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Romance › Re: What Do You Think Of Nairaland Girls? by CasaNova1(m): 8:14pm On Jul 17, 2010 |
Don't know what to think. There will always be the good, bad, and ugly.  |
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Romance › Re: A Man Who Cannot Respect A Woman Is Not A Man by CasaNova1(m): 7:30pm On Jul 17, 2010 |
@OP
Same goes for women too. You give respect to earn respect. |
Politics › Re: Who Is The Commisioner Of Works In Lagos? by CasaNova1(m): 7:15pm On Jul 17, 2010 |
Reginald indeed  |
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Romance › Re: If I Was The Chic That Took Wandes Coals Picture by CasaNova1(m): 10:55pm On Jul 16, 2010 |
That's what you get for doing groupies and hood-rats. And who sleeps exposed like that anyways. Arrrgh! @whiteroses Those gladiator sandals are wicked  |
Romance › Re: The Girl I Jilted Is Getting Married by CasaNova1(m): 10:49pm On Jul 16, 2010 |
True talk. |
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Nairaland General › Re: Your Secret Admirer(s) On Nairaland by CasaNova1(m): 5:51pm On Jul 16, 2010 |
None yet, still a newbie.  |
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Romance › Re: We Met On Facebook Now I Dont Like Wat I Saw, How Do I Say I'm Sorry? by CasaNova1(m): 5:30pm On Jul 16, 2010 |
Divab: Its funny how people loses their mind over internet pictures & honey combed voice mails, Internet flings is only a game, reality sets in when both parties met, I think both the poster & d babe were so hungry for love or inlove with d idea of being in love & marriage that they forgot to play the game by the rules,
Poster, you are feeling guilty because you made the babe to believe in your love & marriage funny stuffs, you gave her what she was looking for and ure afraid of losing face wth her, Anyway, I wonder why you have to take her home when you didnt like what YOU SAW in d first place,
The decent & best thing is to call her and tell her that she deserves more than u can give or offer her, Tell her she's better off without YOu. I believe she will appreciate u for telling her the TRUTH without further wasting her precious time. |
Romance › Re: She Says 'choose Between Me And Football' by CasaNova1(m): 1:02pm On Jul 16, 2010 |
Damysa: hhmmmmmm men and football
come to think of it . . . what if there wasnt a game like football
wetin una for do , Abegi Gladiator fights.  |
Romance › Re: Hear Out My Story Please. Tell Me What To Do! by CasaNova1(m): 12:20pm On Jul 16, 2010 |
sparkle: Olumide I do believe people come into our lives for diff reasons. I believe this wonderful girl's purpose in your life was to straighten you out and she has fulfilled her role. From what I could deduce from your post, you are not meant to end up as life time partners - albeit you have a great deal of lrespect and love for her. If you end up marrying her, I suspect your reason would be merely to pay her back for standing by you and for pity. This would be a disaster and I think you would end up doing both of yourselves an injustice. Stop beating yourself too hard over the fact you owe her and you are not fulfilling your part. It is better you both move on with your lives and be truthful with her. You are simply not ready (if at all) to commit to this lovely lady. I believe her role in your life has been played and done with. Save both yourselves further misery and let her go. Good luck |
Romance › Re: My Uk Friend Is Visiting Me! by CasaNova1(m): 11:57am On Jul 16, 2010 |
Just do your thing man, don't mind the haters. If it's next year Jan, its good you are trying to put things in perspective long before hand. |
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Romance › Re: She Says,she's Crazily In Love But Can't Call Or Text Unless I Call Her. by CasaNova1(m): 12:40am On Jul 16, 2010 |
Can this be love, he asks.  I doubt it. |
Romance › Re: Relationship With Your Scammer by CasaNova1(m): 10:39pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
@OP It's not unusual. After all victims sometimes fall in love with their kidnappers. Psychiatrists call it "Stockholm syndrome"-which is when a captive begins to feel loyalty to their captor and sides with them or defends them. Over time, particularly if the kidnapper is clever and uses psychological techniques to emotionally break down the victim, this can cause feelings of emotional dependence, moving on to affection and then later even love and adoration.
The name refers to a 1973 bank robbery in which the victims publicly defended the bank robbers after the situation was eventually resolved.
So in this case, the poster has fallen in love with someone who almost scammed her. It's rare, but such cases (as above) do occur. Just be careful that's all-who knows if that's how things were meant to be. But aren't you married to someone else already? |
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Romance › Re: My Uk Friend Is Visiting Me! by CasaNova1(m): 7:09pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
Depends really. Are you planning on hosting her-i mean in your home or she'll be staying at a hotel? You need to work that out before not after. |
Romance › Re: She Set Up Her Sister To Suck Me Dry by CasaNova1(m): 6:51pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
Omolola1: very simple, set her up too! end of story End of story! |
Romance › Re: Why Is The Infidelty Of A Woman More Difficult For The Guys? by CasaNova1(m): 4:30pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
eldee: This is exactly what I've been trying to say all along . . . people just pick a stand on sumn and then use the Bible to support it. This is no different from when people used the Bible to support ethnic cleansing. People use the Bible to justify a lot of things. |
Romance › Re: She Says 'choose Between Me And Football' by CasaNova1(m): 4:19pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
She needs to take a chill pill. Or maybe you guys need some time apart. |
Romance › Re: Help by CasaNova1(m): 4:17pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
Just give it time. When he's ready he will take you to meet his family. Has he met yours too? |
Romance › Re: The Girl I Jilted Is Getting Married by CasaNova1(m): 4:10pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
Yep, my thoughts exactly. |
Romance › Re: We Met On Facebook Now I Dont Like Wat I Saw, How Do I Say I'm Sorry? by CasaNova1(m): 4:06pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
Amazing how people fall in love over the internet these days-without meeting face to face. Whatever happened to meeting people in the real world.
@OP You didn't like what you saw in real life? But you liked what you saw online, no? |
Romance › Re: Can This Marriage Work Out? by CasaNova1(m): 3:55pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
@rubi I think he's looking at her not being submissive enough to him after marriage.
@OP It might have to do with her upbringing. Maybe she's not used to cooking and house work. So the question is-do you love her enough to overlook such? Or would you rather look for someone else who can do all the house work and cook without complaints. |
Romance › Re: Can This Marriage Work Out? by CasaNova1(m): 3:43pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
@OP. Well the modern day woman would beg to differ i think. |
Romance › Re: Who Loves Big Girls? by CasaNova1(m): 3:40pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
Funny dude, haha. |
Romance › Re: What Is It With"women And Bad Boys"? by CasaNova1(m): 3:35pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
It's the thrill and fun that bad boys offer. That carefree attitude about everything. The mix of pleasure, adventure and danger, and also for the mere fact that you can't predict bad boys. Am i bad? Hmm lets say i'm half of both worlds-bad and nice.  |
Romance › Re: Who Should U Marry;a Person U Luv Or A Person That Luvs U? by CasaNova1(m): 3:21pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
There's nothing wrong in leaving someone-if deep down within you know it won't work out. Since that initial doubt has already set in-it's more likely than not to grow. |
Romance › Re: She Says 'choose Between Me And Football' by CasaNova1(m): 12:56pm On Jul 15, 2010 |
She's just being overly sensitive-but you are the man, and you had to put your foot down. She has to realize that guys need breathing space sometimes-E.g when watching a game. |