Let us look critically at this question. Money or sex?

Money is good, and it keeps the relationship healthy even when there is bad sex involved. but the truth is that money is only enjoyed for a phase. When that phase is over, you begin to get tired of it, and desire more from your man. At that point, you will want to try to change your man, communicate with him, and tell him what he should do to you in bed.

However, being the rich guy that attracts so much attention from ladies, (because ladies go after rich guys mostly because of their money) he may definitely not have the time to give you all the attention you desire socially, physically, sexually, romantically and otherwise. This singular act will undoubtedly make the woman look else ware for that attention.

So you see, money is good, but the inevitable future of having it abundantly without the side attraction is what should be feared.

On the other hand, a man that knows how to turn you on and eventually fulfilling your sexual needs is 100% different from just having sex. Too much of sex isn't seen as fun anymore for the ladies. An average lady out there mostly desire an average man, okay in bed, with a promising future, as long as he will be able to give you 80% of what women wants, Love Sex and Money.


What i am saying in essence is that choosing money and high libido, i will go for money, because i sure can't stand a man that is always sex hungry, and Will want to have it many times a day. i will eventually faint. infact, i will run away from that house. But if you say i should choose between riches and a man that is absolutely good in bed, then i will choose the later.

Do you think MTN will not know about it, and do something about it anytime soon?

It will only work for the moment, so i say enjoy it while it lasts.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with marrying a single mother as long as you both love each other.
Everybody makes mistake in life, but she has learned from it. Would you rather had advised her to abort the baby the time she was impregnated?
No, i don't think so. That's her past. as long as the future is clare, do what your hearts tell you. Think about where you want to be 10 years from now. Do you wish to see her by your side, be the mother of your children? Or will you regret why you didn't marry her? As long as she makes you happy, i see nothing wrong with it, only if you desire her and she feels the same way about you.

Good luck pal.

Please, acn anyone in the house prepare cury sauce, either with beef or chicken?

My husband is asking me to prepare that meal for him, but i don't know how, and i don't want to let him know that. So i promised to make it this weekend with white rice. Please how do i go about it?

I will be very grateful for your help.

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Try and do both, but sit your boss down, and explan how you feel about the whole thing.

i was once in your shoes, and is still somehow in your shoes.

I was living in Ojo and working in Ajah for just 50K, at the same time, running a masters program in Unilag. I tried to cope, but it was not easy for me. So i missed out a lot of lectures. That is the price you have to pay for working and education at the same time. You can't have it all.

Just have a friend to help you with attendance and the likes, you will be fine.

Wow, i don't even know what to call this, in this awareness age? God help us all.

You are right

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There is absolutely no way two black parents would give birth to a white baby. But is the baby is half breed, then it is definitely true that she had the baby from another man - a white man.

Another possible excuse may be that the couple couldn't have children conventionally, and decided to go through an artificial issemination, which of course the wrong sperm was inserted inside her. You can sue the hospital for that, they make that mistake a lot.

As long as she gave birth to that baby, then it is an half cast, not a completely white baby. I don't want to conclude, but my guess is that another man impregnated her. He had an affair, period.

Please advice me.

I am working in Warri with an airline, and at the same time, a part-time masters student of Unilag. Although i was working in Lagos for a while before accepting the better paying job in Warri, one year after i started my masters degree.

However, i have a friend helping me for attendance and some assignments, others, i do from the comfort of my office and send it to her box for submission. But i usually travel to do exams myself, and never had problem with that.

The problem is that during the course of working in Warri, i finally got married to my Lagos boyfriend, who still works in Lagos. I usually travel to Lagos almost every week-end to see him, and use the opportunity to visit school, to get the much lectures i can grab, before returning to Warri with last flights on Sundays. Even if he assured me that we will cope, i am scared that one day, things may turn around, and it may come to choosing him or the fat paying job. And i don't want to loose both.

Another problem is that i am very concerned about how to cope with this distance when i approach the time for project and supervising, especially when i would have to see the supervisor during the week, which i job will make rather impossible.

Should i forget about the job and return to Lagos jobless, or forget about the masters program? If i do the latter, what about my marriage? I want to make my marriage and masters degree work, with a job to sustain, and assist my family. What do i do now?

Please advise.

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