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CarolineOlawale:
Take time!

berrystunn:
Usu

CarolineOlawale:
That's before money got into their flat heads and starts beefing each other.



Igbo will always be Igbo.


Some Igbos will this pics and start thinking of moving drugs to Indonesia,china and Saudi Arabia where they will be beheaded!


Flatrons are big disgrace to Africa as whole. Shame of them!

hotspec:
E so K. U mean those that use brain to get money from people under false pretense, and have made many people cried, and have received several curses from their victims due to many of their fraudulent acts?
E so K. E so K.
RIP to him

GloriaNinja:
Every day bad news. There is no good news on nairaland for once.

ademola2017:
Hi Nairalanders,

I am in a state of dilemma as my marriage is shaking.

Before we got married, my wife treated me like a piece of shit and never gave me any regards or attention. Any little quarrel would be blown out of proportion and wouldn't talk to me for days. I did the calling always and each time I ask her why she doesn't call, she would say I should get used to it. There was a day when a baseless quarrel occurred, she accused me falsely and we didn't talk for more than two months. I stayed single and was already moving on until her friend came begging on her behalf. I wondered why she didn't come herself but all the same I accepted her back. She changed like she was doing me favor but I still persisted because I loved her genuinely.

Fast forward, we got married and I was hoping for a good future with her. As usual I was very open to her and discussed every issues with her. At a point, I found out the marriage was one sided. I gave more but got little or nothing from her. I never burden her with house chores or cooking at all. We sat always to talk about her attitude but she would say things are fine while I will be grieving and having sleepless nights. She will wake up in the middle of the night to check my phone to know if i was cheating. I swear I have never cheated on my wife... She knows my password and never hid anything from her.
As we went on in the marriage, her behavior became worse and couldn't condone it again. She never saw anything wrong with her attitude and would say her apologizes are expensive.

I decided to do a background check on her and found out she double dated all through when we started dating and gave the guy more attention for 2years of our relationship. When things went bad between them, she fell back to me and unknown to me, I accepted her back. She and her ex were still in good communication till the night I confronted her. She would rather confide in her ex than confide in me (Now husband) Now, I feel so hurt, betrayed and used and can’t trust her again.

She has been very apologetic and says she is ready to change. So if had not found out about her double ways, I will still be condoning her insolent ways. I am seriously finding it hard in my heart to forgive her. Even if I do, I can never ever forget because I do not trust her again.

What will you guys advice?

CarolineOlawale:
No flatiron is mentioned in this post?

ceejay80s:
Available

ephi123:
$5.9 million, one person. Smh.
Nigeria has been unfortunate to have the greediest leaders ever.

kogistar:
bbiafruad, how far?

madridguy:
Death penalty or it is a joke.