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yetunsbay:
Casanova ur view on this :

1. We're in newly established distance relationship (inter-state) basically I care for her & communicate often every night. What next step can be taken to sustain my 'genuine' love in her heart and to avoid being desperate ?


2. There exist other peep whom we've been rolling & I belief she knws already where am driving at indirectly. The issue is she lies (jst bit of my belief sha) in the sense that most often she promise to visit but always default.... in whc at this period I sacrifice a lots to avoid disappointing her. Now, for a week have stopped chatting/calling her & neither she hasn't. What next step is advisable at present bro ?

Keep your distance bro. She will wonder why you don't call anymore. It could take weeks but be strong. While away that time with another slay queen until she comes back and when she does. Be heartless. Do not succumb to her whims

Came4apost:
Using a classical approach for local Nigerian girls will not work .. Just flunt small cash and stay around only if she gives some slack in return don't fall for olosho

Flaunt it but let her have none of it. Honestly this shit works. You go Bleep till you tire. There's a girl on mee now. And I used this casanova skill on her. Today she calls me stingy heartless, wicked but still comes to me house for a Bleep. I wonder why girls are wired that way.

Nwodosis:
The thief might have considered the optiona of either being roasted, possibly alive by jungle justice or by drowning and decided to chose the latter option drowning to lessen the pains of death.

Now he is wet they cannot roast him

dlectura:
I will just sit and play monopoly and monitor my facebook adverts.

Pls let me play with you

Let him run errands for you. He is your mugu. He go fetch water for you die. But then as you are about to leave service you tell him you are not the one who he should write letters to.

Nigerians are too hungry and devastated to fight

[quote author=nwafada123 post=75529409][/quote]The humans they (women) cheat with (men) don't they have girlfriends too? Ehn op

Is it men that don't cheat? Nonsense thread

HallaDaTruth:
IF YOU WANT TO HEAR SUCH TESTIMONIES GO TO WINNERS CHAPEL CANAANLAND , THEY ARE ALWAYS GIVING NON QUALIFIED FOR THE JOB TESTIMONIES , THERE BY DENYING THE REAL QUALIFIED PEOPLE A CHANCE TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE

Those qualified people may not have the zeal, may be too pompous, or may have character issues. Will you like that person to work for you?

emmanuelpopson:
help with some examples ..

Go and ask tony elumelu. He was not qualified for banking job because he had a 2:2. Bro there is something called GRACE OF GOD that you don't understand. Some people may not be qualified by virtue of age or fitness but they turn out to be the best. It happens bro

Dailyhappenings:
What do you think?

source: https://www.musictori.com/2019/02/getting-job-you-didnt-apply-for.html

Go and ask tony elumelu. He was not qualified for banking job because he had a 2:2. Bro there is something called GRACE OF GOD that you don't understand. Some people may not be qualified by virtue of age or fitness but they turn out to be the best. It happens bro

Daddy freeze well done

GenSpecifics:
www.nairaland.com/attachments/8664136_5c56d03801821_jpeg0c12900fd19d9a2e6cf77bce67bff9df

Looking at this pic, you can see that the weather and atmosphere was perfect around the crash site. So what exactly is the "unusual weather" here?

Unusual weather from his enemies na
Unusual weather that can fill presidents office with rats.
Unusual weather that will make u be sweating under ac

Why is it always GHANA MUST GO?

I like this girl already

Wow. Awesome trasformation

I agree with 3.

LordCenturion:
Buruji kashamu doesn't have any qualifications,while a millions of graduates are jobless, we know how the man make his money,he was once a thug who becomes a drug dealer,and started moving with politicians in 1999,up till today, kashamu doesn't have a job but still a drug grand patron

where were your complaints when. Buhari ascend the throne of president?

It's greater mockery to bring Someone who was never called to bar to head learned lawyers

Hahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!

djon78:
Don't mind them, there are many that stole government money but made nothing out of it.

Aliko Dangote is a solid business man.

To succeed in business no be beans

Gbam! You sure right

Rubbiish:
hahahahahahaha.....
You can't even tripple 1m in a month with MMM

any biz that tells me I will triple my money I will not go into it

Dshocker:
Leave that dangote and dantata story....the company was started up with stolen government money

Some others stole govt money, did biz and did not come out with anything. Its the substance in you that makes you what you become. That man dangote does not rest

whytediamond:
I have a very funny and annoying case I'm dealing with right about now.

A company contacted me to design calendars for 2019 for them. After 2weeks of designing and countless tweaking plus product photo sessions, it got to the print stage and I suddenly the company said they can't pay the amount I requested for the print job.

I said OK fine, this is the soft copy of the job, get a printer to do the printing for less than what I offered, they went ahead and printed elsewhere even though the manager later confirmed they paid more for the printing compared with what I offered.

Now, the issue is this, I need my money for my intellectual property and time put into the design for calendar that they have already shared to their customers. To my greatest shock, I was told I won't be paid a dime.

What is their reason for not paying me? That I wasn't the one that printed the job, hence I won't be paid for the design. Like wtf are they talking about.

I'm already getting legal advice on how to recover my money from them.

Starting up a business ain't child's play people. Perseverance will surely pay in the long run. Stay focused, don't give up.

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First
Attempt
In
Learning

Sometime you need to take the shiit you get from the street to make you stronger. Don't give up. Next time to make the printing part of the whole package. You should have shown them samples of the print and not the softcopy

Omudia11:
How do you know Dantata was his mentor?

he worked under dantata his uncle who later gave him N500,000 to start his biz. Now. Look at how well he turned out

My broda business is not for everybody. First you must lear how to understand people if not you will lie till thy kingdom come. Second don't start business on your own you must learn the ropes from someone successful in that biz. I am sure you want to be boss in a hurry. Sorry it doesn't work that way. Even dangote had a mentor dantata. Peace out

Isgnoscriminals:
PeterObi is worse and more corrupt than atiku. 90% of what obi said was based on sentiment and lies. Atiku didn't know much and tried,Obi is an error to be avoided

All have agreed that Atiku is a corrupt individual and a thief. Some said he is a repented thief. However a thief is always a thief. Nigerians must beware of this thief on the loose to open our national Treasury to his friends if elected. He has reiterated it a number of times.

You did not go to school. Such fallacy

ghettochild:
Castro, u be mumu o.. U dey take style find entry point.. Go try ur luck lazy boy.. As u don hear say she financially comfortable

I am not surprised at your comment. so I will just sit back and enjoy the show. Argue with your keypad okay?

The same bible says in the last days, these things will happen. So why act surprised? Or don't you read your bible?

Omoge87:
Like I said in my post... I am not a feminist...you can be independent and self- sufficient as a woman without being a feminist. Is a lady supposed to sit down on her butt till her husband arrives to provide for her - her knight and shining armour.
One should be developing themselves whilst waiting on the person God has for them ... so yes I will continue to be Bob the builder with God being the main architect of my life till he brings the person I can build with and he and I can build together. We will take what he has built and what I have built and put it together.

I have a friend that does not work and relies on her husband for even just the basics. This man beats her up like there is no tomorrow. She endures because if she leaves him she won’t be able to survive financially. He is her source of income literally for her and her immediate family also. Why does he abuse her- because he feels she is a liability and he knows without him my friend will not be able to ‘survive’. When I see her I wonder ‘can this really be life?’. What drove her to this - is exactly what the original posted about - does he have money? Does he have car? If she had her own she wouldn’t have bypassed the person that didn’t have a car or 30 billion in his account - but had character and was God fearing - because her focus would have gone beyond materialistic thinking.

I hate to use this example- but it’s like DavidO and his GF - she has remained with her boyfriend that has fathered two children by two different women in the course of their relationship- my brain can’t comprehend why she has stayed (husband I can understand as marriage is till death do us part - but boyfriend?) However, I can only deduce that is simply because of his status (I may be wrong as I don’t really follow their gist) If she was self- sufficient would she have remained in such? (I don’t know - maybe yes, maybe no.) -However I know being independent comes with some kind of self - respect and self-esteem for a lady and vice versa for a man.

So my dear sister my post has nothing to do with feminism, but everything to do with as a woman just have your own independence- doesn’t mean you can’t respect or submit to your boyfriend or husband -

Remain blessed.

Come I need to know you in person. It seems your perspective to life sound interesting

ghettochild:
simply cos I don’t want any guy to be saying he did xyz for me.
What kinda mentality u been exhibiting?
No wonder u are not yet married...
Just continue doing things for you self n pushing men away from you by declining their help....
Maybe d degree dey winch or d fact u feel financially comfortable..
U go buy husband las las

Omoge87: I apologize on this man's behalf

Satan66:
You're a fool.
If a man were to say "Hello" to the average Nigerian woman slippers and baggy trousers with a Nokia phone the woman would immediately snub him.
You women want the attracted and spoiled like the gold diggers you all are.
Simple as that.

Guy you don't have to be harsh na