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Without buhari, lai mohammed and fayose naija politics wuld av been boring.

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After all dis ban, like d raw food materials, d sch should provide d students d source of there livelihood, not to starve dem. Now even d engineers will no longer wear jean. Isorite get ready u will ban more wen day will start d new rules. Trust naija students

Tell me why will the world not celebrate u. God bless u more Efe.

True talk, av experience such tinz severely. Very soon only women we b going to church. Men are tired of distraction. If u want to distract men, not in d church. #eyeclosed.

legitcash110:
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am new in d system, I play it online don't like going to shops, I do I know sure games to play?

Funke u can fight men in film, na fight d real fight.lol

winnasure1:
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Wow nice game, am in love with dis game not d kemen and t.boss game.

I don't care anymore, bbn is finished t.boss and kemen issue too has ended, anymore word from dis am going to report to amadioha, cuz even amadioha is tired of dis case.

Naija 2pac

R.i.p

R.I.P senator

pillarmaria:
Oooh, Mr Chris.
you know the procedure nau....you should try and book in time so I can order for you before Wednesday.

thanks for your patronage

I will send u d cash by dis week. I appreciate alot. It's nice doing business with u pillarmaria.

Daboomb:
Prove it or remain a WAILER for life!

Naija una too take tins serious go abeg na Sunday I no won quarrel. Person no fit play for dis country again. Lol

rawpadgin:
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but i will advise u against buying a phone now

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u will stand a chance to win more than a million naira

Correct guy

Rip

Is dis one result everybody is just passing the university, who are those graduating from the University. #low standard of education causes bad result.#naija grow up.

Wat if in d course of suspension of those involve, vice president is also part of it, who will suspend him.

Buhari resign and take good care of urself.

After all dis transformation she will soon deform

If u love Nigeria, den blish

gifted21:
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Its complete 9basin not small basin ooo

The garri is so nice. U will enjoy enjoy it.

pillarmaria:
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Thanks pillarmaria for the garri, am happy I met u. Pls I will also need another 5bags.

A healthy relationship is something to be desired but not all relationships are admirable, beneficial or healthy; that is a fact. And sometimes, we can spot these crazy, dysfunctional relationships from a mile away. At other times, however, what we thought was a marriage or relationship made in heaven is actually an unhealthy, unpalatable experience for those involved. Whenever we discover the truth about some of these not-so-rosy relationships, we may be surprised wondering how they were absolutely no signs to give us insight into the true state of affairs. The truth is that there are always signs; they may not have been as obvious as in other cases.



We need to know what makes up a healthy relationship not only to help those who might be prone to choosing wrong relationships but also for our sakes; so that we can avoid unhealthy relationships.

Here are some ways to determine if a relationship is healthy:

Acceptance

Healthy relationships are founded on the basis of acceptance of each other.  No meaningful relationship can do without acceptance of the qualities, strengths and flaws of each other.

When people accept each other, it means that they know what they were going into before taking up the relationship. There is hardly room for confusion or unrealistic expectations in such a relationship. This contributes greatly to peace and happiness of such a relationship.

Only people who have accepted themselves can truly acceptance so the starting point for mutual acceptance in a healthy relationship is that both parties know and love their own selves just the way they are.


Compassion and Empathy

One of the main ingredients of a healthy relationship is that both partners are kind and compassionate towards each other. They look out for each other and look to love and serve each other as against waiting for what they can get or how much the other person has contributed.

Healthy relationships are also marked by empathy and understanding from both partners. They are able to put each other in consideration in the things they do without becoming people-pleasers or pretenders. The starting point for this is that each partners has learnt how to take care of him/herself with kindness and compassion.

Conflict Management

Conflicts arise in all relationships but the difference is that in healthy relationships, conflicts are resolved in such a way that brings about meaningful resolution of issues and allows either or both parties to learn from it.

One of the marks of proper conflict resolution in a relationship is that both partners listen to the other person’s point of view with a desire to understand and are not more concerned about making a point or winning arguments.

In healthy relationships, conflict is used as an opportunity to learn, improve or adjust and not as an tool to malign or control each other.

Trust

Trust is a necessary ingredient of every good and balanced relationship; both partners have a faith that the other person will not deliberately do anything to harm or hurt them. They also have faith that they are both committed to seeking each other’s wellbeing and happiness. This kind of trust means that negative assumptions are not suddenly made about the other person’s actions; they believe the best of each other and do not live in suspicion.


Trust in a relationship also means that attempts are made clarify and understand any behaviour that is inconsistent with the expectations they have of each other.

Enjoyment of Company

A relationship is not a good one if one or both are sticking around despite the fact that they do not enjoy the other person’s company. It makes no sense.

For a relationship to be fulfilling and meaningful that both parties must enjoy being together even though they do not cling to each other all the time.

Independence

Healthy relationships are also marked by independence on both sides. This means that both sides have made a choice to be together and be inter-dependent not because they cannot function individually without each but because they love and are fond of each other.

They should still be able pursue individual interests and maintain personal friendships and possession even though are in a committed relationship. This should also earn support from their partners.

Dis one na small, since u will not allow people fada to rest

See dis fine girl wey politician go day crush for, jxt go end her life for hungry man backyard. #shit

I received it, it was later reserve back to d bank, d message I receive was dis money was not for u, it's for the president of the stipend committee, we decided to deceived d people. #youths u beta go and find something to do and stop waiting for dis stipend dat will never come to u.#hahha

Why all dis eye service of celebrities in Nigeria, u write am for Simi, cuz she no gree ur government na u wan tell d word. One day someone will come out here and said he wrote ur final year exam for u.#be wise man

Dis our naija celebrities get baby brain na everything their fans comment den go reply to, why not just ignore dem, cuz u Don hammer, and ur papa get money, if u day like upcoming artist u will not sound rude to ur fans, u will b more humble cuz u wanna shine. And a girl hearing is unborn daughter future is better than dat guy, she will b like his time to be a baby mama for davido daughter. #lol

U no way accept am. OK wait lemme go and come back from london.lol

Upon say fr north u fit marry small girl, dis big fools decided to gay themselves, dese are people fg should put in kirikiri

Show us the 12 years old girl, u will see big boobs, and big butts. #parents watch ur female children well. Dere growth and increase in sizes is causing wahala. #protect dem from dis old fools who will see small girls and call dem adult