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Grandkay21:
My father's burial 2018 ,two weeks to my father's burial nothing is yet ready , my mom don't sleep at night ,her friends has started spread news of her problem, I came back from my base one week to the burial , I said to God may your will be done, then my sister husband called me and said give me the list I will take care of it , my mom secondary school friend who she has lost contact with saw a post on FB and send money from USA 100k, and the priests that my dad help in his good wealthy old days flow from lagos and for the burial , a total of 5 priests, it was so colourful and people began to suspect me , especially my Uncles who declined to help me with my father's funerals, the never asked me how am preparing for the burial untill we pulled the hit and it became talk of the town ,

house10s:
u dat don't have sense is till talking monkey oshi.

proving point by insulting shows u dont know how to talk.
u lack wisdom, sense has left u find it before u become a complete slowpoke

house10s:
so the guy behind didnt inhale, d one who smoke didn't inhale.

bros abeg shift with ur dumb story

Vabama:
So am one of those Guys that preach against domestic Violence ....

I Got married of Recent and Guess what , we dated for 3 Years before marriage.

After putting a ring on her finger ... her behavior change ...

From Bad to Worse ...

Like this girl will wake up at Night , and Give me a dirty slap .... If You Ask her what's the problem , she will look at you and work away.

She will wake up by 2am and start playing music , if you ask her wetin .... She will ask me 'CAN'T I PLAY MUSIC BECAUSE I MARRY YOU'

If You mention divorce .... she go vow say if you try am , You Go die !!!

Okay i sat her down and ask her what is the matter.

Below is what she told me !!!

What is all these ..... why can't you behave like a man .... ... Why are you behaving like vegetable ....

Why can't even respond like a man ..... I Feel So Unsafe with You !!! , Am not sure you can stand for me like a man.

You are just a waste of Vegetable .................

So am asking , is it that she wants me to beat her or what
Should i run away from Home
Marriage no dey easy at all.

TayusKilzEasyjay:
You get mind sha. Make we come date person way you disvirgin

TayusKilzEasyjay:
You get mind sha. Make we come date person way you disvirgin

zedegit:
Finish what you started. Marry her yourself or are you going to credit the person account with 50 million?

Danhoys:
I thought I knew what dirtiness was until my cousin's sister started living with us. We gave her a room, a roof over her head until she finds her bearing.

She's an orphan, almost going to 28 years, and sells food on Sundays for cash.

But, looking at her, she's the replica of the word 'unappealing.'

Her hair is always shabby, dirty, and she never attempt to even braid it to keep it in order. Black is beautiful, but hers comes in brown patches and acne.

She doesn't even care.

We have a water closet, and she's ready to keep popping without an attempt to flush. The last time I traveled and left the home for a week, the toilet was beyond what I could comprehend.

To the point I had to do renovation, repainted the wall, and had to hire a cleaner to help wash the toilet thoroughly.

I couldn't risk catching a disease doing it myself. That was how bad it was.

After doing all these, she stopped using the toilet, but would prefer to pop in the compound with a black nylon at night.

Sometimes, she even forget to throw them away. I had woke up very early in the morning. Saw her bucket and wanted to use it, what I saw changed my day.

I saw her feces, and since then I vowed never to touched a bucket that is isn't mine.

Aside from her protruding stomach which she does little to hide, the wrapper she wears every evening have never seen water in months.

Women are supposed to be conscious of their unclothedness, but not this cousin of mine.

She can avoid all the bathrooms, and choose to bathe outside in the open at night.

Like, around 8 to 9 pm when everyone is still very much awake.

Sometimes children will bump in on her unintentionally, and the kid will run away traumatized by what he or she have seen.

I dare not go into details to recount how she prepares the food she sales, and how dirty her coolers and kitchen utensils can swim with maggots for 6 days before she finally washes them on Saturday and prepares food on Sunday for her esteemed customers.

She's not beautiful facially, nor wear makeup or earrings since it's against her belief.

Doesn't wear clothes that suit her. If she dresses like an mbeke, that wouldn't be a problem. I just don't understand her dressing at all, coupled with her dirty look.

When it comes to religion, hers is the worse, jumping from one church to the other. And worse, we hardly sleepy at midnight.

She is always in battle with demons, with her speaking of tongues that don't just sound ridiculous, but deafening and irritating.

She's just 28, and I doubt if any man has ever stopped her on the road, and I still suspect she have never laid with a man before.

She's not mentally unstable if that is what most of you might think.

She's lively, knows how to joke and hold conversations like we all do. But when it comes to her body, grooming, overall cleaningness, she's zero.

There are grades of dirtiness, but when it comes to a stage where someone now dines and wines with feces, then there is a problem somewhere.

She's shapeless and doesn't want to do anything about it despite my numerous advise. She eats junk, like...

She runs to the backyard, gets some vegetables and fry it up with some concoctions and food is ready.

I know all their foods, and the things she cooks is nothing less than a concoction. I've eat her food once and my stomach testified.

A thoroughly analysis of her personality fascinates me to some extent. Is this her personality? Something that is genetically engineered into her that she has no control over?

Can she change?

Do you think I can help her, how?

Mercisharelove:
Help out and I will read

Mercisharelove:
Your flesh profit nothing

Mercisharelove:
Little mind, we use your meal to catch you up in our spiritual nets. And bring you home, where you will be given adequate feeding!!


Hope you are great today and you are very happy.


CHRIST JESUS comes, are you ready, what about going before he comes, like you leaving maybe tomorrow, are you prepared

thesas:
Hi guys. My girlfriend told me she got raped by 3 Aboki after she took a bike trying to return home late. She said she couldn't remember anything from after she climbed the bike and the bike man carried an extra passenger even after she asked him not to. She said they tore her clothes and she could not remember anything that had happened until it was the turn of the fourth person who pitied her and let her go. Please help with advice, I don't know what to do as it's hurting both of us and she is already talking about us going separate ways because of what happened. Please help!
She couldn't remember the bike man's face and can't recall the area or any other detail. Except that she asked to be given back her phone which she was given and she was given some money by some other aboki in the area who also helped her get another bike man that took her home. This happened in Okoko area of Lagos state.

Thing is she refused to tell me the truth about who she went out with that day and I know the truth of who she went out with but she keeps covering that up. I'm confused about everything. Maybe it hi a hoax or it's TRUE, I don't know.

Heathrow44:
All this things u said here is just to share the spotlight and stage with me, but I would kick u down flying so high that ur bush baby yansh would hit d ground so hard, since u failed to choose d respectable way of doing so!

Heathrow44:
So u wat to join hands & think of something achievable with sm1 the mommy is still feeding with feeding bottle! , Las las this life no balance at all

Heathrow44:
Do u know one thing with people like u, trying to improve d country is wat u want but the things that re needed for ur city to look like d London u wish 4 is wat u don't want! U can't eat ur cake and have it, I suggested the metro buses to be used, all the keke and okada people would be forced to operate on the metro buses, marcopolo buses, BRT lanes, Underground tube railway system, double deckers! All would be registered on a Union, d Union would oversee the welfare of all its members! Is just like telling all d keke and Okada to drop their vehicles to the government, then d govt would incorporate them into the union, simple they don't lose anything and d job u re saying they would lose, would be further strengthened as government's jobs arent that unstable!

Heathrow44:
The keke napep has overstayed its welcome, I think if obj had used the money he used to buy the those things to get modern metro buses and build underground tube railway speed trains and get more buses and taxi's it would have been so much better but know trying to take this keke and okada out is going to look as though u re pushing them into hunger, it has to be a slow gradual process of phasing those noisy metals that cause accidents, noise pollution and air pollution and get modern metro buses like the BRT or Marcapolo