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Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Onnasucs1(m): 10:03pm On May 14, 2020 |
It doesn't make you less of a man. Me too I can't kill chicken or goat. Because I fear them. I don't have a little bit of sympathy for them, I just fear them. But not cockroaches and wall geckos I'll slam their head. |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by xandy84: 10:04pm On May 14, 2020 |
Nothing is absolutely wrong with you. Some people just do not like blood. I remembered when I move out, I was told nursing makes money but I told my uncle I will be the last dude to be a nurse cos the sight of blood will make me pass out. I am glad I stood my ground then cos I would have being the worst nurse to ever walk on this planet. 2 Likes |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by tete7000(m): 10:06pm On May 14, 2020 |
Is your dad like you or you grew up with your mum alone or are you the only male child in the midst of female children? |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by CastingCrowns(f): 10:06pm On May 14, 2020 |
there is nothing wrong with u.. its just our African mentality that makes soft hearted men feel like losers... u are unique my dear. 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Degrezhaa: 10:06pm On May 14, 2020 |
Sounds like me Sha i dey kill wall gecko Unlike Op |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by TeetoEsq(m): 10:07pm On May 14, 2020 |
Wetin concern me with your life.... |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Qulink1(m): 10:07pm On May 14, 2020 |
evansjeff: I'm speechless bro |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Nobody: 10:08pm On May 14, 2020 |
[quote author=MrBrownJay1 Lol...dude in ur pic is really funny... 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by risos(m): 10:08pm On May 14, 2020 |
About the gecko, don't kill em, they feed on mosquitoes, spiders and other insects, keeping your environment free of cobwebs. The birds are cute little creatures, they show appreciation if you drop some food for them once in a while. Don't start spilling blood carelessly just because someone says it make you a man. What make you a man is a working sugarcane and a pair of balls. 2 Likes |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by kissGuys: 10:10pm On May 14, 2020 |
Its normal.. My elder brother is the same exact replica.. But im strong pass the remaining four of us joined together... He just hates blood.. Violence.. And pain.. But if it comes to work and gyming himself to death.. Im get am Grade one.. The once i saw him fight.. O boy.. Na mad oo.. Nah me find trouble.. Dem smack my teeth commot... Damn!!... No be juice that day oo.. The culprit who is much older chop better beating from this my softie brother.. I shock! I feel its a psychological thing 2 Likes |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by FreeSpark1: 10:11pm On May 14, 2020 |
evansjeff:You will have no issue when some plays around ur girlfriend. Humm violence guy on the bed. Get sense pls |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by DavidChimere01(m): 10:12pm On May 14, 2020 |
Bro you not alone, I can't kill a chicken or anything alive except mosquito, God I hate that b*tch.. But then I don't know what to do about it, other guys kill chicken easily but whenever I want to kill it, I start having pity on the poor animal |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Nobody: 10:12pm On May 14, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:Exactly, fxxk that toxic masculinity bull shlt |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by lichocho(m): 10:13pm On May 14, 2020 |
Dem tell my guy make him kill chicken him say him no be killer say him no fit..na normal tin |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by KoolBigk(m): 10:13pm On May 14, 2020 |
Oh boy eh! you need to come for tutorials, will do it free of charge for you lol In the early 80's,i was one of the best stone thrower ; no one dare offend me, i go target you from afar & tah tah, your head don get better 'koko' be dat. All the lizards for my area, na we killed 'em. Started killing goats during festive periods at my early teens. I mean its normal to feel some type of way at the sight of blood but c'mon man; killing a roach ,lizard & rodents shouldn't make the list. 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Naso007: 10:13pm On May 14, 2020 |
You are just a cool guy. Nothing is wrong with you my guy. I even like you. One question for you before something go wrong with you. Do you really knack your girl wella in the other room? If you don't, then this would be the starting and the beginning of your problem... 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Nobody: 10:14pm On May 14, 2020 |
DavidChimere01:It only prooves you're more human than those guys |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by adabaraabdul: 10:15pm On May 14, 2020 |
Your a fine gentle man. Nothing is wrong with you. Me too I can't cut or kill any animal because I am an animal lover, ur fine bro |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Openbusiness: 10:17pm On May 14, 2020 |
evansjeff:You're meant to be a pastor. Follow your calling |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Benwallt(m): 10:20pm On May 14, 2020 |
Go and join boko haram. Shitty |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Guest911: 10:20pm On May 14, 2020 |
evansjeff: Dude you're completely normal. You have so much empathy in the wrong country. But don't change who you are, accept it and be happy. |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Ayokunumi24(f): 10:20pm On May 14, 2020 |
nothing wrong with you, when I first meet my husband I don't even know he can't kill a chicken anytime I ask him to kill it he will just find one excuse like am going somewhere till I force him one day to kill the chicken upon seeing the blood he just faint, so bro you are very normal |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by encryptjay(m): 10:24pm On May 14, 2020 |
LMAO! Before I started killing chickens, I was always pitying them because I am/was kinda soft cos' it wasn't easy, I fact, I prayed for the souls of the chickens before sending slaughtering them. But now, I do it without thinking twice. I don't know how to kill mosquitoes with my hands but I can kill a cockroach or housefly with a broom. But mehn, you've gotta rise to the occasion when next you're called to slaughter a goat |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by saasala(m): 10:25pm On May 14, 2020 |
evansjeff: You are totally normal then. Nothing do you. Enjoy your life |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Ishilove: 10:25pm On May 14, 2020 |
evansjeff:You are perfectly normal. I have male relatives who can't kill chicken, talk more a whole goat. You are just a very sensitive, empathic person. That doesn't make you weird in anyway. You are truly a rare breed. 2 Likes |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Mcslize: 10:26pm On May 14, 2020 |
mytime24: yourtime you're looking for trouble. |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by JastSiryin(m): 10:26pm On May 14, 2020 |
Honestly from what I've read, you do sound "neurotic". Not to bother though, because most peeps are in some way. Your non-violent stance towards animals may be more fear than love-based. I've never killed a chicken in my life, i also don't like to watch animals being slaughtered. I have killed wall geckos before, but they still give me the creeps, more so snakes. But having said this, it's important to know that many of the things which we choose to partake in, or abstain from may just be as a matter of convenience. Simply because we could afford to. And trust me, it's a very interesting game. The game being; "how many things can i avoid doing". But if taken too far, something your mind may very well be doing, you might begin to get "boxed in". Just imagine if all the edible plants in the world were gone, and so were any frozen meat. And the only option was to hunt and kill animals, what would you have done? Would you have just sat in one place until you died of starvation? I highly doubt that. The fact that we're civilized now and obey societal norms doesn't mean we always were. The fact that we have certain "natural dispositions" towards things doesn't mean they can't change over time. We're full of surprises under pressure. Just make sure you follow a sound rationale before doing things. Some of the things you said are reasonable, some aren't. If you thought all were, you wouldn't be here. That's my two cents! 1 Like |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Sarang(f): 10:26pm On May 14, 2020 |
You are just fine You are very empathic and that is a very endearing and beautiful quality The ability to put yourself in other’s shoes. You are not just a man. You are a gem. |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by martha18(f): 10:27pm On May 14, 2020 |
longetivity: |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by spiritmasquerad(m): 10:27pm On May 14, 2020 |
Dude we are the same, i killed a chicken once and vowed never to kill anything except rat and even that one i kill when it doesn't want to go away & the thing with accident when i was in kd when that gas expode i live like 2 street away and i did go anywhere around dat area 4 2weeks |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by kiddkash(m): 10:28pm On May 14, 2020 |
hmm hmm I smell pvssy |
Re: Help: I Think I'm Too Soft For A Man That I Am by Happyfela(m): 10:28pm On May 14, 2020 |
Man up. |
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