bukatyne:

Sorry I will not be able to treat each point because I am mobile.

You asked if I believed that it was do unto others as you want others to do unto you and I said yes. That is the golden rule.

I am not disputing that a man is the head of his home; not a man is the head of a woman. However, we all seem not to understand what that means. Jesus Christ is the head of his church and a man is called to lead his home that way. As a man, ask yourself: how did Jesus Christ head the church? By shedding his glory, coming to earth in human form and dying for our sins. He sacrificed all and led by example. He taught his disciples about service by serving them. He taught them about obedience by been obedient. He taught them forgiveness by forgiving them. Even when they doubted his resurrection, he kept appearing to them etc. A man is the head of his home because he's the source. Ideally, a man decides to build a home and looks for a woman who they would build and achieve their purpose together. Where do you think a person would chase 1,000 and two would chase 10,000 came from?

Feminism may not be the right word as I read some thi

causewahala: [size=20pt]My dear, with me what u give is what u receive, I could be gangsta and boorish like that and I could be an over pampering gentleman. . . na u go dictate how we go relate by your personality and action towards me.[/size]

Your eyeballs are too sexy and beautiful to notice this, I understand, thats why I quoted it!

I'm also sorry to disappoint you. . . I AM NOT JESUS CHRIST! As such I refuse to lie down and let u ride rough-shod over me in the name of feminsim or emulating Jesus Christ! I was watching cheaters yesternight, na so the guy kneel down dey beg the babe all the while the babe kept screaming, I'M THROUGH WITH YOU, YOU'RE AN I.D.I.O.T.

This is after this babe has been caught on camera cheating on the guy ooooh! Na that one you want from me shey? If na like that my bags are packed to go to hell fire this very night but I'm sure hell sef go reject me cos hell fire nor be for sharp guys!

bukatyne:

The bible verses have nothing to do with question one so please read it. Where did I state that you are married

As for the strikes, we are NOT competing, we are discussing

You're just looking for someone to be going back and forth with. . . I kukuma get ur time 2night so lets continue!

Remember you asked for proof of male being the head from the bible which I gave, I noticed you accepted that as a golden rule, does that not pre-suppose that you conceed the fact that male is the head or you have a separate rationale for real life apart from the bible. . . lemmie take it a step further. . .

. . . Are u questioning the bible's authority and by inference God's?

That one dey between you and baba God.


As per your own verses, the only one that holds water a bit is the 2nd one, since the first one can be said to be a sub set of the 'golden rule'


As per that 2nd verse, u do realise u can't stand toe to toe with me, if I have to grant you concession as the weaker vessel?

My dear, with me what u give is what u receive, I could be gangsta and boorish like that and I could be an over pampering gentleman. . . na u go dictate how we go relate by your personality and action towards me.

Btw, I'm enjoying our discourse!

bukatyne:

Where in the bible did God state men and women are not equal?

causewahala:

1 Cor 11:3

@ this junction, I would like to assert I'm your superior till you counter otherwise!

bukatyne:

Yes, it's the golden rule in the bible
Are you comparing cheating your wife, breaking your martial vows to stinginess and selfishness?

Read Gal 3: 28, 1pet 3: 7

I hope you're home now. I didn't bother reading the verses you quoted since you accepted the golden rule. . . strike 1 goes to moi

Talking of comparism, no where did I state on this thread that I'm married neither did I state I was going to cheat on my wife!

I see you're using a lot of conjectures and feminine wiles. . . why am I not surprised?. . .

bukatyne:

I am not twisting premises. I am just pointing out that that statement was not sensible.

Do u believe in do unto me as you'd want to be done?

If no state reason, if yes. . . why do you say my bedding your bestie is not sensible since you leeching (I stated all these conditions in my previous post, go back and read if you don't understand)

bukatyne:

Where in the bible did God state men and women are not equal?

1 Cor 11:3

@ this junction, I would like to assert I'm your superior till you counter otherwise!

bukatyne:

I didn't mention finance O! I said chores and not finance.

I don't have to prove to you that we are equal because we are created equal.

I am @ work too I don't like typing with my mobile so don't be disappointed if you don't see me

You caught me napping with that 1st statement, trust me it won't happen again! Yeah, very typical of a babe to twist premises. Well I made my self expressively clear and you admit you got my drift, do to me what u expect, if u're rich don't keep urs and spend mine. If I'm handicapped you'd have to factor that into the equation cos that's what I'd do for you as well.

@ ur 2nd statement, na you and who dem create equal? Shebi u sabi bible? U know from where God take the raw material to create u?

E be like sey na u be the oga@thetop for feminism abi?

bukatyne:

How can guys edge out if there are some things a lady can do that they can't? How can we come to a midpoint if guys edge out?

There are a lot of wasteful men out there; there is NO vice distinct to one sex only

@ bolded: Would it be ok to say that your woman can creep with your bestie if she does all the chores esp if you are handicapped?

In all, I get the concept of your post; you should do unto others as you want others to do unto you. I agree.

@ ur 1st paragraph, remember I noted the leader thingy is subject to discourse, if you can convince me you've earned the right to be on an equal pedestal or u've earned that right to lead me, I'm ready to e-submit to u. . . until then we'll keep playing ping-pong with grammar!

@ the 2nd: the very fact that guys are expected to provide for the family checks their excessive nature, can u say that about babes that goes shopping for hours on end?

U also mentioned finance, if she pays her bills, I have no moral standing to creep, I also noted that the condition is applicable if she's got the moneuy but prefers to leech!


My points ain' as weighty as I want as I dey work, gbege must not happen on my watch, hopefully u're on naija time zone, this should get interesting tonight!


Passion, abeg leave lutadoll oooh! Na her kind dey shout harassment and gender inequality when jungle mature!

bukatyne:

Is this in relation to my question or was this discussion ongoing?

Some of ur girls were throwing in the kitchen sink tactics @ feminism so I felt I might as well rep the boys! As per feminism itself, majority of those championing the cause barely understand it. Some guys are set in their way and believe they're all and all(quite archaic reasoning) those of us willing to be partners as we (male & female) mutually deem fit should be encouraged not castigated and lumped along with the others.
If you want to be treated with respect, there're things expected of you, if you meet your obligations and boify's not fulfilling his, then bounce, no be by force!

If I pay all your bills without complaining (particularly when you're empowered financially), don't cry foul if you see me creeping with ur bestie. I'll never lay my hands on you so long as you don't slap me first and start claiming you couldn't control your emotion, or you're a weaker vessel and should be allowed to express youself. . . I go DECK u life! Don't expect breakfast in bed if you always talk me into eating out and can't even do the dishes talkless of cooking when you come visiting.

Talking about equality, its simply an illusive idea some female like to cling to to get away with some ish! There's bound to be a head in any institution, bible supports it, society supports it. Whether it naturally belongs to the man is subject for discourse. However, men are doing better job leading, we don't blow salaries on LV bag and shoes, we provide security in terms of finance, physical and otherwise, and that leader(father) figure, I know ladies can equally do some of these but not all. we can do this all day cos I ain' even started yet!

Whatever parameter you choose, guys would still edge out babes! I know there're tasks babes can do guys can't, etc child bearing (talking natural things). There're also tasks reserve for guys naturally, we'd have to weigh it all and come to a midpoint.

alutacontinua: To be sincere, i still don't get passionate's point.

Thats because you like to apply double standard! I nor get time to debate right now, maybe later in the day! You might wanno watch this film: 'BLUE EYED BUTCHER-SUSAN WRIGHT' I know you'll come back and tell me its not related to this topic. . . worreva!

That lady butchered her husband and was claiming weaker sex, abuse and battery. . . bla bla bla

I dey come back for night, make I enter work for now!

Generalization seems to be the order of the day here. Can any of you come out boldly and tell me these trait is applicable to all Nigerian males? I know a couple of guys who used to do stuffs for their babes way back in school including washing undies. . . na feminist like una tag them WEAKLING back then for assisting their babes. I know a more growing proportion of married guys who help out with daily chores. . . una go sit behind system begin generalize like person wey time leave behind in the 14th century!

Feminist(s) in the house, make una nor worry. That irritable institution called marriage go soon fade into oblivion and cohabitation will be the order of the day!

I go see who una wan form feminist for by then! Mtchew!

As for Carmy and her turn offs. . .

carmy and passion, make una call us when time reach oooh! This una e-beef abi na romance seems to be waxing stronger by the post!

Ahhhhhh! Shots fired @ #oga@thetop!

Passion, u like wahala pass me sef! I'll go with carmy on this though. It applies to both sex sef, if u're looking for that perfect partner, u nor go marry!

otumfour:

ur too weak to be dissed, so I'ma play wit u

Such strong response from the diss master who finds the truth a bit unpalatable to swallow! I don't do childlish images. . . I do HARD COLD FACTS!

otumfool, stop deluding urself. Even our resident Ghanaian "neen adjei" is not full blooded, u guys are fugly. . . deal with it.

otumfour, u dey craze

Is that you on ur profile? If yes, are you full blooded ghanaian?

ItsModella:
says who? Nadia is full blown Ghanaian.

You know a full blooded Ghanaian can never look like that! There's bound to be a caucasian or North African blood in her!

Everything about her is so on-point. . . even the cleavage!

Look on the bright side, it could have been worse - catching her in bed with another man

This 2015 go cause gobe ooooh!

bblacky:
This is a special information to all my friends, you better value me now before I port; carry go. The question remains are you satisfied with your boyfriend or girlfriend or you intend to port like saka?

A reasonable % of the posters on here will end up marrying those they've described or something close to it! Such is life. . .

Why would you want to change your hard earned currency with the 1st urchin that approach you? Is it because their rate is better? Whatever happened to established bureau de change?

Last time I travelled, one approached me, I simply paused took a long look at him and he got the message. Even here in PH, I avoid these so-called abokis like a plague, won't cost nothing to drive into presidential hotel and change my money in peace!

Can't see her face! Na bikini be this?

Tolexander: Fine gurl!

Please anytime anyone is posting any of 2face's children, let's be mentioning the mother so as not to get us confused.

Ahahahaha! DRAMA!

chikeorji123: Economic situation have made our ladies disregard their worth Op.it might be difficult expecially when ladies are 4 to 1man,competition are high...

Bolded is true. You'd be surprise what a clean ride with extra change in your pocket can get you in our Universities not to talk of the working class desperado that intends to get married soonest!

Btw, that virginity of a thing can be bought now-a-days!

Jamb days! Brings back nostalgic feelings. Back then you go in and give it ur best not all these backyard runs they do now-a-days!

Goodluck to the sincere ones!

Viewing this topic: Seun(m)

Bros, pls whats the criteria for making front page? I think we've had enough of tonto dike to last numerous life times!

tellwisdom:

Guy no squeeze ur belle too much make u knw go get running stomach

Nor mind that guy with hin wrinkled no-packs!

lafflaff123: Why would a girl propose? love? desperation? age not on her side? the man is comfortable? or what if she is the one comfortable? the man has been dragging his feet after years of dating to make her honorable? family pressure on her?

^^^
Several factors. Could be ur swag na die!!! More often than not, it has to do with age of babe/foot dragging by guy.

You right about one thing though, the guy has to decide.