I noticed guys don't have time to pursue or even ask ladies out these days.. is chivalry dead or nah? I know the economy is hard but at least na lol.. may God bless the work of everyone's hands.

Gerrard59:


Mas deactivated and relocated to the US.
Shey Lorretta married one dude who had tattoos and also deactivated? One of those Ndi feminism activist.

wow... good to know, I wish them well.

I served in wailo camp bauchi state.. the camp was crazy fun, low key bragging I was one of the fine girls in my platoon and had guys coming around but only one caught my eye.. we became inseparable before I knew it, he was an embodiment of what I wanted in a guy and was intelligent to boot.. the only catch there was the fact he was a Muslim.. I didn't know a virtual stranger could very quickly become a part of someone's life... after camp the differences in religion created a huge chasm between us. we still talk once a while but it's mostly platonic now.. all in all camp was mad fun.

I almost married a white guy.. once u go white it's difficult to return black.

cooooooks:
This is stupid.

to all their own

1.I love reading while in the toilet
2. I can talk to u today and ignore you tomorrow.
3. I can be the most extreme neat freak u have ever known while also being extremely messy.

looking for decent ladies nowadays is like looking for a needle in a haystack... I pray u get your heart desire.. unfortunately for you once Nigerian ladies know u are abroad u become a marked man.. just pray.

nonsense and it's ingredients.

yes

Wasky101:

Same way I feel about cultism, but it is not the job of any enforcement agency, just one class in government studies will teach you this.

why u talking like u not a Nigerian? how many agencies and ministries in Nigeria do what they were theoretically meant for?.. you know better. if he says the DSS Is meting out penalties for crimes that's OK by me so far these nuisances are brought to order who cares about politically correct jargons.

tonididdy:


is restitution the only way to heaven?

Example: a politician who embezzled funds meant for the public and used it for personal gains like acquiring houses and cars.
is this politician expected to forgo everything he acquired sinfully and move backwards to start afresh while also staring a new life with Christ?

OR

he can continue to live in them but must quit his old ways while also starting a new life in Christ.

CC: solite3, Righteousness89, symbianDON, judedwriter, incogni2o, JOACHINpedro

please discuss

Restitution is very important for a successful Christian race.. but it's not easy. stolen funds have to be returned, past lies have to be confessed, anything gotten fraudulently has to be returned so that the devil will have no legal ground for accusation.

Thank you for mentioning me... I have been trying to live a Christian life and I still struggle.. rising and falling because some things seems difficult to leave behind.. I know nothing in this world should cost our souls.. its only Grace that can help us all.

tonididdy:
I woke up @5am to the most realistic dream ever.... I need to tell this story but I don't know how I can just leave everything and start a new life again.

I have just dreamed of the rapture according to the Bible.

PS: I won't call myself a good Christian, I haven't being to church in almost 3yrs now.

I can send you my narration of my dream. quote me in any of my other topics. my DMs on NL don't work.

I am scared and shaking as I type.

please share.. u ll save lives by sharing.. open a topic about the dream I ll be waiting.

my biggest regret was not being more social.

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I crushed on a guy for 11 years.. refusing to wake up and smell the coffee that the love was unrequited.. I took anything he dished because I felt If I was eager to please like a lap dog he would have mercy and look my way, he blatantly told me he delights in mind games and was playing it on me it was pathetic.. when my moment of epiphany came and I looked back at all the nonsense I took and did just to be noticed by him I just laugh.. 'love' smh.

Wetabix:

SMH you wonder. DON'T crack your brain if only you know how many ways these guys are looking for means to get to op you won't wonder.. Op don too cast ayes for thread and like a rat they want to smoke him out and make a good example of him. But I believe op is smart he won't fall for that kind of mistake.. To accept pms from nairaland dey fear me die..

true words.

Passionate888:
That argent is a guy.... go to his first post, his name is Patrick Onyekwere and this is his number when he was looking for sugar mummy
09081111412

wow.. are u sure? he/she sounded sincere lol.. I wonder what he hopes to achieve by lying and deceiving himself.

there is nothing wrong with u.. its just our African mentality that makes soft hearted men feel like losers... u are unique my dear.

1neatness
2Godfearing
3 Drive and ambition.

2016 was my best year ever.. and I was 22 then.. 22 is my ideal age I would have loved to be forever.

I used to be extremely shy during my primary and secondary school days.. it made me to be too self conscious whenever I was walking or doing anything at all and it made me make some mistakes I shouldn't have.. I was made fun of so much because of my shyness.. I was also struggling with self esteem issues. it all came to a head when I was in 300lvl in the university.. my experiences then made me a better person.

Samuell2019:

You are beautiful

thank you.

Nipssey Hussle..........Kobe Bryant.

Pempe-Sean Tizzle. Here and Now- Luther Vandross for our first dance together.

Obingene:

My Nl crush, have missed u.

really?

forever in love Kenny g.. that instrumental is one of the best out there and its emotional.

see guts.. who gave u right over her body.. have u paid her dowry... No and u feel u have a right to sex whenever u want.. mtshewww.

u are doing yourself.. nobody else.

this argument about jazz working or not is getting very irritating.. if u believe it works good for u.. if u believe it doesn't good for u too... nobody cares.. what's important here is the message behind this thread.. take baseless arguments somewhere else no one cares.. thank you.

I remember my friend capital-gee that was murdered in otukpo Benue state on 23rd December 2015... a very handsome and sometimes crazy guy he was popular in UAM then.. his death was needless and just stupid all because of cultism.. please don't ever let anybody deceive u to join that evil.. the payment always ends in death.