I love clubbing but only go once in a blue moon but the few times I went I really liked it... an advice here taking alcohol reduces ur inhibitions and makes the experience worthwhile... makurdi clubs are fire

the first thing u should do is leave that guy... he isn't worth ur time.. from ur write up it's obvious u are an independent lady that doesn't depend on a man for anything.. just don't give up hope... persevere there is light at the end of the tunnel.

u are an introvert... there are lots of people like u out there.. I used to be like this but improved myself now

McBeee:


Marriage itself goes beyond just "love"
Now if you are marrying from an alien culture, you might love the person but that wont be enough.
You must be totally committed, be opened to everything, ready to learn, be very very very patient, you guys have to communicate the best ways you can, and be ready to sacrifice.

Now if you know deep inside you that you are dogmatic or you hate change that type of marriage is not for you no matter how much you love him/her

interesting input.. thank you

please I need opinions what's ur take on inter racial marriages am not talking of those ones that marry their ancestors and ancestress.. am talking about those that married for love.. I will also like to hear experiences of those in successful inter racial marriages.. how did u balance the differences in culture and all... I would appreciate matured contributions.. thank you.

I remember reading a story about a teacher in America.. she overheard two of her grade 2 or so pupils talking.. according to her the boy was telling the other he had a dream where two big birds hit a tower and caught fire.. she reprimanded them to keep their voice down but the boy kept repeating the same thing over and over.... the next day 9/11 attacks happened... her mind went back to what that little boy kept saying over and over she was so scared.

I also suffer from this too.. it's a terrible thing to have.. can cripple one socially.. I schooled in makurdi which is terribly hot was hell throughout... I heard odaban antiperspirant and drysol works.. .been looking for it to buy..there is no cure but it can be managed

been single for years now.... find it very freeing and exhilarating.. I can do whatever the hell I wanna do without answering to anyone.. though one can be lonely at times

this looks like vitiligo... sadly it could spread..just come to peace with it don't let it affect ur self esteem.. they found a cure recently but it's still not available for the public.

I hate liberals with passion

this girl isn't beautiful at all.. wish she could stop trying so hard

Jlow2:
and wats ur business wit wer i stay?

oh.. sorry.. my bad

Jlow2:
the govrnor is busy drinking his 33 and goldberg, doesnt give a damn.

where do u stay in Jos

Jlow2:
no were is safe first week of sep 12 pple wer shot just behinde the new government houz rayfield, its just G0D..

may God help this state.. leaving soon.

PresidentAtiku:
pls be safe. What area are you?

I stay at rayfield with my sis... it's quite calm here.. she told me the fighting doesn't reach this side.

am in Jos ryt now..came to spend some time since ave lived in abj all my life.. very beautiful town but these wicked and heartless Fulani marauders are making this beautiful town too hot to handle.. I feel like crying.. �

this battle of the sexes is becoming ridiculous.... men now will fear women.... the situation is unravelling.

watching movies.... being guy crazy.... reading books... making friends....optimism for Nigeria.... love.

I always feel ashamed when I read such stories.. some "ladies" have lost their dignity.. am fiercely independent and feel joy when I see a lady working her ass off.... just move on and thank God u caught on before it became too late.

I came out the spitting image of my grandma..so I was named after her.

my unpredictability..it makes me a difficult person to be with.. and my selfishness

op u need to be strong... for your self respect and pride leave him.. surprise him... if u stay with him u will lose your soul... he isn't worth it.. thank God u found out now before it became too late.

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finally read something here about Nigerian women that made me smile... while we have our faults the guys on nairaland have so demonized Nigerian women it's almost impossible to see them in a positive light. thanks op

from your write-up it's obvious u a nice guy... it's unfortunate guys like u have their hearts broken by girls.. life isn't fair.

I hate fussy, talkative guys that keep laughing foolishly like they took laughing gas...i also dislike dirty guys with mouth odour... yuck!

because of the financial situation in the country... and the fact women nowadays know their rights and won't be a door mat for a lazy, misogynistic man.

Wilfredpat22:
You men are really trying but you guys use women alot. The best thing is to find your footings (financially) before asking any of us out. During your hustle or struggle days don’t be in any serious relationship.

Remember we women have nothing to lose. We got our Poosie to help us in any situation.

May God help you all

this is totally disgusting...let me assume u being sarcastic...and to think that ur status is talking of being independent

n0fav0rs:
Anyone that shows little cleavage

hmm.. typical guy �

pocohantas:

Like this?

WTF... lol I doubt that's what he was referring to

dingbang:
I like it when a lady slays on an African attire with beads.

nice one