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Amarabae:
During my wedding,
I used for better, for better.

And indeed it has been for better for better so far

SamuelTurner:
RCCG sunday school now is currently teaching about marriage and divorce. as we were meditating on it today, a man asked a question saying "is for better for worse a correct thing to be used during marital vows or for better for better" he further backed his question with a scripture.


Now my own view is that are they expecting worse condition in the bible or is the normal procedure everybody goes through?

Macdav:
That lady to Patience,, don't just start with your grammar oooh!!

DeadRat:




Abomination!


This Is A Slap To The Bible and God... That Pastor Is A Dunce... "Thou Shall Not Wear What Belongs To A Man"... You Broke That Rule, to Crown It All... In Church... ANY MALE COULD PLAY THAT ROLE... Tell Me You Found None...



That Woman Must Be A Lesbian...

Henitan24:
Rip dead but guys doesnt worth this

Lindarella:
I met jude here September, Am not the type dat believes in online dating, I only come here to read news and comments with my main, I got a p. m from this moniker(iamj) I decided to reply from there we started chatting, he was always checking up on me, said that he is different from the way he behaves here, invited me to ph, sent money for my flight ticket

I wanted to take the money and not go but he seemed sweet and said that he is different from the way he behaves here, I was scared, I have never been to ph before but have a friend in Ph I told her about it and she asked me to give her his no for her to ask him some questions to be sure of the person I was coming to see so after all was said and done, I decided to go days before his birthday
September 7, I got to ph, he came to pick me from the airport he seem sweet, we got to his flat, went out and he told me that he was single we bonded so well and he was really nice I was glad and happy I did the right thing going over to ph

It's so funny cos on the early hours of his birthday one kashy nairaland called, she was wishing him happy birthday, singing for him and sending him pictures, he said it was a friend, I was next to him, @kashy and him fought over the phone because he refused to do video call with her, he was next to me, when she sang a birthday song to him, I was listening, he told me she's one girl disturbing him and it's just an online thingy, that he is just catching fun, the next morning his ex called and he left the room to talk to her I was angry cos it seems I was also deceived , I think that they are back together, jude doesn’t love you, he only cares about himself, @kashy I want to tell you dat( iamj) is a two faced bastard,he is a good for nothing womanizer parading himself as a gentle and caring guy at first meanwhile he just uses people, he is self centered,selfish he is just using you @kashy cos you seem like a nice girl

PrinceDerrick:
6 months after my previous relationship parked up, I added her on Facebook. We got chatting and I assisted her twice without even asking to see her.
Based on her several requests, I allowed her come to visit and we happen to have a lot to talk about. Fast forward, she could stay one week stretch with me, (wtht nacking fa, i swear) do all cooking and cleaning and never asks for money. I gave her at will.

She caught my heart. And I became attracted to her,(she dresses sexy) I made some advances at her, she only accepts lips kissing and handling nothing more.
She said she can only 'do' in a relationship heading somewhere.
She told me about her strict upbringing and all, I told her about my past rltnshps (nothing horrible), but she only told me about two relationships she's had and said she lost her virginity to one.
I was not ready to loose her and was thinking of taking her to Mama after two months of our being together.
I got the impression of a good girl and wife material.

Somehow she logged in her Facebook on my laptop and left it.
I was inquisitive and went through her inbox. I ran into 8 guys/married men she has slept with in different towns strictly for money within this year, some didn't pay her as agreed and they quarreled. I also noticed she's visited two of my FB friends but no evidence of the activity.

Last week, she went to visit a guy, after the 3rd meeting he was asking her if her ass still dey leak?

As I type now, she's in a guys house and they are meeting for the first time.

She doesn't know I know all this yet. Like I said I've never entered her, its not really my thing.

LESSONS LEARNT
1. Guys beware of ladies that throw themselves at you, they are probably hiding something.
2. She pretends to be decent around me and not demanding, yet she receives money and banana else where: hmmmm

My question: How should I react and get her out of my life?

tellwisdom:
I hope he wont go back and rent the house to the woman

Lalas247:
Lol same way he is having a laugh ...same way I am
It’s not dat serious ... na so nl be
Naso one girl call me ogbange and Illuminati abi what do they call it when she tire we laughed it ended der ...

hilaryiq:
Am I what?

hilaryiq:
God also condemns fornication and premarital sex. Also condemns judging other human beings. Can you proudly say you haven’t committed any of these sins? If the answer’s no then be the first to cast a stone. If your answer is yes then you are just as guilty of sin as a homosexual.

In all honesty whether you support it or not, nobody is forcing you to be gay and it’s not your life and also not your business so simply turn your face and walk away, it’s not that difficult.

Lalas247:
U get all those qualities abi

Lalas247:
The list is long

Tall dark handsome with a beard
If he can cook ewa agoyin , egusi or efo
Confident guys with the above trait
Also Ambition Kai na dat one go make me remove pant .... power couple goals
If he can sing lol song wey I fit twerk to.... o pari

praiseneofingz:
Good day NLS ....
I created this thread to bring myself out of the dark instead of hurting my self with ignorance. I've been in couple of relationship that didn't just work out, unfortunately one or two things will terminate it especially (cheating&greed) from my boo. it has become so rampant and almost normal in our world today where you see spouse cheating on each other...tho am young in my 20s really don't know much about marriage. but i definitely know if I will have a good wife and happy family in the future, the foundation starts now.
But this our babes (aka slayers) won't even allow someone to be confident in them. As a guy personally, am very emotional and I have a sensitive and fragile heart. now imagine that I'm dating a lady and fell deeply in love with her, provide all her needs, treat her like a queen, and at the end, she cheated because she saw another guy somewhere with Range sports even tho am still managing my E.o.d Honda accord and eventually dump me for him after all her love confession for me before meeting the new guy, now if you experience this shyt 4/5 times, won't you get fed up and decide to be on your own? but of course our mum won't be happy because she wants grandchildren, then I give it a 2nd thought but I can't just sacrifice my happiness because I want to please my parents..... How will it feel if you find out that your wife and mother of your children is a "runs babe" somewhere, well as a matter if fact, I gave vowed never to dip a ring in any woman's finger......I know people will say I'm ignorant or ion know what am saying or am a kid or whatever!!! i really don't care!
I will remind them failed marriage which might cause depression, high BP, e.t.c.. is among the 1000 ways to die (untimely) yes!!quote me anywhere and am not ready to die because of a woman that doesn't deserve me.

#note# this thread is unisex not male only I used myself because am a male. thank u!!!

Lalas247:
Meaning

Lalas247:
Child ...

sisisioge:
Hello house, please I need some serious help here. PHCN has been the only issue I've got with the apartment I share. It is actually a converted mini-flat com two-bedroom. A GF and I decided to demarcate the space such that we both got our rooms. We came in as simple girls with simple gadgets.

I had just two bulbs, a TV, fridge and AC. Nothing more except some rarely used kitchen gadgets. She had small stuffs like me too. We were barely home to use these things. Soon enough, she got transferred and left her space to her young male cousin whose main belonging is a radio...no power consumption.

All was well for about three months into our stay until craaze fell on PHCN.Our bill jumped from 2k to 12k, 10k, etc. In fact, we once got 17k! I swearit, I tried to move out but couldn't get anything affordable and thought I could have it fixed. So, we've been paying 10k every month for as long as I can remember, yet, we have over 60k outstanding on the bill! This was because we were paying 3k for about six months before deciding to up amount after realizing the value kept increasing.

The unthinkable happened today when I got home to see a disconnection ticket even after paying 10k about 2 weeks ago!Now I'm thinking of just writing them to stop our billing, we are no longer interested. Cos I am so not gonna pay, will probably partially move back home.

What do you think? We have gone to their Shomolu customer care tire, spoken to the marketing manager here... nothing. They came for load assessment yet nothing. E don tire me. What should we do? Our small space gets charged same amount the bigger flats get...yet we no get anything o. We asked for prepaid meter, yet nothing.

sexybbstar:
Always do something similar to this before but now,only God knows what happened to my joints.

makydebbie:
Honestly I've tried and tried to think of something nice but nothing crops up. You fvcked up, pussyass niqqa. Your generation is cursed for life!