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She is not shameless for demanding transport money from me or am I not human? Since I don't have Transport fare to go back, What is the best way to demand for it? Through sign language? L

My gf refused to give me and I don't have anything on me to come go home and you think I shouldn't create a scene or is it because I'm a guy

MissJoy29:
You are shameless for demanding it, yes. There's no biggie in her giving you especially if you don't have. But you opening your mouth to demand and even making a scene, you are beyond lowest.

Yes TP is part of provision. But it can also be under support depending on your girl.

Go back to my main post & see how to get your TP without losing your face. I stated it there

MissJoy29:
Lol....I see what's happening. Nice goal-post shifting.
When they tell you guys to stop dating leeches with entitlement mentality, you won't hear.

But let me also restate that it's a man's duty to provide. I have ALWAYS supported that. Then it's the woman's duty to HELP/SUPPORT. However, because our girls are so greedy, they want to stifle the man with their needs. And to make matters worse, because they are self-centered & selfish, they can't reciprocate or help the man out once in a while & even when he needs help. It's unfair.

Now, there's absolutely nothing wrong in giving my guy T fare if I know he can't afford to (for that time). BUT......he shouldn't be demanding it like you are doing. That's frankly disgraceful & weak of you. This is something I should know about before coming. We will talk about it and it will be established that I'm footing his bills. What if I don't also have at the moment? And before I do that, he must have proven himself worthy to be worth it.

So the drama you are putting up won't go down well with me if I were your lady. If it gets to that, I will give you the money back but after that, you will kiss my pretty asş goodbye! I have acute phobia for weak & clueless men!

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I am now a weak man for demanding transport money?

Does she ask me if I have transport fare for her going back if I invite her over? NO

It's a AZ man's duty to PROVIDE and a woman duty to SUPPORT, Can we say that Transport Fare falls under PROVIDE or SUPPORT?

What is the milder way to demand for Transport money then according to you so that men don't look weak?

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kaityn:
Your babe's stingyness is legendary.

God bless you

sisisioge:


I think you should take the money like that. May God and your mother bless you with money for haircut. Pele, life happens.

I do give my mum money and not her giving me money or you think my gf is less than 30?
I'm thinking of taking or leaving the 1k for her

Oyindidi:
No go sew cloth for your customers

Not today

pocohantas:
Then breakup with the gf for Bleep sake.
Find another gf who won't demand or date a man!

This shît isn't rocket science naw!!!

The time I will use to break up with her and find another one will be better spent changing her orientation about being a leech. How sure am I that I won't get another leech?

I'd rather Preach and get a change in orientation.

If Rosa Parks had gotten down from that bus and entered another because a white man asked her to stand up for her then we can be able to say that the Black Americans wouldnt have gotten their civil rights

pocohantas:
Op, is obviously one bored alfa, trying to create a self-entitlement thread. The type their kinda girlfriends create.

Anything wey im wan demand, that one concern them. No be if them see who go give them?

I'm brought the issue here to show your type the folly of thinking ladies are those angels you take them to be. It's about relationship truths and for crying out loud no man deserves to go through the utopian demand girls made when he knows that the girls can do same if asked.

See ladies supporting my gf because they think it's a man that's meant to shoulder every ladies financial responsibility forgetting that the field Is level for everyone to work and earn so guys are not at an advantage in this economy

Oyindidi:
So the noise na only 1k you get kill me!

Which means it's too poor. I need to demand for 3k. I do give her between 3k to 4k when she visits so I don't see why I'm getting 1k.

I'm staying put and will update you guys soon

Pwettyella:
don't ask for more
just take it and move on with ur life
At least u now know the kind of person she is
safe journey

I will take your word if five people agrees with you but if the No are higher then I'm standing my ground

Latest update

The two female neighbor said they ve not seen a disgrace of a guy like me They asked Sandra to give me the transport money so that I can leave that she should delete my number and end the relationship because I've done a terrible and unheard thing.

Sandra after persuasion has formed out a rumpled #1000 bill and gave me to leave.

Should I take the rumpled 1k after spending two nights here and I also need to take a hair cut when going home from that money?

Is it right to demand for more?

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Jacqueline22:
Better carry your bag and start trekking home...

Trek home without getting my transport fare back home? Can you trek about 15km journey?

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Latest update

The neighbors have come in after hearing our shouts and funnily there are three neighbors I.e A guy and two ladies. Its now more like a gender support because the two ladies are insulting my dead ancestors for making an abominable demand. The guy is not saying anything but trying to calm the situation down but he is supporting me with his voice but his body language shows he is supporting the ladies. I think we should call that guy Mr Sissy

Oyindidi:
The only thing you dey offer her na sexxx and broke guys dey sabi the work wella. You no supposed get erection sha

I work and pay my bills so I'm not broke.

Never you mistake your demand for your right as being Poor.

When she asks me for transport money It has never crossed my mind that she is poor or a beggar

Oyindidi:
Drop your acc details make everybody for this thread send you #50 each

Do you drop your account details for everyone when you visit your bfand you demand for transport money back home?

I'm not begging for money rather I'm asking for my own right from Sandra my gf

Oyindidi:
Professional broke houseboy

Is that all? I will stomach every insult today but I will make sure I get my right

adeboi1:
maybe there is something you are not doing right,have you read any of iLegendd's book (especially mr friendzone)

I will read it when I'm done with this my issue at hand

Oyindidi:
To do houseboy for her

No. We are capable of doing the house chores together because she sees equality as a basis of love in any relationship. She has always spoken out on how beautiful our love life is because I do tend to heed all her talks and play my role very well so I'm surprised with this her attitude

I didn't know my gf will react this way. She might have been coached by Shola because she is the introvert type but now she is showing her true colors because I asked for my transport fare back home

Latest update:

I have started shouting and scattering her things so that she will know how serious I am about all these. She is doing well now to respond by telling me that she is not supposed to give me transport fare that she didn't invite a who're over rather she invited her boyfriend for the weekend. She said I'm not ashamed of myself demanding for transport money that it's only GIRLS that have the right to demand for transport money when they visit guys because girls left everything they are doing to go see their bf.
I told her I did same to come stay with her so she should be considerate. She said that I've disgrace her so much that she doesn't think she still love Me again

Lalasticlala mynd44 let's go to Fp maybe I will be rescued

sisisioge:
Please don't do any of your listed options. Simply go in prayer for her mind to be soften,then go on your knees to ask again. If this fails, then you would have to call your boss to explain why you won't be able to make work tomorrow. Remember, truthfulness always sets one free...from jobs too .

Why should I pray for her to do the right thing? I can't absent myself from work because I didn't heed my friends advice and ended up dating a girl without a car now she can't raise transport fare for me.

I will have to cause a scene so that her neighbors will know the kind of stingy girl she is

MajorJeffery:
It's your right just like it will be her right when she visits you. If she promises to give up that right henceforth then you may as well reconsider but for now, stay put. Hope she get good toothpaste and bathing soap you dey use?
#Menlivesmattertoo

I have to be at work tomorrow so I need to leave here.

Where is ishilove sef

IANAGI:
I can't wait to see how this ends...... Very intriguing..... Op keep us posted.

She is keeping malice like Im not existing

MariaLavina:
Continue fighting for your right bro.

When she invites another guy in , you will leave. It's role play after all.

Do you pray for your Boyfriend to invite another person in just because you demanded for transport fare? Is it because I'm a guy and she is a girl so you are now trying to take sides

crackhaus:
Bro if you can find a way to sort yourself out, please do so you don't miss work because of one broke girl. And yes, no more sex till she apologizes with a gift.

How can a girl invite her boyfriend to her house because she needed company, and in the end not give him common t-fare to go home after satisfying her with his body?

This is why it is sometimes good to date only girls that have a car. This embarrassment won't be happening if she wasn't broke ass.

You've learnt your lesson.

The funny thing is that most of her friends have cars but I dated her because I loved her now look at the disgrace and embarrassment I'm getting because of transport money.

I might quit the relationship after this episode

MariaLavina:
Not even vex money


I seriously do not know where this world is leading to, now they want transport fare . Very soon they will demand that women should pay the dowry, no problem sha. Na to give am basket go buy paper for market sure pass.

Make we all change role nah.

It's about an equal world where everyone rights needs to be respected. She demands when she visits so I have every right to do same

Oyindidi:
Broke men are not supposed to have erection, what are you doing with a girl?

Broke ladies are not supposed to get wet or hornny also. Why did she ask me to come

Latest update
My grandma has been keeping malice since she woke up, she is acting like I demanded for something bigger like other guys rather I asked for tfare
home.

It all started on Friday evening when she called me in the office and asked if I will come over for weekend and I answered in the affirmative without bothering to ask her for transport money going back because I believe that when you ask your bf to come then *common sense * should tell you to give him transport money when he is going back. N
Now I'm in this quagmire of having a wicked gf who doesn't care about me but tells me she loves me. It seems I'm just her intimacy gadget. I will deny her sex so that she will know what she is missing.

Her neighbors are back from church and I think it's time to raze the roof by scattering and demanding for my tfare because it's MY RIGHT

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pocohantas:
Dumbskull didn't have tfare.
Later he will be forming alfa male

You don't need to insult people to pass your message so please behave accordingly

QueenSekxy:
Some idiots think this one is a serious somebody.
Smh!! Mumu

cant you behave yourself for some minutes?

Ryan03:
Lol, i get your message brother and you are right. The transport thing need to stop, girls, if you are going to you boyfriend's house, always carry your transport fair.