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So I have this friend from Niger. We always have discussions on whether or not I should class myself as an African. I oftentimes refer to myself as an African and he always correct me that I am not. Yet he refers to Americans as African Americans, also he oftentimes call me his sister, referring to me as "my sister".

I asked him why I shouldnt call myself such and he said just because I wasnt born to the Mother land. I said well, dont refer to the Americans as such because they were not born to the Mother Land either. He went on to telling me that they are different because thats what everyone know them as, yeah right.

Tell me what is your personal belief on this topic, please.

Afterall, you are what your parents are, and parents including foreparents which mine were taken from Africa and taken to the Caribbean. Hence, I will continue to embrace my Africanship.

Tell me please.

Yeah, men never know what we quarrel about. So oblivious to what's happening in their relationships or even around them.

I sorry for the men who dont understand when a woman doesnt love them and keep chasing. Those are the ones who generally get hurt, they force themselves on women, shower them with gifts and women use them and they talk how cruel a woman is. Mind you, I wouldnt invite a man by accepting gifts, but there are women out there who do it only for the "ride".


They dont annoy me at all.

odiaero:
with who?
*** me and pweety is doing th 1 2 step of a thing now woo***[/color]

You didnt even introduce yourself to me. Oh My God!

bxcode:
Keep on riding donkey my sister, one day it will turn into hummer

I aint looking for a hummer. I will settle for a RAV4

me, me, me. pick me. somebody pick me    

only 7 yrs and he's worried? Maybe he's worried about something else like commitment and havent found any other reason not to comit to that woman. Men! I just will never figure them out.

Not me. I am still waiting for mister right, havent seen him yet, still will wait even if I have to wait in vain, I will NEVER settle for any or everything that comes my way, just because!

I always say, if I ride my donkey to go purchase a car and dont see the one I would really spend my money on for a great buy, I riding mi donkey back home

@spicyhoney,u must have done a great job stalkin his facebk to be able to detect a post someone wrote on his wall a long time ago.



Right!
And must be good reading though the lines (literally) to know when a guy is telling lies or not. Most people just tell lies on those kind of pages. To each his/her own, who find love on the internet good for them. But I aint want none of that love. no thanks please! eh!

It puizzles me why people go online to seek love. Stupid, lazy, low self esteemed, or just plain azz ugly and worthless.

I could answer a more reality question.

^ U never jam man wey no send wetin U want reach that level but U no know why U no fit stop like am shey?

uh?

Well, I dont have one now. But if you are going to ask me to use a piece to describe my ex its gotta be a pair of well worn sox.

Shaving is a must for any man I am dating.

If you take in with her fat and now complaining then you have serious issues. If she grows fat on you, you still have issues. If you and your partner cant have a discussion about any and everything then yall have issues.

Two things a man only have to be to be mine forever. Honesty and faithfulness. Thats all it takes.

If he want to sit around why you work and do the supporting, run run run. If he's searching with no success as yet, stick with him and do your best not to make that be too much a burden on you. Dont spend beyond your needs, get only necessary things (things thay you need and not want or just like). Hope and pray he will pick up something soon. Goood luck to him. Put you and him in my prayers.

lol, but poster do u shave urs? if yes tell us why and if no tell us why too



Ofcourse I do. Twice weekly to make sure its kept at its very groomed. For hygenic purposes and men like it that way for more than one reasons, but I guess for the main one, not to get hair cuts and bruises, the second and so on you guys can expound

First time was a total disaster, I was young and thought this guy loved me, but he just wanted to get under my skirt, which he didnt get the chance as I fought so hard. I was so tired after more than half hour, and thought he'd win as I was getting so weak, but I wasnt prepared to give up, I would fight to the end, but he got tired and gave up, told me to get out of his parents house and never to come back. I was the happiest person ever, didnt report it as I had no business there as a high school girl, and yes we were both in high school, he was a grade higher though.

Guys, do you shave your private area or ever get a wax job done?

I have this girlfriend who thinks any guy who shave their private area is gay. I dont belive so, I think its sexy and hygenic.

How many guys here do or dont shave?

Why?
Why not?
Is your partner ok with it?
Is she not ok with it?

ouch! OMG, its not my truth and it hurts so bad.

Blind dates are total mistakes.

I love it when a man pays special attention to me and spend alot of time with me, kissing and carressing me.

I eat yams, but I cant say I have a thing for them, too much starch. I like the sweet stuff. Yeah to fruits

^^ what is so funny about me having a thing for mangoes? you dont like mangoes? I love most tropical fruits, hmmm hmmm hmm once they are fully fit and riped on the tree, plant or vine.

I know its not me personally. But how could that keep anyone together forever? Thats silly thinking/beliefs.