU LOVE HER. OR BETTER YET, AFRAID TO TELL HER?

I WOULD QUESTION THIS "LOVE" YOU HAVE FOR HER. HAVE SHE TOLD YOU THAT SHE LOVES YOU?

Onchedu:
A lto of questions will be asked and answers will be required. It's not easy raising another man's child and doing a proper job at it.

It comes with alot more baggages at times. Most feared one for me is the baby mama drama. There is no way I could stop or want a man not to have contact with his kids and if the kids are young he must contact with the mother, and I am not prepared to share my man's attention at no time with another woman or child. Everyone has their personal preference, and I will never take up with a man and child/ren. Same goes for a man who dogs around, never will I share him knowingly. Ne'Ver!

I see. Life is yet a learning process.