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Faithscharms2:
How cute..but truth is some guys need to be brother zoned self not only friend zone...Sha good luck to the lovely couple..Oya where is my own husband?future bae if u on NL u better hurry up and find me o..u r already running late sef

Check your friend zone. You will find him there

Neoteny:
Try moving to India or South Africa.

I hear the men there are perfect gentlemen.

Savage lmao here. This your sarcasm make sense o

Sometimes I wonder how some of you managed to enter university after writing English language in WAEC? This lady was stranded
She doesn't know anywhere In Abuja. 
How do You Expect her to know all these places and most times when people sleep at someone's house, they don't want to waste money on hotel bills
However this guy convinced her that it was okay to come to his place meaning that it was not her idea In the first place
Try and be more civil in your comments and read posts to the end before making silly Conclusions.  

RalphJean:
YOU ARRIVED ABUJA AT 11PM.
Even got to Wuse, from the airport.
And it was FLIGHT yo took to Abuja.
Even if it was 2am, you will still get cars going to Nyanya-Maraba.

Plus, you could easily take “drop “ for less than 1,000 naira to Nyanya.
But no! You called someone who you claimed to be your friend, who stays AFTER Apo.
From Apo to Wuse is almost same as from Wuse to Nyanya.

Don’t come here and be writing fake story to give guys a bad name, please.

Casmir14:
Never to love or trust a Nigerian man. Some of them are born liars

so na Togo or Kenyan man you prefer abi?

I am glad you said your head boy. What about the remaining 9,999 students in your school. What about those who could not make their WAEC papers whose parents have the money to pay for your fees. I am sure your students cannot beat those in the public schools. Is it by English? How many of your students are solving problems. In the society if they are so good? You come here to market you school using only your head boy and you think Nigeria youths are dum? Bring the rest of your school to compete with me a 2.2 student and see whether you will not bow. Rubbish

americanson:
u no dey shame?

crazy things we do for love huh?

SoapQueen:
Not interested in a relationship for now. I'm building a brand. Thank you

I never asked for a relationship. Just to get to know you. And it's not good. Turning down my advances. Pls just call me or flash me

SoapQueen:
Really? You call me that in the latter part of your post? Okay. You expect me to insult you, I won't.

Yeah, I am from Warri. Proudly from Warri( your perceived "Bowery" Warri). There's no place I'd rather be from.

Thank you!

Hey. Soap queen. I. Have been. Trying to reach you. Hope. You are what you project yourself to be

MissRaine69:
........

LWkmd

SoapQueen:
I've done so many things for love.


Life though.

I'm willing to do more because love is worth it.

Come. Let me love you call me 08092431893

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Why does my boyfriend always text other girls to come and see him at malls or even at a restaurant but then wants me to see him in his house.

He asks other girls to come and meet him for lunch but he never calls me or texts me for us to go out for lunch. I know this because I read his texts.

We only get to meet in his house and that’s it. He only takes me to the restaurant once a year though he says he’s broke.

Please what do I do?[/color]

It could be that you still think like a child or act immature. Pls no offense but you need to be told the truth. Call me. 08092431893 or gimme your number to call you

PurestBoy:
I need help also, I have 2 boys, Kevin and Alvin, 4 and 1yr old respectively, both were on 6-month exclusive breastfeeding, Had Cow&Gate2 baby formula, Kevin is just too active, he doesn't doesn't even walk at home, he runs, he can't stay in a place for 2 minutes except he's watching his favorite cartoon channel GoTv 60, no matter how you beat him he doesn't cry for more than few seconds, he learns too much that he even correct me his father but the problem is he's too active (I don't want to use the word stubborn). His eleven month younger brother is already following in his footsteps, their mother shouts and beat Kevin every minutes for jumping around in the house. He even engage in fight with me whenever I want to watch my favorite channels except I beat him thoroughly, he wouldn't allow anyone touch anything that is his. Their mother is fed up and losing weight and she's afraid his 11-month old Alvin is already acting likewise. I don't know what to do because you can't leave Kevin alone in the house without closed monitoring else something bad and injurious might happen. All my life, I've never see a kid like my boy, I need advise on what to do, it was worse when he was younger. I don't like beating him like his Mom does and won't have peace at home due to excessive shouting and scolding except he's asleep. Anyone with ideas on how to curtail this?

You need to teach him how to listen and be patient to let him think before he acts. That way he will consider his actions before acting

I will use 5M out of 100M to go to management school or business school and use the remaining 95M to start a business

The rich don't need a certificate to make money so what's worth my B sc certificate?

fancy4eve:
well am not pouring sand into his garri, just saying d fact.
He should man up nd stop lookn 4 were 2 dump his lazy Ass. Well I hate lazy guys nd I believe laziness is involve

But there are serious matured women out there looking for a guy to say yes but guys are using Them to play football. They cry everyday because their biological clock is ticking and no reasonable man is coming their way. Not all families must a man be a bread winner. As far as they agree with each other that's fine. Rich girls after hustle and career pursuit find themselves between the devil and the dark blue sea, praying in churches for mr. Right let them sort themselves out marriage is not about good good. Its about the good the bad and the ugly

prechbills1:
My fiance and I have been dating for the past 3years. I attained 24 last week, I wanted to get married to her last year but I just wanted to wait till I attain 24.
The problem I have now is my mom. She is opposing our marriage because my fiance is 5years older than me, I'm 24 while she's 29.My dad has already endorsed the marriage, I'd have liked to go on with the marriage but I don't think going into marriage without both parents blessing is sensible that's why I need my mom's blessing and endorsement.
My fiance has good character, she's very kind and intelligent, I can't afford to lose her because of pressures from my mom at least I'm an adult.
I don't know what's happening, my mom endorsed our relationship but she doesn't endorse our marriage just because she's 5years older than me. The thing is, I can't leave this lady ,not now not ever, she have done so many things for me.
in fact she even promised to provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage!. She is rich, yes she is, the house I'm in living in now belongs to her, I moved in with her in 2016.
The truth is I love her and I can't afford to lose her because of my mom's wish. Both her parents and my dad have given us go ahead for marriage but my mom still doesn't want me to marry because of age and my fiance is beautiful.
I don't know what do now ,that's why I think I need advice from you guys,.I don't know if I should go ahead with the marriage without my mom's endorsement/blessings.

please advice

Pls call me 08092431893

fancy4eve:
Let's get sumtin straight here, wat an elder see siting down, even if u climb d tallest tree, u will not.

my dear I go wit ur mum, we women pretend a lot, a desperado will do all it takes 2 get wat she want, after d marriage u will see her true character. Assuming d reverse is d case, u been rich nd she is not, my dear she will b humble 2 u for d rest of her lyf. Hv seen so many cases dat later end up in divorce all bcus d man does not hv a say in his house nd been use as rag. Pls tink twice b4 going into sumtin u will regret leta.

Young woman. Leave The man alone and let him enjoy his life. Is there any marriage that doesn't come with their shortcomings? Let them solve it themselves. He said that he has bbeen with her for more than 3 yrs so he has seen enough to conclude he will stay with her. Why spoil another woman's joy because of what you feel. This is a life decision here and this is what you can give as advice? Even you relationship you are in (that's if you are in one) is it perfect? Don't you guys quarrel once a while? Abegi

prechbills1:
My fiance and I have been dating for the past 3years. I attained 24 last week, I wanted to get married to her last year but I just wanted to wait till I attain 24.
The problem I have now is my mom. She is opposing our marriage because my fiance is 5years older than me, I'm 24 while she's 29.My dad has already endorsed the marriage, I'd have liked to go on with the marriage but I don't think going into marriage without both parents blessing is sensible that's why I need my mom's blessing and endorsement.
My fiance has good character, she's very kind and intelligent, I can't afford to lose her because of pressures from my mom at least I'm an adult.
I don't know what's happening, my mom endorsed our relationship but she doesn't endorse our marriage just because she's 5years older than me. The thing is, I can't leave this lady ,not now not ever, she have done so many things for me.
in fact she even promised to provide 80% of the things needed for the marriage!. She is rich, yes she is, the house I'm in living in now belongs to her, I moved in with her in 2016.
The truth is I love her and I can't afford to lose her because of my mom's wish. Both her parents and my dad have given us go ahead for marriage but my mom still doesn't want me to marry because of age and my fiance is beautiful.
I don't know what do now ,that's why I think I need advice from you guys,.I don't know if I should go ahead with the marriage without my mom's endorsement/blessings.

please advice

My man lissten to The best advice. Marry the love of your life and keep your marriage of social media. In marriage there is no age barrier as far as you both have good plans for each other. Its better marrying more mature women because they have more to offer than dependent small girls. You have got to a new beginning of your life don't spoil it with the advice of your mum. No marriage doesn't come with hardships or individual differences. So ride on bro

You have not become a millionaire yourself and you want me to join you. Sorry I am not daft

Mult1tude01:
Mapoly and am studying estate management

Moshood abiola poly? Where is it again?

Which school and course are you studying?

Mult1tude01:
Good morning sir, am happy with ur post, it's been. 4 days now I've been seeking for help on this platform, to raise money for my school fee in which it closes in two days Friday, am a final year student, pls am seriously devastated.
Pls help me sir. The tuition fee is 80.300 and I only have 30k with me
I can provide you my school portal login details in case u wishes to confirm this.

Good one is that it? Ok I will give. You my tithe for this month in fulfillment of deut:14:22 - 29. Its not much but. That will be end of the month hope it will go somewhere.

Hello. Is sex everything? Do you know that there is a life to live when in a relationship with your spouse? Get serious joor!

Cool. Nice one

BetaThings:
If a man tries it, will she murder him to go to jail so that the second becomes the only?

Some women are second or third wife (in actual ranking) but believe they are the only one
When people understand the history of the word "nepotism" they will be less arrogant

In as much as I support one man one wife policy. It bothers me that many women are unmarried these days
1) many men are immature and are not psychologically fit to manage a woman
3) some women are character dysfunctional. Marrying them results in writing your own death sentence papers

Some women will prefer that married man to single men. So pitiful

MhizAJ:
I'm not surprised since her religion permits men to marry up to six wives Nonsense

A man can't even manage one woman in a house talk more of two

No man should even try that nonsense with me

who told you

XhosaNostra:
No can't do, unless you can also provide me relief for my own pain

Cool how can I meet you

XhosaNostra:
Pushing it out while you're constipated, buddy. I'm not talking about your diarrhea here

Konji is solvable, period pains aren't. You get it? Good.

Come let me solve it on you. Nice and hard

XhosaNostra:
Respect you for having an erection? Ha! Try pushing something out of your body or experience period pains. I don't think you guys would last for 5 minutes. You should be worshipping us for we're strong

Anyway, I've always been under the impression that an erection feels good. Interesting to know that's not the case.

Talk about pushing something out of my body...I poop every morning and I tell you.... it is an awesome experience and periodic pains..ours is called konji...hahahaha

TheGenius001:
We've known for almost. a year now.Am a student just as she is too(the same Skul).But then I have focus on so many important things pertaining to my studies.I love her (but who love help?), and she knows, but I don't know if she does the same.


Anyway I don't I need to be in any relationship now because I feel its a big distraction.So I want to quit.But I don't know how to.The last time I tried doing that,I told her to her face that I'm tired of this relationship (I no go kill myself) even though it is going smooth.But she Was heart broken and wanted to cry(I felt for her that day).


I want to stop chatting her up or maybe not spending much time with her (if at all there is any).I have done it tho.But I feel like I have done something very bad by leaving her just like that.She calls but I don't pick,and sometimes when I pick,I wouldn't want to talk too much but instead, I make the call as quick as possible.And When I think about her,it makes me feel like a bad person.


Pls anybody with an Idea in how to tell her I quit!!! pls help
Thanks.

Do so. But don't ask for her back when she becomes someone else's chick

I find it hard to understand why some people think they can eat their cake and have it back. Truth: you never loved her. You just think you do
2) you are psychologically immature and leaving her is the best thing for yourself